My son is almost 19months old. His biological has not seen him since he was 3 weeks old, nor has he called. He does not pay child support. My son does not have his last name, and the biological is not on the birth certificate. I havent heard from the biological since like I said my son was 3 weeks old. I am now married and my husband has been the daddy of my son landon. He is in the military, has taken care of landon, paid for his circumcision.. and anything else you can think of, my husband has done it. My husband would like to adopt Landon.. however Im afraid if I start this process they will contact the biological and send him paperwork. I highly doubt he would fight it, since he hasnt had a care in the world since Landon was born. But theres always that chance. His bioligical I have heard from mutual friends has started doing Meth, and still smokes Marijuanna. (I found out after I got pregnant.) I couldnt imagine if he was to fight this, and have visitations to landon. I couldnt imagine handing landon over to someone who does drugs, and wasnt in his life in the first place. I live in California. Does anyone know how about this would go? Do I have a good chance at winning? Would the judge look at how the biological just disappeared and hasnt been a father? All answers helpful. Thank You!

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