Long story !! – Been with (now ex fiance) for 7 years – hve 5 yr old.
We split up, got back together, split again etc etc. All our arguments were based around his coke addicton – I tried everything to help – love,support,leaving relevant phone numbers, though him out, you name it, I tried it – he became violent, very verbally abusive. When we first split (he left) he found a new woman within days – threw this in my face, said she was wonderful, so much better than me,he was stopping his addiction – it tore me and our son apart. Anyway, he came back – they had obviously split – I was happy as I did miss the good times and father for our son. It was obvious coke was still there, and again we argued – he left, back to her again!
Last week (after buying me a new engagement ring and our son a dog – he left again, back to her.
He now says that this is it – he has got as low as he can – so much debt.
I feel really agrieved that I tried so hard for so long, for us as a family to get through this, and now he appears to be happily loved up with new woman, I went through all the pain fr her to get all the good.

Is this all typical behaviour? Am I going to have him crawling back again, without the drugs, I would probably take him, but with, she is welcome. For our son Iwant him to stop ,but I want him to be the family man with us then, not the single man with her.

Is it likely he will stop for her – it has been going on (the drug use)for over 12 years. He loves his son more than anything, so I would have thought he would stop for him, but he hasn;t. At the mo, I am ignoring his calls/texts etc as it is still too painful.

Advice/thoughts greatly appreciated
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