My sons father and I where together for 3 yrs everything was great.. Then along came our beautiful son and he became INSTANTLY jealous and very controlling… He was verbally abusive and always very irate… So i needless to say kicked him out.. he had hit our son.. ( i mean it got so bad that I would never ever never ever leave our son alone with him, always fearing he would do harm to him) Well he threatened to kidnap our son.. Which i have custody of… Well once i kicked him out he up’d and left and went to florida….. Never called, visited nor wrote…. I heard he came back up here adn robbed a pharmacy and went back to Florida with all the pills he stole.. ( hes a drug addict and a alcoholic ) ****like i said he was never like this before our son was born****… well needless to say bounty hunters came here looking for him so obviously he did rob the place… He moved back to Michigan 3 blocks from our house still never called nor visited… He got arrested in southfrield Michigan for doing a home invasion the day he came back.. Now hes in prison for 6-30 yrs and facing additional charges for the robbery to the pharmacy…

But my question to you is what would you say to your son when he gets older and ask about his dad??? I do not want to lie to him what so ever, and i don’t want to sugar coat his dad either and make him think he’s some wonderful loving man that just hasn’t been around because hes in prison.. I mean he was here 2 yrs before he got arrested and never had a care in the world about us…

Can you give me some incite on what i should tell him about his dad (aka sperm donor) when hes old enough to understand.. Because im sure he will ask about him.