If you’re father in law was the one you were using to watch your son while the husband and the wife both worked, he is supposed to be an ex-crack head but went on a binge last night after getting last week. Now he is lying about it, but all the signs are there. We want to change babysitters and put our son in a daycare which would cost more and probably hurt his feelings, but he can’t be doing drugs and be taking care of our son, it’s just not right, and I’m not comfortable supporting his habit with our hard earned money, even if he has earned it as well. What would you do in this situation? Would you hurry up and put your son in a daycare? (The reason we haven’t is because we don’t have the money to right now.)
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Written by wolf girl about 2 years ago.
Daycare for sure. Never have your kid near a druggie.
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Written by shellyclark1984 about 2 years ago.
Daycare!!!! no question, cause if your child is caught being watched by someone on drugs you could lose your child. Not to mention the chance your child could get hurt!
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Written by hydras15 about 2 years ago.
Yes, put your son in daycare. Right now he is back in the addict mind set and will only use your money to go and get more drugs. He has to completely detox before I would even let him near my son. Don’t enable him, if you give him money it’ll just feed the cycle. You don’t want your son around him, don’t let your son see that and possibly start doing drugs later in life.
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Written by ziggy about 2 years ago.
I wouldn’t give him another second alone with your child! No way, no how. He’s not an ex-crack if he’s still using. he’s a crackhead, period. Your son’s safety comes first. Not to mention, if child and family services got wind of you leaving your child with a druggie (family or not) could cause you to lose custody of your own child.
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Written by beezy_713 about 2 years ago.
daycare. i would care more about your childs safety than money issues.
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Written by Blondiemommie24 about 2 years ago.
Oh my gosh! Daycare immediately! No ifs ands or buts! If day care is too expensive right now, I would ask any friends you have with children if they would be willing to do a nanny share. Just whatever you do, please get your child away from him until he is clean for a good while!!! Not only can your child be taken away for being under his care, but your child could get a hold of his drugs and eat them or get into something because of the father in law being too high! He may feel sad when you take the baby away, but the babies life is way more important!!
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