What can I do to help??????

18/04/2011 admin 2 comments

What can I do to help my B/F, she just went through her 3rd divorce, and I am really worried about her. Let me try and set this up for you. Her first husband, she was married to him for only a year and half, had 1 son. After her first son was born her mother-in-law started trying to run things tell her what to do and where she had to be and who to do it with, would show up unannounced and (she had a c-section) and go in and wake the baby and tried to take over everything so any way they divorced. Then she married her 2nd husband and they were married for 10 years (don’t know how), he was an alcoholic and addicted to meth. She did have another son with him, and tried to make things work and tried for 10 years, but finally because of the drinking and the drugs she divorced him. Now she married what we all thought was an awesome guy he was in the Navy and he took her and the boys to Connecticut with him and then on to Hawaii and then to Texas, they were married 5 years (no kids) and then when she had came home for a visit just before Christmas last year, he was to follow a few days later, and he did, but when he got here he CALLED her and told her he wanted a divorce, and well they got one. Now she is like this deep dark depression and all she does is take anything that will put her to sleep, she is living with her Dad so that he can help her with her boys, she stays in her room does not come out, she does nothing just lays in the bed day in and day out. I dont know what to do for her I want my B/F back and the boys need their mother back what can I do to help her get out of this funk that she has been in for over a year now?

Thanks for your help in Advance and Merry Christmas & Happy New Year
When I put B/F I ment Best Friend……….not Boy Friend.

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Written by Nightrider about 1 year ago.

You keep writing B/F. And then you describe a woman in difficulty. What gives?. B/F is boy friend. Straighten this out for me.

Now about the woman and you.

Everyone in her life has been telling her what to do. First her MIL, then her second then her third (who, incidentally a jerk to call and ask for a divorce, a coward). I can see her problems. Now you.

What are you going to do.? Talk to her about life – only you can do – because you care for her. Tell her life has thrown curves at her that is not her doing. Children are caught in this web. I guess they are now 14 and 12. (Basic, my dear Watson, Basic….. calculate…number of years she had been married!).

At this time, she should not remarry until she settles down a bit about her life. Not for another 3 or 4 years. Then, find a man to settle down with and this time, hopefully will be a nice one. You can help her in this if you know her that well. Only you can because you care.

She is in deep depression and in a state of shock. She needs you obviously to get over the shock but the depression? – she needs professional help. You should help her in that to find one and take her, go with her to first 2 sessions. No harm in that.

Hope everything works well for her. I will say a prayer for her in my next – the least I can do during the Christmas midnight mass.

God bless.
Written by Rena D about 1 year ago.

I am sorry but there is nothing you can do. Her mother is on drugs or alcohol and is quite out of control. Normal people do not act like her. She need a rehab big time. She has to want to get help but if she doesn’t she will not. She could possibly have a mental problem but what you tell doesn’t sound like it. I am really hurting for her daughter. Her life is not fair and its not her fault. If her mother has an addiction quite often one or more of her children will have it tool Tell your girlfriend to not try drugs ever because some of them are addicting right from the first try.

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