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My sons ex-girlfriend, who is 16, and lives down the street from us has a lot of family problems. We have taken her in tons of times, and she dated my 18 year old son for a while and they broke up and i think they’ve been having lots of problems lately. Whatever, that’s their business..

Well last night i guess things were okay with everyone at home…but the dad gave her a glass of coco cola with coconut flavored rum in it and let her drink as much as she wanted and she got really tipsy and freaked out on my son and called him like screaming at him and cussing him out and stuff. I only witnessed this because we were watching a movie together when he answered the phone. He asked her if she was drunk and she said that her dad gave her some stuff and that she felt really weird. I think in the least to say, he told her to stop talking to him because she was saying very hateful things and deleted her off facebook. Well she just wrote on my facebook, “Hey Mrs. Robyn can you have Cole call me when you see this?” So she’s starting drama on my facebook now…

My question is…what parent just gives their kid alcohol and lets them get totally tipsy and out of control and doesn’t at least take their phone away so they don’t make total fools out of themselves? I let my son have a few sips of wine, he’s had a little bit of a wine cooler but no where enough to get him buzzed or tipsy. But i never have just let my son drink however much he wanted and get out of control.

What will be/are your rules on drinking? Will you allow your kids to drink at home?
What would you do if you were in my situation last night?
Note: I even had a glass of wine last night that made me VERY sleepy and batty. My husband was quick to shut down the computer and told me to go to bed. But i am 39 years old and i can control myself better than a 16 year old can. What parent does that…? It’s really just beyond me…

http://www.thosewhohost.org/TexasUnderageDrinkingLaws.htm

Read the drinking laws.
cath- i was too. but apparently it was just a little bit of coke and it was a FULL like beer glass…

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I have a five year old son. His biological father died when he was barely a year old from an alcohol induced accident. His father was an alcoholic, didn’t do anything with him or for him and only pretended to be the model father in front of family and friends. He was also very verbally abusive. I have tried over the years to keep in contact with his side of the family and I get a Christmas card if I am lucky. His own Grandmother, who begged me to stay with her after he passed, makes no attempts to keep in touch with him. The last time I called all of them they all told me that they couldn’t afford the long distance phone bills, so I would have to call them if I wanted to talk to them. My current husband is the only father my son has known or even remembers. I have shown him pictures on regular occasions of his biological father, but he still says it’s Daddy and points to my husband. I understand it still may be too early for him to comprehend the situation, but this is where my dilemma comes in. My husband doesn’t want me to ever tell my son about his birth father. I don’t know if it’s because he is worried about him looking at him differently or one day walking away to try and be close to his biological family. I told my husband that one day I was going to explain to him what happened and talk to him about his biological father, even though he wasn’t the best person in the world. He is upset and thinks I should never bring it up to my son. I have always planned on telling my son because he is his birth father. Can a few people leave their thoughts for me, serious thoughts please, and let me know if they think I am wrong for my reasoning?

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When my son was 3 had a severe fever that landed him in the ER. They treated him with an alcohol bath so he was completly naked in the room. While they was bathing him they did not use privacy curtains around him. They also took his temperature rectally with no privacy curtains. Who was present in the room was my husband and I, my twin sister, my mother, the dr., and various nurses. My son asked me why they did not use privacy curtains during the alcohol bath and rectal temperature. Would privacy curtains had been appropriate at the time his naked body and naked butt was exposed.
He had just turned 3 years old
jandiesmommy

What happened with your son, what did they do to make him freak, and how old was he?

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How would you talk to somebody that is kinda an alcoholic with a son in jail and a younger son that is very misunderstood, talkative but quiet at times cause he feels people dont get him and really has no true friends. How would you make that mom feel better? How would you make her family feel closer? How would you show love in tough times if you where in there shoes? the reason i say this is because i am the younger son, i try so hard to make peace. people say I have cold emotions but im trying to be a warm hearted person. I hold the door for people and everything but its my listening skills that I am not good at. Im a follower trying to be a leader but I dont wanna be that cold hearted person. everyone even my mom makes fun of me. calling me sensitive. laughing behind my back and talking bout me behind my back. my mom makes facial jesters while im talking. when i turn around to look at her she stops and pretends she is listining. I go to school soon but I feel if my mom does this then my new friends will do this too. i’d rather live alone and play wow than to deal with the cruel people in this world. F*** im crying as I write this… I’m a 24 yo man that really has had enough. i have faith in me to go to church. my new years resolution is to go to school and stay in church every Sunday. I’m starting fresh. I want out of this situation that i am in. I’m not a burden on my mom. Its just when i talk to her and my friends I get misunderstood as a cold hearted jealous person. and all Im doing is asking questions! please help me. I just want my family to be happy.

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When my son was 3 had a severe fever that landed him in the ER. They treated him with an alcohol bath so he was completly naked in the room. While they was bathing him they did not use privacy curtains around him. They also took his temperature rectally with no privacy curtains. Who was present in the room was my husband and I, my twin sister, my mother, the dr., and various nurses. My son asked me why they did not use privacy curtains during the alcohol bath and rectal temperature. Would privacy curtains had been appropriate at the time his naked body and naked butt was exposed. In the long run my husband and I were thankful that they cured our son.

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Lets say your child is a Teenager and they asks you if they could go to a party at their friend’s house but there is Alcohol and Liquor at the party and you as the parent say no. But then your child says I don’t care what you say im going to the party anyway. And they sneaked out.
Not only that but you caught them sneaking back inside the house.

What would you do if your teenage son or teenage daughter disobey you and sneak out anyway?

Tell me what would you REALLY DO?

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Would privacy curtain had been appropriate in my son’s emergency?
When my son was 3 had a severe fever that landed him in the ER. They treated him with an alcohol bath so he was completly naked in the room. While they was bathing him they did not use privacy curtains around him. They also took his temperature rectally with no privacy curtains. Who was present in the room was my husband and I, my twin sister, my mother, the dr., and various nurses. My son asked me why they did not use privacy curtains during the alcohol bath and rectal temperature. At the time he was not really offended by not having privacy curtains around him and now he is 20 and wishes he had them at the time. Would privacy curtains had been appropriate at the time his naked body and naked butt was exposed. In the long run my husband and I were thankful that they cured our son.

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Would privacy curtain had been appropriate in my son’s emergency?
When my son was 3 had a severe fever that landed him in the ER. They treated him with an alcohol bath so he was completly naked in the room. While they was bathing him they did not use privacy curtains around him. They also took his temperature rectally with no privacy curtains. Who was present in the room was my husband and I, my twin sister, my mother, the dr., and various nurses. My son asked me why they did not use privacy curtains during the alcohol bath and rectal temperature. At the time he was not really offended by not having privacy curtains around him and now he is 20 and wishes he had them at the time. Would privacy curtains had been appropriate at the time his naked body and naked butt was exposed. In the long run my husband and I were thankful that they cured our son.

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Getting pregnant by an illegal alien who is married to someone else and having a baby out of wedlock when he is not even around, or smoking a joint? I’m the one who smoked a joint by the way, and I’ve always been considered the bad guy by my stepmother, this other girl’s mother. I think my stepmother has been abusive to me for many years because I smoked a joint. Big deal, I tried drugs, didn’t like them and quit many years ago. I thought I was normal like many people. My stepmother is a bigot and doesn’t think so. She came from an alcoholic family when she remarried my father and is always pointing the finger because I smoked a joint. But her daughter is perfect. I think my stepmother is mean. Her son smoked weed and it was fine for him to smoke weed! She’s a bigot.

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My son Cody is in dire straits at present.His wife left him along with three babies ages 5, 3 and 1.Sunday about midnight she called him and wanted him to come to the place where she was staying so that they could talk.The door was to be opened and he was told not to wake the people up.I begged him not to go and tried to tell him that she was up to something, but he wouldn’t listen.He went into the house but she was not there. As he was walking out the man that lives there awoke.And saw him as he was leaving.He called my house the next day and said that he had called the police on Cody.My son now sets and crys, he wants to die and is drowning himself in alcohol.We haven’t heard a thing from the police about this incident and continue to pray that we do not.I imposed on some of your questions by asking for pray, I hope this was not an offence but I believe in pray and wanted to get the word out.Emailed many of you.I want to thank all of you for your prayers and ask that you continue to.
Thank You Bobby, and God Bless You!
Thank You Juiu,and God Bless You!
Thank You really true 101,and God Bless You!
Thank You raven futrell, and God Bless You!
Thank You queenof_tartz,and God Bless You!
Thank You Jennifer H,and God Bless You!
Thank You porkypine07,and God Bless You!
Thank You fairlady, and God Bless You!
Thank You truth6akathumbs…,and God Bless You!
Thank You Calebs Mom,and God Bless You!
Thank You Dr. G, and God Bless You!
Thank You dnttri2hrd, and God Bless You!
Thank You Jan P, and God Bless You!
Thank You teasergirl, and God Bless You!
Thank You God is love,and God Bless You!
Thank You deezee, and God Bless You!
Thank You mairzydoatz, and God Bless You!
Thank You BibleBeliever, and God Bless You Brother!
I am putting this question up for a vote. I will be able to let you know more the 9th. Thank You All Once again for your prayers and your wise advive. I love each of you, and you are more appreciatted than you realize.

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You have a son. He is 16, almost 17(girlfriend 16) He wants to go see his girlfriend saturdays and sundays and maybe once during the week after football practice for a couple hours. You see him every day. Would you tell him he needs to be home on Sundays because you never see him on weekends?

situation 2

Your son’s girlfriend is very depressed because you yell and fight with eachother all the time(parents) and you yell at your son. You try to keep him away from her much as possible because you don’t like her? Because she takes your son away from you on weekends. She gets very depressed and starts thinking thoughts of suicide. She has had a very bad past. If she told your son she was going to kill herself and didn’t answer her phones, her parents didn’t know where she was, would you let him go see her and try to find her?
I am his FRIEND not his PARENTS and the girlfriend has been raped and abused that’s why she can’t handle stress. His parents are alcoholics.
She has been to counselors and they all say it is HIS FAMILY’s problem. They won’t go to counseling. You can say what you think too. They love eachother too much to break up. (yes they really do love eachother)

she was also pregnant with his child and the stress made her have a miscarriage(the doctor told her this)

what would you have done and what do you think he should do about his parents?
dumb b*tch with the whole “they can’t take care of themselves” ……THEY’RE MORE MATURE THAN HIS PARENTS ARE….and it was an accident …i was just giving an example of how stressed out they make her!!
jesus people READ THE QUESTION ALL THE WAY THROUGH………….
they’ve been together for a couple years now, and the pregnancy thing was an accident and she was on birth control, and they even used protection…her bc wasn’t working, the condom broke …ok? so quit saying stuff about that…..please people keep answering….we are planning on taking some of your opinions to his parents to show what “normal” parents would do…..her parents know that she loves him so they just keep her away from the parents….but when the son is on the phone with her she can hear them yelling and cussing about her…that’s why she still gets stressed out
actually yes stress can cause a misscarriage

Severe stress can induce a misscarriage and some health issues can cause a misscarriage.

I DONT WANT YOUR FRIKIN OPINIONS OF THE BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JUST THE PARENTS ……god u people are DUMB

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hi i have a 11month old son with i adore but is a real handful ! i stay indoors all day everyday as i cannot drive …my friends dont seem to want to know me anymore because i have a baby with i dont understand i can meet them when my partners home from work..i cannot turn to my family my dad works full time and my mother is an alcoholic and hates me i have no one and i feel so alone :(

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mine died of cancer and blessed us with five small lots and an old mobile home. We live in this mobile now. My brother and his wife were infuriated and jealous and made it a point to hurt my husband and me in any way they could think of. They called CPS and accused my husband of molesting our nine-year-old daughter. (They were NEVER at our house!) My daughter was questioned by CPS and “they” determined that there was no evidence of molestation. DUH! We have grown sons and daughters and they were horrified that their dad and I went through this. This happened about two years ago, but it has come to my attention that this was kept in the files of CPS. WHY??? I am angry, upset, furious. No charges were ever filed against my husband. I am a stay-at-home mom. My husband works 12 hours a day in another town. He NEVER touched our daughter and never would. NO, I AM NOT IN DENIAL ABOUT THIS! Why does CPS keep something like this on record. What can we do? Anyone else had a similar experience?

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Thomas Ravenel
T-Rav the Low Country Cocaine Cowboy

By Mr. Chip’s, published May 21, 2008
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We all know the story of how a relatively squeaky clean, southern boy, Thomas Ravenel, now former treasurer, Republican, son of controversial Congressman Arthur Ravenel was indicted in June 2007 on federal cocaine charges with a current investigation in progress even as I write this. What you may not know is that I actually had the chance to talk to him by way of one of our local radio talk shows,The Rocky D Show a daily noon program. What did I ask him? “Why won’t you or can’t you reveal the others in your cocaine involvement?” Prior to being able to speak to him, I like many callers had the opportunity to hear others speak to him and had a chance to hear more of what he had to say about his drug involvement. He was complaining about how people don’t like his name Ravenel and it makes him a target for criticism. Of course Rocky D was in very much agreeing with him. He even went as far as to say that people don’t like Thomas Ravenel because in a “nut-shell” he’s like his dad a good old Southerner with all its trappings. And me not from the South but now I feel I am fairly educated and informed by the so-called all things Confederate have no love lost for Mr. Thomas Ravenel. But before I move ahead let me go back to the question I asked him on the phone on Rocky D’s show. Why hasn’t he revealed the other “players” in his cocaine involvement? He claims it’s because of a on-going investigation. Of course he has been sentenced to 10 months in prison. A light term if you ask me. Even if this was his first drug offense. The guy is a fake. He’s an arrogant fake. His family was questioned numerous times about Mr. Ravenels cocaine and drug involvement. And basically they were not forthcoming. They lied and covered up for him. But of course. His dad former Congressman Arthur Ravenel owns a Confederate souvenir shop in Charleston South Carolina. A former Democrat and member of the Moultrie Camp, Sons of Confederate Veterans and was “Pro” Confederate flag against its removal from the statehouse on July 1st 2000. Also Ravenel after he switched from the Democratic party to the Republican party in the early 1960′s went on to lose 5 straight elections in his state. On top of that his mouth being the good old boy that he is lands him continually in “hot-water” with the NAACP, civil rights groups and even the organization for persons with Disabilities and Special Needs. He once, I am not sure if it was intentional or just because he’s an old guy. Referred to the NAACP as the National Association for Retarded People. This could have been an accident we all know too well how the late Senator Strom Thurmond bumbled his speech and put South Carolina on the map many times in ridicule as he moved to centenary age. So maybe it was a mistake. But then with Confederate types and with Confederate stuff that happens in this state and in the South. The former politician may have been trying to get back at the NAACP which initially forced SC and the nation to consider seriously thinking about finally removing the Confederate flag off the statehouse dome. In fact if you recall even our sitting United States President, Bill Clinton and his Vice President Albert Gore asked the state legislature to have it removed. Because it did more harm then good in the state. Of course the NAACP launched a economic boycott which will stay in place until it is finally removed from the grounds near the Confederate soldiers memorial and put in a museum. With all that being said. It was a damnatory revelation when his son, 45 year old, businessman,Citadel graduate with an MBA and the SC Treasurer made news when he was indicted on federal cocaine charges. He was served while he was out dining with friends. The charges allege that he was involved with cocaine through an intermediary in Charleston and his name is public record and recently another intermediary was publicly revealed but he is on the lam according to reports he may be in his home country of Italy, leaving Ravenel and the other intermediary to take the heat and the prison time. Which brings me back to the question I asked him on the Rocky D show: Why doesn’t he reveal the other people. Though many have been redacted off his official transcript to the feds he still knows who they are and I am sure he has biographical information on them. In fact me knowing how this place can be. I’ll give you a couple of examples. We have a Lieutenant Governor who is a licensed Constable but who numerous times was charged with reckless driving even beyond what I (the writer) was charged with. What happened to him? Well he made SC and the people in it look like a bunch of dumb and ignorant hillbillies. Because our Justice Department and our law enforcement (Highway Patrol and other law enforcement) were not doing their job. And that basically our Lieutenant Governor was just a youngster that really had more time then sense. Secondly refer back to Thomas Ravenel. We have a current Judge Jean Toal who serves on the bench issuing out judgments but who numerous times has been involved in hit and run accidents. And this stupid and moronic southerner leaves the scene of the crimes and has the nerve to explain that she was not aware or did not see anything wrong with her actions. And I could go on and on perhaps in my next opinion installment on associated content. But to get back to why I don’t believe that T-Rav ( a current moniker from the college and younger crowd) is going to “dime” out his fellow players in his cocaine involvemet. Number one I know he’s scared. He even told me on the Rocky D show he doesn’t know if it would take time off his sentence to reveal them and I don’t think he cared. Number two in the back of mind according to a news article that was done on him in THE State paper (A news source in Columbia SC) some of the other people at the so-called cocaine parties may be prominent individuals or connected to prominent people in all types of white collar circles of socio-economic-political and business and so on. Only time will reveal. In the meanwhile we all await Thomas Ravenel’s fate and I sure his dad does too.

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every day theirs parents that insult everybody, including their own, that their’re abandon from their family, except a son or their daughter. that with all the insult they take , till they take care of them. without support of another member. and without doing a intervension.

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about 3yrs ago i got a call from my dad stating that my sister’s husband was making meth in their apartment, he husband was very abusive to her and myself i lived with her and him for a few month and while there he would beat my sister i would have to rip him off of her and take matters into my own hands well when i moved out i guess a few months later he started making meth in their apartment he used to buy it, do it and sell some their apartment got raided and my sister got charged with 3 counts of child endangerment and was put in jail her kids were taken away and placed with his parents. They are unfit parents, their sons are both meth addicts and they support their habits bail them out of jail, etc… my sister has done everything the courts have asked her to do to get her kids back and everytime they go to court they claim she hasnt done something she was supposed to. I want to step in and get guardianship of them but not really sure how i would go about doing it. i am planning on getting a house big enough for them i have two boys of my own. those girls are not getting taken care of the way they should be. my sisters mother and father in law put chloe who was 3 or 4 at the time on medication because she wouldnt sit still and said she had ADD i dont know who in their right mind would put a TODDLER on medication like that she went from being bubbly and happy 24/7 to a walking zombie. i want those kids out of their so bad, i just want to see them happy again the way they used to be. They live in Iowa so how would i go about that in iowa courts.

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Drink NON-ALCOHOLIC beer? (beer that contains no alcohol)
I don’t have a child. I’m only 17 lol. I’m just asking.

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My 27 yr.old son has been struggling w/drugs & alcohol for 8 years. He had a great job & was very responsible up until last year when he walked away from his job; sold everything,and ended up in jail where later the Judge ordered him into a Rehab. Facility – which he has been to several with no success. He has been living with me now for 2 weeks & no attempts to get a job. I’m disabled on a fixed budget yet he needs to be driven to many places to keep him from violating his probation. I’m nervous around him & he has changed. Yet he has had no urge to do drugs. He say’s he is full of fear. He has no place else to go & if I do ask him to leave he will inevitably end up back in jail or doing drugs again. I’m torn. I seem to worry more than he does about food & having money for gas. I know what he is capable of doing when it comes to work ethics; people love him. Should I be silent & let him work his demons out or stay on his butt to go get a job & get his own place?

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Can you do me a favor and answer all 3 question so i can have some in site on my situation…

1. Sons fathers a loser in prison for 6-30 yrs… but his parents on the other hand are druggies and all of his sisters are druggies… There house is nasty n they are very rude to me n my son…. I decided i wont go there no more because of how they live n the drugs they do… they do, weed, cocaine, and the parents are pill poppers as well as shooting dope… am i wrong for not going there??

2. Ive gone there several times and they NEVER call me nor do they ever come in visit me… and i was upset about that.. i believe its a two way street and they should come to my house sometimes as welll….. but they never do… every time i talk to them i say you are more than welcome to come anytime just call n let me know… never get a call…. well today the sister that lives with the parents is 24 she text messaged me today saying i was talking smack about her brother and for me to quit running my mouth… i said im not… someone asked if he ever hit my son n i said yes he did because he did…. then she text me n says whatever b**ch take care of my brothers son, if you can even handle being a mother… WOULDN’T THAT PISS YOU OFF???? Then on top of that she says when my son gets older she will tell him how im a liar and im fake n that I wont let them see him… That is so not true they need to make a initiative to come see him too, its not going to be me all the time…. If i had a grandson n wanted to see him id come over everyday if i could…. whats your take on this???? what would you do?? Am i wrong for not wanting my son to have to deal with there petty a$$ crap? I mean i never want to go over there again… Im not saying they cant come here but i wont go there.. is that wrong of me??

What would you do if this was you and your son in my situation?? I mean im 28 years old n i hate childish ppl…. and drama n they are all about drama and bad mouthing ppl… I wont allow them to bad mouth me to my son when he gets older???

What would you do…

3. What would you tell your son when he ask why we don’t go see them? would you be honest n tell him because they are druggies n the same reason they don’t come see you??

Im so freaking streessssed about this my anxiety is killing me… HELP ME PLZ

My son is my world and my parents will vogue for that.. as for her saying that shes doubts my ability to be a mother to him really hurts…
I appreciate all the insite ladies.. Keep em coming.. Id like to hear more…

Oh and i forgot to say my son is 2 and he don’t even know who they are they have not seen him in a yr…

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In october my fiance’s EX (babymomma) hid her pregnancy had a child Little did we know she was on crystal meth Her son and her both tested positive for crystal. CPS took her son away and gave temp custody to HER mom. since the custody was 50/50 with my fiance and his EX, CPS called him to come get his daughter or she would be in the care fo CPS. He got her and hte court granted temp full custody.in November they went back to court,she was a no show and they granted my fiance full custody. Court said If she completeed 6 months of rehab she can go and see if she can get visitation. Its been 6 months and still not complete. We would let her go to her grandmas house since the Ex was not allowed near the boy. and we trusted the grandmna and took her word. We just found out the Ex moved in witht he mom and they tried hiding it from us and tellin the lil girl to not tell us. well she did. we plan on cutting ties but what are the gmoms rights? also the mom getting visitation or custody?
Mind you we have a 2 bedroom apt VERY nice with just him, myself, my daughter and her. The EX lives in a run down 2 bedroom apt with like seriously 7 people living there. HSe has not completed her treatment… but if she goes to court what are her chances?
i also want to adopt her,, she calls me mommy and im the one that cares for her and lives with. How do i go about in doing that?

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