How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

relationship has become very bad.He does not even want to have sex with me.I am 45 and he is 51.Some how although he is an alcohoiche likes to shout at me only for all his problems.last 7 years not a sinle time he has had sex with me. whether he has another woman or women i am not very sure. but he tries to fight for no reason.I have one adoted son. whi\o is 9 years old.

Her husband is truly a hard worker who is drug free and is a doting father. The problem and question is; my daughter steals and sells everything from the house that isn’t nailed down. This past weekend while talking with her son (our eight year old Grandson) he complained that mom sold his Shrek video (and others) that we had given him for his birthday and christmas. My question is: Since my daughter has been to jail twice (30 days or longer) over the past two years, with her husband recently out of prison (over a year free), and they both live with my daughters Mother, what can I possibly say or do to help this situation? Before you ask, the Mother is an enabler (she will stand by her kids no matter what). I know my daughter blames her husband for going to jail the first time, but this situation is so bad that the last time I visited I didn’t even go in the house, my interest is just providing some old fashion good guy for the kids. Any advice?

They are sprinting daily and running two miles a day..His calf muscles are really hurting him..I heard Epsom salt and bath water works or alcohol and cold water..brrr..Any other remedies? I need ASAP…

HE HAS LOST TONS OF WEIGHT! His girlfriend and son left him he lost his appartment. So he moved in with my parents. My mom just found out he got into her bank account used checks and credit card. What can I do or tell my mom to make her feel better what can she do?!

one of my sons has already been coerced into stealing for his moms, cousins, aunts drug habits. The police are involved and even social services, juvenile services and schools have been notified. I am trying everything i can do to get my children (twin boys age 15) out of this environment and now this family is talking about moving and taking my children with them as things heat up. Any group that i have not thought of or that i could contact to help expedite this from happening would be great information.
I am the father and i have already contacted social services and juvenile service. I have not contacted a lawyer because i can not afford one.

The following are real extracts from actual complaint letters sent to various councils and housing associations throughout the UK. What a literate bunch we Brits truly are!

I want some repairs done to my cooker as it has backfired and burnt my knob off.

I wish to complain that my father hurt his ankle very badly when he put his foot in the hole in his back passage, and their 18 year old son is continually banging his balls against my fence.

I wish to report that tiles are missing from the outside toilet roof. I think it was bad wind the other night that blew them off.

My lavatory seat is cracked, where do I stand.

I am writing on behalf of my sink, which is coming away from the wall.

Will you please send someone to mend the garden path. My wife tripped and fell on it yesterday and now she is pregnant. We are getting married in September and we would like it in the garden before we move into the house.

I request permission to remove my drawers in the kitchen.

50% of the walls are damp, 50% have crumbling plaster and the rest are plain filthy.

I am still having problems with smoke in my new drawers.

The toilet is blocked and we cannot bath the children until it is cleared.

Will you please send a man to look at my water, it is a funny colour and not fit to drink.

Our lavatory seat is broken in half and is now in three pieces.

Would you please send a man to repair my spout. I am an old age pensioner and need it badly.

I want to complain about the farmer across the road; every morning at 6am his cock wakes me up, and its now getting too much for me.

The man next door has a large erection in the back garden, which is unsightly and dangerous.

Our kitchen floor is damp. We have two children and would like a third so please send someone round to do something about it.

I am a single woman living in a downstairs flat and would you please do something about the noise made by the man I have on top of me every night.

Please send a man with the right tool to finish the job and satisfy my wife.

I have had the clerk of the works down on the floor six times but I still have no satisfaction.

This is to let you know that our lavatory seat is broken and we can`t get BBC2.

My bush is really overgrown round the front and my back passage has fungus growing in it, and he`s got this huge tool that vibrates the whole house and I just can’t take it anymore.

… that is his excuse for dogs mess that I find hard to swallow.

First person to guess these 5 rap songs gets 10 points.

1.Not guilty, he who does not feel me is not real to me
Therefore he doesn’t exist
So poof…vamoose son of a b**ch

2. I told her to drive over in your new whip
Bring some friends you cool with
Imma bring da cool whip
Then I want you to strip
See you is my new chick
So we get our grind on

3. (HINT: a VERY underrated rapper)
have you feeling like a fire hydrant in a room full of dogs
some come come now
get pissed off, s**ted on
tough talk turns to cant we just all get along

4. (my favorite) We make the sky crack, feel the fly track,
get your hands up like a hijack
Fist in the air for (____)keep ‘em there like
Natural mystic or smoke when they spliffs lit
It’s a revolutionary (party), they ask me what I’m writin for
I’m writing to show you what we fightin for

5. It’s just a mask that I got,
So that I can rap and get off my block,
Reminiscing my past when I was a todler,
Sittin in grass and playin with blocks,
Failing my classes now I’m on lockdown,
Now writin and readin alot,
Money and weed is in my shoe box now,
While I’m tryina get me a glock,

He mixes and will yell he is crazy…cry…he has busted a glass out..broken things..hit me ..went nuts..he does not live with me..he has done this when visiting..he has changed after he started mixing the two…is this normal

He was picked up yesterday by local police after being gone 3 1/2 months. He was taken to county jail over night and the military picked him up this morning. He has been heavily using meth shooting up. What happens now where did they take him will we be informed does anyone know?

is falling through the cracks. Where can my friend get help for this adult child that is reasonable or free. He is involved in things that could cost him his life if he is not careful. He really hates himself but cant pull himself up.

Im 33 rs old and have been drinking 8 ounces of DM cough syrup pretty much daily since I was 19 yrs old. I cant seem to get through a day without it, for the last 3 yrs or so I have also been smoking crack pretty much whenever I can get money for it also. I know what I am doing is wrong but I just cant seem to get through a day without a buzz. The lonest Ive been without a buzz is 30 days since 1991 and that was because I was in jail. Ive been in several rehabs over the years but always left early. I am the father of three chrildren, 2 girls ages 13 and 11 and a boy age 3. In one sense I want to die to stop this abuse but also want to live to see my kids grow up. My girls already know Im an addict but my son is too young, how do I escape this madness?(I just cant imagine going a day without a buzz of some sort)

He is 28 years old has a 1 year old son and his girlfriend and baby just left him because of it. It hurts me a lot for what he is going through but what can I do to help someone that is in denial and does not want any help?

My son will be 15 months when he has to be left for the first time. We have never left him before with anyone. He is going to be staying with my mum and dad, who we dont really trust but there is no one else. I have friends but they dont have kids and sort of panic when he starts to cry.

Anyway, we are nervous about leaving him with my parents because
1) my mum drinks, a lot. I have never known her not to drink. I asked her to take me to afternoon/evening antenatal classes when i was pregnant with him as i didnt like driving and i didnt have my own car. And she said no and my dad ended up just dropping me off/picking me up. And you know why, because as soon as 3pm hits she HAS to pour a glass of red wine and she continues to pour glass after glass of wine until about 7pm after she finishes eating dinner she stops drinking.

2) Both my mum and dad smoke, my dad claims he has given up, but im not sure if he has or not. My mum is a heavy chain smoker, she smokes atleast a pack a day, if not a pack and a half. I dont want my son around all that smoke and chemicals and yukness. They have promised not to smoke inside while looking after him, but i dont believe it. When i go there in weekends with my son, if he goes down for a nap in the bedroom, they think its ok to smoke in the living room! I have said that i dont want him around it at all. And they said they promise to smoke outside

3) My mum goes to bed VERY early, like 7.30pm-8.30pm, 8.30 would be the latest i have ever seen her go to bed, she said she usually goes to bed around 8. I myself stay up late, to around 10.30-12 at night. My son goes to bed anywhere between those times too, usually around 11pm. I know its late, but it works for us as my fiance works evening/night shift so doesnt get home until 12-2am, so we all get a nice sleep in in the mornings.

4) The sleeping issue would be ok, because my dad stays up late usually. However he is not very confident around my son, like he will play with him for maybe 15 minutes max before he carries him back to either me or my fiance. I think he is just nervous. I tell him to read him a book, play peek a boo, or put on one of my sons dvds to watch together and try and encourage their grandad/grandson bonding time, but he still seems very scared. So i wouldnt want him to have to look after my son on his own

5) My mums hygiene standards are almost 0! If my son drops food from his high chair. A piece of fruit or a chicken nugget for example, she just puts it back up on his plate for him to eat again! Also if she changes his nappy, she doesnt clean his bum properly, i always have to tell her to wipe right up his crack and spread his cheeks apart to make sure he is completely clean. I have gotten him home before and changed his nappy and he still has poo around his bum!

We will also have to leave him with them some other time in november as im due with our second baby on the 18th. I know im probably being a bit over the top. But i just really want/need to know that he is going to be safe and well looked after. I will take his usual toys, some of his favourite books, dvds and pjs and a blanket so he still has all his home comforts. I would rather they look after him at our house, but we have 2 big dogs and well my parents dont like them. So thats not an option.

So if anyone has any tips/advice id love to hear from you.

Why can this happen? He lives in another country and when I went to visit him for 10 days, he didn´t have any patience to me at all, he felt stressed with me, even though he just saw me at nights because he works during the day. I know for sure that he is not using drugs anymore and goes to meetings with people that had same problem like him and he is very happy doing this. But my worry is his conduct with me has changed so much. Thanks
Since I knew my son was gay about 10 years ago, I felt guilty and very sad, but after thinking about this reality I said to myself that homosexuality exists, and he is my beloving son (I have to sons) great guy, very sincere and excellent human being. That´s what more matters to me and my husband. He knows we love and admire him always, and the most important thing for us is his happiness. He´s a great architect and loves what he does.

MY son and is addicted to RX drugs. He wants help now but has no job, money or insurance. His wife is also addicted. He now wants help but they have run up all my credit cards to buy drugs so I can’t help him. He has friends in a rehab in Lexington so I would like to find one farther away from home. I pressed charges against both him and his wife for forging checks and they are court ordered to rehab, but that has not been any help. You still have to do it all yourself unless you want them to sit in jail with other addicts for 6 to 8 months while they try to find them a place. Not to mention the fact that you can get the durgs while you are in jail too.

My ex and I divorced in June 2008. I was awarded primary residential parenting time, he got every other weekend. We both had joint decision making. He was a very bad alcoholic and he currently takes medication for anxiety.

He had good behavior up until September so I changed the parenting papers so that he had primary residential responsibilities, and I moved in with him, and his ex girlfriend. I did this because I joined the army and I planned on leaving our son with him for the 6 months I was in training. His girlfriend left him the weekend before Christmas, and he told me he had been using drugs with her. When moving her and her sister’s belongings out of the house I found needles, cut straws, burnt pieces of aluminum, and other drug paraphernalia. He told me he had done cocaine two weekends, then added he had also done methamphetamine every weekend for the first two months that I had been staying here. Later he changed his story back to just cocaine. He also has gotten over drunk several times, and even had to go to detox one night.

I can’t leave my son with him while I go to the army. I don’t trust him as a parent anymore. I want to leave my son with my father and his girlfriend who live in Nevada, but the divorce decree that we have states that neither of us can take the child from the state unless the other agrees, and he won’t agree to it. I don’t have money for an attorney, and I know it’s going to be a long uphill battle.

Any suggestions on what I can do?

i want to confront him but i dont want to seem like a uncool dad. What do I do?