Hello..the mother of my son fell into trouble with meth and dcfs took my son and her other son out of her custody. I didn’t get custody because she argued in court that I haven’t had any parenting classes, and so my son is in foster care until I complete the classes. She has been found unfit. My question is what kind of rights does she have compared to me. The reason I ask is because she is giving the foster parent a rough time by demanding that things get ran her way at the foster home. The foster mother is a very nice older lady and has confessed to me that she is feeling bullied by her and the dcfs agents relay the demands to the foster parent as well. The mother of my son is now trying to get my son put into a different foster home. I think this is ludicris and I am curious if I have the power to stop this, what rights do I have, and does she even have a right to see the kids as an unfit parent?
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My sister is going through a child custody visitation battle with her two sons father. She was never married to the guy, thank god.
This guy is a conpulsive liar, confirmed by psyhicatrist. A theif, hes even tried to teach me how to steal from stores, and hes been caught stealing while he had small children with him with no other adult present. Hes stolen gas, and been caught doing it. And got put into jail for stealing from a detectives house. Ya stupid…
He manipulated my sister and beat her while she was pregnant with my nephew, there are witnesses.
Hes a drug abuser (just weed as far as I know), and claims hes addicted and just cant stop.
When it comes to his kids he has been in and out of their lives, my oldest nephew is almost 7 and barely knows his dad, almost doesnt at all. Hes only met his youngest son once ever. And hes 2 years old next month. He does not pay child support and is almost 3,000 behind. He only pays to keep himself out of jail.
I will continue on
The question is…
He is trying to get visitation. He is so sure he is going to get it and I believe that he isnt because of his past and the way he has acted in the past and how much he has been in the kids life.
Now my sister has givin him plenty of chances to be in the kids life, but she has said enough is enough and doesnt let him see them untill he shows that he will do something.
But I need someone that REALLY, REALLY knows to tell me if he just may get visitation.
Hes now saying he will beable to take them out. He does not have any kind of custody over the kids. If my sister says no is that Kidnapping?
We want him gone. Hes irrisbonsable and careless.
In one of our arguments, I have the IM history, he told me to go look at a strobe light, and I am an epileptic.
Him and his new wife just got a pitbull puppy and they just had a baby.
His wife says that he is very good with their new daughter and even changes diapers.
Either he was talking on her messenger or shes lieing. I dont ever see him maturing. Hes 25 years old with 3 kids and 3k behind in child support. He makes money because he boasts about buying his new baby all kinds of things.
He comes down to see his boys for Christmas and brings them like 20 toys, expensive toys too. Thats not the first time its happened either.
Im fed up with him and its tearing my older nephew up because hes trying to cling to a male figure, the more he jumps in and out of his life the worse he gets.
We just want him to stay out of our lives.
The babys father and i have been dating off and on for almost 2 years. He has cheated on me numerous times.. i cant even count on both hands and those are just the ones i know about not to mention the lying, verbal and emotional abuse, and even a few physical encounters that i will admit i started. Since ive been pregnant he has started using cocaine heavly and recently got off probation and has started smoking weed again. He has a house full of people and all but his grandma and his younger siblings are using some sort of drug. His mom lives there and is so into tweak its not even funny. I dont want him to have custody of my child because his house is disgusting there is really trash everywhere and the dog goes to the bathroom in the house not all of it gets cleaned.. there is plenty of violence drug use profanity and abuse of every kind in this home and i dont want my son raised in a mess that way. how can i prove to the courts that he is an unfit father and should not have custody?
Also he has warned me that if i try to take his son from him he will fight dirty and he can guarentee that he will drop clean.. so if he already plans on quitting for an extended period of time so that he will drop clean for the courts how can i catch him unprepared? i have also used cocaine 2-3 times during my pregnancy. i know there is no good excuse for it but i felt that he would like me or want to be around me more if i did. believe me i regret it everyday but im afraid he will use that against me. i want his name on the birth certifcate becuz im only 17 and i will need his help finacially. again please help if you can its very important to me. thanks ASHLEY
