My ex cheated on me once when I was 14 and now cheated on me once again last week so I broke up with him. He is very violent and a major alcoholic. We have a 5 month old son and he says I am being unfair for not letting him see our son anymore. He texted me this morning and here was the conversation…
Him: Honey can you please answer when I call you!?
Me: No. Why would I want to speak to you?
Him: So I can apologize.
Me: I am tired of your bogus apologies. You apologize today then do the same bull crap next week.
Him: Tatiana. I know I am not the ideal guy, but we have a son together.
Me: And? I have no problem being a mom and dad to Kevin.
Him: Tatiana, come on. Kevin needs me.
Me: No Kevin does not need you. You’re a horrible role model for him and I don’t want you around my baby anymore.
Him: You know you can’t do that right?
Me: Yes I can. I have to protect my son from violent, alcoholic people like you. I don’t want my son to see these things.
Him: You can’t separate me and my son!
Me: Justin listen to me! I love you, but I love Kevin more than I love you.
Him: What is that supposed to mean? You can’t separate us.
Me: That means that I have to let you go. I can’t be with you Justin and I can’t allow you to be around Kevin! You need major help. Get some help and change. Then you can see your son.
Him: You are being unfair!
Me: I can’t do this **** anymore Justin. I don’t want my son to grow up to be like you.
Him: I need to see my son Tatiana. Please.
Me: Please Justin. Get yourself together, then you can see your son. This is not a healthy environment for Kevin.
Am I being unfair?
