How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

…and the earth? I know it then goes on mention two kids who get it on together while they eat fruit and some brother smiting his brother (I think this occurs on the streets of East Gethsemane). I LOVED this book as a kid and now that I’m regressing, I’d really like to find it again. Lots of blood & gore, an alcoholic named Noah who exacts revenge on his own son for seeing him naked, sacrifices of wives and children…but all in a child-like setting called “Babel” wherein God removes all remnants of free will by making it impossible for people to understand one another . Does ANYONE know the title and author? It would be so appreciated!
(((Tash))). Forgive me. I’m a wee bit cranky. Seeing you has cheered me, though.

…and the earth? I know it then goes on mention two kids who get it on together while they eat fruit and some brother smiting his brother (I think this occurs on the streets of East Gethsemane). I LOVED this book as a kid and now that I’m regressing, I’d really like to find it again. Lots of blood & gore, an alcoholic named Noah who exacts revenge on his own son for seeing him naked, sacrifices of wives and children…but all in a child-like setting called “Babel” wherein God removes all remnants of free will by making it impossible for people to understand one another . Does ANYONE know the title and author? It would be so appreciated!
(((Tash))). Forgive me. I’m a wee bit cranky. Seeing you has cheered me, though.

Okay, i am 27 years old with my first child and I have a bachelors degree. I live with my grandparents. I am in the process of going back to school. I have been unemployed for a year. Anyhow, my grandparents have a 50 year old son who is an alcoholic and he has been living with us for 2 years or more. He goes from his childrens mother house, to his women, and back to my grandparents house to stay when he gets put out. In over 2 years he’s mostly stayed at my grandparents. He fights, cusses everyone out when he gets drunk hence the reason he has bounce from one house to the next. He recently lost his job and when he had a job he would not get an apartment of his own. Now hes broke and still drinking and has moved back in with my grandparents and I. I personally, do not want him here but I have no control over it. Also, I cant stand to be around him is this normal?
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Ok I am having a real problem here and could use some advice from preferably single mothers out there. OK here is my situation, I am dating a wonderful woman who has a 4 year old son. The boys father is sorta involved, he’s really mentally unstable and a serious alcoholic but does see his kid about 2-3 times a month ( mostly when my gf needs him to watch him) The child is absolutely unreal. Screams/whines for every single little thing, defies his mother at every turn, refuses to do anything he doesnt totally feel like doing etc. Makes himself vomit when he dont get his way. The worst part is at bedtime, he pitches the worst fits imaginable and he will not under any circumstances sleep unless she is there next to him, so to put it bluntly its virtually impossible for us to have any time to ourselves, even 1/2 an hour is a huge deal for us. Any suggestions on what I can possibly say to my gf to encourage her or some ideas on how to make things a little better with him would be appreciate

My counsins father committed suicide 9 years ago. He went down to the basement and blew his brains out. They still live in this house. She sees him all the time. Sees him going up and down the stairs and sees him sitting in the living room. They hear a lot of noises in the basement. Her mother brought in a psychic who said that he did make it over to the other side but he is just coming to visit. My cousin sits alone in the basement with a ouija board trying to talk to him. No we are not alcoholics or drug addicts and this is for real. I heard on Sylvia Brown that sometimes people do not know they are dead and you need to tell them that they are & and to go to the other side. Do you think he is just visiting here or do you think he could be stuck here. He was a wonderful guy but he had a lot of problems. Also, a friend of mine went over there with her 4 year old son and he said “mommy look at that man on the couch”. Many people in the family see him there. Thanks.

My son drop his Motorola Razor in the pool. I’ve trying drying it out, cleaning with alcohol and just bought a new battery and still nothing. The outside charge indicator light comes on when plugged to charge and at times the key/number area will light up but nothing more. Any ideas I can try?

My son ran away 7 years ago (i know i keep sending this i havent seen my son in 7 yr?
My son ran away 7 years ago?
7 years ago my son ran away with his girlfriend at 16. They have been best friends since preschool. When they were 16, i caught them having sex and drinking alcohol. so i kicked her out of the house. about a few hours later, the girlfriends parents called saying there daughter ran away. that was the last time i heard from them. seven years later my daughter started yelling at me saying that my brother and his girlfriend are on tv. my son was on tv as a LA detective and with his girlfriend, as his wife. i just dont understand how my son could get married and and become a police detective and being a alcoholic without my input. i just dont think he is ready for such a change and i think i still need to care for him, hes still my son.

i know i already sent this. i dont care if you believe this or not,it is true, i just want som advice should i trace him and surprise him, he left at 16, and i feel i should try to still raise him
27 minutes ago – 4 days left to answer.
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i know it was him, because his name was on the screen

Im worried about my baby boy being a detective and a husbend in his twenties

I’m married and i have a son, i was an alcoholic (sort of ) i have a friend who is (or was? =P) a bartender. I’m a bit on the neurotic side. I’d give my god damn soul for just a glass of beer. I like to party and dance a lot!
WHO AM I????????????
I’m from a movie.
The initials of the name of the director of my movie are S. K.
My last name initial is T.
Me and my son have a special power =P

My 16-year-old son stole my 1855 antique Singer sewing machine (which has been in the family for 6 generations), sold it to an antique dealer for $1,500, and used the money to buy vodka, marijuana, and methamphetamine, and for he and 2 friends of his to hire prostitutes. He also took my car without permission to go do all this. I work in the evenings and don’t get home until after 10pm, and he did this while I was at work. I was worried sick when I got home last night and he wasn’t there, no note or anything. I called him on his cell phone but he didn’t answer. When I tried again, it was turned off. I tried again and again, but he still had his phone turned off. I decided to go looking for him, when I realized the car was gone (I work about 3 blocks from home, so I always walk to work).

Long story short, my son finally came home at 3 in the morning, stinking drunk and reeking of marijuana smoke. It was clear that he was high as well. I was thankful he hadn’t been hurt, but I was also quite angry that he has done this and gotten me this worried, so I said “I’m going to punish you like you’ve never been punished before! You’re grounded for a year!”. Then I sent him straight to bed.

This morning we had a discussion about his offense, and he admitted that he’d taken my sewing machine and sold it to get money for alcohol, drugs, and prostitutes. He also admitted that he’d taken my car, had been driving while drunk and high, and had picked up 2 friends of his, one of whom I had forbidden him to hang out with (this “friend” of his is 21 years old but still in high school, as he has repeatedly failed, uses drugs, abuses alcohol, and was physically violent toward his ex-girlfriend before they broke up a few months ago. He is now facing charges for sending her threatening phone calls since then. Needless to say, I do not want my son hanging out with him).

I reassured my son that I was thankful he was safe and that I loved him, but I told him that I am extremely disapointed in him. I also gave him the following grounding terms:

No going outside or leaving the house, except to go to school and for yardwork
No TV
No Computer
No Video games
No Phone (I took away his cell phone and he’s forbidden to use the home phone)
No Friends
No Desserts
No Bedroom door (I have removed it)
Plenty of extra chores
He also has to copy substance abuse books by hand
Early bedtime 8pm every night

I have talked this over with my husband, who is out of town (because of his job, he is usually gone for a few days to a week at a time, then he has a few days off). He agrees that this is a good punishment.
I can’t help but wonder, though. Am I being too harsh? I know this is a very severe punishment, but what he did was very serious and I don’t want to take it lightly. Please help. Any advice would be appreciated. My son has always been very responsible before now, and is generally well- behaved. I never thought he’d do something like this, and it really scared me.

Thanks.

He was perched on the roof, watching NY citizens scurry through the rain like ants. Watching them from here made him feel superior. For one thing, he’d never felt superior to anything his whole life.
Cassander tugged at the tattered, too small coat wrapped around his shoulders, shivering lightly from the cold. He hated the man sleeping in the house beneath him. He knew he was his father, he knew that no matter what he did, he was obliged to love him, but Cassander couldn’t help it.
If his father hadn’t been an alcoholic, Cassander would be learning now, instead of leaving at four in the morning to farm while his father gulped alcohol, smoked weed and chased after drugs. If his father wasn’t abusing him, he would have been more capable of getting at least a few dollars a day. If his father wasn’t suicidal, he would have had someone to depend on.
Cassander put his head on his arms, and put them on the legs propped up in front of him. He remembered when his father had dragged him all the way to a dangerous, drug-dealer alley to pick cigarette butts off the floor. His father lit those and made him smoke them.
God knew what had happened to those cigarettes. A dog might have urinated on them, tens of shoes might have stepped on them, a cat could have shit on them, and then they were suddenly in his mouth.
Cassander wanted to erase all of those things. To leave. But, now, he was too far into it to step away and then, his mother would refuse to take him with her, when she left the guzzling alcoholic and her son. Now, Cassander would just have to live with it.

***
The arrow pinned itself straight into the mid-point of the board. Louis heard someone clap from the side, breaking the former silence.
Louis knew he was the best soldier his race had seen in centuries. He knew that he was the head of the army, that every military move in the galaxy was under his finger. That with the click of his fingers, hundreds- thousands even- could die.
He remembered when he was a child. When this was what he wanted the most in the whole world. When being head of the military was like being titled God.
Louis still enjoyed it…why on Earth shouldn’t he? Still, a small, bug was nagging at the back of his concsious. He was fighting for his race, a dream he had snatched when he was a little boy. The problem was, as a boy, his life was an us and a them. There was no in the middle. You defend the us and you kill the them. He was taught what his brothers were taught as well. If they’re not on your side, you try to move them. If they don’t move, you kill them.
This was so much easier to comprehend when he was a young boy. When he didn’t know that the them weren’t devils. That the them were quite very much like the us. Still people, still souls, whatever they believe.
And now? Now, Louis was wondering whether he was going to hell.

Thanks for your help!

BQ: Do you think the names suit the type of characters I’m introducing?

my sister needed someone to watch her 4 yr old daughter while she’s working. my other sister droped her off while i was still sleeping. she made a mess, cut up newspapers and i made her clean it up. i gave her food then i told her when she is full she had to clean the rest. she didn’t. so i made her sit in the corner and look there. she can’t turn her head or make any noises. she’s been sitting there for like 30 mins or so.

how long should i make her sit in the corner???
(i did not spank her. because i am not her mother or father)

another question is, would you let your depressed, angry, violent, alcoholic brother watch your daughter/son???

okay short backstory im a single mother (19, had a kid at 13, bad i know

my son aaron is 6, hes the lite of my life but i can only make money stripping, been doing it for a year or two and its good money, but i have no sitter or any1 who can watch him, so i made a deal with teh club owner that my son can just watch in the back, they keep most of the customers away from him give him a toy to play with but i know hes watching me… is this bad, like sychologically?

i do fully nude so theres no alcohol in the club which is good cuz i dont want my son around a bunch of drunks. sometimes we do “milk slutz” shows tho where me and a couple other girls do a fake lesbo show (well sorta fake lol i came once or twice cant tell no lie while the guys in the front row get to spray us with milk (they have to buy the bottles and dancers get $2 per bottle so its a good deal), but maybe this is a bit much? at breakfast yesterday he aid “momy why do u kiss girls in milk???” lol it was funny but also a lil sad ;(

if any1 has any advice like if they r a doctor cud you tell me is this bad? im just a workin mom tryin to make ends meet want the best for my sun but sometimes i worry so plz put my mind at ease

gog bless

I’m trying to stay positive but…
please bear with me

I’ve gotten where I am today because of the decisions I’ve made as a person. I’m 21 years old and I falling behind in the race of life. I’m not the son of parents of responsible natures and any noticeable work ethic. No, I’m the bastard son of an alcoholic woman who brought another five children into the welfare life. Ask statisticians and those with common sense where I’m most likely to end up. Of course I’m not without blame. I hashed out against the circumstances for most of my life only to worsen my own. I’ve been through a lot of stuff because of it.

I called the authorities on my abusive lifestyle in the 6th grade, my family was dispersed into foster care. I excelled in foster care. But then I was given the opportunity to go back to my own family and I did. Eventually I was placed on probation in jr. high and violated the rules. I went to a juvenile facility a city. I excelled there as well. A year or so later I was released to my mother who managed to get all of her children back. Then as she started slipping into her old ways so did I and I ended up in jail. I was there four months keeping completely to myself. Then I got out and had no place to go so I moved in with a childhood friend I disowned for street rat associates.

I lived with him and his mom until I graduated high school two years behind my original class. By then things were going sour at the house between the three of us, partially because of the tension between the mom and I. We did some things we weren’t supposed to together. I graduated with flying colors if i may say so myself. I actually received a scholarship, lead a musical, and ended up in a great relationship with a teacher no less! But my life….what, who, why, how was I even here?! I hadn’t even thought of college, I didn’t know the way of the world, I had no idea how to be an adult.

My relationship with the girlfriend was adulterous and caused problems, I had no clear direction when I got to college and ended up flunking out. Spent that summer homeless most of the time and got back into the school only to get booted this time because I still had no idea what I was doing and got back into smoking and drinking! Now I have a little over 100$ in the bank and my rent is going to be due in a couple weeks along with utility bills and I have no job! On top of that 14k in debt for nothing! The relationship is rocky and she has two daughters, I always said to myself I’d become more than this for my own family and life and I intend to.

I am seriously F’d up right now!!! Someone please help me out?

KEYY: boyfriend:mike girlfriend:kathy baby:joe

okay, can anyone help me. now my moms friends son is a alcoholic. when mike(the son) gets drunk mike gets mean. now mike and Kathy idk. but mike abuses her. so saturday night mike got really drunk and gave kathy a black eye and in that act “accidently” hit there 8 month old baby boy joe. they stayed with us for 2 days. today she was supose to go to her friends house to live with her untill the court day or going back home. well around 6:30pm. a guy she though was her friend came to pick her up to go to her friends house. but instead of taking her there he took her to mikes house. we called kathy to see if she was okay at the time she was, she said she was. so we went to the house just to make sure. and kathy and her so called friend were sitting on the porch. we got back home and realized we had her phone charger. so we called her and she said shed me by with her friends boyfriend to pick it up around 10. well at 10:03 i texted kathy and asked if she was still coming to get her charger. she never answered the text. then 10:23 rolled around and my mom decided to call her and tell her that she was about to go to sleep and that kathy needed to come and pick up her charger. she never answer. then my mom called kathy again and it went right to voicemail. at this time we were really worried. so we decided to go to mikes house to see of they were still there, well they park in the back so my brother went back there to see if the cars were there. mikes car was and also the friends. he came back and told us. then as we were heading to the end of the street mikes mom showed up. and turned into mikes drive way. she saw us and my brother walking the oppisite way as us. at this time we called 911. the police came and just went upto the door and knocked. thats it! the didnt answer. ofcourse not they know the police are there and mike and kathy arent supose to have contact. btw kathy has full custody of joe. we called the state police, the city police, child services, the magistrait what else can we do we are in fear of kathy and joes life. he has threatend to hurt joe before to get back at kathy. PLEASE HELP!

Cavan: filthy, ignorant hillbillies, puritanical papists.
Hobbies: discovering IRA ammo dumps and knitting black balaclavas.

Kerry: stupid but loveable.
Hobbies: Gaelic football, scraping pig foetus off their wellies and chain-smoking.

Wicklow North: sports car driving country snobs (Greystones, Enniskerry)
Hobbies: Sticking their noses in the air and referring to themselves as “one”.

Wicklow South: sheep shaggers.
Hobbies: Sitting in field with their neighbours and talking about the”banjaxed hydraulics on the JCB”, collecting the dole.

Dublin North: criminals, drug dealers and factory workers, easy women, unmarried mothers, skinheads and all-round examples of human waste.
Hobbies: Heroin and watching serial numbers being filed off stolen BMW’s, Doing hand-breakers.

Dublin South: west Brits, snobs, rich, easy glamorous women.
Hobbies: colonic irrigation and sleeping with their best friend’s spouse.

Limerick: violent, racist scum of the earth, knife-wielding prostitutes.
Hobbies: play rugby while stabbing each other with screwdrivers and then complaining about their city’s bad reputation.

Donegal: look down on all-others, aloof.
Hobbies: Turning their noses up at all and sundry

Cork: jealous of Dubliners, highly-sexualized women.
Hobbies: Standing at the side of the Motorway and making smug faces at the cars with Dublin plates.

Tipperary: beautiful pristine girls, hard to get into bed but worth it if you can because that County does not have two different Ridings for nothing!
Hobbies: Getting a flat in Dublin and losing their accents and hoping their parents don’t find out.

Meath: Dublin wannabes.
Hobbies: Beating Dublin at GAA and hoping that one day somebody in Dublin will actually notice.

Galway: sophisticated boggers could be mistaken for a South Dubliner, sexually adventurous, cultured and wealthy. Hobbies: Teaching sex acrobatics to foreign tourists, dropping acid, paying a million pounds for a three bedroom suburban house and pretending it was a bargain.

Kildare: alcoholics.
Hobbies: Waking up in barns with a bottle on one side and hatchet-faced Biddy on the other.

Mayo: Depressing, defeatist, negative, misery-laden losers, emigrate as soon as the umbilical cord is cut.
Hobbies: Dropping a lighted cigarette on his mattress and then being burned alive in a Cricklewood boarding house so he can have his remains flown back to Knock Airport for burial.

Louth: IRA supporters, smugglers and bandits, beautiful girls (Dundalk).
Hobbies: Tearing through Cooley at 125MPH trying to stop the boxes of cheap vodka from falling out the window.

Waterford: decent honest hard-workers generally good folks.
Hobbies: Calling a strike.

Clare: fiddle-playing charming simpletons and, more recently, neo-nazis.
Hobbies: Falling into pot-holes and being never heard from ever again.

Sligo: go-getters, strong sense of free enterprise, likes to make cash.
Hobbies: get rich and b*llix to everything else.

Kilkenny: harmless innocent alcoholics.
Hobbies: Sending their only son to fashion college in Dublin and then wondering why he never brings girls home and why he is always looking in The Brown Thomas catalogue?

Carlow: who cares?
Hobbies: Move to Dublin and then best forgotten about.

Offaly: mad for playing sports and having fun, generally liked.
Hobbies: To win a pub.

Leitrim: Enigmatic reclusive weirdos.
Hobbies: Being absorbed into surrounding counties, quietly.

Longford: Gombeen men.
Hobbies: Legalizing bestiality.

Laois: the real boggers and proud of it generally held in high esteem by Dubliners.
Hobbies: Living an honest life, collecting EU development grants.

Westmeath: Mysterious boggers, cryptic.
Hobbies: Trying, unsuccessfully, to get noticed.

Wexford: selling their “home-grown” organic fruit (bought at supermarket that morning) at the side of the road in summer and ripping-off gullible Dubliners out for a drive in the country.
Hobbies: Ripping off tourists is more than enough.

Roscommon and Monaghan are missing, but sure did anyone notice

An illegal immigrant was free on bail awaiting a deportation hearing when he allegedly killed his teenage wife in Mahopac, a law enforcement official told The Journal News on Monday Paul Amay, 25, was detained by federal Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents after his release in March from the Westchester County jail, where he had served four months of a six-month sentence for driving drunk with his infant son in the car.
Amay was turned over to immigration officials on March 22, then freed by federal authorities after posting bail.
The deportation hearing was to decide whether he would be sent back to his native Ecuador. His next appearance was set for late January.
Amay has been in the United States at least since 2004 and had been arrested in Westchester at least four times for drinking in public and once for disorderly conduct, authorities said. Police had also responded to several domestic disturbances between him and his wife, Graciela “Gloria” Zhingri Amay.
Amay was arrested shortly after noon on Nov. 21, 2009, in Ossining after he was seen driving erratically. Police found his 7-month-old son unrestrained in the car and Amay’s blood-alcohol level was 0.29 percent, more than three times the legal limit for driving while intoxicated.
The arrest on misdemeanor charges of DWI and child endangerment came just a week after Gov. David Paterson signed Leandra’s Law, making it a felony to drive drunk with a child in the car. Amay would have been the first Westchester defendant charged under the law, but it did not take effect until mid-December, so he only faced misdemeanor charges.
When ICE agents learned Amay was in jail, the agency issued a detainer warrant so it would be notified when he was eligible for release. An order of protection, meanwhile, kept him away from his wife.

http://www.lohud.com/article/20101228/NEWS01/12280327/-1/NEWSFRONT/Mahopac-man-accused-of-killing-wife-was-facing-deportation

The parenting plan my child’s father filed with his petition has a lot of ‘rules for visitation’ that completely contradict his lifestyle. Is this something that can help if proven? For example, there is a rule about not drinking prior to or during visiting/custody time, thing is HE is an alcoholic. His family drinks all the time and I’ve no doubt he would be spending a lot of time with them when he has our son.

ADDING INSULT TO INSULT: HUGO CHAVEZ UNLEASHES NEW ATTACKS ON PRES. BUSH
Yesterday, he called President Bush the “devil.” Today, he made it clear he wasn’t finished with his red-hot rhetoric. Speaking in New York’s neighborhood of Harlem, Venezuelan President Hugo Chavez called President Bush “an ex-alcoholic” and “a sick man, full of complexes.” That was just the beginning. Using more derisive language, Mister Chavez said of President Bush: “He walks like this cowboy John Wayne.” “He doesn’t have the slightest idea of politics. He got where he is because he is the son of his father.” Chavez claims he was warned yesterday, after he described Bush as “the devil” before the annual meeting of the General Assembly, that “I should be very careful, because they could kill me. Well, I’m in God’s hands. I’m not afraid.” Mister Chavez alleged that an American thirst for oil prompted President Bush to lead an invasion of Iraq.
I have called Bush a lot worse names than that,I just wondered what other thought.
others thought (not other)

JACKSONVILLE, FL –- An illegal alien who hit and killed a Jacksonville karate instructor while driving under the influence of alcohol was sentenced to 10 years in prison Monday.28-year-old Marliano Alberto accepted the sentence as part of a plea bargain. The judge also revoked his license for the rest of his life.Police say Alberto was drinking and speeding when he crashed into 27-year-old Russell Nevado’s car on A.C. Skinner Drive last April.Nevado’s family, friends and students filled the courtroom Monday for the sentencing. Several people spoke, including Nevado’s fiancée, Sherry Mendoza.
“Russell represented the meaning of being a true angel,” she told the courtroom. “He lived life to the fullest, putting thought and effort into other people, his family and himself.”Nevado was a black belt karate instructor at his family’s studio. He and Mendoza planned to get married, start a family and open another karate studio.

His mother, Marilyn Nevado, broke down in tears as she described the day police showed up at her door to tell her about her son’s death. She says that she didn’t believe them until the officers showed her his driver’s license.

“It felt like my chest had been stabbed many times and someone ripped my heart out of my chest,” she said.

She said their family hasn’t been the same since Nevado’s death, but she hopes the sentencing will help them move forward with their lives. Still, she said, burying her son was the hardest thing she ever had to do.

“With no hesitation I would have given my life for my son to have lived longer.”

http://www.firstcoastnews.com/news/news-article.aspx?storyid=92015

The slant of your question: What do you think about this- do you truly expect anyone to say it is great or similar? My question asked what is your view point ,we are still allowed to have view points are we not ?

my son was a passenger in a car where the driver was underage(18) (my son is 20) and there was another passenger (21yrs old) and they had been stopped for speeding. The officer asked if there was any alcohol in the vehicle. They responded and told him there was a bottle of rum under the seat. My son was the only one issued a violation for possession of alcohol, and the officer never took the bottle from them. The officer called the next day and asked me whether my son’s age was 20 or 21 because he may have issued the wrong violation if he is under 21. Doesnt that make the document void? Im going down to the police station today because it all seems very fishy. Just wondering if anyone knows the laws about a passenger getting in trouble for alcohol and no one else got in trouble