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Anna NICOLE SMITH just lost her 20 year old son, and yet on YAHOO message boards, they write dirty stuff about

admin — Mon, 26 Sep 2011 10:24:29 +0000

her, completely OBLIVIOUS to her pain.

She IS MOST DEFINITELY A TROUBLED WOMAN, with her drugs and alcohol problems. And now this ! Imagine how she feels, and what this may do to her. Her son’s death also sounds VERY SUSPICIOUS, like DRUG USE !

Do you visit Yahoo Message Boards and what do you think about them ?????????

I have two adult sons, 27 & 29, living at home and nither can find a job that pays enough so they can live own

admin — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 20:19:11 +0000

the 27 year old has a BFA in illustration and the 29 year old has an AA in auto body repair. Both are good workers, never miss work, show up for work everyday on time and clean and sober, yet they get passed over for employment by addicts and alcoholics. They are out every day looking for work and up all night on the computer looking. And nothing is happening. The 27 year old has $50,000+ in student loans that he has defaulted on and is in a very deep depression because of it. Why can’t they find work?

I have been hiding my sons failing grades from my husband..he is my sons step-dad..my husband knows that they?

admin — Tue, 16 Aug 2011 16:19:09 +0000

arent good but he doesnt know how bad…his real dad doesnt help except to get him every-other weekend which is fine with me because I have always did it on my own & he is an alcoholic..But now my son has desided that he is ok with his grades & he is ok with getting barely by as long as he passes…I dont know how to get him motivated again & should I involve his step-dad?? His is a wonderful man & they get along GREAT I just dont want them to start not getting along…that would be horrible..

I could use his truck (we are looking to buy one now) as leverage but I really dont want to have to threating him..
Any suggestions?? I am at a lost & very confused with my sons attitude—–

He is 15 & in the 9th grade….
Oh PLEASE….it is not me failing, you really are rude!!
Thank you guys ! I will try these tacktics…he is a good boy & has a great mind & YES I will be talking to my husband..like I said he has an idea but he lets me handle the kids & knows I willl come to him a crunch. Tutor sounds like a good idea! You guys are right it is time to make this a family matter…
I get NO Child support & he doesnt even cover insurance,lunch,clothes,school supplies or NOTHING!!
Its ok BillieB everyone has there own opinions & this is a touchy subject…especially for kids..
Great, yall have help me make my mind up time for a family meeting…I have got to figure out what has changed in that boys mind…& I am going to email his teachers (again) to set up some extra classes & or tutoring…THANK YALL sooo much …it is going to be really hard to pick a best answer!!!

mon son is living with is girlfriend, and they have a 14 month old?

admin — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 10:24:07 +0000

Since before the baby and for the 14 months, I have been helping a lot….. I am the mother of the son…. She is a server, and 35, her ex boyfriend according to my son, broke up with her because of heavy drugs? My son told me this before he got together with her.. (Perhaps a year after she broke up with ex) A friend of hers told me she had been a heavy drug user when they lived together.. The question: I have been baby sitting while she went to work, at night, my son is also a server- After she started back to work about 3 months ago, she stayed out and did not come home till 3 in the after noon, I went over, as my son called me. When she comes home from work, she is smelling of alcohol. Then, last week, she did the same thing, but we were meeting at her mothers at 4 for a barbeque, and she said in front of her mother she had only got home at 3 in the after noon, her mother said nothing, so next day, I told her I was not able to stay overnight anymore at her place, as needed my sleep
and that gladly have the baby at my apt, condo, which I own, and have a babys bed , She said no, so it has been a week, she has not called, I told my son , I thought she was an alcoholic, and maybe even abusing drugs. Is once a user, always ,until one gets help, she baths the baby maybe once a week, the baby does not sleep in a crib, but in bed with her, and her clothes are all over the floor, for 6 months, I keep saying to my son, to do something about the mess. What do I do, Do I go to a lawyer, She is also on anti depressants for 10 years, my son is 30, and does not want to talk about it,,,,,
Her mother said nothing about her staying out all night. Also , the ex boy friend is hanging around when my son goes to work. My son is oblivous. He did tell me he pays all the bills, and she spends her money on her self. Does this sound like she set up my son to have a baby at 34(my son is 30) and he will be paying child support while she parties with her ex… should I or he see a lawyer, Do you see any concern? Drugs Her older sister just went to a rehab hospital for a year after spending 40, Thousand of her familys money, the sister is 40, HEr sister was using hard drugs, and has 2 boys 12 and 10,,, help , Am I over reacting? Should I stay out of it, but I have spent a lot of time with my grandaughter , and said to bring her to my condo, she said she does not want her to come to my place…. I have made it very easy for her…. I have done too much…… so now, should I see a lawyer about perhaps what i know,……..
So, my son should have to grow up, I agree, and hopefully he will let me know of any doubts , as he already has , hopefully my grandaughter will be walking soon, she is 15 months and not walking, any concerns I have my son filters me out,,,,,,thanks,

What about this illegal driving drunk with his infant son in the car & now he kills his wife why do they do it?

admin — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 00:24:19 +0000

An illegal immigrant was free on bail awaiting a deportation hearing when he allegedly killed his teenage wife in Mahopac, a law enforcement official told The Journal News on Monday Paul Amay, 25, was detained by federal Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents after his release in March from the Westchester County jail, where he had served four months of a six-month sentence for driving drunk with his infant son in the car.
Amay was turned over to immigration officials on March 22, then freed by federal authorities after posting bail.
The deportation hearing was to decide whether he would be sent back to his native Ecuador. His next appearance was set for late January.
Amay has been in the United States at least since 2004 and had been arrested in Westchester at least four times for drinking in public and once for disorderly conduct, authorities said. Police had also responded to several domestic disturbances between him and his wife, Graciela “Gloria” Zhingri Amay.
Amay was arrested shortly after noon on Nov. 21, 2009, in Ossining after he was seen driving erratically. Police found his 7-month-old son unrestrained in the car and Amay’s blood-alcohol level was 0.29 percent, more than three times the legal limit for driving while intoxicated.
The arrest on misdemeanor charges of DWI and child endangerment came just a week after Gov. David Paterson signed Leandra’s Law, making it a felony to drive drunk with a child in the car. Amay would have been the first Westchester defendant charged under the law, but it did not take effect until mid-December, so he only faced misdemeanor charges.
When ICE agents learned Amay was in jail, the agency issued a detainer warrant so it would be notified when he was eligible for release. An order of protection, meanwhile, kept him away from his wife.

http://www.lohud.com/article/20101228/NEWS01/12280327/-1/NEWSFRONT/Mahopac-man-accused-of-killing-wife-was-facing-deportation

How could anyone stoop so low that they would consider a father asking for pray for his son a violation?

admin — Sun, 19 Jun 2011 06:24:32 +0000

My son Cody is in dire straits at present.His wife left him along with three babies ages 5, 3 and 1.Sunday about midnight she called him and wanted him to come to the place where she was staying so that they could talk.The door was to be opened and he was told not to wake the people up.I begged him not to go and tried to tell him that she was up to something, but he wouldn’t listen.He went into the house but she was not there. As he was walking out the man that lives there awoke.And saw him as he was leaving.He called my house the next day and said that he had called the police on Cody.My son now sets and crys, he wants to die and is drowning himself in alcohol.We haven’t heard a thing from the police about this incident and continue to pray that we do not.I imposed on some of your questions by asking for pray, I hope this was not an offence but I believe in pray and wanted to get the word out.Emailed many of you.I want to thank all of you for your prayers and ask that you continue to.
Thank You Bobby, and God Bless You!
Thank You Juiu,and God Bless You!
Thank You really true 101,and God Bless You!
Thank You raven futrell, and God Bless You!
Thank You queenof_tartz,and God Bless You!
Thank You Jennifer H,and God Bless You!
Thank You porkypine07,and God Bless You!
Thank You fairlady, and God Bless You!
Thank You truth6akathumbs…,and God Bless You!
Thank You Calebs Mom,and God Bless You!
Thank You Dr. G, and God Bless You!
Thank You dnttri2hrd, and God Bless You!
Thank You Jan P, and God Bless You!
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Thank You God is love,and God Bless You!
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Thank You BibleBeliever, and God Bless You Brother!
I am putting this question up for a vote. I will be able to let you know more the 9th. Thank You All Once again for your prayers and your wise advive. I love each of you, and you are more appreciatted than you realize.

Advice For Foster Kids..How to tell them they aren’t going home?

admin — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 22:26:03 +0000

This story is a little confusing so please try to bear with me. My husband and me were married over two years ago. He brought a daughter (who is now 15) who he has full custody of and I brought my two kids together and made a blended family. My husband’s ex-wife (my step daughter’s mom) had also remarried and had a six year old boy from her second marriage. One week before Christmas last years the ex-wife was arrested for manufacturing meth and DHS took her son an put him in an emergency shelter. Since my husband and me have full custody of his half sister and no one else wanted him the judge allowed us to become his foster parents and he lives with us. We found out this week (almost a year after this all started) that her rights have been terminated and DHS is starting the adoption process for him to be with us permanently. My question is how do you tell a seven year old boy that he will be grown before he sees his mom again and that he will be living with us from now on? He has not seen or spoke to her since she got arrested last December, she was out of jail till this past October when she was arrested again for falling to appear for her court dates. Thank you for any help you can provide.
He can’t see her, the judge said she is to have no contact with him period and that we would be held accountable if we let him see or talk to her.

Advice For Foster Kids..How to tell them they aren’t going home?

admin — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 01:28:20 +0000

Advice For Foster Kids..How to tell them they aren’t going home?

admin — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 07:25:37 +0000

Advice For Foster Kids..How to tell them they aren’t going home?

admin — Sun, 24 Apr 2011 10:26:03 +0000