My baby’s dad is an alcoholic and I know his liver is damage from his drinking, not only that I got an PFA on him for his abuse on me. I don’t want to hurt him with the baby I just want the courts to help me to order him to get treatments for his alcohol, depression and there is a chance that he is bi-polar. He is not ready to be a dad but he did watch my other son, while I worked on the weekends. The only bad side is he left my son home alone so he can go to the bar to drink and that is when the abuse started. I had to come home from work and did not make money because of his drinking. I want him to have supervised visitations because he will drink if he does not have his visitations supervise and with his drinking he will not be able to care for our baby. I going to file full sole custody of the baby next month so when the baby is born my attorney can schedule a hearing date for custody. Should I file child support in the baby’s dad’s condition. He has threaten suicide on me.
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We had the granchildren this weekend and I love them dearly but they absolutly Drove me insane with the WHINING I”M BORED. They have TV, Books, Movies, Playstation 2, Computer, and bikes, and 2 acres of yard.We do many Crafts when they are here. I made them Doll houses from Cardboard, and then halloween decorations, and Christmas decorations. We makew all sorts of stuff together.But I am running out of Ideas. that can interest a 6,8 and 12 year old. And still I’M Bored every 5 minutes. We painted Halloween decorations. Lasted maybe 2 hours and back to I’m Bored. The Boy will be 12 halloween morning, He is in the gifted and talented class I am not sure why. He can’t add 10 and 10 and get a right answer. But he is in 5th grade and is supposed to read at an 8th grade .level. But yet asks how to spell simple words. The second girl is in 2nd grade and she is even worse.The 3rd one had to repeat kindergarden. They have toys out the but, has their own TV and video movies and never turns on the TV. Thye have a bicycle, a swingset, and take them to the library and get them books they never read them after we check them out. She whines all day long. they would be great if they could be in School 7 days a week. Their mother is a lazy piece of work. She works 2 to 10 at night. And when she is home either has a cell phone growing out of her ear or her nose stuck in the computer.And ignores the kids.they have to find things to amuse themselves. And Their dad our son is an alcoholic. If he is not at work from 7 a.m until lord knows what time he gets home. He goes through 2 cases of beer a week.So they are watched by their Aunt that lives with them All she wants to do is abuse them. And screams at her 2 all day long. But I need to find something to keep them busy when they come over. That is low cost and entertaining.
I have called Social services on their Aunt So many times. I have truned her into the police, and the cops have been to their house at least 6 times in the past year. Their father and a friend of his got drunk, got into a fight, his friend attacked our son and the guy hit him in the ear they were both arresrested for Battery 3rd Degree. Then his same friend tried to commit suicide out their last weekend with the kids there. The ambulance was called Cops came out still nothing done. But the children talked about it all weekend. With daddy drinking, Mommy ignoring them, And Aunt yelling at them. I pulled in to get them Firday noght and the 3 of them ran and got in my truck the Adults never even came out to see who was there and got the kids. I called them when I got home and told them kids were with me. They never even answered the door when I rang the bell. The kids said Aunt was busy and mom was sleeping, and dad was not home yet. Real worried I guess.
my son was in car accident. he was arrested with out probable reason other than the officer stated that she smelt alcohol. blew a 0.00. after arrested he’s care was searched even after he stated they did’nt have permission to search. accedent cause was from slick roads. The officer broke his cell phone by not properly putting it away, and left on top of car. The charges were dropped, however during the search they found a gun and a small amount of marajuana, can he have this case dismissed because of illegal search and seizure?
My aunt is addicted to prescription drugs and has been for a while. She also has an eating disorder. She only drinks water and never eats. She is also addicted to smoking. She takes pain killers and morophene patches constantly. She doesn’t even need them but one doctor she goes to continues to prescribe them. He even knows whats going on. She gets so high on the pain killers sometimes she passes out in bed with a cigerette lit and she has almost burnt herself up multiple times. She gets so bad she can’t walk or talk she is so high on them. She don’t even know where she is and what day it is. I have suggested to my other aunts that we should do something but they say that the only person that can do anything about it is her son and husband (that is is seperated from). Her son is an alcoholic and doesn’t care and her husband would never say anything about what she is doing. I fear I am the only one that can help. Is there anything I can do to help her?
I have legal custody of my sister’s 4 year old daughter. She was going to put her up for adoption at birth and I’ve had her since day one. I have been mommy to her all her life and my son and daughter have been her brother and sister from the beginning. My sister gave up all rights to her when she was 3 months old and the father is unknown. I would like to legally adopt, so that she may carry our last name and would like to do this before she starts school, so that she doesn’t have to learn a name she isn’t familiar with. (She has always called herself my my last name and doesn’t know any different.) We started our through DHR as my sister had a serious drug and alcohol problem. We have been discharged from the state when I was given legal custody of her at three months old. I wondered of there was a program that would assist in the cost of a legal adoption as I’ve heard it will cost around $2000 in legal fees. Any input on the subject would be greatly appreciated!
she is on the run from the law and may go to jail and is drug Addict on meth wat do i need to get my twin sons from there grandfather im the bilogical father and want my sons
He is alcoholic and needs help but refuses to get help himself . Is there any kind of law where I can force or have him committed before he hurts himself or someone else?
I suspect that my elderly neighbor is the victim of emotional and financial abuse. She has her son and daughter living with her and they are both mistreating her terribly. The daughter screams at her all day and leaves her nothing to eat when she is out. There have been times when my neighbor has tried to cook for herself but was unable to, one time she unknowingly put metal in the microwave and caused a fire. My husband heard the fire alarm and helped her out of the house while I put out the fire. That’s when it was brought to our attention that she was not getting the help she needed. To make matters worse her son is a drug addict (meth) and steals her belongings even her medication than screams at her when she confronts him or asks where her pain pills are. Not to mention that they both had access to her bank account and she is not missing a total of $13,000.00 1/2 of the money she was saving for an “elders community” (it’s a fancy nursing/end of life home)
Is there someone I can call about this? I live in The San Fransisco Bay Area, California, USA.
I meant to say she is now missing $13K. Sorry I have a tenancy to type faster then I should and it causes typos.
My son , age 30, addicted to crack cocaine. He has been willingly in several rehabs but always walks away. We , his parents have had him arrested for stealing our things and he did a year in the county jail. He tried suicide there. When he was released , went to rehab walked away again. He is Bipolar, says he really wants to do right and I believe him. Can’t overcome his addiction. We have gotten his meds to him, tried psychologist, rehab, prayer, Is there anything we haven’t done besides let him self destruct?
Scorecard On Obama Scandals (updated)
Prosecutes CIA for defending country
Prosecutes Navy Seals for assaulting most wanted terrorist.
Hides $17.5 billion “stimulus” in NJ
AmeriCorp firing in violation of federal law
Obama’s three places of birth
Obama’s natural-born citizenship?
Obama’s multiple SS nos
ACORN pimps out
Clinton Foundation gave ACORN $250,000
VP Biden’s daughter in cocaine bust
Biden bro and son named in offshore Ponzi scheme
Rahn Emanuel (too numerous to mention)
Obama prez campaign accepted AIG donations
House Speaker Nancy Pelosi (being there)
Cong Barney Frank, Freddie Mac scandals
Sen Chris Dodd, AIG bonuses, Countrywide insider deals
Gov Richardson-pay to play scandal (withdraws)
No. 2 at HUD Ron Sims (violates Public Records Act as Seattle area County exec)
Geithner-Tax cheat (confirmed)
Daschle-Tax cheat (withdraws)
Killefer-Tax cheat (withdraws)
DOL Secy Solis – husband tax cheat (confirmed)
Sen Burris lied about “pay to play” contacts
Auto rescuer appointee Steven Rattner (massive pay-to-play NY pension scandal) )(stepped down)
Louis Caldera, White House Military Office (ousted for $357,000 flyover NYC)
Green Czar Van Jones ousted – San/Fran Communist w/ arrest record.
Other Dem Scandals:
Cong Rangel-Tax cheat (under investigation)
Sen Franken–voted in w/ ACORN registrations
John Edwards in love child payoff w/ campaign funds
Gov Blagojevich-pay to play scandal (impeached)
Baltimore Mayor Dixon- indicted on perjury, theft charges
Racine Mayor Becker-arrested for child porn, soliciting minors
Hartford Mayor Perez- arrested for bribery
Birmingham Mayor Langford- arrested on federal charges
Former Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick-served 99 days jailtime
Portland Mayor Adams- admitted he had gay sex with teen intern
Chicago Alderwoman Troutman-plead guilty to tax fraud and mail fraud
Monica Conyers John Coyner’s wife, Detroit City Council President implicated in Detroit bribery case
Tim Mahoney (D-FL) – Offered $121,000 payoff and $50,000 a year job for two years to quiet former mistress/staffer
Rep William J. Jefferson (D-LA) tried on 6 counts including bribery (hid $90,000 cash in freezer)
NY Gov Spitzer – fed’s wiretaps out involvement in prostitution ring.
Cong Alcee Hastings ex-judge, impeached/convicted for bribery (elected to House)
Cong Carnahan (D-MO) lien filed on home for $17,364 unpaid roofer bill
Mass State Sen Dianne Wilkerson arrested on federal bribery charges (stuffed bribes in bra)
Carol Moseley Braun nailed for stealing $249,000 from her campaign treasury
Mass State Sen J. James Marzilli indicted for accosting four women (resigned)
Rep Jan Schakowsky (Dem/Socialist–ILL) husband’s bank fraud
Ex-leader of Young Democrats sentenced in Child Porn case
North Carolina Dem activist sentenced in child porn w/ kids as young as 6
Kerry’s Band of Brothers member on-stage at DNC Convention (convicted for child porn)
Aide to Sen Barbara Boxer received/distributed child porn (convicted)
Child molester back working for Democrat in Hawaii Legislature
Wisconsin Dem mayor charged with child-sex crimes
Left-wing radio personality Bernie Ward (possession/distribution of child porn conviction)
Barney Frank’s boyfriend ran prostitution ring at residence
Baney Frank’s current live-in grows marijuana on premises
Hawaii senator got TARP funds for bank he founded.
Sen Diane Feinstein steered money to husband’s businesses.
Cong John Murtha – massive fraud and corruption.
Cong Chuckles Schumer – crashed IndyMac by causing a run on assets.
42 Dem officials arrested in NJ corruption bust.
Alinksy said attack attack attack. Attack on all fronts. This is not even that great a list. I borrowed it from the kitchen sick depot. Obama is a pig and a criminal.
Lately, the more I read about ADHD in adults, I am thinking more and more that I may suffer from this. I’ve always had trouble concentrating, it can take 3 times of reading something before it sinks in or if the room is quiet during a test, I am the one always looking around the room at each and every little noise. I’m also very unorganized, I can easily make appointments but I have alot of trouble getting to them because I’m always forgetting. I have a brother and a son with ADD.
Now, I have a history of meth use. Can I still take the medication? Do doctors automatically think that a patient is just trying to score drugs? How do I go about bringing it up? Please help…Serious Only
I’ve goggled and found a few. My son’s father and I split because of drinking. I really still love him and want him to quit. it’s getting worse. I want to stage an intervention, I know he need to want to quit, and he does want to, he just doesn’t have the support. I want to focalize and organize the support he needs.
I think that one thing I can do is email him poems everyday. This is a big message to him, trust me. Can you help me collect some?
thanks
I’ve goggled and found a few. My son’s father and I split because of drinking. I really still love him and want him to quit. it’s getting worse. I want to stage an intervention, I know he need to want to quit, and he does want to, he just doesn’t have the support. I want to focalize and organize the support he needs.
I think that one thing I can do is email him poems everyday. This is a big message to him, trust me. Can you help me collect some?
thanks
I spent two weeks with my son earlier this Summer. Of course, I pay my child support each month and all that stuff. Still, I live about five hours North of him, and I don’t see him every day or even every week. I was homeless for four years, and now I’m not homeless any longer. I can’t seem to get my driver’s license, because I don’t have the money to pay the $800 fine. I’m sort of in a tight right now, and I don’t know what to do. My son is ten years old, and I’m afraid we’ll end up copying what happened between my Dad and I. I never spent a lot of time with my Dad either. I love him and all, but he’s past 70 now, and I feel we lost a lot of time. I know it wasn’t my fault, but I’m afraid I’ve become my Dad. My son lives with his mother, and I don’t have the financial means to move back down south of the State. I just don’t want him to think I don’t love him. I mean, I feel like we don’t even know each other much. I bought him a big computer for his birthday in June, but I know money doesn’t buy love. I use to be an alcoholic and drug addict. Then I got saved–Born Again–and I never drank again or did drugs. I just feel like I’ve lost a lot of time. What should I do? It doesn’t seem like I can be the Dad I want to be. It’s like we have separate lives. I just feel like I’ve failed with my son. I just hope he knows I love him. I hugged him when he was here, and he hugged me back. His Mom is a Liberal, and she runs an entirely different type of household. She’s a California girl, and I was a Georgia boy. I just hope things work out where maybe my son and I can one day have some sort of constant communication. Life is tough, you know? Right now, I’m just trying to get situated financially, you know? Maybe get a real life–right? Just wondering if anyone is going through the same thing, and how they cope with being so far away from their child. Makes you feel guilty, ya know?
I spent two weeks with my son earlier this Summer. Of course, I pay my child support each month and all that stuff. Still, I live about five hours North of him, and I don’t see him every day or even every week. I was homeless for four years, and now I’m not homeless any longer. I can’t seem to get my driver’s license, because I don’t have the money to pay the $800 fine. I’m sort of in a tight right now, and I don’t know what to do. My son is ten years old, and I’m afraid we’ll end up copying what happened between my Dad and I. I never spent a lot of time with my Dad either. I love him and all, but he’s past 70 now, and I feel we lost a lot of time. I know it wasn’t my fault, but I’m afraid I’ve become my Dad. My son lives with his mother, and I don’t have the financial means to move back down south of the State. I just don’t want him to think I don’t love him. I mean, I feel like we don’t even know each other much. I bought him a big computer for his birthday in June, but I know money doesn’t buy love. I use to be an alcoholic and drug addict. Then I got saved–Born Again–and I never drank again or did drugs. I just feel like I’ve lost a lot of time. What should I do? It doesn’t seem like I can be the Dad I want to be. It’s like we have separate lives. I just feel like I’ve failed with my son. I just hope he knows I love him. I hugged him when he was here, and he hugged me back. His Mom is a Liberal, and she runs an entirely different type of household. She’s a California girl, and I was a Georgia boy. I just hope things work out where maybe my son and I can one day have some sort of constant communication. Life is tough, you know? Right now, I’m just trying to get situated financially, you know? Maybe get a real life–right? Just wondering if anyone is going through the same thing, and how they cope with being so far away from their child. Makes you feel guilty, ya know?
I legally gave my son my house. Me and my husband still live there. I am divorcing my husband because me and my son are recovering addicts and my husband refuses to stop bringing and drinking alcohol in the house. The house has been in my son’s name for 3 years. We can’t live in that environment and keep our sobriety. Can my son legally have my husband removed from his house?
The woman who runs my son’s independent (i.e standalone) prekindergarten class refuses to let any of the children eat chocolate. She says it is made with marijuana and marijuana like chemicals to make kids food addicts.
I prefer to let my kids eat mostly fruits if they want a sweet, but still this bothers me.
And what ive read in a journal online seems to confirm what she said about marijuana in chocolate.
Is it true or is it like Coca-Cola, where they use the cocaine plant to flavor it but remove the cocaine first?
thank you
Stage 3 to die with alone! He was charged with domestic assault on 08-24-2007 after nearly 30 yrs of being together! I am an orphan with a sis in CA et a sis in Cedar Falls, but that f-er turned 2 of my 3 sons against me by his drunken/drugged mind that I WAS THE 1 WITH THE PX! I see 0 lite, 7 would rather be dead than to be homeless, jobless, dying, et grieving 4 our GOOD YRS, et 4 my sons! Please help me 2 find the Strength 2 keep getting up each day! His name is ‘RED’ or Dennis J. Conrad from Brandon, Iowa et was raised by a drunken, child molesting father, et a mother that did not PROTECT her babes! My man’s best friend served time 4 raping a mentally challenged female, et his other best friend turned on me as he’s “scared shitless” I’ll tell his wife Judy that he smokes pot with my man! BFD! What a puss! My man was great til he learned 2 cook meth with his friend, ‘BUD’ & that’s when the physical abuse 1st began! I cannot keep up this fight without support & he’s taken it
I spent two weeks with my son earlier this Summer. Of course, I pay my child support each month and all that stuff. Still, I live about five hours North of him, and I don’t see him every day or even every week. I was homeless for four years, and now I’m not homeless any longer. I can’t seem to get my driver’s license, because I don’t have the money to pay the $800 fine. I’m sort of in a tight right now, and I don’t know what to do. My son is ten years old, and I’m afraid we’ll end up copying what happened between my Dad and I. I never spent a lot of time with my Dad either. I love him and all, but he’s past 70 now, and I feel we lost a lot of time. I know it wasn’t my fault, but I’m afraid I’ve become my Dad. My son lives with his mother, and I don’t have the financial means to move back down south of the State. I just don’t want him to think I don’t love him. I mean, I feel like we don’t even know each other much. I bought him a big computer for his birthday in June, but I know money doesn’t buy love. I use to be an alcoholic and drug addict. Then I got saved–Born Again–and I never drank again or did drugs. I just feel like I’ve lost a lot of time. What should I do? It doesn’t seem like I can be the Dad I want to be. It’s like we have separate lives. I just feel like I’ve failed with my son. I just hope he knows I love him. I hugged him when he was here, and he hugged me back. His Mom is a Liberal, and she runs an entirely different type of household. She’s a California girl, and I was a Georgia boy. I just hope things work out where maybe my son and I can one day have some sort of constant communication. Life is tough, you know? Right now, I’m just trying to get situated financially, you know? Maybe get a real life–right? Just wondering if anyone is going through the same thing, and how they cope with being so far away from their child. Makes you feel guilty, ya know?
My baby’s dad is an alcoholic and I know his liver is damage from his drinking, not only that I got an PFA on him for his abuse on me. I don’t want to hurt him with the baby I just want the courts to help me to order him to get treatments for his alcohol, depression and there is a chance that he is bi-polar. He is not ready to be a dad but he did watch my other son, while I worked on the weekends. The only bad side is he left my son home alone so he can go to the bar to drink and that is when the abuse started. I had to come home from work and did not make money because of his drinking. I want him to have supervised visitations because he will drink if he does not have his visitations supervise and with his drinking he will not be able to care for our baby. I going to file full sole custody of the baby next month so when the baby is born my attorney can schedule a hearing date for custody. Should I file child support in the baby’s dad’s condition. He has threaten suicide on me.
