How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

My brother if a definate long time alcoholic. my son is a regular 13 year old trying to be cool with his uncle. It happened in my house while I was sleeping and the women were watching tv. apparently 2 glasses of wine and a beer earlier, but thats all it takes for me.

The other night, my son went to a rave with his friend, my friend who works at the rave place was on the phone with me said that my son drank some alcohol – free beer and he said not to be worried, should I be worried, though? My son is 15.

I know that a lot of innocent children are harmed during the making of coke, but to think that cocaine is getting profit out of their teeth is just wrong and makes my feet warm. How are we supposed to protect our children if propane is making profit out of both cocaine and coca cola and the only ones to thank for gas is the children? I’m assuming this is why we’re supposed to tell our kids the tooth fairy exists, so we can give their teeth for coca cola’s cocaine, but how do they get it? I guess the general question is me wondering if cocaine is made out of children’s teeth and if this can be prevented by telling them the truth about the tooth fairy. My son is fifteen now and I think he’s getting suspiscious, I had to take him out of school because his friends were telling him that the tooth fairy wasen’t real, and I’m not going to let my bills pay for what cocaine is doing to our children!

This is for all the parents out there who don’t want Coca Cola being the new Google!

please tell me what to do about him and the drugs without cops

I don’t live there but my sister is asking for my help regarding finding a drug rehab for her son. She has just recently found out that her son is taking heroin, and this really shook her up. I have to admit that I’m affected as well. My nephew is a straight A student, the kind of kid who has always been such a good boy. It was just really surprising for me to know this. This must be really tough on my sister, and that’s why I want to do whatever I can to help her. Any suggestions?

She is a meth addict for over three years and has been enabled by my mother who has decided to put her hands in the air and give up. She says that my addict sister can just leave with her son. What! It is pure dysfunctional drama. But the loser is the little boy. My sister even asked him to pee for her for a drug test my mother was giving her. Should I butt in or stay out.

my ex wife let my son stay with her alcohlic mother today i was realy upset because we have both talked about this and thought we agreed that it was not safe for him at her place. this women has been an alcoholic for years and in the past four to six months gone to the crisis center at least twice and i think a thrid for sucide watch during a binge the last time this happened just a little over 30 days ago,and this time had to be escorted by police, my ex wife thinks because she has been on medicne and ok for 30 days and just a phone call away our son will be fine,(this is not the first or second time she has been ok for 30 days but many times over the past several years) my probelm with this is that not only has our son gone through some tough emotioal times recently and if he saw anything happen to his grand mother it would cause him great emotional harm but god forbid if she went off the deep end took my son in her car and got him hurt myabe worse. i dont think because u dont want to hurt someone’s feelings or what ever the case may be that she should put our son in arms way am i wrong to worry ?

her husband kicked her out last week after 20 years of her taking drugs and drinking. They have an autistic son and she was totally out of control. She lived in Seattle I told her she could come down where I live in texas and would help her if she went to AA. she doesn’t want to go when I make her she sleeps. I rented her a place until friday (that will be her here a week) she just hung up on me when I asked why she skipped another meeting. Said I was not her mother. All she wants to do is go stay at my vacation house on the beach and sit in the sun. I want to just leave her where she is let her figure something out herself. My friends say let her go to the coast and stay there. Well what good is that? living in my house just going to the beach taking god knows what. Not sleeping for days. She weighes about zero pounds. If she was your sister what would you do? give her a chance at the beach or just cut my losses. I am exhausted

Me and my boyfriend have known each other for 7 years and have been together for 2 of them we have an 9 month old son as well. Now me and my boyfriend has had our arguments and have even fought but not like this night im about to tell u about.

Me and my boyfriend had been having problems for about 2 weeks i would stay gone n we would not sleep in the same bed when i got home.
Now on a saturday i left and later on that night at like 1 or 2 a.m. i get a phone call sayin that my boyfriend was super drunk had lost his phone and was tryin to drive so i went to go get him and told him to let me take him home he told me no and started yelling at me which turned to him pushing me hard to the ground in the parking lot and then we started fighting and i stopped and he kept coming at me dragging me by my hair banging my head to the ground stomping me punching me…everything and then he was sent to detox i did not press charges.

Now the next day i packed my shit and was ready to go but he got home early he tried to kiss me and i moved away he said whats wrong and i was like you dont know and he said that he did not remember i explained to him what had happened in detail of how he beat me and he could not believe it. I told him that me and his son was leaving and he started begging for me to stay and not to go and crying this went on for 2 hours he said that he promise never to do it again and that he made a huge mistake and that he would be better. Then he started talking about getting engaged and how much he love me and need me and for me to give him another chance i told him i already have several times he said that he knows but for me to please give him one more….

I know this is long but should i really stay?

My ex and I divorced in June 2008. I was awarded primary residential parenting time, he got every other weekend. We both had joint decision making. He was a very bad alcoholic and he currently takes medication for anxiety.

He had good behavior up until September so I changed the parenting papers so that he had primary residential responsibilities, and I moved in with him, and his ex girlfriend. I did this because I joined the army and I planned on leaving our son with him for the 6 months I was in training. His girlfriend left him the weekend before Christmas, and he told me he had been using drugs with her. When moving her and her sister’s belongings out of the house I found needles, cut straws, burnt pieces of aluminum, and other drug paraphernalia. He told me he had done cocaine two weekends, then added he had also done methamphetamine every weekend for the first two months that I had been staying here. Later he changed his story back to just cocaine. He also has gotten over drunk several times, and even had to go to detox one night.

I can’t leave my son with him while I go to the army. I don’t trust him as a parent anymore. I want to leave my son with my father and his girlfriend who live in Nevada, but the divorce decree that we have states that neither of us can take the child from the state unless the other agrees, and he won’t agree to it. I don’t have money for an attorney, and I know it’s going to be a long uphill battle.

Any suggestions on what I can do?

i want to confront him but i dont want to seem like a uncool dad. What do I do?

What elders should I take him to? Is that something DCYF can help me with?

She calls, sends gifts. Even goes to church He’s 9 and does understand why grandma needs Hennesey for her nerves. She cries when he doesn’t come over to see him.And my son cries too what should I do?

Should i say something, I don’t wanna hurt his chances of being popular. I want him to be able to go to all the underage drinking parties.

Please help, this is serious.

I’m fairly concerned that one of my family members is on crystal meth now. I know its not my mother-in-laws drugs, because she only does ketamine, whippits, and nyquil.
How do I find out whose drugs they are without confronting or embarassing anyone? Or should I just keep the meth and use it/sell it?

Why cant my family go back to the simpler times of hiding airplane bottles of liquor around the house for Easter?

He initially showed signs of person on drugs. We sat him down and spoke to him about the consiquencies of drugs. He tried to stop but has started again. This means that he is hooked to the thing. Please he is my only son advice me. Thank you.