I am with my oldest son now who is 18, the problem is my youngest son is 7 yrs old, he is with my ex husband in PA, I do not know what to do stay in MA or move to PA. I hate all this time being missed with my little one on the other hand I have my mom sisters oldest son here for support, what do you think you would do?
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i’ts been a month since i relapsed and i wanted to try NA meetings but some say only spirital clossenes to god will help if anybody was addicted to crack cocaine give me some advice?ihave a 2yr old son and husband i don’t want to loose
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the guys who were “after him” and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs and was asking for his number and was rude to my ex and acted like he should be afraid of him. This scared me!
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
If I did decide to go through the courts what is the likelihood that I could get supervised visitation for him and my son… so that I don’t have to deal with him? It would just be my word against his. Couldn’t he deny ever admitting this stuff to me and then the courts might grant him overnights or something??? Just scared and would like to know what I should expect as far as custody, visitation, etc if the courts knew his current situation.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the guys who were “after him” and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs and was asking for his number and was rude to my ex and acted like he should be afraid of him. This scared me!
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
If I did decide to go through the courts what is the likelihood that I could get supervised visitation for him and my son… so that I don’t have to deal with him? It would just be my word against his. Couldn’t he deny ever admitting this stuff to me and then the courts might grant him overnights or something??? Just scared and would like to know what I should expect as far as custody, visitation, etc if the courts knew his current situation.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the mexican mafia and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs (meth) and was asking for his number and rude to my ex and acted like my ex should be afraid of him.
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
I wonder if he’s even clean at this point and how I should handle the situation… for my son’s sake.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the mexican mafia and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs (meth) and was asking for his number and rude to my ex and acted like my ex should be afraid of him.
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
I wonder if he’s even clean at this point and how I should handle the situation… for my son’s sake.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the mexican mafia and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs (meth) and was asking for his number and rude to my ex and acted like my ex should be afraid of him.
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
I wonder if he’s even clean at this point and how I should handle the situation… for my son’s sake.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the mexican mafia and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs (meth) and was asking for his number and rude to my ex and acted like my ex should be afraid of him.
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
I wonder if he’s even clean at this point and how I should handle the situation… for my son’s sake.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the mexican mafia and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs (meth) and was asking for his number and rude to my ex and acted like my ex should be afraid of him.
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
I wonder if he’s even clean at this point and how I should handle the situation… for my son’s sake.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the mexican mafia and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs (meth) and was asking for his number and rude to my ex and acted like my ex should be afraid of him.
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
I wonder if he’s even clean at this point and how I should handle the situation… for my son’s sake.
My ex didn’t come around for the past 6 months only to suddenly decide on my son’s 4th birthday that he wants to be involved again. We weren’t married so there’s no custody order or visitation set up through the courts. I filed for child support about 3 months ago after I hadn’t heard from him for a while. He still hasn’t been served the papers because he’s evading the guys who are trying to serve them.
He admitted that the reason he wasn’t coming around was because he got “mixed up with the mexican mafia” and things went bad. He says he’s been doing meth but that he’s not addicted and it’s just something he’s been doing to lift his spirits because he’s been depressed with where his life is at.
He says that he’s straightened things out with the mexican mafia and that he quit doing meth a couple weeks ago on his own. He has pending court charges for marijuana transport but says he’s getting off with a slap on the wrist because it’s his first offense. He’s also driving around with a suspended license due to unpaid fines. (He TELLS me all of this).
I offered to meet him at a park and have him hang out with our son there for an hour while I read a book in the car, since I know my son has been very hurt by his absence and has wanted to see him. Well, when we were leaving the park a creepy big gang-banger ex-con looking guy walked up to my ex and was obviously on drugs (meth) and was asking for his number and rude to my ex and acted like my ex should be afraid of him.
Now my ex is texting asking when he can see our son again. I am at a loss. I don’t know this man anymore and he’s gone so far downhill it’s scary. I don’t want to deny my son SAFE access to his father, but I don’t want to deal with my ex on a regular basis and listen to the sob story he tells to make his bad choices okay.
I wonder if he’s even clean at this point and how I should handle the situation… for my son’s sake.
His father (were divorced) is an alcoholic. Am I just being paranoid?
a small mount of each less than a half gram at least that is the story i got any idea in the trouble he is looking at
and she is going to counseling to.She cheated on him with her boss out of state at a meeting. He is in AA for alcohol due to stress and them both losing a bussiness. He has never cheated in his marriage and she says he is a good husband and father and she forgives him. But today she told him she wants to stay seperated and may want to see other people. She wants him to come home Saturday night to stay overnight with his 2 young children while she stays with her mother and goes out with her girlfriend dancing and drinking. She says she needs time away from the kids and needs a night out. They have been married for 10 years and at the begining of their marriage took in her young sister and brother for 2 years because her mother had issues. In the last year her father had a stroke and now lives in their home with them. What do you guys think about this relationship and is there hope?
Thanks everyone for answering me I am staying out of it as much as possible but she put him on my door step. Things are so hard right now because his step mother whom he loves dearly just died at 4:30 this morning.
