I got pregnant while I was living with my fiance. He is obviously the father of my baby and when I was three months along we slpit up. Things just ended up not working out and in the best interest of my son I left that alcoholic butt head. I’m not very big even though I’m 6 months along, and many men still find me attractive. I was going to wait until after I had the baby just cause I thought I’d be huge by now and figured nobody would want anything to do with me. I feel it’s time to let go of the baby’s father and move on. Some people feel I should wait cause it’s morally wrong. Just wanted to hear other peoples view on my situation I’m in at this time. I also wanted to add in that I’m not ever going to put a man in front of what my child needs, I’m definatly going to be responsable in who I date, and in no way am I being selfish by wanting to date again. My son comes first!
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I got pregnant while I was living with my fiance. He is obviously the father of my baby and when I was three months along we slpit up. Things just ended up not working out and in the best interest of my son I left that alcoholic butt head. I’m not very big even though I’m 6 months along, and many men still find me attractive. I was going to wait until after I had the baby just cause I thought I’d be huge by now and figured nobody would want anything to do with me. I feel it’s time to let go of the baby’s father and move on. Some people feel I should wait cause it’s morally wrong. Just wanted to hear other peoples view on my situation I’m in at this time. I also wanted to add in that I’m not ever going to put a man in front of what my child needs, I’m definatly going to be responsable in who I date, and in no way am I being selfish by wanting to date again. My son comes first!
i have been trying to concieve for a while. last month after believing that i might be pregnant i found out i wasnt. i stayed in bed crying all day since it was the first time i had been late and my hope were so high. a few days later my cousin calls to tell me she is pregnant with her second child. she almost had her 18 month old taken away b/c she tested positive for Meth while pregnant. her son is developing behind schedule. its so unfair. i cant be happy for her even though i pray for the baby i dont even want to look at her. her and her mom are coming to see my son in a program in the morning. i just want to shake her and cry because she is probably still on drugs and risking this babys health. and my aunt gushes about what a good mother my cousin is. good mothers dont do drugs while pregnant and almost have the welfare take them. how do i deal with this? im a good mother and take all necessary precautions such as taking vitamins and eating healthy just incase i get pregnant and s
i quit my bad habits when i learned i was pregnant and the babys father was suppose to too, but hasnt. he is a compulsive liar whose addicted to meth. i want my son to have the best upbringing, and in this world i believe that starts with a loving family, with both parents to guide him with unconditional love and stability.i dont want to raise my son without a father. ive always felt such a void growing up without one myself. watching my mom work constantly with very limited time to even get to know her kids. i regret being so naive. i dont want the babys father in my life and i refuse to let him be in my sons life. a man that will never love our son more than he loves meth. ive waited 7 months thru all his lies for him to get his life together and get off drugs, but now its getting close to my due date and i want to do whats best for my son. would like to find a loving couple that is interested in adopting my son. i need help. i dont know what steps to take
i quit my bad habits when i learned i was pregnant and the babys father was suppose to too, but hasnt. he is a compulsive liar whose addicted to meth. i want my son to have the best upbringing, and in this world i believe that starts with a loving family, with both parents to guide him with unconditional love and stability.i dont want to raise my son without a father. ive always felt such a void growing up without one myself. watching my mom work constantly with very limited time to even get to know her kids. i regret being so naive. i dont want the babys father in my life and i refuse to let him be in my sons life. a man that will never love our son more than he loves meth. ive waited 7 months thru all his lies for him to get his life together and get off drugs, but now its getting close to my due date and i want to do whats best for my son. would like to find a loving couple that is interested in adopting my son. i need help. i dont know what steps to take
My 22 year old cousin is 7 weeks pregnant…but she prostitutes and also uses crack cocaine the whole time she has been pregnant. She has a 3 year old son who was tested positive with crack cocaine in his system when he was born and he was given over to her aunt. What can be done right now while she is pregnant to get her off the streets and stop using. We try and help her, but the second she leaves here…she is back out there on the streets again walking. Anyhelp would be great. The father of the baby is in jail right now…so…he can’t do much. Any opinions would be great, thanks!
She will not go to any drug treatments, the longest she was clean was the few weeks she spent in jail. Would CPS be able to be able to do anything…if they cannot find her?? She doesn’t really live anywhere, just whereever she falls asleep
How do I get past my 3yr olds father jumping in bed with a mutal friend and getting her pregnant less then 3 months after we broke up?
I have 2 boys 3 & 5.My 5 year olds father (shawn) died 1 week before he was born due to pneumonia. I was single for a while then started dating shawn best friend Brian a year after shawn died. We dated for 4 years and 2 years into the relantionship we had my 3 year old. we have been broken up for 15 months now and i just found out he has been dating a mutal friend of ours and they have a 6 month old baby. That means she got pregnant (i think she trapped him) less then 3 months after we broke up.
The girl was a mutal friend, she dated one guy for 10 years and said she took birth control every day at the same time and she knew about medications affecting it because she worked at the doctors office. When me & brian broke up she said she would talk to him (i was in NC him in VA) and help to get him to come back that was the end of OCT beginning of NOV now i find out she got pregnant by him in JAN and she said “well sometimes things happen” I think she trapped him to keep him from coming back.
Anyways I dont want him back Im in a happy relationship but it just makes me crazy and so sick that he did that BOTH of them did that. I just want to get over it but i want my son to have nothing to do with that family (last i knew they both drank a lot, & he’s always been an alcoholic) i dont want him to be in that situation but i know i cant keep him from his dad. Now brian is saying he cant send me as much money because he has two kids to take care of, well so do i and i need whats owed. but its more difficult then that so we cant just go to court, because of medicaid and so on. I just want to get over it and not be so angry all the time. but how when i hate what he did to me and my son and it makes me sick!
My boyfriend got a new job with my brother which is great. But my brother is an alcoholic and they have been hanging out together a lot lately. They drink everyday but during the days they don’t get drunk but the weekends they get totally trashed in our basement. Have beer pong party’s , beer bongs everything. He says he’s just trying to get it all out now before our son comes in 4 months., but i really don’t think that he is going to stop. I just don’t wanna be the nagging gf and him thinking that i’m telling him what to do. but being the babysitter till 4 in the morning for 6 or 7 drunk people is physically straining on me right now. I don’t know how to talk to him bout it without him going off or anything.
He smokes weed, drinks everyday, snorts cocaine and he is never at home. I pay all of the bills and buy the groceries. He cooks and cleans occasionally. I work 40+ hours a week and he works 0. I am pregnant with his son, due in September and my lease is up in August. He has made no effort to help me. He sometimes gives his friends hundreds of dollars and he gives me a few dollars rarely and then expects me to pay him back immediately and them whenever they can. He has 4 other kids from 4 other women he does not take care of.
Meth for my baby son?
I am 27 (almost 28) and married with one son. I’m heavy, and I want to have a baby. I’ve been trying for a while with my husband… but it isn’t working. I have quit smoking and I have been exercising and working on my weight. I don’t eat meat, cheese, or milk, get a lot of veggies, work out for about 35 minutes a day cardio and 20 min with weights and 3 times a week do yoga at home. . .
I don’t want to do fertility treatments yet and my doctor said I shouldn’t be trying because I am too fat. I don’t know. I’ve always been heavy. I was 311 when I had my son when I was 19. When I was much younger I did meth (from ages 12 to 17) and during that time I was still 200-260. Who has ever seen a fat tweeker? Well that was me.
Of course, I don’t do drugs or drink or anything now! I haven’t touched them in over 10 years – just in case you were wondering.
I had irregular periods for a long time, but started taking Vitex and that evened them out.
It’s been about 9 – 10 months total since we have been trying and nothing. We went through a rough patch May to July, I don’t know – but we weren’t trying then. But all in all it’s been 9-10 months and I am getting so frustrated.
Of course I have “considered” losing weight – heck if you read the first part of the question – I am even working really hard on it! lol
She smoked it in newports & sniffed it . From 10/31/2007 to 12/15/2007mainly on weekends not every day maybe about 4 weekends of using . she is scared that her baby will test postive & she will lose her baby. Question how long does it take to come out of a newborn system? What kind of test do they run? Please reply serious & partially right answer she really is a good mother she has one son 4 yrs old never did any drug with him but things got hard and she ran into the wrong people & no longer hangs around them .
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home yesterday and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home yesterday and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home yesterday and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.
