Here is the situation…I have some strong suspicions that my husband’s ex is abusing drugs (specifically Cocaine). My step-son found cocaine in her room with a straw and a razor blade. He took a picture of the drugs which I have. Numerous people have also told us she is on drugs. My step-son was extremely upset and asked how we could prove she was on drugs, I told him to get hair from her hairbrush and I sent it away to be tested. It that illegal? Admissable in Court? Will the courts order her to have a hair follicle test done? The kids have been extremely mentally abused by their mother’s sister over the whole situation….What do we do?
We’re running on a tight budget, being that I don’t earn a lot and my husband got ill and we need to spend for his medication and other things. Now our son has a problem with his alcohol intake. We really need to get him treated as soon as possible, but our financial state prevents us from doing so. What can we do?
I have always held on to my principle not to have any vices. I stayed away from my friends when I learned that they were doing drugs. I did not hang out at bars or any alcoholics. I held on to my principle. That is, until a few months ago. A few months ago when my son died and I could no longer handle the pain. That’s when I started drinking like alcohol was water and I’d be dead without it. I want to get myself treated now, but how? Please help.
I don’t live there but my sister is asking for my help regarding finding a drug rehab for her son. She has just recently found out that her son is taking heroin, and this really shook her up. I have to admit that I’m affected as well. My nephew is a straight A student, the kind of kid who has always been such a good boy. It was just really surprising for me to know this. This must be really tough on my sister, and that’s why I want to do whatever I can to help her. Any suggestions?