Modernization says Alcohol is very bad for health, so doesnt Jesus said as per according to old testament No drinks to be consumed and nor consume Swine, but christians have changed the whole thing, why ???
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I’m 24 years old with a 4 year old child. I make $12 an hour as a temp and will soon get hired through the company and my pay will go up to $16, I also work overtime some nights to be able to provide for my child with everything he needs. 6 months ago I moved down here with my son from Idaho when our husband abandoned us. Our plan was to all move down to California to help my mom out with her breast cancer and I had half the house packed..Then he cheated on me…Then he left me, took our only car and his clothes. I had no car and at the time my job cut my hours to 4 hours a week cause of the economy. So my son and I moved, my husband didnt contact us for those 5 days. We moved on the 6th day.
I’ve tried to keep in contact with him over the months and keep it friendly and tell him updates about our son. After I stopped calling him, he rarely called me…Once every 2 months..
Now he is mad that I decided not to move back to Idaho and says I’ve “kidnapped our son” when he knew we were moving down to Cali and he had no problem all those other months! He is a pothead and he is very immature and not responsible enough to care for our son.
I think I need a lawyer and I was wondering if anyone can recommend one in the L.A. area who would be able to do payment plans since I don’t have much money.
I told my husband I don’t have a problem with him visiting our son. I have no family in Idaho. And my son gets alot of love and support down here from my side of the family.
I just don’t want my son staying with my husband since him and his girlfriend are both alcoholics and potheads… I just don’t know how to prove that without the help of a lawyer
I’m so scared about losing my son by him saying I kidnapped him when I did not!
My sister is asking for my help in finding a treatment center for her son who happens to be addicted to alcohol. He’s a really good kid and we didn’t foresee this happening. I really want to help her with this.
okay so heres the thing. the dad is in the marines and he only wants our son for the money. he is saying this isnt his baby. and he doesnt ever ask how the baby is doing or what is going on with the baby. and i dont want my son to be used for money. and i dont want my son to grow up around a bunch of alcoholics. and he only cares about drinking. so how should i go about getting full custady once the baby is born. ill be 30 weeks on the 18th of this month. so im getting close to haveing him. and i want to get everything ready for once he gets here.
i also need to know when i should start looking into getting a lawyer. i dont know if i should start looking around now. or if i should wait until closer to my due date. which is october 27th. i am only 17 and this is my pregnancy. and im high risk due to misscarrage a few months before i got pregnant. and i know that you could go early. so that is the thing thats got me really unsure on what to do.
My son is 17, 10 days ago we found out he has some bad things going on…We still can figure out if it is Alcohol alone or also weed smoking. He gets in and out of house w/o telling us, he comes some days at 2-3 am or some days 10-11 pm. Has very changing moods. We took him to a drug place for a meeting & the “no so smart woman” there said we needed to listen to him, in front of his face, and they said they didnt need to run a drug test on him…so in other words, they made the parents look like jerks in front of the teenager.
I just came bk f/buss. trip & found out he has a ticket for consumpt. by a minor not driving though-he already went to judge to handle it, but he was hiding it f/us. I called court to find out details and they advised me he has handled it & has some condit’s to meet and $ to pay.
A/o last year has GPA 4.0 & 0 absent days. Anyone pls. can give serious advise as to what to do next, actions to take to get him out of this problem and bk on trk.
Dad & Mom lv w/him
I’m trying to stay positive but…
please bear with me
I’ve gotten where I am today because of the decisions I’ve made as a person. I’m 21 years old and I falling behind in the race of life. I’m not the son of parents of responsible natures and any noticeable work ethic. No, I’m the bastard son of an alcoholic woman who brought another five children into the welfare life. Ask statisticians and those with common sense where I’m most likely to end up. Of course I’m not without blame. I hashed out against the circumstances for most of my life only to worsen my own. I’ve been through a lot of stuff because of it.
I called the authorities on my abusive lifestyle in the 6th grade, my family was dispersed into foster care. I excelled in foster care. But then I was given the opportunity to go back to my own family and I did. Eventually I was placed on probation in jr. high and violated the rules. I went to a juvenile facility a city. I excelled there as well. A year or so later I was released to my mother who managed to get all of her children back. Then as she started slipping into her old ways so did I and I ended up in jail. I was there four months keeping completely to myself. Then I got out and had no place to go so I moved in with a childhood friend I disowned for street rat associates.
I lived with him and his mom until I graduated high school two years behind my original class. By then things were going sour at the house between the three of us, partially because of the tension between the mom and I. We did some things we weren’t supposed to together. I graduated with flying colors if i may say so myself. I actually received a scholarship, lead a musical, and ended up in a great relationship with a teacher no less! But my life….what, who, why, how was I even here?! I hadn’t even thought of college, I didn’t know the way of the world, I had no idea how to be an adult.
My relationship with the girlfriend was adulterous and caused problems, I had no clear direction when I got to college and ended up flunking out. Spent that summer homeless most of the time and got back into the school only to get booted this time because I still had no idea what I was doing and got back into smoking and drinking! Now I have a little over 100$ in the bank and my rent is going to be due in a couple weeks along with utility bills and I have no job! On top of that 14k in debt for nothing! The relationship is rocky and she has two daughters, I always said to myself I’d become more than this for my own family and life and I intend to.
I am seriously F’d up right now!!! Someone please help me out?
I’m trying to stay positive but…
please bear with me
I’ve gotten where I am today because of the decisions I’ve made as a person. I’m 21 years old and I falling behind in the race of life. I’m not the son of parents of responsible natures and any noticeable work ethic. No, I’m the bastard son of an alcoholic woman who brought another five children into the welfare life. Ask statisticians and those with common sense where I’m most likely to end up. Of course I’m not without blame. I hashed out against the circumstances for most of my life only to worsen my own. I’ve been through a lot of stuff because of it.
I called the authorities on my abusive lifestyle in the 6th grade, my family was dispersed into foster care. I excelled in foster care. But then I was given the opportunity to go back to my own family and I did. Eventually I was placed on probation in jr. high and violated the rules. I went to a juvenile facility a city. I excelled there as well. A year or so later I was released to my mother who managed to get all of her children back. Then as she started slipping into her old ways so did I and I ended up in jail. I was there four months keeping completely to myself. Then I got out and had no place to go so I moved in with a childhood friend I disowned for street rat associates.
I lived with him and his mom until I graduated high school two years behind my original class. By then things were going sour at the house between the three of us, partially because of the tension between the mom and I. We did some things we weren’t supposed to together. I graduated with flying colors if i may say so myself. I actually received a scholarship, lead a musical, and ended up in a great relationship with a teacher no less! But my life….what, who, why, how was I even here?! I hadn’t even thought of college, I didn’t know the way of the world, I had no idea how to be an adult.
My relationship with the girlfriend was adulterous and caused problems, I had no clear direction when I got to college and ended up flunking out. Spent that summer homeless most of the time and got back into the school only to get booted this time because I still had no idea what I was doing and got back into smoking and drinking! Now I have a little over 100$ in the bank and my rent is going to be due in a couple weeks along with utility bills and I have no job! On top of that 14k in debt for nothing! The relationship is rocky and she has two daughters, I always said to myself I’d become more than this for my own family and life and I intend to.
I am seriously F’d up right now!!! Someone please help me out?
I already asked this question…but I need more opinions…from kids & parents.
-My son has gone to school high 3 times this week
-He brought alcohol onto school gronds and given it to his friends
-He has also skipped school after lunch everyday this week.
The principal just told me about all of this today and he told me my son would be suspended for 7 days.
I’m going to be working everyday in the next 7 days except Sunday.
How can I make sure he stays out of drugs, alcohol, etc while I’m gone.
KIDS & PARENTS: If you were in this situation (kids) how would you be punnished? and (parents) how would you punnish your child?
My 17 yr old son needs help badly..he is into drugs and alcohol and lies, steals etc..i have tried everything i know of to try but they all tell me since he is 17 that it’s his choice..he can leave home or whatever and has to sign himself in to a treatment center..my heart is breaking watching him spiral down out of control and not be able to do anything about it..any suggestions? im so scared for him.. also he has been diagnosed as bi-polar and refuses to take his meds..
He is an alcoholic who is not taking care of our children properly when in his care, his house is not liveable and is in filthy condition, he does not provide proper supervision for the children ages 10 and 13, he does not enforce any rules with them, or make my son take his adhd medication when he is there, among other things. He is almost always drunk when he is around them. My children need to be taken out of this bad situation and into my custody so that they can be well taken care of. I just don’t know where to start!!!
….take them in. Their father is a pot head and alcoholic and so is their step mother. They have lived a very volotile life, but because of the guidance of their grandmother, they are very good girls. However their grandmother’s husband wont let them stay with them.
Every child in my family, immediate and extended, have had great home lives and lots of opportunities except fo these young girls. They are 9th & 10th graders and a lot of responsibility I know, but I am willing to have them come live with me. I have an extra room in my house, except I don’t have a lot of extra money because I am a student and single parent. I can apply for AFDC for their expenses and that would be more than enough for their clothes, food, etc, and even some for a savings account for each.
My mother says I’m crazy for considering, but I really hate to see these young girls fall into the system. But I’m also worried about how it might affect my 5 year old son. I don’t know what to do…???
My son doesn’t want to stop his intake of alcohol. It’s getting really out of hand. I would like to get the help of an intervention specialist so that I may be able to do an intervention for my son. It might work wonders.
I grew up as the golden child of seven children, the favorite among all. My parents were dealing with an alcoholic adult son and a diliquent teenage son. Then, the alcoholic son got a girl pregnant and the other son had to be bailed out of jail. And guess what I did to twist the knife on my parents’ wounds? I accidentally got pregnant and didn’t marry. My father got cancer a few months later and then he died. Till this day, I feel like I had a lot to do with his death. I know I didn’t cause the cancer, but maybe he was so torn, disappointed, and worried about me and all of the other events that the whole thing blew up in his face. He was and still is one of my best friends, and I fear that I will be forever haunted that I broke his heart.
I am still with the father of the child (we went on to have another). It’s been almost six years and I’ve realized why my father was worried: the father of my children is not the one for me. Nobody in my huge family likes him and/or thinks he’s okay, but not the one for me. I really care about him, but he is very high strung and has emotional outbursts (he yells about things like temporarily using the dining table as a sewing table). I am on the verge of leaving, but I don’t have a job to support myself. I’ve applied to several jobs, but no luck so far. Any advice?
My son’s “father” is an alcoholic and he is mentally abusive. (He isn’t honest or stand by his word) I do not feel safe with my son there. I have since moved on and found a very good role model for my son. He’s hardworking, honest and genuinely loves my son and I. I NEED full custody in order to protect him. Please help me.
my friend Lauren and i are really trying to convince her sister Amanda not to name her daughter Crystal as her boyfriends last name is Meeth and her daughters name would be Crystal Meeth, would sounds and looks like Crystal Meth. She says she doesnt want to name her daughter anything else because ever since she was a little girl she has wanted to name her daughter Crystal if she had a girl and her son Kendall if she had a boy. What should we do? Her child will go through hell in school
so i became a mother at 15,and i didn’t realize what having child was at the moment i did it to please my boyfriend at the time who was 16 we had been together since i was12. after our son he became abusive and addicted to meth so i left him.he then moved t a diff rent state across the country.i then became a single mom at 15 i didn’t have help of my family,only my older sister who i lived with after i got kicked out by my parents when i became pregnant.yrs later my son is 3 and im only 18,and a month ago i got married to a man who i adore and who is wonderful to me and my son,me and my son now have a great life and home,ad i found out im expecting a child with my husband,i also barley graduated hschoolbut i wwasn’table to do what all the other seniors do and i wwasn’table to enjoy eeverything likeprom grad night graduation,,ETC, like my friends did.i now find myseld somewhat depressed i dont know what to do i feel like im going insane,i feel like i made horrible decisions i gave up everything for my son and i dont want to some how blame it on him later on although i know it was my choice to have him,because i love him more than anything.and i feel like escaping atleast for a day,what could i do??
for those who chose to be ride or judge me: i know it was my choice but i know my brain did not work likeit does now i never realized what having a child entitled as dumb as that may sound and of course i dont wwant my kid to follow in my footsteps,i only want advice on how to get my mind off of this or should i go to therapy??what is there to do??
she is on the run from the law and may go to jail and is drug Addict on meth wat do i need to get my twin sons from there grandfather im the bilogical father and want my sons
Okay so im writing a story about this girl that’s really messed up but hides it well. Her dad is an alcoholic and her mom died when she was nine. She puts on a fake smile for everyone because she thinks that if she shows her true self people won’t understand. Social services finds out her dad is abusing her and she is pulled her out of her home to live with another family. They are almost to perfect. She falls in love with their son, Liam.
Any suggestions? Thanks (:
I have a shocking true story could WYE ME about a boy that had a alcoholic mother with metal helf problems.
the boy is now 34 and happily married with 4 step kid and 2 of his own
He had cancer last year an has a 40% chance of dieing.
The family moved to a new home when the boy was 7 years old, and then the boys troubles started !
The boy had happy life until his mum became ill and started to drink heavily .
One day the boy came home from primary school to find his mum had taken a over dose she had try-ed to kill her self .
The boy panicked and did not now what to do as she lay motionless ,he tyred to wake her but she would not wake.up.
So he ran out in to the street crying and then knocked on a nab biers door for help .
The nubbier went with the boy to his house then the Lady rang 999 for a ambulance.and covert-ed the boy an till his father arrived.
When his dad got home he said to the boy she will be OK son ,as tears ran down his cheeks.
She in a special hospital ,meaning a mental hospital called Hill end, the boy did not under stand what was going on !
He felt scared and confused, all he wanted was his mum.
The next day the boy an his dad and big brother went to visit his mum at hill end mental hospital.
When the got there the the started to cry saying i don’t like this please daddy it was a old victor en building with scary people.
They went to reception and asked to see his mum ,so they waited until some one came to get them to take them to the ward.
They all went up along corridor it seamed to go on for ever and then up some stairs to to door with bars on the man unlocked the door and the first thing the boy saw was a old lady rocking and burping over and over and people walking up and down the ward talking to them self s.
The will never forget that day ,that day was start of the boys problems !
The mum has never recovered she is still very ill.
This has had a great impact on to boy life the family broke down and the boy started pulling his hair out .
his dad did not know what to do with the boy so he sent him to see a doctor and they did not know what was the mater with him.
At the age of nine the boy talk his first over does he talk his mum peels and ran away cry to the park thinking about his mum and wye is his life has got so bad now.
His father started to confide in the boy saying he dose not know what to do with mum, this was hard for the boy as he did not really understand or know what to say or do !
All the boy wanted was normal child hood and to be loved
.Things went wrong at school he could no think state and play up he was throne out
Things went from bad worst when he stated puberty, he started getting aggressive and fighting with his family ,he was fall off anger and his father could not cope with him and his mum ,so his father told him he has to go to boarding school .
Thing never worked out there and he was expelled age 13.
To cut along story short the boy left home age 14 he slept in a hag opiset his house for some time and a west Indian boy bro-rt him food this went on for some time an till the west Indian boys mum found out and talk him in .
the boy ended up in care not a nice please call Bridges he ran away to a place called farmstead and slept in a bus stop.
were he met Fred .
Fred lived in a foster home on a farm we became good Friends and i slept in the barn .
Fred had a hard life to so we got on well .
One day Fred and the boy started cutting there arms up, this felt good to them it realest all there stress an tent-ion.
(there so much more to tell about that time) they are still Friends to day
the boy ended up in hill end !!!! he was put to sleep for swearing again and again an-till he got Armand to the drug then he jumped throw the window and escaped
(so much more to tell)
some of
key points to cut to short
1 stabbed by father
2 flats he could not keep
4 first son
5 swots
6 drugs and self harming.
7 pub and club fighting
8 army
9 different home in different places
10 boxing with travellers and gasters and living on sites
11 Hill end
12 door man in London
13 lived with Fred’s mum she was hard work .had to look after her
14 went to lansaroty with tenner
15 drink mum
16 dads death
17 roses, Fred’s mums death the same week
18 inheritance from dad
19 marred the sister of Gail friend and had a baby boy could Tommy
20 now living with happily marred and and he has 40% of dieing from cancer
Yes that’s me, my Friends said it would make a good book can i have your expert pinyin please if poss .
be on-est
kind regards lee
lthotstuff2006@btinternet.com
In october my fiance’s EX (babymomma) hid her pregnancy had a child Little did we know she was on crystal meth Her son and her both tested positive for crystal. CPS took her son away and gave temp custody to HER mom. since the custody was 50/50 with my fiance and his EX, CPS called him to come get his daughter or she would be in the care fo CPS. He got her and hte court granted temp full custody.in November they went back to court,she was a no show and they granted my fiance full custody. Court said If she completeed 6 months of rehab she can go and see if she can get visitation. Its been 6 months and still not complete. We would let her go to her grandmas house since the Ex was not allowed near the boy. and we trusted the grandmna and took her word. We just found out the Ex moved in witht he mom and they tried hiding it from us and tellin the lil girl to not tell us. well she did. we plan on cutting ties but what are the gmoms rights? also the mom getting visitation or custody?
Mind you we have a 2 bedroom apt VERY nice with just him, myself, my daughter and her. The EX lives in a run down 2 bedroom apt with like seriously 7 people living there. HSe has not completed her treatment… but if she goes to court what are her chances?
i also want to adopt her,, she calls me mommy and im the one that cares for her and lives with. How do i go about in doing that?
