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My son ran away 7 years ago (i know i keep sending this i havent seen my son in 7 yr?
My son ran away 7 years ago?
7 years ago my son ran away with his girlfriend at 16. They have been best friends since preschool. When they were 16, i caught them having sex and drinking alcohol. so i kicked her out of the house. about a few hours later, the girlfriends parents called saying there daughter ran away. that was the last time i heard from them. seven years later my daughter started yelling at me saying that my brother and his girlfriend are on tv. my son was on tv as a LA detective and with his girlfriend, as his wife. i just dont understand how my son could get married and and become a police detective and being a alcoholic without my input. i just dont think he is ready for such a change and i think i still need to care for him, hes still my son.

i know i already sent this. i dont care if you believe this or not,it is true, i just want som advice should i trace him and surprise him, he left at 16, and i feel i should try to still raise him
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i know it was him, because his name was on the screen

Im worried about my baby boy being a detective and a husbend in his twenties

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My mum was in a 20year marriage with my physically abusive,alcoholic,drug addict father and after four years of being single shes in a serious relationship with a alcoholic with his son and family bringing nothing but more problems and his verbally abusive. Why does she put up with this? No her Bfriend now wouldn’t do anything ‘bad’ if she did leave him. Its not as bad as it was with my dad. But her Bfriend is the nicest guy in the world when sober but a totally horrible nob when drunk(his drunk most of the time)!? Why does she put up with him after 20 years wasted with my dad?

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So my mom’s had MS for the past 20 years and she’s in her mid fifties now. She takes good care of herself, except for her marijuana use, but her judgment has been waning over the years.

Her sister lives across the street and she’s a notorious alcoholic. Her son stole 5k from my mom last year (now he’s in jail). But my mom’s always turned a blind eye to my aunt’s alcoholism, defending her from the family.

The problem is that I don’t TRUST my aunt and think she’s trying to take advantage (financially, emotionally) of my mom. I wish she would just disappear. She always says she stopped drinking but it’s obviously a lie to me.

I act cordial with her, but that’s because I don’t want to upset my mom. And according to my mom, my aunt talks negatively about me sometimes behind my back, saying I’m a mama’s boy or a big introvert whatever and that’s why I don’t have a better job. Problem is I have a lot going on too and don’t have time to babysit my mom. How can I keep a safe distance and intervene when necessary?

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my son who is 28 banged his knee on a four wheeler and has an open gash that is deep. It looks like you can see the bone. He won’t go to the hospital to get stitches so I’m trying to figure out the best way to tend to it at home. He poured alcohol on it an then put antibacterial ointment on it with a bandage. I’ve told him not to use alcohol and though he should put ice on it to keep swelling down.

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Help….I have two children age 19 and 11 from a previous marriage. My children and I left 6 years ago after their Father got “hooked” on meth. Since then, they have a very little, if any contact with their family on his side. (They have a step-father and he wants to adopt my 11 year old) The last time my 19 year old had contact with his G’ma she needed help cleaning out the house we use to live in (with their father) and my son found meth making ingredients in a cooler. He pointed it out to his G’ma and she put it in her trunk and left with it. Of course, my son (who was 16 at the time) did not tell me this until about 6 months later. This woman has supported her son and his drugs from day one and still thinks he has no problem even though he is now serving a 10 year prison term. Okay, here is my problem: We have found out she has lost her house and is moving into the small town we are living in and is also bring my ex’s drugged out girlfriend who right after our divorce spit at and burned my daughter with a cigerette at a funeral we attended. She has had nothing to do with my 11 year old daughter and I am thankful for that, but now she and the girlfriend has started driving by, trying to follow my daughter and my daughter is scared of them. My daughter says she wants nothing to do with them, she is embarressed and now worries that people are going to think off her different because her Dad is in jail. This has never been an issue with her before. I think since the G’ma is in town and driving by it is bring up the issue. I hate that this has happened to my children and I have always been truthful with them about the situation with their Father, and they have seemed to deal with it pretty well. What should I do? Should I confront them and tell them to stay away…Which I am scared that will turn real ugly…I do not want my daughter hurt or scared, but I do not know how to go about it? Help???

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so me and my husband have been married for almost two years. when I met him he had a drinking problem. when I got married and got pregnant things only got worse. long nights of sitting up when he wouldn’t come home since he was out at bars with his friends, money missing, coming home from work to a passed out husband, it has been a long road. last summer we had split up after he had left to supposively go to iowa where his mother is to look for work and got incacerated after 2 days of being there for public intox. at that time I had made up my mind and told myself i was done! well six months went by and he started doing good. i talked to him everyday and he got a job and started sending money and i let him come back home. since january he hasn’t drank but I could never give hima fresh start and always brought up the past. his dad who is an alcoholic is on person though I never trusted him around becuase he just was a bad influence on him and I knew what would happen. well off of a sudden he started sneaking around my back and started talking to him and having him meet him up at his work. I would get mad and we’d fight, so bad that I’d even come up to his work starting things. I just never trusted him and couldn’t let the past go. well come to find out my husband started talking to another girl and I’d hear accusations that he was wanting to leave me, that he just couldn’t take the fighting anymore. I just had a hard time, to me I felt I gave you all this time to straighten up and over the years I took so much emotional abuse that my mind was so messed up and I just couldn’t trust him, where was my time?? well my mom and dad start hearing the accusations and I begin to hear more and more that he just wasn’t in to me and didn’t want to be with me so we split up. 2 months has went by and he is now begging me to give him another chance and to try to work things out if I can give him that fresh start but I just don’t know what to say? all these accusations that were made, my parents hate him! how could it ever work,could they ever forgive him?? we are getting divorced no matter what, but what can I say to him. he calls me crying everyday, he sends money to help support our daughter, he isn’t drinking, nor is he trying to see anyone else right now. I also don’t know what was true, al these accusations of things he supposively said and did, I feel like how could he do this after so much I went through with him and tried to be there and stay with him. I just don’t know, so far all I told him is that right now we should be friends. since we spilt up I had to move back in with my parents and if they even had a clue I was talking to him they would probably disown me as their daughter and want us out! I can’t jeopardize a roof over my head right now nor my relationship with them… I’m just so confused and son’t know where to go from here????

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so me and my husband have been married for almost two years. when I met him he had a drinking problem. when I got married and got pregnant things only got worse. long nights of sitting up when he wouldn’t come home since he was out at bars with his friends, money missing, coming home from work to a passed out husband, it has been a long road. last summer we had split up after he had left to supposively go to iowa where his mother is to look for work and got incacerated after 2 days of being there for public intox. at that time I had made up my mind and told myself i was done! well six months went by and he started doing good. i talked to him everyday and he got a job and started sending money and i let him come back home. since january he hasn’t drank but I could never give hima fresh start and always brought up the past. his dad who is an alcoholic is on person though I never trusted him around becuase he just was a bad influence on him and I knew what would happen. well off of a sudden he started sneaking around my back and started talking to him and having him meet him up at his work. I would get mad and we’d fight, so bad that I’d even come up to his work starting things. I just never trusted him and couldn’t let the past go. well come to find out my husband started talking to another girl and I’d hear accusations that he was wanting to leave me, that he just couldn’t take the fighting anymore. I just had a hard time, to me I felt I gave you all this time to straighten up and over the years I took so much emotional abuse that my mind was so messed up and I just couldn’t trust him, where was my time?? well my mom and dad start hearing the accusations and I begin to hear more and more that he just wasn’t in to me and didn’t want to be with me so we split up. 2 months has went by and he is now begging me to give him another chance and to try to work things out if I can give him that fresh start but I just don’t know what to say? all these accusations that were made, my parents hate him! how could it ever work,could they ever forgive him?? we are getting divorced no matter what, but what can I say to him. he calls me crying everyday, he sends money to help support our daughter, he isn’t drinking, nor is he trying to see anyone else right now. I also don’t know what was true, al these accusations of things he supposively said and did, I feel like how could he do this after so much I went through with him and tried to be there and stay with him. I just don’t know, so far all I told him is that right now we should be friends. since we spilt up I had to move back in with my parents and if they even had a clue I was talking to him they would probably disown me as their daughter and want us out! I can’t jeopardize a roof over my head right now nor my relationship with them… I’m just so confused and son’t know where to go from here????

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so me and my husband have been married for almost two years. when I met him he had a drinking problem. when I got married and got pregnant things only got worse. long nights of sitting up when he wouldn’t come home since he was out at bars with his friends, money missing, coming home from work to a passed out husband, it has been a long road. last summer we had split up after he had left to supposively go to iowa where his mother is to look for work and got incacerated after 2 days of being there for public intox. at that time I had made up my mind and told myself i was done! well six months went by and he started doing good. i talked to him everyday and he got a job and started sending money and i let him come back home. since january he hasn’t drank but I could never give hima fresh start and always brought up the past. his dad who is an alcoholic is on person though I never trusted him around becuase he just was a bad influence on him and I knew what would happen. well off of a sudden he started sneaking around my back and started talking to him and having him meet him up at his work. I would get mad and we’d fight, so bad that I’d even come up to his work starting things. I just never trusted him and couldn’t let the past go. well come to find out my husband started talking to another girl and I’d hear accusations that he was wanting to leave me, that he just couldn’t take the fighting anymore. I just had a hard time, to me I felt I gave you all this time to straighten up and over the years I took so much emotional abuse that my mind was so messed up and I just couldn’t trust him, where was my time?? well my mom and dad start hearing the accusations and I begin to hear more and more that he just wasn’t in to me and didn’t want to be with me so we split up. 2 months has went by and he is now begging me to give him another chance and to try to work things out if I can give him that fresh start but I just don’t know what to say? all these accusations that were made, my parents hate him! how could it ever work,could they ever forgive him?? we are getting divorced no matter what, but what can I say to him. he calls me crying everyday, he sends money to help support our daughter, he isn’t drinking, nor is he trying to see anyone else right now. I also don’t know what was true, al these accusations of things he supposively said and did, I feel like how could he do this after so much I went through with him and tried to be there and stay with him. I just don’t know, so far all I told him is that right now we should be friends. since we spilt up I had to move back in with my parents and if they even had a clue I was talking to him they would probably disown me as their daughter and want us out! I can’t jeopardize a roof over my head right now nor my relationship with them… I’m just so confused and son’t know where to go from here????

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so me and my husband have been married for almost two years. when I met him he had a drinking problem. when I got married and got pregnant things only got worse. long nights of sitting up when he wouldn’t come home since he was out at bars with his friends, money missing, coming home from work to a passed out husband, it has been a long road. last summer we had split up after he had left to supposively go to iowa where his mother is to look for work and got incacerated after 2 days of being there for public intox. at that time I had made up my mind and told myself i was done! well six months went by and he started doing good. i talked to him everyday and he got a job and started sending money and i let him come back home. since january he hasn’t drank but I could never give hima fresh start and always brought up the past. his dad who is an alcoholic is on person though I never trusted him around becuase he just was a bad influence on him and I knew what would happen. well off of a sudden he started sneaking around my back and started talking to him and having him meet him up at his work. I would get mad and we’d fight, so bad that I’d even come up to his work starting things. I just never trusted him and couldn’t let the past go. well come to find out my husband started talking to another girl and I’d hear accusations that he was wanting to leave me, that he just couldn’t take the fighting anymore. I just had a hard time, to me I felt I gave you all this time to straighten up and over the years I took so much emotional abuse that my mind was so messed up and I just couldn’t trust him, where was my time?? well my mom and dad start hearing the accusations and I begin to hear more and more that he just wasn’t in to me and didn’t want to be with me so we split up. 2 months has went by and he is now begging me to give him another chance and to try to work things out if I can give him that fresh start but I just don’t know what to say? all these accusations that were made, my parents hate him! how could it ever work,could they ever forgive him?? we are getting divorced no matter what, but what can I say to him. he calls me crying everyday, he sends money to help support our daughter, he isn’t drinking, nor is he trying to see anyone else right now. I also don’t know what was true, al these accusations of things he supposively said and did, I feel like how could he do this after so much I went through with him and tried to be there and stay with him. I just don’t know, so far all I told him is that right now we should be friends. since we spilt up I had to move back in with my parents and if they even had a clue I was talking to him they would probably disown me as their daughter and want us out! I can’t jeopardize a roof over my head right now nor my relationship with them… I’m just so confused and son’t know where to go from here???? he has made so many promises in the past and broke everyone of them!!!

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home today and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home yesterday and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home yesterday and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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My son started school the 24th and he has started to become very irritated and agitated and just plain moody. He has been getting maybe 30mins of sleep a night if that. Nothing works to help him sleep melatonin lunesta nothing seems to help it. And when he comes home he goes straight to his room and more or less locks himself in there away from the entire family. I am not sure what to do my son and I have a very very close bond and he has always told me everything. But now he has shut himself down to me and everything. I am at a lose with him.He has not had that much homework so far it is just some Syllabuses that i have had to sign and some worksheets. And he is a junior in high school. He is on the track and swim team. And he does have a girlfriend has had the same one since he was 12. I am not sure if my son is sexually active or not to tell you the truth. But for some reason it would not surprise me. And i highly doubt drugs are involved because my son went to Alaska over the summer for vacation. And he chose to come back early because his cousins were doing pot and meth. Well anyways he got home yesterday and went to his room and i went in to talk to him and he just started to sob and i asked him what was wrong and he just blurted out that his girlfriend is pregnant. And that she wants to keep it and he feels so overwhelmed and stressed and he is not sure what to do. What can i do to help? How do i help in something like this? I am glad she is keeping it to be honest because not mater how i feel that baby is my grandchild and i would never feel right them giving him or her to someone else.

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Hey i’m tellin u right now that thiz ain’t a question..i dedicate this song 2 all the ladies who really needed respect…hit it..
Artist: 2Pac
Album: Strictly 4 My N.I.G.G.A.Z.
Song: Keep Ya Head Up
Typed by: OHHLA Webmaster DJ Flash

Little somethin for my godson Elijah and a little girl named Corinne

[Verse One]
Some say the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice
I say the darker the flesh then the deeper the roots
I give a holler to my sisters on welfare
Tupac cares, if don’t nobody else care
And uhh, I know they like to beat ya down a lot
When you come around the block brothas clown a lot
But please don’t cry, dry your eyes, never let up
Forgive but don’t forget, girl keep your head up
And when he tells you you ain’t nuttin don’t believe him
And if he can’t learn to love you you should leave him
Cause sista you don’t need him
And I ain’t tryin to gas ya up, I just call em how I see em
You know it makes me unhappy (what’s that)
When brothas make babies, and leave a young mother to be a pappy
And since we all came from a woman
Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman
I wonder why we take from our women
Why we rape our women, do we hate our women?
I think it’s time to kill for our women
Time to heal our women, be real to our women
And if we don’t we’ll have a race of babies
That will hate the ladies, that make the babies
And since a man can’t make one
He has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one
So will the real men get up
I know you’re fed up ladies, but keep your head up

[Chorus - repeat 2X]
Keep ya head up, oooo child things are gonna get easier
ooooo child things are gonna get brighter

[Verse Two]
Aiyyo, I remember Marvin Gaye, used to sing ta me
He had me feelin like black was tha thing to be
And suddenly tha ghetto didn’t seem so tough
And though we had it rough, we always had enough
I huffed and puffed about my curfew and broke the rules
Ran with the local crew, and had a smoke or two
And I realize momma really paid the price
She nearly gave her life, to raise me right
And all I had ta give her was my pipe dream
Of how I’d rock the mic, and make it to tha bright screen
I’m tryin to make a dollar out of fifteen cents
It’s hard to be legit and still pay tha rent
And in the end it seems I’m headin for tha pen
I try and find my friends, but they’re blowin in the wind
Last night my buddy lost his whole family
It’s gonna take the man in me to conquer this insanity
It seems tha rain’ll never let up
I try to keep my head up, and still keep from gettin wet up
You know it’s funny when it rains it pours
They got money for wars, but can’t feed the poor
Say there ain’t no hope for the youth and the truth is
it ain’t no hope for tha future
And then they wonder why we crazy
I blame my mother, for turning my brother into a crack baby
We ain’t meant to survive, cause it’s a setup
And even though you’re fed up
Huh, ya got to keep your head up

[Chorus]

[Verse Three]
And uhh
To all the ladies havin babies on they own
I know it’s kinda rough and you’re feelin all alone
Daddy’s long gone and he left you by ya lonesome
Thank the Lord for my kids, even if nobody else want em
Cause I think we can make it, in fact, I’m sure
And if you fall, stand tall and comeback for more
Cause ain’t nuttin worse than when your son
wants to kno why his daddy don’t love him no mo’
You can’t complain you was dealt this
hell of a hand without a man, feelin helpless
Because there’s too many things for you to deal with
Dying inside, but outside you’re looking fearless
While tears, is rollin down your cheeks
Ya steady hopin things don’t all down this week
Cause if it did, you couldn’t take it, and don’t blame me
I was given this world I didn’t make it
And now my son’s getten older and older and cold
From havin the world on his shoulders
While the rich kids is drivin Benz
I’m still tryin to hold on to my survivin friends
And it’s crazy, it seems it’ll never let up, but
please… you got to keep your head up

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She is a severe alcoholic and severely abused and at times outright abandoned my husband and his 7 siblings. The only thing that has changed since then is her alcohol problem has gotten worse. I have a strong close family and don’t always feel okay with not allowing our son around her. The two times he has seen her have been extremely negative experiences for us. He is just a baby and she is so mean to him with her actions and language. She gave him her dog’s toy with slobber all over it for him to play with. Her house is covered in animal feces and pee. As far as allowing her in my home, its out of the question because of her drunken and sober lashings towards me. She has told the whole family my son isn’t my husband’s and its completely false. She doesn’t know we had to see a fertility specialist for a year just to have our son. Help anyone. I just need to know if we are being fair. I don’t want to enable her and her drinking.

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My ex-husband is an alcoholic and I’m scared that my son would turn into one also. So, I’m looking for organizations or societies that might us be informed about alcoholism. I don’t want my son to be like his father. I want him to realize the consequences of abusing alcohol so that he would try to stay away from it. Please help me. I want to save my son.

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