http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com We will help your son fight his addcitions! Sun, 09 Oct 2011 21:24:18 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/sons-father-went-to-jail-after-assaulting-me-i-moved-with-the-baby-he-is-being-released-next-week/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/sons-father-went-to-jail-after-assaulting-me-i-moved-with-the-baby-he-is-being-released-next-week/#comments Wed, 13 Apr 2011 22:25:44 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/sons-father-went-to-jail-after-assaulting-me-i-moved-with-the-baby-he-is-being-released-next-week/ My sons father is a criminal, addicted to meth, and assaulted me in my home while I had the baby in my arms. I called the police they took him to jail for warrants out of another county. I didnt pursue the charges but did file a report…I know I was an idiot, but was just happy that he would be in jail for what I thought was a couple of years. Boy was I wrong, he only served 3 months in jail, he is due out next week. My son and I moved after the assault….will I be in trouble for moving? He doesnt know our address and frankly, Im worried if he knows where I am living he will come back and this time things will be worse. We have a case with the TX attorney General, he is 15 grand behind on child support, the papers state I have to give him my address and contact number for the baby…..What do I do? Attorney I spoke to is wanting a 3500.00 retainer fee, legal aid wont help because they claim I am above the income level….Im freaking out here! It’s too late to pick the assalt charge up….I’ve already checked….

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/sons-father-went-to-jail-after-assaulting-me-i-moved-with-the-baby-he-is-being-released-next-week/feed/ 3 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-to-explain-to-a-4-year-old-that-his-daddy-is-in-jail/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-to-explain-to-a-4-year-old-that-his-daddy-is-in-jail/#comments Mon, 11 Apr 2011 07:26:08 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-to-explain-to-a-4-year-old-that-his-daddy-is-in-jail/ I live with my current husband, and we have a stable lifestyle. My son is currently on a joint custody arrangement. His real dad was arrested about 3 weeks ago on DUI w/child endangerment (my son was in the car, he is 4 years old), and other charges such as driving on a suspended license, probation violations related to a 2005 domestic violence charge against me, for which he never completed classes, etc………. I want to petition the court to grant me full custody, but I don’t know WHICH forms to fill out (any help for CA?) and also, what to say to my son?
I tried to tell him that daddy was “sick” and was getting some help (he is a 25+ year cocaine addict much more than alcohol) and my son asked “Is my daddy going to die?” and then every time he sees a cop now he asks “Are the police protecting my daddy?” as he knows they are there to “Protect the city”…………… my ex goes to court 11/20, but this is NOT his first stint, this is like his 3rd DUI (but I think only 2nd in 10 years so the other may have fallen off), and he has had a suspended license forever…………….
I am at the point where I want to get sole custody at LEAST, if not have him adopted by my current husband, but part of me wants to give his real dad one more chance. I’m just not sure how to explain to my son what it is that is going on and why daddy is not around………….

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-to-explain-to-a-4-year-old-that-his-daddy-is-in-jail/feed/ 6 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/would-you-ask-your-son-to-leave-your-home-after-getting-out-of-jail-rehab-he-makes-me-nervous/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/would-you-ask-your-son-to-leave-your-home-after-getting-out-of-jail-rehab-he-makes-me-nervous/#comments Sun, 03 Apr 2011 01:24:16 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/would-you-ask-your-son-to-leave-your-home-after-getting-out-of-jail-rehab-he-makes-me-nervous/ My 27 yr.old son has been struggling w/drugs & alcohol for 8 years. He had a great job & was very responsible up until last year when he walked away from his job; sold everything,and ended up in jail where later the Judge ordered him into a Rehab. Facility – which he has been to several with no success. He has been living with me now for 2 weeks & no attempts to get a job. I’m disabled on a fixed budget yet he needs to be driven to many places to keep him from violating his probation. I’m nervous around him & he has changed. Yet he has had no urge to do drugs. He say’s he is full of fear. He has no place else to go & if I do ask him to leave he will inevitably end up back in jail or doing drugs again. I’m torn. I seem to worry more than he does about food & having money for gas. I know what he is capable of doing when it comes to work ethics; people love him. Should I be silent & let him work his demons out or stay on his butt to go get a job & get his own place?

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/would-you-ask-your-son-to-leave-your-home-after-getting-out-of-jail-rehab-he-makes-me-nervous/feed/ 8 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-6/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-6/#comments Mon, 17 Jan 2011 07:24:43 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-6/ My friend has an alcoholic mother who has had three D.U.I’s in the past 4 years. Not only is she an alcoholic but she treats my best friend, her 17 year old son, absolutely horribly. Today she was screaming at him, got in his face, tried to hit him and he held her back. She slammed her self on the wall to make bruises and say that HE was the one who hit her. My friend took his cell phone and hit record as she was screaming at him and while it was recording she said “I’m going to kill you, hide your body in the woods, and turn you in as a missing person.” Later tonight my friend went to church and let his youth pastor listen to this and he called the cops on her. She got arrested. Considering this situation, how long should she be in jail?

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-6/feed/ 7 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-5/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-5/#comments Sun, 16 Jan 2011 10:21:51 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-5/ My friend has an alcoholic mother who has had three D.U.I’s in the past 4 years. Not only is she an alcoholic but she treats my best friend, her 17 year old son, absolutely horribly. Today she was screaming at him, got in his face, tried to hit him and he held her back. She slammed her self on the wall to make bruises and say that HE was the one who hit her. My friend took his cell phone and hit record as she was screaming at him and while it was recording she said “I’m going to kill you, hide your body in the woods, and turn you in as a missing person.” Later tonight my friend went to church and let his youth pastor listen to this and he called the cops on her. She got arrested. Considering this situation, how long should she be in jail?

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-5/feed/ 7 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-4/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-4/#comments Sat, 15 Jan 2011 13:22:48 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-4/ My friend has an alcoholic mother who has had three D.U.I’s in the past 4 years. Not only is she an alcoholic but she treats my best friend, her 17 year old son, absolutely horribly. Today she was screaming at him, got in his face, tried to hit him and he held her back. She slammed her self on the wall to make bruises and say that HE was the one who hit her. My friend took his cell phone and hit record as she was screaming at him and while it was recording she said “I’m going to kill you, hide your body in the woods, and turn you in as a missing person.” Later tonight my friend went to church and let his youth pastor listen to this and he called the cops on her. She got arrested. Considering this situation, how long should she be in jail?

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-4/feed/ 7 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-3/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-3/#comments Fri, 31 Dec 2010 16:19:12 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-3/ My friend has an alcoholic mother who has had three D.U.I’s in the past 4 years. Not only is she an alcoholic but she treats my best friend, her 17 year old son, absolutely horribly. Today she was screaming at him, got in his face, tried to hit him and he held her back. She slammed her self on the wall to make bruises and say that HE was the one who hit her. My friend took his cell phone and hit record as she was screaming at him and while it was recording she said “I’m going to kill you, hide your body in the woods, and turn you in as a missing person.” Later tonight my friend went to church and let his youth pastor listen to this and he called the cops on her. She got arrested. Considering this situation, how long should she be in jail?

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time-3/feed/ 7 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time/#comments Wed, 29 Dec 2010 07:19:40 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time/ My friend has an alcoholic mother who has had three D.U.I’s in the past 4 years. Not only is she an alcoholic but she treats my best friend, her 17 year old son, absolutely horribly. Today she was screaming at him, got in his face, tried to hit him and he held her back. She slammed her self on the wall to make bruises and say that HE was the one who hit her. My friend took his cell phone and hit record as she was screaming at him and while it was recording she said “I’m going to kill you, hide your body in the woods, and turn you in as a missing person.” Later tonight my friend went to church and let his youth pastor listen to this and he called the cops on her. She got arrested. Considering this situation, how long should she be in jail?

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/saying-shes-going-to-kill-her-son-how-much-jail-time/feed/ 7 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-sondaughters-dads-in-jail-2/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-sondaughters-dads-in-jail-2/#comments Tue, 28 Dec 2010 04:26:05 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-sondaughters-dads-in-jail-2/ My boyfriend for the last 2 years went to jail the other day for meth. Well it was for not seeing his pot for a Heroin Charge. He has been addicted to Heroin for 3 years. In and out for treatment I would say like 5 times and this is only his 2nd time in jail. He is looking at 80 days to 8 months.I Am Now Pregnant with his kid he has one son who is 3 his ex died in a car crash so now we are both careing for him and I’m not sure what to tell our 3year old. he is very close to him and wondering where he is. What should I tell Him???
he asks for his DAD everyday tho he’s like mommy when is daddy coming home also i am going for custidy of his son because i dont think its right for him growing up around his father his father is setting a way bad example for him!!!
iv been with him since his ex died ( my bfs son) and hes been doing drugs since he hasnt changed he leaves his son with people i dont even know that he meets at work (other girls) i dont like that at all he doesnt even spend enough time with his son he’s always out partying or doing drugs

]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-sondaughters-dads-in-jail-2/feed/ 6 http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-sondaughters-dads-in-jail/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-sondaughters-dads-in-jail/#comments Mon, 27 Dec 2010 07:26:59 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-sondaughters-dads-in-jail/ My boyfriend for the last 2 years went to jail the other day for meth. Well it was for not seeing his pot for a Heroin Charge. He has been addicted to Heroin for 3 years. In and out for treatment I would say like 5 times and this is only his 2nd time in jail. He is looking at 80 days to 8 months.I Am Now Pregnant with his kid he has one son who is 3 his ex died in a car crash so now we are both careing for him and I’m not sure what to tell our 3year old. he is very close to him and wondering where he is. What should I tell Him???
he asks for his DAD everyday tho he’s like mommy when is daddy coming home also i am going for custidy of his son because i dont think its right for him growing up around his father his father is setting a way bad example for him!!!
iv been with him since his ex died ( my bfs son) and hes been doing drugs since he hasnt changed he leaves his son with people i dont even know that he meets at work (other girls) i dont like that at all he doesnt even spend enough time with his son he’s always out partying or doing drugs

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