How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

I know that a lot of innocent children are harmed during the making of coke, but to think that cocaine is getting profit out of their teeth is just wrong and makes my feet warm. How are we supposed to protect our children if propane is making profit out of both cocaine and coca cola and the only ones to thank for gas is the children? I’m assuming this is why we’re supposed to tell our kids the tooth fairy exists, so we can give their teeth for coca cola’s cocaine, but how do they get it? I guess the general question is me wondering if cocaine is made out of children’s teeth and if this can be prevented by telling them the truth about the tooth fairy. My son is fifteen now and I think he’s getting suspiscious, I had to take him out of school because his friends were telling him that the tooth fairy wasen’t real, and I’m not going to let my bills pay for what cocaine is doing to our children!

This is for all the parents out there who don’t want Coca Cola being the new Google!

I have 3 biological sisters (all different fathers) however the oldest one and myself were left with my maternal grandmother when I was an infant so my mother could be with her “soul mate.” Because of that we grew up knowing our Grandparents as our Mom & Dad. My sister always went back and forth because she used guilt to get what she wanted from our mother and pity from our grandparents. I never felt the need to do this because from the time I came home from the hospital, my grandparents cared for me and my aunts & uncles saw me as their baby sister rather than a niece. In 2008 our grandparents died, and I felt like no one really understood me because well, they were my only parents and I couldn’t just go to my mother as if nothing had ever happened between us. My sister married @ 17, and after 13 years of marriage, she had an affair and as a result became pregnant and passed the child (my nephew) as her husbands kid. We all advised her to NOT do this but being the selfish person she is, she only thought of herself. After 3 years she left him to be with another man (who was also married) and her first husband is the primary caregiver of a child that he did not father. She immediately had a second child then a third. I love her kids to death and will do anything for them… BUT I feel like she uses her kids to get what she wants from everyone. My mother is very passive, and does not want to talk or even have any one of us bring up anything negative about my sister who is also a drug addict and over all bad mother. Finally after years of having to come to her rescue I’ve decided enough is enough. The straw that broke the camels back was on Wednesday when my daughter and I are at wal-mart and receive a call from the daycare center she sends the soon to be 1 yr old baby girl. Mind you that she nor her “man” work but still send all three kids to daycare. Anyway, the daycare (who provides transportation) calls me (her emergency contact) because there will be no transportation and they tried contacting her but the number was no longer working, and they needed someone to pick up the baby because they were about to close. I call her and the number IS working, I call our mother and as always she gives excuses (maybe she’s in the shower/asleep/outside etc.) Finally I just decide to go pick up the baby and take her home. As I pull up to the daycare my sister calls me and says “Were you calling me?” At this point I’m furious and I let her know what’s going on… all she says is “Okay” I pick up the baby and take her to my sisters house. I am greeted by an uncle, and as I make my way up the steps, my sister comes out with her hair in a towel and attempts to take the baby only to make her cry. I ask her why her “man” never answered the phone when we were calling and she says “The daycare doesn’t even have this number so we didn’t know they weren’t bringing her home” All I can think of is “WHO THE HELL DOES THAT… NOT GIVE A CURRENT NUMBER TO THOSE WHO ARE CARING FOR YOUR CHILDREN????” I told her that next time I get a call for her not picking up the baby I’m going to call CPS and take her kids from her. I talk to my mother about this and she will change the conversation. IDK WTF to do with them… I can’t reason with them, I’m a bad person for wanting to call CPS, and I most definitely can’t get them to see why my sister is wrong for being such a lazy b:tch.
Sorry it’s so long.
My Mother is involved because she, my step-father, our uncle and a number of other people are all helping her raise her kids. This is what I mean when I say that she uses the kids to get what she wants. My mother is ALWAYS there to pick up the pieces when my sister screws up. They buy her pampers, clothes for the kids, gave her furniture when she moved to her new place etc. Idk if my mother does this out of guilt or what but everyone knows my sister as an ungrateful moocher who can’t stand on her own two feet. I don’t want her kids to end up in foster care because I know what it does to kids having adopted two myself. If I knew that CPS would guarantee me that the kids would come with me I would do it and proudly tell her it was me.

I have 3 biological sisters (all different fathers) however the oldest one and myself were left with my maternal grandmother when I was an infant so my mother could be with her “soul mate.” Because of that we grew up knowing our Grandparents as our Mom & Dad. My sister always went back and forth because she used guilt to get what she wanted from our mother and pity from our grandparents. I never felt the need to do this because from the time I came home from the hospital, my grandparents cared for me and my aunts & uncles saw me as their baby sister rather than a niece. In 2008 our grandparents died, and I felt like no one really understood me because well, they were my only parents and I couldn’t just go to my mother as if nothing had ever happened between us. My sister married @ 17, and after 13 years of marriage, she had an affair and as a result became pregnant and passed the child (my nephew) as her husbands kid. We all advised her to NOT do this but being the selfish person she is, she only thought of herself. After 3 years she left him to be with another man (who was also married) and her first husband is the primary caregiver of a child that he did not father. She immediately had a second child then a third. I love her kids to death and will do anything for them… BUT I feel like she uses her kids to get what she wants from everyone. My mother is very passive, and does not want to talk or even have any one of us bring up anything negative about my sister who is also a drug addict and over all bad mother. Finally after years of having to come to her rescue I’ve decided enough is enough. The straw that broke the camels back was on Wednesday when my daughter and I are at wal-mart and receive a call from the daycare center she sends the soon to be 1 yr old baby girl. Mind you that she nor her “man” work but still send all three kids to daycare. Anyway, the daycare (who provides transportation) calls me (her emergency contact) because there will be no transportation and they tried contacting her but the number was no longer working, and they needed someone to pick up the baby because they were about to close. I call her and the number IS working, I call our mother and as always she gives excuses (maybe she’s in the shower/asleep/outside etc.) Finally I just decide to go pick up the baby and take her home. As I pull up to the daycare my sister calls me and says “Were you calling me?” At this point I’m furious and I let her know what’s going on… all she says is “Okay” I pick up the baby and take her to my sisters house. I am greeted by an uncle, and as I make my way up the steps, my sister comes out with her hair in a towel and attempts to take the baby only to make her cry. I ask her why her “man” never answered the phone when we were calling and she says “The daycare doesn’t even have this number so we didn’t know they weren’t bringing her home” All I can think of is “WHO THE HELL DOES THAT… NOT GIVE A CURRENT NUMBER TO THOSE WHO ARE CARING FOR YOUR CHILDREN????” I told her that next time I get a call for her not picking up the baby I’m going to call CPS and take her kids from her. I talk to my mother about this and she will change the conversation. IDK WTF to do with them… I can’t reason with them, I’m a bad person for wanting to call CPS, and I most definitely can’t get them to see why my sister is wrong for being such a lazy b:tch.
Sorry it’s so long.
My Mother is involved because she, my step-father, our uncle and a number of other people are all helping her raise her kids. This is what I mean when I say that she uses the kids to get what she wants. My mother is ALWAYS there to pick up the pieces when my sister screws up. They buy her pampers, clothes for the kids, gave her furniture when she moved to her new place etc. Idk if my mother does this out of guilt or what but everyone knows my sister as an ungrateful moocher who can’t stand on her own two feet. I don’t want her kids to end up in foster care because I know what it does to kids having adopted two myself. If I knew that CPS would guarantee me that the kids would come with me I would do it and proudly tell her it was me.

I have 3 biological sisters (all different fathers) however the oldest one and myself were left with my maternal grandmother when I was an infant so my mother could be with her “soul mate.” Because of that we grew up knowing our Grandparents as our Mom & Dad. My sister always went back and forth because she used guilt to get what she wanted from our mother and pity from our grandparents. I never felt the need to do this because from the time I came home from the hospital, my grandparents cared for me and my aunts & uncles saw me as their baby sister rather than a niece. In 2008 our grandparents died, and I felt like no one really understood me because well, they were my only parents and I couldn’t just go to my mother as if nothing had ever happened between us. My sister married @ 17, and after 13 years of marriage, she had an affair and as a result became pregnant and passed the child (my nephew) as her husbands kid. We all advised her to NOT do this but being the selfish person she is, she only thought of herself. After 3 years she left him to be with another man (who was also married) and her first husband is the primary caregiver of a child that he did not father. She immediately had a second child then a third. I love her kids to death and will do anything for them… BUT I feel like she uses her kids to get what she wants from everyone. My mother is very passive, and does not want to talk or even have any one of us bring up anything negative about my sister who is also a drug addict and over all bad mother. Finally after years of having to come to her rescue I’ve decided enough is enough. The straw that broke the camels back was on Wednesday when my daughter and I are at wal-mart and receive a call from the daycare center she sends the soon to be 1 yr old baby girl. Mind you that she nor her “man” work but still send all three kids to daycare. Anyway, the daycare (who provides transportation) calls me (her emergency contact) because there will be no transportation and they tried contacting her but the number was no longer working, and they needed someone to pick up the baby because they were about to close. I call her and the number IS working, I call our mother and as always she gives excuses (maybe she’s in the shower/asleep/outside etc.) Finally I just decide to go pick up the baby and take her home. As I pull up to the daycare my sister calls me and says “Were you calling me?” At this point I’m furious and I let her know what’s going on… all she says is “Okay” I pick up the baby and take her to my sisters house. I am greeted by an uncle, and as I make my way up the steps, my sister comes out with her hair in a towel and attempts to take the baby only to make her cry. I ask her why her “man” never answered the phone when we were calling and she says “The daycare doesn’t even have this number so we didn’t know they weren’t bringing her home” All I can think of is “WHO THE HELL DOES THAT… NOT GIVE A CURRENT NUMBER TO THOSE WHO ARE CARING FOR YOUR CHILDREN????” I told her that next time I get a call for her not picking up the baby I’m going to call CPS and take her kids from her. I talk to my mother about this and she will change the conversation. IDK WTF to do with them… I can’t reason with them, I’m a bad person for wanting to call CPS, and I most definitely can’t get them to see why my sister is wrong for being such a lazy b:tch.
Sorry it’s so long.
My Mother is involved because she, my step-father, our uncle and a number of other people are all helping her raise her kids. This is what I mean when I say that she uses the kids to get what she wants. My mother is ALWAYS there to pick up the pieces when my sister screws up. They buy her pampers, clothes for the kids, gave her furniture when she moved to her new place etc. Idk if my mother does this out of guilt or what but everyone knows my sister as an ungrateful moocher who can’t stand on her own two feet. I don’t want her kids to end up in foster care because I know what it does to kids having adopted two myself. If I knew that CPS would guarantee me that the kids would come with me I would do it and proudly tell her it was me.

I have 3 biological sisters (all different fathers) however the oldest one and myself were left with my maternal grandmother when I was an infant so my mother could be with her “soul mate.” Because of that we grew up knowing our Grandparents as our Mom & Dad. My sister always went back and forth because she used guilt to get what she wanted from our mother and pity from our grandparents. I never felt the need to do this because from the time I came home from the hospital, my grandparents cared for me and my aunts & uncles saw me as their baby sister rather than a niece. In 2008 our grandparents died, and I felt like no one really understood me because well, they were my only parents and I couldn’t just go to my mother as if nothing had ever happened between us. My sister married @ 17, and after 13 years of marriage, she had an affair and as a result became pregnant and passed the child (my nephew) as her husbands kid. We all advised her to NOT do this but being the selfish person she is, she only thought of herself. After 3 years she left him to be with another man (who was also married) and her first husband is the primary caregiver of a child that he did not father. She immediately had a second child then a third. I love her kids to death and will do anything for them… BUT I feel like she uses her kids to get what she wants from everyone. My mother is very passive, and does not want to talk or even have any one of us bring up anything negative about my sister who is also a drug addict and over all bad mother. Finally after years of having to come to her rescue I’ve decided enough is enough. The straw that broke the camels back was on Wednesday when my daughter and I are at wal-mart and receive a call from the daycare center she sends the soon to be 1 yr old baby girl. Mind you that she nor her “man” work but still send all three kids to daycare. Anyway, the daycare (who provides transportation) calls me (her emergency contact) because there will be no transportation and they tried contacting her but the number was no longer working, and they needed someone to pick up the baby because they were about to close. I call her and the number IS working, I call our mother and as always she gives excuses (maybe she’s in the shower/asleep/outside etc.) Finally I just decide to go pick up the baby and take her home. As I pull up to the daycare my sister calls me and says “Were you calling me?” At this point I’m furious and I let her know what’s going on… all she says is “Okay” I pick up the baby and take her to my sisters house. I am greeted by an uncle, and as I make my way up the steps, my sister comes out with her hair in a towel and attempts to take the baby only to make her cry. I ask her why her “man” never answered the phone when we were calling and she says “The daycare doesn’t even have this number so we didn’t know they weren’t bringing her home” All I can think of is “WHO THE HELL DOES THAT… NOT GIVE A CURRENT NUMBER TO THOSE WHO ARE CARING FOR YOUR CHILDREN????” I told her that next time I get a call for her not picking up the baby I’m going to call CPS and take her kids from her. I talk to my mother about this and she will change the conversation. IDK WTF to do with them… I can’t reason with them, I’m a bad person for wanting to call CPS, and I most definitely can’t get them to see why my sister is wrong for being such a lazy b:tch.
Sorry it’s so long.
My Mother is involved because she, my step-father, our uncle and a number of other people are all helping her raise her kids. This is what I mean when I say that she uses the kids to get what she wants. My mother is ALWAYS there to pick up the pieces when my sister screws up. They buy her pampers, clothes for the kids, gave her furniture when she moved to her new place etc. Idk if my mother does this out of guilt or what but everyone knows my sister as an ungrateful moocher who can’t stand on her own two feet. I don’t want her kids to end up in foster care because I know what it does to kids having adopted two myself. If I knew that CPS would guarantee me that the kids would come with me I would do it and proudly tell her it was me.

My 15 year old nephew grew up in South Central Los Angeles with his Grandmother. He met his father & aunts last year. He’s been in & out of trouble & schools. A few months ago, he lost his dad’s (my brother-in-law) i-Pod, and was accused of being a “drug addict,” kicked out of his dad’s house, and told never to return (just because of an i-Pod!!). My wife (his blood-related aunt) & I brought him home with us Easter Day 2008. Now, he’s excited about doing distance schooling and working from home. He’s anxious to prove himself to us. We know all the potential he has to succeed, and all the love and respect he shows us. He’s a great kid that’s just had some really bad, big-city-luck.

My questions:

Now that we have him, how do I LEGALLY enroll him in school? How do I take him to the optometrist to get glasses? How do I take him to a doctor’s office to get a really good check-up? and on WHO’S insurance? His dad’s? or his grandmother (right now SHE has legal custody

I know that a lot of innocent children are harmed during the making of coke, but to think that cocaine is getting profit out of their teeth is just wrong and makes my feet warm. How are we supposed to protect our children if propane is making profit out of both cocaine and coca cola and the only ones to thank for gas is the children? I’m assuming this is why we’re supposed to tell our kids the tooth fairy exists, so we can give their teeth for coca cola’s cocaine, but how do they get it? I guess the general question is me wondering if cocaine is made out of children’s teeth and if this can be prevented by telling them the truth about the tooth fairy. My son is fifteen now and I think he’s getting suspiscious, I had to take him out of school because his friends were telling him that the tooth fairy wasen’t real, and I’m not going to let my bills pay for what cocaine is doing to our children!

This is for all the parents out there who don’t want Coca Cola being the new Google!