I don’t know if any one else has noticed but the legit questions never get answered. But if I make up some idiot story about how my son just drank a gallon of rubbing alcohol what should I do the whole freaking world posts.
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I am new to the States and I have been forced to dilute Coors, but am afraid my son will develop a horrid palate for lousy beer. Please if you can give references for a decent Kinderbier with roughly only a 2% alcohol content. Ty in advance.
@ skippy. But that isn’t really beer, now is it?
We have been married for close to 2 years. We have a 15 months old daughter who is my lovely cutie. Combined annual income: $70,000. Before marriage, I had dated 3 women and her 11 men. We are from different cultures: I am African and she’s American. I grew up in a stable christian home; She grew up in a dysfunctional family (dad had 2 extramarital affairs and has kids from them and mum too). My flaws; shower once every 2 days, kinda of messy but I clean up after myself, easily irritated but I have never physically or emotionally abused her, I have a high sex drive
My thinking: Marriage business is between hubby and wife (I keep family out; I rarely call my family but we love each other dearly). 2. Her mum is always in our business. When we have arguments, she vowed to always to stand by her kids. (Eldest son: Alcoholic, keeps moving in and out of house, wife “beater”, all the money he makes he sends it to her “fiancee”; )
Her thinking: If we have arguments she can tell her mom about them. 2. She pays $650/month (due to messed up credit) for her car note. (Camry 2007). I drive a 1999 Malibu which we got at $1000. 3. She wants to pay off $300 every week to a baby sitter yet her aunt charges 100/week (they don’t get along): My mother was willing to baby sit again for free (she baby sat her when she was 2 months until she left when she was 8 months) my mum is a retired professional pediatric nurse. 4. She needs to have a treat every week at a restaurant and have a tour to her hairdresser; $120/week 5. Before marriage she had debts totaling to about $25,000 (which I was willing to help take care of when we get financially stable. 6. She believes that her dad is a “devil’ since he doesn’t agree with her way of thinking. (I get along with my dad in-law; he minds his own business unless you seek for advice from him. he admits that he screwed up with the extramarital affairs but he can never change what happened. He has always asked me not to ever put our daughter thru. that; having another woman in my life)
When we I don’t agree with her she says I am mean minded and sometimes when I lose it, she calls ex-bf (who had proposed to her and later changed his mind) for “advice”. Ex-bf always put pressure on her to look nice and he contributed to her big debt.
P.S: Recently we separated and I was wondering whether divorce is an option (Kinda of not what my family virtues are)
My husband and I are trying to get full custody of his son. The mother is on drugs, was arrested last year for pos. of meth, and then indicted this year. We have pictures that show where she put bruises all over my step-son’s legs for spilling something on a new rug. Her and her mom have taught Dalland, my step-son, to act like a girl. He hardly plays with boy toys, he is attracted to girl things. He is better some, but he gets picked on at school. We just don’t know what to do. We have a lawyer, but we don’t have the money to go to court. Is there anyway around the money issue?
PLEASE DO NOT SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT MY SONS MOM. we dated for a year and i broke up with her. we ended up getting back together shortly after for about 3 months and then i broke up with her again. A couple months later she ended up getting pregnant by me. I never got back with her but supported her throughout the pregnancy and also did not date. instantly when my son was born she tried everything to keep me from him (i am an excellent dad not some criminal meth smoking child abuser – i love my son) she had made up many lies and we went straight to court. i have since been in a horrible legal battle just to see my son at all for almost a year.
her mom is a sociopath.
my sons mom really wanted to get back together and wanted all time the time to know if i loved her.
what is likely going on with her? i want this to end.
My son is an alcoholic, and we had decided to send him to an alcohol rehab. I haven’t talked to him about this, though. What should I do?
I would, his/her life would be hell untill their 18.
How many of you would do the same?
How many of you are dillusional and believe talking to your child, or letting him live his own life is the way to go?
Thx
@revolt, its a figure of speech.
Im not literally gonna stand there and try to kill my child, im saying if my son ever does such a thing, theres gonna be some serious punishments, and you bet your ass he wont even think about doing it again.
Imagine you were patroling an area, and you come upon a car that is swerving alot. You pull the car over and are suprised to see your son or daughter driving some vehicle, and in the back is enough cocaine to get twenty or more years in jail, what do you do? Do you turn your son or daughter in to the criminal justice system, or do you try and find another soultion to either cover up the incident, or make less of a charge?
1.My sons dad left while I was in labor to go smoke with his boys
2. He has NEVER even bought a pack of diapers for his son, he called him mom and asked her for the money cas he needed bar money.
3.When my son needed a surgery on his eye that medicaid wouldnt cover I worked two jobs to support my son and him and pay for the surgery myself, while he has money for new shoes, new clothes and to buy and sell crack, never buying his son ANYTHINg , I mean nothing.
4. I worked my whole pregnancy while he drank all night giving me 2 hours of sleep to go to work with
5.I stayed for 5 years, through the good and bad.
6. You cant justify the danger of yourc hild finding a crack bag and potentially dying to being a good wife
7. Hes threw my son across the room ..is that a good husband ?
If staying is a good wife in this situation , then I am a stupid woman with poor decision making skills and Ill accept it..
By now it was eight o clock, paparazzi were outside the queens park palace waiting for Lewis Carters to arrive at the conference. He would often do this to build suspense in the atmosphere and get all the people from his home town, Brooklyn, to cheer him on when he got there. James Husky was already in the building., he was Lewis Carters opponent and is the heavy weight champion. He has been fighting professional for 25 years and has been undefeated since he had the belt- he has had eight fights since he had had won the title and has either knocked his opponents out within the first two rounds or they have got so hurt in the fight from his deadly combinations of punches that the coaches and trainers have thrown in the towel. It was going to be the best fight since Muhammad Ali and Joe Frasier fought it out in the famous fight known commonly as the gorilla in manila. Husky was a fairly tall man with a muscular build, he had a very quick reacting mind in the ring, he was a powerful puncher and the unordinary thing about him is that he can fight either orthodox or southpaw stance in the ring. He was given the nickname James the power man Husky after knocking Fredson juniour out in the 2nd round with a lethal uppercut which knocked one of fredsons moulders out of his mouth blood was all over the ring and it was classed to be one of the most memorable fights in history. What made it unordinary was this was when he was in the cruiser weight and the power of the punch was the equivalent of Geroge Foremans awesome hooks.. James always stay focused on the aim of the fight which is to win and that integrity and spirit has won him most of his fights. A characteristic which made him stand outside the ring was that he was very crotchety this was also the case after his fights and in public. Whenever he was victorious over one of his fights he would always end up yelling at a bewildered reporter who he would end up either pushing onto the floor. Even though he was like this, it was what made him entertaining to watch and he is known to have one of the most amazing attitudes to live. In the conference room Husky was wearing an black swage suit with a black striped shit and blue aqua coloured tie, he was sitting in there patiently waiting for the conference to progress.
While James Husky was inside sitting on lined table on the right side of the room sipping his glass of squeezed lemon, loud chaotic noises were coming from outside. Husky got out of his Brown leather chair and looked outside the window and developed a tormenting smile. Outside was a large Grey gold plated 550 Ferrari Maranello, it was being blocked by a crowd and the car was unable to move forward so it pulled to the side of the curve and stopped. The passengers door was opened and Bobby Norton approached onto the road. Bobby Norton was Lewis Carters promoter and had been his promoter for years. He was experienced at what he did and was also a promoter of other great fighters like Ben Gills Olympic silver medallist in welter weight and also Benvollio Dulcet heavy weight champion from 1997 to 1998 however he was less popular when he was defeated by “James the power man Husky” in 1998. Norton was a very popular man also known for when he used to be a entrepreneur for many successful training businesses located all over the States and Europe however he gave all his businesses to his oldest son Thomas Norton mainly due to being so busy in his promoting work. On the other hand nobody really cared about his career professions just cared about him being a good looking multi millionaire mainly because of the many privatized companies that he owns. Which could be anything leisure companies, electronics or even a broad way drug racket for a mob living in little Italy but who knows nobody really tried to get on his bad side in public and in the media, due to the several people who have crossed him in their lives have received extra attention from his body guards which isn’t a pretty site.
We have three kids 9,3,11/2. We separated 4 yrs ago because I used her mistake as an excuse for my leaving. We both have made many mistakes and have very deep issues but we are willing to work on and aware of many of our faults. She was honest about her mistake. But I used the painful feelings as another excuse run away and to go on a pity driven drug binge for 6 months. After 6 months she drove me to the V.A. (Desert storm disabled vet) because I was really close to death or homicide or both. After 9 months inpatient psych-ward ( 8weeks lockdown 7 mo. inpatient program) and 4 months transition house. She took me back. (Diagnoses bi-polar..lots o meds) I’ve made many changes and reversions “good months bad months” but stopped meds a yr after I left transition (felt they were masking/ hindering getting to the deep real issues) I put my wife through incredible emotional abuse and neglect every month of every year of our relationship. My eldest son as well.
Well I found a civilian psychotherapist 9 months ago. 4 months ago I started having some really enlightening realizations of the true pain and scars I’ve caused. 2 months ago my wife said something I perceived as a horrific hurt and I reacted as I usually do when hurt (perceived or real) with scary rage and horrible words the worst blow up ever (only 2 minutes long but 119 seconds toooo long) and I cant express in strong enough words the feelings of guilt and shame I feel. Well after that my wife wants to separate for a while so she can get herself in order. I understand and can’t blame her for a nana second. Well since then my therapist and I have gotten even deeper…scary deep but I asked him for a no bull-shit evaluation of my personality. Last week he gave it and I’ve researched and nervously agree. I have NPD (narcissistic personality disorder).My question..Long overdo I know) T he research and most people agree there is no cure but I truly want to change… for myself..Ha ha.
.alittle irony there. But I also want to save the love of a beautiful, smart truly incredible woman who never deserved an ass like me. I want to change. Is it possible and how the hell can I ever make up for the mountains of crap I’ve piled on my wife.
We have three kids 9,3,11/2. We separated 4 yrs ago because I used her mistake as an excuse for my leaving. We both have made many mistakes and have very deep issues but we are willing to work on and aware of many of our faults. She was honest about her mistake. But I used the painful feelings as another excuse run away and to go on a pity driven drug binge for 6 months. After 6 months she drove me to the V.A. (Desert storm disabled vet) because I was really close to death or homicide or both. After 9 months inpatient psych-ward ( 8weeks lockdown 7 mo. inpatient program) and 4 months transition house. She took me back. (Diagnoses bi-polar..lots o meds) I’ve made many changes and reversions “good months bad months” but stopped meds a yr after I left transition (felt they were masking/ hindering getting to the deep real issues) I put my wife through incredible emotional abuse and neglect every month of every year of our relationship. My eldest son as well.
Well I found a civilian psychotherapist 9 months ago. 4 months ago I started having some really enlightening realizations of the true pain and scars I’ve caused. 2 months ago my wife said something I perceived as a horrific hurt and I reacted as I usually do when hurt (perceived or real) with scary rage and horrible words the worst blow up ever (only 2 minutes long but 119 seconds toooo long) and I cant express in strong enough words the feelings of guilt and shame I feel. Well after that my wife wants to separate for a while so she can get herself in order. I understand and can’t blame her for a nana second. Well since then my therapist and I have gotten even deeper…scary deep but I asked him for a no bull-shit evaluation of my personality. Last week he gave it and I’ve researched and nervously agree. I have NPD (narcissistic personality disorder).My question..Long overdo I know) T he research and most people agree there is no cure but I truly want to change… for myself..Ha ha.
.alittle irony there. But I also want to save the love of a beautiful, smart truly incredible woman who never deserved an ass like me. I want to change. Is it possible and how the hell can I ever make up for the mountains of crap I’ve piled on my wife.
We have three kids 9,3,11/2. We separated 4 yrs ago because I used her mistake as an excuse for my leaving. We both have made many mistakes and have very deep issues but we are willing to work on and aware of many of our faults. She was honest about her mistake. But I used the painful feelings as another excuse run away and to go on a pity driven drug binge for 6 months. After 6 months she drove me to the V.A. (Desert storm disabled vet) because I was really close to death or homicide or both. After 9 months inpatient psych-ward ( 8weeks lockdown 7 mo. inpatient program) and 4 months transition house. She took me back. (Diagnoses bi-polar..lots o meds) I’ve made many changes and reversions “good months bad months” but stopped meds a yr after I left transition (felt they were masking/ hindering getting to the deep real issues) I put my wife through incredible emotional abuse and neglect every month of every year of our relationship. My eldest son as well.
Well I found a civilian psychotherapist 9 months ago. 4 months ago I started having some really enlightening realizations of the true pain and scars I’ve caused. 2 months ago my wife said something I perceived as a horrific hurt and I reacted as I usually do when hurt (perceived or real) with scary rage and horrible words the worst blow up ever (only 2 minutes long but 119 seconds toooo long) and I cant express in strong enough words the feelings of guilt and shame I feel. Well after that my wife wants to separate for a while so she can get herself in order. I understand and can’t blame her for a nana second. Well since then my therapist and I have gotten even deeper…scary deep but I asked him for a no bull-shit evaluation of my personality. Last week he gave it and I’ve researched and nervously agree. I have NPD (narcissistic personality disorder).My question..Long overdo I know) T he research and most people agree there is no cure but I truly want to change… for myself..Ha ha.
.alittle irony there. But I also want to save the love of a beautiful, smart truly incredible woman who never deserved an ass like me. I want to change. Is it possible and how the hell can I ever make up for the mountains of crap I’ve piled on my wife.
LOL!!! You don’t know me and you don’t know my teens…all old school hip hoppers wore baggy jeans, and our today’s teens wear skinny jeans. So tight that when guys bend over they get a split in the back. We smoke METH(Method Man), and back then we smoked crack.(Butt Crack from the split from bending over…LOL) It’s the S-O-U-L-J-A…Boy! S-O-U-L-J-A….Boy! Here i am, Here I am the Soulja Boy!
32 unpredictable fruit flavors. Soulja Boy signing off…where’s my gucci sunglasses? Yo! Rae, Yo! Ghost! Any of you seen my gucci frames son? Do my skinny jeans need ironing U-God? Soulja boy signing off…peace. (Method Man tune keeps playing to the end) LOL I have quite an imagination. I tried to make Soulja Boy a real hip hop cat. I tried…I honestly tried. LOL Good night ya’ll. I need to go to sleep. LMAO
Here’s the story:
It all started when I was 17. I used to play football for my high school and we all know what happen when you are an athlete….Girls,sex, friends and etc….
Until the day I met this girl, I used to have a good sexual life. But for some reasons this girl was never ready to give herself to me and I couldn’t force her to do anything stupid because I loved her and I didn’t want to put my football career at risk. My friends, told me to let her go but somehow I just couldn’t do it. Girls used to ask me to come over and keep them company, keep them warm but I never did.
I spent over 9 months without having sex with her, I never cheated on her, and never masturbated( BELIEVE IT OR NOT). People didn’t believe me when I told them I never masturbate in my life. Girls used to tell me every boys do it, so stop lying.
And one day, it happened…..I remember I was wondering around the house and I stumbled across this Porn video at my house, my parents went out and I took the movie to my room…… After a while I started touching myself and bamm again it happened….. I won’t lie to you, it did feel good, not better than sex but it was good.
Then the next day I started all over again and again and again. What started as an experience became an addiction real quick. I even downloaded movies from the net, I couldn’t spend a day without watching one. I heard it was better to do it with lotion, so I used some.
But it was always the same thing, the same feeling, ( U feel good for a while then it all stop, it wasn’t the same thing as sex and I was pissed at myself and mostly pissed at my girlfriend, because of what she transformed me into).
For some reasons, my girlfriend was never ready, so I did the most terrible thing in my life, I broke up with her and moved on with my life. I thought this decision was going to make me feel better, but it was just bull sh*****.
I hooked up with this girl for a while and sex came back to my lifestyle but masturbation didn’t want to leave. Even while I was with this new girl, I’d still masturbate everytime I had a chance. Worst thing is, I started to pick the right movie to do such thing. My favorites movies are the lesbian ones and I’m not talking about any tipical lesbian movie, I like the one with a strap on.
As you can see, because of this one girl, I became something that I’m ashamed of. I became an addict, not to drugs or pills or even sex but to porn and masturbation. I wanted to contact a therapist about it or even go to some group session but I didn’t have and still don’t have the courage to do so…..what would my parents think of me when they find out their beloved son is addicted to porn and masturbation.
And this girl who is the caused of all my mysery thanked me by sleeping with one of my close friend. She told me it was a pay back. Pay back from what, you never gave me anything. She wasn’t ready for me but she was ready for him. And she left me with a disease and an addiction.
It’s been almost 2 years guys and I still can’t stop masturbating. So you can tell me it’s normal, you can tell me it’s ok to do such thing but I won’t accept it. I can’t spend a day without watching porn, when I’m working I can’t wait to get home to go watch porn. I have a list all the free sites where I can watch any porn for free.
This is not ok in my eyes but I CAN’T STOP. I even stop going to Church because I’m so ashamed of myself. Every night, I asked God to help me but I’m still doing it.
And somehow, I feel better to finally talk about it here and I hope your answers will help me find a better way to deal with this thing.
Thank You
Even with my husband’s income combined with mine, we still can’t afford to send our son to an alcohol rehab, something that we really want to do. This is something that we never expected to happen, but I guess that’s the way it is with other parents as well. We’d like to know if any of you know how to find low-cost alcohol rehabs in or in close proximity to Aromas, California. Thanks.
A boy 17(acually considered an adult in Texas) is dating a 40 year old woman? Not only that she got him hooked on the steet drug ice.This makes me sick but is ther anything legally that can be done? We live in Texas so the laws are a little different.Can the boy get in big trouble or just this bimbo he’s dating?This is a family member of my son’s girlfriend. His moms opion is what can I do about it? This boy already is a father of a 3 mo old by another girl.
Please help! I want toturnher in but if nothing can be done then I will feel so stupid.
he wasn’t selling it just had it in his possession, the grand jury indicted him for it, I can hardly believe that but know its true because I read it for myself and it is the only charge against him..The county I live in the new judge has been sending everyone to jail for this penny ante stuff. There has been alot of complaining going on about this judge because the jails are overcrowded already.Not that I am a advocate of illegal drugs (I’m not) but seems like they would be going after the big dogs instead of this kind of stuff. Can they really have a case against him for such a small amount?
The charge definitely is less than 1/10th of a gram and dont be so judgmental there is more to the story and my son swears he has never done cocaine in his life. He voluntarily let the police search his house and they were there for over 2 hours searching and this all started because he went to the local hardware to buy a can of coleman fuel for a heater that he has because it was cold out and he was working on his car. The lady at the hardware store apparently thought he might be using it to make meth with, soshe called the police. Whatever, my son swears that this cop is just saying that cause he KNOWS there was no cocaine in his house and when they came back they told him he had 2 choices. they would take it to the grand jury or he could wear a wire for them. He told them to take it to the grand jury. Geez, the question was for an attorney anyway. Are you ALL attorneys? Lighten up.
tony S. I guess you can’t read very well. My son WAS busted for it but claims it is impossible for them to have found it in his house because he dosen’t do cocaine. He thinks that they were there looking for meth because of the hardware store incident and they couldnt find anything so they cooked up this charge against him. That is my whole point,,,, If I thought my son was guilty I would not be sticking up for him, I would be kicking his butt and telling him he got what he deserved as I have always done when he did something wrong. I should mention here that my son has NEVER been in ANY kind of trouble and is a nice kid with alot of friends.
I only stated at the beginning that he was busted for it and he only had it in his possesion to make the story simple. I can see now that I should have explained the whole story. Sorry. He swears there was no cocaine anywhere near him because he has never used it. I believe him not because he is my son but because I know him and know he is truthful. I also know he is scared and I just dont want to see him go to jail for something he didnt do.
My cousin can’t afford to get her son into a drug rehab. It’s so costly. But she really has to get her son treated. She’s asking for my help. Any suggestions?
he has been fighting for custody for his son, the love of my life. missed his court date yesterday and she got full custody. then he steals 200.00 from his girlfriend and blows it up his nose. i put him in treatment when he was 18. my only thought is i will never be able to see that beautiful boy and i am just dying inside. help!!!!! i just want to give up with him. he has hurt his family so many times. i am to the point of kicking him out of my life. he is my only son and i have always been there for him, but, now i don’t know.
