My Mother in law has a very bad alcohol and drug problem. She tortured her children to the extent of allowing her boyfriend to rape her daughter when she was 8 for money… She says shes changed and lies to me about her drug and alcohol usage. I really dont want my son to grow up around these things and I’m afraid she’ll hurt him, maybe not physically but more on an emotional level. Plus the way she lives her life I know one day it will kill her and No parent wants to see there child hurt by death especially one that could be avoided. at the same time I dont want to take my son away from her, he’s the only stability in her life and she does love him. help!!!
My biggest fear is when he gets older, I know what kind of person she is and she allowed her children to drink and do drugs with her!! And I dont want him to learn what drugs are from his grandmother, thats not what a grandma is supposed to be and I feel as though I would be keeping him from his family. My husband cut off all contact with her for years until I found out I was pregnant. I’ve offered to put her a rehab facility and she says she doesnt have a problem, I’ve gone as far as calling the police on her, unanimously of course just to try to get her on the right track. I dont know if I should give up because you cant help someone who doesnt want to help themselves.right now my son is only 4 months old so its not a huge issue. I mean she showed up to the hospital drunk while i was in labor. To the extent my midwife asked her to leave.
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long story short my mother is a mean horrible lady and i have told her i want nothing to do with her. she wont stop harrassing me and my son and threatening me with courts and cfs. not that i have anything to hide. my mother is mad because she has seen him 5-6times in almost 6 months and when ive finally had enough and said i am not going to have anything to do with her she says she will ruin my life./ she smokes 5 packs a day and is a big alcoholic. i am not sure what to do. she is the type of person that will do anythingin her power to take my son away just because i told her she wont have anything to do with him in his life. if you knew her you wouldnt want her in your life either. serious answers only
My ex husband went into rehab right after Thanksgiving for cocaine. We have joint custody of our 5 year old son. He gave power of attorney to his mother. She is not complying with the divorce papers. Took my name off of the pick up list at school, and will not return any of my calls. What are my rights? I I get him can I keep him until his father returns ? My son lives with his father, and visits me on the weekends, but I have not seen him since Thanksgiving.
Please help I’m going crazy without him !! I live in Fl
My mother has been taking care of my nephews for atleast 1 yr. My sister is a drug addict & has not had a job since they moved in. She does not feed her own children because she is too busy sleeping or out partying. I have told my mom to get custody of the kids but she thinks she can’t get it with having their mother living there. My mom kicked my sister out of the house about 1 week ago & kept the kids with her. What needs to happen before my mom can get full custody of the children. PLease help!
Besides a restraining order what can be done? or what type of restraining order? he is a heavy meth user with all kinds of garbage and junk in her yard. He leeches off her for probation fees and takes her money. She is just puzzled and doesnt know how to treat her own grand son? Any ideas? Any answer is a good one here.. thanks…
She calls, sends gifts. Even goes to church He’s 9 and does understand why grandma needs Hennesey for her nerves. She cries when he doesn’t come over to see him.And my son cries too what should I do?
