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i really appreciate your help with my sons girlfriend on your previous post, i was really frantic and wooried at that time, thats why i sent so many posts.

solved problem —-new problem below
My sons girlfriend was raped and she stayed at our house, because her mother says it would be better ( SHE WAS RAPED AT HER HOUSE). I thought she would just sleep on the couch, or something. well i went to go check on him and see how he was doing. i found his girlfriend in his be sleeping, and my son was laying next to her drinking a bottle of jack daniels. I also saw his rifle next to the bed. My husband bought a m14 semi for his 16th birthday. when i told my husband about he said dint do anything that might threaten him, because the girl he loves the most in his life was just raped, and he feels it is his job to protect his girlfriend. i mean he would be doing the same thing if i was raped. but they are both only 16, and only been in a relationship for just over 6 years. my husband said the jack daniels is just a coping mechanism, and the rifle probably makes his girlfriend feel safer and well give them a week to get better. My son has defended his girlfriend in a physical fight before.

new problem
well i was really frantic when i caught my son girlfriend sleeping together. but i decided that i would let the sleep together on the condition that they leave the door open and where full clothing. they agreed. on the alcohol i took away the jack daniels away, and just gave him a non alcoholic beer. i decided to leave the gun, since he is not stupid and knows how to saftly handle a gun. his girlfriend can stay for one more week, and her mom was ok with since she has recovered a lot since being with my son, so i was ok with it.

but im strarting to have second thoughts, did i make all of the right decisions, please answer

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I’m trying to find a hand sanitizing method to use on my 7 month old baby when we go to public places – he’s always touching and getting into things! Is there anything wrong with just pouring some isopropyl alcohol in a little travel size spray bottle and using that on his hands? It seems to be the best thing I can think of that won’t leave a residue behind.

A friend recommended germ-x soft wipes. I like that the active ingredient is ethyl alcohol. But, after I use them, they leave some kind of residue behind – my son shoved his hands in his mouth and about puked – his hands tasted awful!

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My ideas:
“The Grievers”
Main character is a homicide detective investigating a serial killer who targets young mothers with young daughters. He is becoming increasingly suicidal because close to a year ago he lost his wife and young daughter when they were hit by a drunk driver. The driver was killed as well, so he’s left with only his job, and for some reason he just latches onto this case with the killer and feels strongly for the victims and he is becoming alcoholic. One day, a woman approaches him and tells him she is his biological mother and has been looking for him. He doesn’t care, he’s already lost so much and already had a family (only parents who have passed on already), one that had adopted him, so he brushes her off and tries to keep on working and trying to find the killer.
His biological mother had given him up at birth and later met a man who she married and had a child with. She had loved her husband and her son, and was very involved in their lives. Her husband had died of natural causes and she had her son…until he was murdered after running with the wrong crowd.
Now she is grieving and has no one left and decided to seek out her biological son that she’d given up and be with him as a mother.
Both are grieving and the mother keeps showing up at a bar the main character frequents as he tries to solve the case and cope with his grief as well. In the end, he solves the case and finally breaks down in a bar with his bio mother holding him as he says, “They’re gone…jesus christ, they’re gone…my girls….oh god….mom….mom, they’re gone, they’re gone…” and his bio mother just holds him, whispering “Shhh, it’s ok, darling…I’m here now, son…” and that’s basically it.

“Time’s Burning”:
Main character named Jake is a young guy whose father is a famous writer and his first novel had been titled “Time’s Burning”. His mother died at a young age, leaving him behind with his father and older brother. Both brothers hate their father, who became alcoholic after his wife died and hated his sons as well. So both boys grew up never reading a single book of their fathers and the older brother makes it as a professional football player and Jake is following in his footsteps as a college player. His older brother shocks the world when he turns down a multi million contract renewal to join the military and fight in the middle east. He becomes MIA and is a POW of terrorists in the middle east as Jake is graduating from his university and the media hype over which professional team he’ll sign with is all over the news when his father dies. Jake is left alone and confused about what to do next in life. He is very good at football as a quarterback, he knows how to read the defense and is a cold, calculating winner but has no real love for the game like his older brother had. He’s not sure if he wants to be a professional football player and the media hype about his older brother, the death of his father, and what Jake himself will do next all over the media just gets to him and he disappears. He is attending a university somewhere on the east coast while he grew up in Oregon, where his father had passed away and he buys a motorcycle and decides to ride it cross country to his father’s funeral, and reads his father’s first novel for the first time in his life and finally begins to feel a connection to his father through the novel. So he travels cross country as the news all across america asks, “Where is Jake ____?” There were rumors that his father had written many other stories that were never published, but they were never found. I’m not sure how to end the story, either Jake arrives at the summer home in Oregon to find his father’s rumored unpublished manuscripts, or he never finds anything and sits at his father’s computer and decides to write his own story, beginning a new life as a writer, I guess. Yeah, I know, the plot with his older brother is unresolved, I don’t know how to deal with that…was thinking about Pat Tillman when I thought it up.
Hmm…got some others, but can’t really recall them right now, lol…

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How would you talk to somebody that is kinda an alcoholic with a son in jail and a younger son that is very misunderstood, talkative but quiet at times cause he feels people dont get him and really has no true friends. How would you make that mom feel better? How would you make her family feel closer? How would you show love in tough times if you where in there shoes? the reason i say this is because i am the younger son, i try so hard to make peace. people say I have cold emotions but im trying to be a warm hearted person. I hold the door for people and everything but its my listening skills that I am not good at. Im a follower trying to be a leader but I dont wanna be that cold hearted person. everyone even my mom makes fun of me. calling me sensitive. laughing behind my back and talking bout me behind my back. my mom makes facial jesters while im talking. when i turn around to look at her she stops and pretends she is listining. I go to school soon but I feel if my mom does this then my new friends will do this too. i’d rather live alone and play wow than to deal with the cruel people in this world. F*** im crying as I write this… I’m a 24 yo man that really has had enough. i have faith in me to go to church. my new years resolution is to go to school and stay in church every Sunday. I’m starting fresh. I want out of this situation that i am in. I’m not a burden on my mom. Its just when i talk to her and my friends I get misunderstood as a cold hearted jealous person. and all Im doing is asking questions! please help me. I just want my family to be happy.

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My son is 14 and has been having problems with alcohol. We had him in a treatment program through our insurance, but it was a huge waste of time and money. He sees a psychologist a couple times a month, but that does not seem to be doing anything for his addiction. I don’t have a lot of money to spend, but obviously this problem needs to be addressed so I will manage whatever is necessary. Thank you so much for your time and information.

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My son is schizophrenic. he was diagnosed 11 years ago. he is 31 now and his symptoms are getting worse. he medicates himself with drugs and alcohol. Rehabs has not helped.

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Started dating this guy in high school, we both moved when i went to college. everything was great. 2 1/2 years into it i find out he’s been cheating since the beginning. keep in mind he also has a felony record, drug and alcohol problems, and is a chronic liar. ever since i got pregnant, he’s been faithful and tried to change the rest. we have again moved, and he’s holding a good job, off drugs, and doing well with the alcohol. He’s a great dad, when he wants or has to be. but otherwise, he’s pretty selfish and childish. the more time i spend thinking about leaving the less hard it seems. i really do want to salvage the relationship for my son, but i know that getting into a bad marriage is worse than no marriage at all. i’m really sick and tired of being his mom too. he’s never lived on his own and can’t take care of his own bills and needs, how can i expect him to take care of me and our son? not much time to decide!!! stay and get married, or leave and be a single mom. i know i can

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My son is 9. He has been diagnosed: ADHD, ODD, Bipolar, Aspergers Autism, Reactive attatchment disorder, Conduct disorder, Mood disorder NOS, Disgraphia, Adjustment disorder, no Impulse control…………… As you can see he is a handful. And yes, t those of you who think a child needs to be beat to listen…………….I’ve even tried corpral punishments, they don’t help. He just becomes more aggressive. He has been kicked out of daycares, schools and all. He has been hospitalized on numerous occations for psych. treatment. I have tried so much. Does anyone have any info. that might be helpful. I am desperate to help him! And no I didnt use alcohol or drugs.

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Ok heres my issue..

1. I originally wanted alcohol at my wedding but dad wont pay since “my fiance’s parents job” as his girlfriend said.
They liked the idea of a cash bar

2.His parents don’t drink and they think that people can just go without or we have a cash bar

3. My sister wants alcohol at my wedding, now i’ve only known her for maybe 5 years and we just got back into touch (i was adopted out of the family). She says she’d rather have a cash bar than no bar, but thinks it sucks if she doesn’t have the money to buy alcohol..

4. J’s aunt and her son (who is of age lol) were talking to me about it and said a cash bar is ok , better than no bar. Her son also said if we want people to get up and dance, we should probably have some alcohol.

Jason and I are supplying the champagne toast (whether or not they want the real stuff or the ‘non alcoholic’)

Their cases of wine are 280
Kegs of Beer 205
my sis and her husband drink the premium drinks that are 5.00 a piece

we’re not allowed to bring anything in that the reception hall can’t supply.
If the country club had a public bar downstairs i’d keep it a ‘dry’ wedding and tell people there was a cash bar on premises if they needed it.. HOWEVER
the only public bar available is IN the ballroom….
my bad i got the prices wrong lol

Case of House Wine $205.00

Bottle of Non-Alcoholic Champagne $14.95

Case of Champagne $250.00

Keg of Domestic Beer $225.00
oh they get Unlimited Fountain Soda, Coffee, Iced Tea and Sparkling Punch Fountain
Breezer,
I was thinking about a cocktail hour…we were considering just paying for that hour while the guest eat appetizers and we get our photos taken, then the reception starts :)
another piece of info i forgot to say…
the wedding is taking place at 11 AM in the morning…
reception starts at 1 and goes till 4

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my dad doesnt really see me, hes been an alcoholic ever since i remember but this christmas he has no where to go cuz his family is leaving, so my mom invited him to our christmas so i feel like i should get him a present and i decided on getting him a gas card and a book. i wanted to get him a book on how to be a better dad but nothing reall comes up when i google it besides books that dont seem interesting. i doubt if he’ll really actually read it but i just want him to look at it and know that he has hurt me and he is going to be a grandpa and needs to either be a good one and stick around or stay away. so any good books for my situation? ten points to legit good answer

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I took my almost 2 year old son to the doctor today due to a high fever and coughing; we found out he has walking pneumonia. His temp has ranged between 101.3 F and 104.3 F. We have gotten his prescription for the infection and he has been taking Motrin for the fever. Does anyone know of any home remedies that will lower his fever a little bit quicker than the Motrin (seems to take a while to kick in) or for those times that his fever is going back up and it’s not yet time to give another dose of medicine? I heard cool baths with rubbing alcohol will help but he really isn’t in the mood to get in the tub and I was hoping to be able to do this while he is resting. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

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My grandaughter was born June 05 with meth found in maconium. Parents had phsyical custody and State of NV having custody. They rec. custody just at deadline. In July 06 grandson born, again meth . CPS took custody placing them out of home & with me. CPS has plan for parents to follow & to be done by 7/07. were voted into drug court 12-15mos.. had 4-5 weeks in, fathers UA failed, arrested for 5 days. starts over with DC .CPS states to me: to think if I want to adopt .Don’t believe parents will make the deadline date.. (I ‘m 49, kids are 16 mo and 4 mo It has been a hard 4mos. Parents want me to then let them live with them.. I”M sure you can’t do that. I feel, I’m the one doing the WORK,some 0 nites sleep .0 LIFE., My man of 7 yrs has left.cuz of it all! They go do whatever , no clue what it takes for 2 kids 24/7. I LOVED JUST BEING GRANDMA ANY SUGGESTIONS? love my babies more than ever.also wonder if later theyhave prob from meth? the father is my son not 1 bit proud of

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I was with a guy for 2years. He was fun, funny and amazing. The first 6months of the relationship I found out he was a crystal meth addict. After he heard I found out, our relationship went down hill and I tried my best to stick by his side because he told me he need help and it was hard to get off the drug. Thu out our relationship…he treated me bad, called me names and continued to cheat on me. A ago year he dumped me for someone else. He went to prison in june and will be getting out soon. His mom called and told said to me “I WANNA LET YOU KNOW THAT I WISH YOU AND MY SON COULD HAVE MADE IT HAPPEN” She told me the girl he dumped me for is sleeping around, steeling in stores and does crystal meth. She says her son doesn’t know yet and will tell him when she gets ready to let him know! She stated that her son is doing good! I wanna know this. 1. Why don’t they realize what they have in front of them when they have it? 2. Why did his mom call and tell me all of this? 3. Why didn’t he see that I was the one?

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In october my fiance’s EX (babymomma) hid her pregnancy had a child Little did we know she was on crystal meth Her son and her both tested positive for crystal. CPS took her son away and gave temp custody to HER mom. since the custody was 50/50 with my fiance and his EX, CPS called him to come get his daughter or she would be in the care fo CPS. He got her and hte court granted temp full custody.in November they went back to court,she was a no show and they granted my fiance full custody. Court said If she completeed 6 months of rehab she can go and see if she can get visitation. Its been 6 months and still not complete. We would let her go to her grandmas house since the Ex was not allowed near the boy. and we trusted the grandmna and took her word. We just found out the Ex moved in witht he mom and they tried hiding it from us and tellin the lil girl to not tell us. well she did. we plan on cutting ties but what are the gmoms rights? also the mom getting visitation or custody?
Mind you we have a 2 bedroom apt VERY nice with just him, myself, my daughter and her. The EX lives in a run down 2 bedroom apt with like seriously 7 people living there. HSe has not completed her treatment… but if she goes to court what are her chances?
i also want to adopt her,, she calls me mommy and im the one that cares for her and lives with. How do i go about in doing that?

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My mom called me yesterday and told me that my uncle is furious with his son (my cousin) because he told a local paper that his father did crack cocaine when he was younger and that his brother sold drugs. Apparently it truly happened years ago… he is 37 now.

He was featured in an article about graduating from college later in life… so overall it’s a good story.. our family is furious now that he told the reporter his father did crack and and his brother sold drugs.

Would you air your parents dirty laundry to make yourself look good? Should my family be ticked off enough to not attend his graduation or graduation party?
Now that his father has changed his life and has a good job and new friends he is afraid of losing them along with custody of his young daughter

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ok my ex ( my sons mom ) told my son to use one of these things for his acne . well im not so sure about that , since when i had acne i practicly burned my face off . but he has been using these different things for about 2 weeks and i dont see much inprovement in his acne . the only difference in him is that his face is constantly red…and it was never like that . now im not asking you guys for cures to acne , i just want to know if what hes using now is bad . oh and hes also using proactive once in a while .

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Methadone and Harmd. Is Harmd doing more harm?
I am here to write my opinion on HARMD. This means; “Helping America Reduce Methadone Deaths”.
Although their intentions might be good or in their own mind considered good. H.A.R.M.D. is disseminating lies about the drug Methadone. A co-founder of this organzition experienced a horrible tragedy in regards to the admintration of this drug in a professional medical setting.

As the story goes this individuals loved one was addicted to Oxycodone. Upon seeking medical help for this, the Medical facilty gave this person Methadone in conjunction with a benzodiazepiene and this person tragically died as a result of this combination. A dangerous combination.

Harmd will tell you absolutely nothing positive about the drug Methadone. Instead of calling it Helping America reduce Methadone Deaths……… They should have called it; “Trying to ban Methadone in America”. That seems to me like their goal. And the fact is Methadone save lifes. It makes people that live in chronic pain functioning human beings again. It makes addicts live normal lives. Methadone is not a replacement for Heroin! IN other word’s Methadone clinics are there to help these people live normal lives.

Harmd’s claims on their video’s on U-tube openly admit that the onset of the rush of the drug is slow; (Thus sticking their foot in their mouth indicating the drug is used to obtain a high/hence obtaining it for illicit reasons)so the person takes more to get high and doesn’t realize a toxic level is increasing in them. METHADONE IS not to be USED to get HIGH or a rush! It is so easy to point the finger at a thing than a person. Methadone does not have a brain, it cannot control how and who or why a person uses it.

No one is going to want to admit their son died in a bathroom and was found with a syringe full of cocaine in his arm are they? No one would want to admit their son was a IV cocaine addict. But they can say Methadone killed their kid? Why? Because Methadone is FDA approved? Oxycontins ruined all of this. Oxycontins made regular pill users into full blown junkies. That is how Methadone just became a issue. Funny we never heard about Methadone deaths prior to 1998.

Number one; Methadone is a powerful synthetic opiate narcotic! The only people that have business with this drug are addicts that are going to addiction treatment or people that live in chronic pain in pain management. Methadone is not used to take if you have trouble sleeping! It is not used for a headache and it is not used as a spice in making meatloaf! Methadone must be used only by people that are qualified to take it. HARMD states it stays in your system a long time and or but it’s pain relief is only 4 to 6 hours.

THIS IS FALSE! Methadone’s analgesia threshold is 8 or more hours! Methadone has a 24 to 36 hour half life. This indicates that if you consume 10mg’s. Exactly 24 hours later you will have 5mg’s dormant in you. Thus if you want to maintain this 10mg a day dose, you take 10mg initially and than every day than and there out you take 5 mg’s! So on and so fourth. Again a person that is not prescribed Methadone for pain or does not get it in an addiction treatment scenario HAS NO BUSINESS WITH IT! Giving this to a non familiar user that is only using it for a stupid reason is like giving a blind person glass in their dinner. JUst say no to drugs!

True facts on Methadone:

Methadone is the most sctrunized drug on the planet. No drug , not one in the history of the world has gone under the scrutiny that Methadone has. The drug has been in use since perhaps the mid 60′s and this drug has a proven tried and true list of positive virtues in regards to long term effects on the body and almost has a explanation and theory on every dosaging protocol that has ever existed on the planet. I don’t believe there is a single case of anyone being allergic to Methadone.

All opiates have long term effects on the body. There is nothing but overwhelming evidence that indicates that Methadone is the lightest on all the organs compared to any other opiate. It is the long half life which does not give the body time to recover throughout doses is what I believe makes it the harshest in this aspect.

All opiates impede vitamin and mineral absorbtion. Methadone is not excempt from this and because of it’s long duration on visiting the body, mineral and vitamins should be used as a supplement. There is not a single drug on the planet that is as healthy as drinking milk or as healthy as eating a apple a day. Eating a bag of Potato chips everyday may actually be worse for your health. The FDA does not tell you the long term effects of MSG to readily. Or the stuff they put in a Big Mac.

Methadone is the flattest hitting opiate on the planet. In other word’s it maintains a constant blood level throughout a 24 hour period. This is what makes Methadone such a miracle drug for addicts and pain management people. But it is this virtue that HARMD claims it is so dangerous. This is the a paradox of their thinking.

Where conventional opaites hit high and rapidly drop, Methadone does not. Therefore a person that is taking conventional opiates for pain eventually will end up abusing them to chase blood levels to keep an existing happy mood in check. This is a real thing that is going on in the brain and it is not in a person’s head. So instead of taking more medication for pain relief, they are taking more to keep their mood in check and not pain control. This inadvertantly results in tolerence to the drug very quickly and non-delibarate abuse. With Methadone this is almost non-existant. It is a superior pain reliever by this virtue and dosing twice a day is almost always considered effective as compared to 4 times or more a day by a conventional opiate.

It is this aspect of Methadone that also of course makes it a choice for addcition treatment. It keeps the person in check throughout the entire day (Not needing more and more of the opiate) and cancels the so-called mental cravings a opiate addict gets.

Methadone in a pain scenario is also a opiate that keeps opiate induced hypersensitivity down to a low. All pain people in time will experience this and it either can be considered a form of withdrawal as more opiates are administered or break-thru pain. Since Methadone maintains a flat blood level and keeps pain receptors filled constantly, this phenomenon is greatly reduced. There are some claim that Methadone does not create opiate induced hypersnsitivity. I think it does and will but the effects are far less apparent.

Methadone is the simpliest of all opiate molecular structures.

Methadone was developed in Germany (I.G. Farben) under the direction of Herman Goering in mid 40′s as a substitute for morphine. It was never intended at the time to be used in opiate addiction. It just happened that way.

People in pain management that obtain Methadone for pain are readily sterotyped as ex Heroin addicts because of Methdone’s use in addiction centers.

Fact: A 40mg Methadone pill( Wafer) was as large as a quarter. And it is thick as two on the eges and in the middle as thick as three quarters stacked. If someone gave you a pill the size of a quarter and told you it was an aspirin, would you be a little apprehensive about it? It was perhaps one of the largest pain pills ever produced and as a aspirin in this form this would be perhaps be a 4,000 MG aspirin? Just saying.

The size alone of the 40mg pill should have been a deterrant from anyone abusing it. The truth is, you would have difficulty placing the entire thing in your mouth and swallowing it whole. It was also serated into four sections, not half but quarters. Thus indicating a quarter of the pill could be taken, but people that decided to abuse it, and took the entire thing anyways? Knowing it could be broken in fours? 40 Milligrams are no longer made however the 10′s are. The company makes very small 10 mg pills and by eliminating the 40 they should make the 10mg just as large to indicate it looks strong? Who knows. For 10mg’s of Methadone is strong!

Fact: 10mg’s of Methadone is approx. 100 Milligrams of Morphine. Now this varies in IV and other routes of administration how it is metabolized, but for a standard equal it holds primary true. Methadone in a pain scenario prescribed 5mg’s a day for three days, than 10 mg’s a day for three day’s and so on (Until determined the level of pain it is controlling) will never represent a problem with the patient. This patient must be simply monitored to see how they are reacting to the medication as far as fatique, lack of motor coordination, mental awareness for a two week period. The patient decides how they are reacting to the medication. Than they can safely be on the a stable dose of Methadone which is superior in pain control versus anything else.

Methadone should not be mixed with alcohol at all! Methadone should not be mixed with any type of Benzodiazepiene.

Methadone does not induce “Sleep Driving” like Ambien does.

And last HARMD is so quick to indicate that pain patients use Methadone because it is cheap. They say “Cheaper is not always better.” What an crazy statement. I never heard that before. Since when is anything cheap ever better? I think they made it up. Don’t better things cost money? Explain that to me?

BUT! Methadone as bought as a illegal drug on the street is anything but cheap! Not in the least. It is just as expensive as everything else. Again it should never be purchased illegally! That solves that problem. Say no to drugs.The only way to obtain it cheap is legal. Methadone treatment in clinic’s is EXPENSIVE not CHEAP either. So I have no idea what they are talking about. So people that used it, abused it and died, did not pay pennies for their death but high dollar like everything else. And it is cheap. So what? I am a pain person that didn’t have insurance, that was a blessing. HARMD could care less about that! Stating that Methadone is cheap as bought from a genuine prescription was a dumb thing to put in their arsenal. So what? It again is not cheap on the street or from the drug dealer on the corner.

What are my sources? I am a extensive researcher on opiates. I weaned off of 200mg’s of Methadone a day as precribed for pain in 3 months and had them in my hand. I been researching opiates for 10 years and was a legally prescribed user of the,Give me any question on any opiate. I will give you an answer. Not a lie.

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I am going through a child custody and divorce battle. When I was 5 months pregnant, I found out my husband was dating my step-sister behind my back. He was in Iraq when I found out. In emails I found he was saying that my step-sister was going to be the mother and not me and that he was gonna take my son away from me, make me cry for life, and that I was never going to forget him who he is. Well, I gave birth to our son on July 4, 2008 and my husband came back from Iraq in January 2009. At first we tried shared parenting (he would get my son one week and then I would get him the next) but then my son started coming back to me with very bad diaper rashes and one time came back with a cigarette burn on his big toe. I took him to the doctor and they called CPS. They didn’t do shit. Anyway, I kept him from his father cause I wanted to find out what was going on. I went to jail for traffic tickets in October. On October 14, I got served divorce and child custody papers. The court date was for October 15. I was still in jail and there was no way I was gonna make it. My husband didn’t tell the judge I was in jail so he got temporary child custody papers. I got out and got me a lawyer. My husband was pissed when he found out and told his lawyer that I am a drug addict, an alcoholic, that I have a criminal history, not a good job history (this part is true), and that I am a party girl. None of this is true except for the job history. Also he tried to say that every time he got Nathaniel back he had bad diaper rashes from me. Well, my lawyer said that I may not get my son back cause I don’t have a place of my own, I don’t have a car (my ex took it), since I live with my mom and she has a criminal history (which has an assault charge but it was like 3, 4 years ago) it will look bad on me. In the papers my ex put that he doesn’t want my mom around my son at all. What pisses me off is that when he would give me no money before my son was born for baby things, she bought everything for my son. When I was an overnight cashier at wal-mart she watched my son and he was well taken care of. My mom has never hit a child. Hell, she never spanked me or my brother. He hates her cause she caught him cheating before I did. Well, a couple of days ago my lawyer said that they are offering me final orders where we both have joint custody but he is primary and I will have supervised visits with my son. My lawyer said that he might get custody cause he has his own place, a steady job (Military although he is getting out in October), and a car. My lawyer said that if I agree to this, in a year I can go back and do a modification and get the orders chaged. My ex filed in Coryell County. I am in Williamson County. I don’t know what to do. It seems like my ex is getting everything he wants and I am not getting anything. I have nothing. He has witnesses and I don’t. He is making it seem like I am a violent person and I am not. Can anyone help me? I don’t know what to do.

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My son is almost 19months old. His biological has not seen him since he was 3 weeks old, nor has he called. He does not pay child support. My son does not have his last name, and the biological is not on the birth certificate. I havent heard from the biological since like I said my son was 3 weeks old. I am now married and my husband has been the daddy of my son landon. He is in the military, has taken care of landon, paid for his circumcision.. and anything else you can think of, my husband has done it. My husband would like to adopt Landon.. however Im afraid if I start this process they will contact the biological and send him paperwork. I highly doubt he would fight it, since he hasnt had a care in the world since Landon was born. But theres always that chance. His bioligical I have heard from mutual friends has started doing Meth, and still smokes Marijuanna. (I found out after I got pregnant.) I couldnt imagine if he was to fight this, and have visitations to landon. I couldnt imagine handing landon over to someone who does drugs, and wasnt in his life in the first place. I live in California. Does anyone know how about this would go? Do I have a good chance at winning? Would the judge look at how the biological just disappeared and hasnt been a father? All answers helpful. Thank You!

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This is the first death of the first chapter of the first pages. It bassically introduces the main baddie and is a little back ground info on the main character (Salvier)

Edwin looked around the hall slowly and cautiously.
A silver sword lay on the table nearest Edwin, gleaming and shining in the moonlight’s beams. Slowly he walked to the table, trying not to show signs of a destination he wished to end up.. The sword had small encryptions along the blade, in some foreign language, shadowed out from the rest of it.
His fingers crept ever so closer to the awaiting blade and with a swift hand he grasped the blade’s hilt.
Edwin jumped towards the hooded man, swinging his sword franticly at him, but struck nothing but thin air.
The hooded man had vanished into thin air.
Edwin’s heart was pouncing around in his chest, as he waited the inevitable.
From behind him there was a small cracking sound as the hooded man suddenly appeared again.
Edwin turned around and attempted to swing, but failed.
His energy seemed to be sucked from him, leaving him threat-less.
A sharp pain had appeared in his stomach, an aching agony of life and death.
His drew his eyes to the source, witnessing the blade of the hooded man burrowed inside him.
The man’s sword had turned back into raw steel as it punctured Edwin’s stomach.
The man drew his blade back from Edwin as he fell to his knees, dropping the encrypted blade.
“I see death now. And his friends, they await me. God damn you.” muttered Edwin, blood trickling from his mouth.
“I am death.” said the hooded man.
“And even death must die.”
With as much speed as he could, Edwin drew the small blade from the hooded man’s holster that was attached to his boot, and stuck it deep into the man’s chest.
The hooded man burst into an un-humanly scream and vanished into a ball of black smoke, disappearing from the house.
Edwin fell to the floor, as a small boy walked from a room.
He resembled Edwin, sharing his brown eyes and black hair.
“Daddy?” muttered the small boy, as a tear fell down his cheek.
“Salvier, my son-”
Salvier ran to Edwin, helping him up, best he could, full of helplessness and numb to the bone.
As he did so, a woman ran from the room opposite Salvier’s and burst into tears. She too helped Edwin to a sitting position, and they both griped him in a hug.
The long blonde hair of the woman was spread out upon her back like butter on bread. She was sobbing into Edwin’s shoulder as he picked up her and Salvier’s faces, looking into their eyes.
“Salvier – Son – It’s going to be ok.” he told him with a smile, “Just remember, whatever happens. I will love you with all my heart. Stay strong son.”
He kissed the forehead of the young boy, which triggered more and more. The last moments in his life with his only son, and the burden of that weighted heavy on him.
Salvier staggered back to the door of his room, but stopped.
He looked back on his sobbing mother and father.
“Julie – Julie, listen to me. You need to raise our son best you can. You’ll do great, I know you will.” he muttered, smiling at her.
“I don’t want you to go, Edwin.” she blurted out, crying, “You’re my only love. I’m nothing without you.”
“I don’t want to go either, Julie. But I have to, it’s time. Your strong, you’ll make it.”
He picked her face up once more from his shoulder and kissed her.
They kissed for the last time, the last feeling, the last touch.
“I love you.” he whispered, “I’ll see you in another world, my love, don’t be late.”
And with those final words of sorrow and promise, Salvier watched his father close his eyes, forever more.

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