How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

I had to borrow my son’s Ford Ranger to go to home depot to get some stuff. Well me being nosy and everything i opened up his glove box and found a few porn DVD’s and two packs of Cigarettes and used condoms and a bottle of everclear. i don’t know how he got either considering he is 17 years old and everything. I feel so disappointed in him but at the same time i think his cousin is supplying him with all of this stuff and everything. I get the feeling talking to my son is going to do absolutely no good. I am unsure what to do, Advice?

The boy’s mother was cleaning his room the other day and what does she find under his bed. A mountain of playboy’s. She then tell me that went in a wild search to find any other disgusting materials and came across pot, lighters and rolling papers in his sock drawer and a bottle of captains morgans in his cabinet. Me and my wife have no clue what to do. My son keeps screaming that liquor,marijuana and porn are not frowned upon in the bible or church but I doubt this. I no wine turns into the blood of christ and all but it is just a little taste of it. Not 40% rum. Advice from fellow christians would be greatly appreciated. Non-christians need not reply.

technical legal issue? In other words, he definately had the drugs in his car and they were his but because of a screw up in the legal system he was found not guilty. I wouldn’t be happy but i have seen some families that are-like he never really did it!!

Not that i am complaining i am so happy for him but just wondering why the alcohol is clearing his face up, i mean it is something so simple. He also washes his face atleast twice daily with dial soap, a remedy his teacher told him.

please tell me what to do about him and the drugs without cops

i want to confront him but i dont want to seem like a uncool dad. What do I do?

Should I say something or will that ruin my son’s chances of being popular??

Should i say something, I don’t wanna hurt his chances of being popular. I want him to be able to go to all the underage drinking parties.

I found out from a friend of my son that my 29 year old homeless son used to be on Meth. My son has no job and is sleeping in his van for the past 7 months. My son says he is not on drugs. That he just has bad luck. His friend used to do it with him but got help and went through rehab and found GOD. What can I do to help my son? Please help!

I’m fairly concerned that one of my family members is on crystal meth now. I know its not my mother-in-laws drugs, because she only does ketamine, whippits, and nyquil.
How do I find out whose drugs they are without confronting or embarassing anyone? Or should I just keep the meth and use it/sell it?

Why cant my family go back to the simpler times of hiding airplane bottles of liquor around the house for Easter?