I have found a small zip lock bag with marijuana in my teenage son’s room? i never experienced marijuana in the culture i was growing up in but i have done some research and it doesn’t seem much more harmful than alcohol and i surely don’t want to take away from his highschool experience. Hes doing well in school so the possibility of a drug addiction isn’t a big concern of mine. Thoughts or suggestions?
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The other day i was sitting at home watching tv, and I heard some rustling in the bushes in front of my house. I went outside to check it out, and there was Jesus, holes and all. I invited him to come inside, but he was sobbing, saying something about needing cocaine. I said I couldn’t help him, cuz I think he was trying to set me up. Yesterday I noticed my gold jewelry was missing, and I went to go ask Jesus if he knows what happened to it, being the son of god and all. There he was, sniffling, with cocaine residue below his nostril. What should I do? I can’t shoot him because he will just raise from the dead again!! Please help!
I do not want to chat with anyone unless they are an AA or NA member. I am desperate for help. I have a problem with alcohol and I need support and advice from someone in the program. I just want to talk to someone who has been through or is going through the same problems I have. My email is christyandzach50@yahoo.com My 10 year old son is zach and I need help in this area of alcoholism. Please please email me if you have it in your heart to talk. I need help. I need to talk to someone. Thank you. christy
my parents have told me that they did it and dont condone it. owever i believe it would be very hypocritical to punish them for it. i meen personally i would just try it once or twice to see what it was like. i do think that if they asked me if i tried it i would flat out tell them yes and explain why
i dont rlly consider pot as a bad thing. its natural and way less bad for you than cggarettes and alchohol. the government makes it off as this horrible demon. but just think, people arent getting violent. they are relaxing, listning to music, wtching cartoons, and just having a good time. check out this website. its extremely informal.http://www.drugtext.org/sub/marmyt1.html
i respect any parent that wants communication with their children. im open with my parents about a lot of things. i know stories of the past ect. ect. ect. after my parents divorce my mother went down the wrong road. she didnt start with pot….ctually it was ecstacy. she ended up a meth addict. she is now clean.
from this expeience i would never let any drug pull me that way. i dont consider pot as a gateway drug. you have a choice to smoke pot and a choice for hard drugs. they are not connected. i do not live with her. i live wth my dad and step mom.
my dad used to smoke and my grandma caught him once. she gave it back to him later that day
i wouldnt condone it but kids will experiment. thyd learn from their mistakes
for people with asthma it can help open airways. although you would think the opposite to be true. its a proven fact. it can help people with athsma but also cause it in the long run. if my kids just try it its not gonna hapen
Back in April, he started calling in sick quite frequently and I noticed he has been doing cocaine, I have found two bags of cocaine in my bedroom, he has never paid me anything for his half of the rent or utilities and he thinks it is fair that I pay for everything. He is making my son and I very uncomfortable, i want to kick him out but I am scared, I am trying to find the right words, can you give me advice?
i found a bag of pills in my sons room after he was arrested in connection with a meth lab. is this something they use to make that poison or is he taking them to get high? any idea what this is and what it is used for?
This is slightly awkward to say the least. We have had numerous confrontations about his out of control marijuana and alcohol abuse but never anything like this. To make matters worse my daughter who is 16 told me this information and made me promise not to say anything. Any advice from other parents would be greatly appreciated.
In the home but i was unaware of it. I had a few of the things they said were being used but they were because I was re painting my home and some furniture. The police came with a warrent for my 16 year old son sellig pot I was not aware of that. Had my susppisions but nothing like that. Found some meth and sudafed in his and his friends room. found hide labs materials and jars of liquid throught the home hiden. I was unawre of these thing because i was consumed withthe care of my totally paralized mother, my boyfriends son who was recovering from a major car wreck that left him unable to walk or talk. he had steel plates put in his face and legs, jaw wired shut and a trach tube in throat. I also had my 3 year old to care for that has cystic fibrosis, my 11 year old with asthma. Also full time student online and the normal house hold duties. I was not aware that this stuff had been brought in. Now i may go to prison for 10 years for something i did not do!
i did not know until the police got the stuff out of my home it was even in there. i was very consumed with the care of the 3 very ill people i was caring for. it was an around the clock job no breaks
last night she was kicking it with her cousin and her friend and was drinking this morning she wakes up and i find another meth pipe with the lighter that was being used… now we have my 1 yr old son and i really dont want him going thru this… should i put a restriction order on her or what take this to court??
So i called the police after I had posted this I still didnt know what to do at the time… I called my mom to pick up my son I didnt want him to be there going thru this watching etc…So Two officers came down and so I spoke to them, The wife is still asleep doesnt have a clue wats going on… The officers clearly break it down and tell me what is it that you want us to do… and well with what they said I really could not afford her going in cuz then I would stack bills on my shoulder that I really dont need… So they told to really speak to her and take her to rehab and get her a detox and all that stuff… and try to save my family instead of having to go to court spending a shit load of money and having to testify against my wife and taking full custody of my son… I know it really sucks for me right now cuz I dont have that kind of money to pay for an attorney and so forth… I really love my family and idk what to do??? some couples are lucky and dont have to go thru this…
k so after the cops left I felt a little better no they didnt take her cuz I said no and yes I apologized for their waste of time and they it was fine as long as they helped me… When she wakes up finally I told her whats up with you? she goes nothing? so it took about 3 questions until she said yes I did do it last night(tweek)well ne way I told her I wasnt going to put up with it and i was taking my son with my so she cried and begged me for hours.. for me not to leave, she promised apologized she swore and put it on my son that she would not ever come in contact with it again but she didnt regret doing it cuz that didnt come out of her mouth.. but basically everything else.. I told her you know what you should of thought of this before you did it you are an adult a mom and a wife you should act like one im a man and i know wat is expected from me and dont need to be doing stupid shit and lose my family… So she cried and begged some more and swore and all that stuff.. & guess wat?
Im still here… I feel like im taking care of another child, Always watching her, Always around etc…
Why??? I love my family.. But why does somebody (partner) have to kill it for the husband(in my case) and son??? I dont understand???
My friend told me while she was outside tending her yard she found a plastic baggie close to where her husband parks and thinks it may have cocaine in it (shes not sure)..her 16 year old son also took the truck out last night…we are not sure what to do..we don’t even know if it belongs to one of them…throw it out? call the cops? ask the family about it? any ideas?
Her son does have a part time job..so I guess he could buy some…I mean you can buy a small amount or a large amount can’t you..
So I found out that my 15 year old smokes weed every friday at his friends house and sometimes at his brothers house. I don’t know anything about weed, I only smoked it once.
My son is a healthy kid, he passes his classes and is active. I didn’t get that mad at him, and my boyfriend didn’t really care either because he used to do cocaine when he was young. I told my son that pot will ruin his life and he will end up on the street if he keeps doing it, and that it kills his brain cells and I couldn’t believe what I saw but he bursted out in laughter. He knows everything about pot, and almost convinced me that marijuana is not even as bad as alchohol and doesn’t kill your braincells and that it is not addicting either.
My boyfriend and my older son both said I shouldn’t worry about him doing it on weekends, as long as he isn’t doing other drugs. They both said its fine.
What would you do?
I had to borrow my son’s Ford Ranger to go to home depot to get some stuff. Well me being nosy and everything i opened up his glove box and found a few porn DVD’s and two packs of Cigarettes and used condoms and a bottle of everclear. i don’t know how he got either considering he is 17 years old and everything. I feel so disappointed in him but at the same time i think his cousin is supplying him with all of this stuff and everything. I get the feeling talking to my son is going to do absolutely no good. I am unsure what to do, Advice?
I had to borrow my son’s Ford Ranger to go to home depot to get some stuff. Well me being nosy and everything i opened up his glove box and found a few porn DVD’s and two packs of Cigarettes and used condoms and a bottle of everclear. i don’t know how he got either considering he is 17 years old and everything. I feel so disappointed in him but at the same time i think his cousin is supplying him with all of this stuff and everything. I get the feeling talking to my son is going to do absolutely no good. I am unsure what to do, Advice?
If your teenage son or daughter was doing any of the following, Which would you find LEAST BOTHERSOME
a) doing drugs/alcohol/drinking and driving
b) having multiple sex partners or homosexual
c) doing badly in school
why?
Just asking because i go to a alternative school ( cause i got in trouble ) and i see alot of kids that look like they come to school out of it and sh!t like that do u think thats right. HTF cann u let your child hurt there life like that with stupid sh!t continously like that?? I dont do drugs i would thinks its proaly the most overated ga*est thing to get into nowa days. I would probably bust the breaks off my childs a** if i found him doing smoking drugs rather than alchol unless he was doing the big time alchol ( like ill probably not be as hard if he was doing beer or what not ) but the thing about smoking drugs it accumalates more. Stuff like bar alchols arent as bad to me its a way lesser image. I dont think that sh** is attractive for girls to do it thats a fu**in turn off to me. Yah it probably is a rush and you probably get a good fu**** up filling from it but at what expense? I think these parents need to stop being bit*** and crack down on this sh** how about yall?
Lmao satin yes there is a way to stop you i know that lol. I bet a good beat down from highly strick or disciplinary parents will help or even boot camp. Usually the kids that say that the parents cant really do anything to stop it is the parents that havent seen physical or ” breakdown” disiplinary action at work. I havent been to boot camp but just imagine it as a freakin alternative school with a drill sargent lol i bet that will get you right. No one cant be brokendown disciplinarly expecially when things get personal and stuff gets serious as hell.
I was cleaning my 11 yr old son’s room, and under his bed i found 34 mg of crystal meth, 8 ounces of strawberry meth and 6 leaches for slomming. Hes going into his school’s rehab and idk if i should send him to our towns correction center. What should i do??
I have been with this man for 5 years, married for 3. I married him once he was 6 months sober. He has not touched alcohol in almost 4 years now, but has had a round of appx. 5 knee surgeries in the past year, and each came with a prescription of pain killers. Last surgery was 7-30 and he is still on and running out of pills. Now he’s taking anything he can get, even if it’s not for pain. He has turned into a mentally abusive man and we have a 4 month old son along with his 3 children from other marriages. I now have my own son to look out for and, being a Christian, don’t want my son around this behavior, but also have a problem with divorce. Now, everything is my fault and I’m some crazy womansince he’s started this nonsense. Now I’m taking care of the baby, the step-kids, the house, the bills, and making the money – he hurts too badly to go to work. I’m very confused and very hurt. I went thru all this before with alcohol. Sure don’t want to do it again with a new baby.
I had to borrow my son’s Ford Ranger to go to home depot to get some stuff. Well me being nosy and everything i opened up his glove box and found a few porn DVD’s and two packs of Cigarettes and used condoms and a bottle of everclear. i don’t know how he got either considering he is 17 years old and everything. I feel so disappointed in him but at the same time i think his cousin is supplying him with all of this stuff and everything. I get the feeling talking to my son is going to do absolutely no good. I am unsure what to do, Advice?
The boy’s mother was cleaning his room the other day and what does she find under his bed. A mountain of playboy’s. She then tell me that went in a wild search to find any other disgusting materials and came across pot, lighters and rolling papers in his sock drawer and a bottle of captains morgans in his cabinet. Me and my wife have no clue what to do. My son keeps screaming that liquor,marijuana and porn are not frowned upon in the bible or church but I doubt this. I no wine turns into the blood of christ and all but it is just a little taste of it. Not 40% rum. Advice from fellow christians would be greatly appreciated. Non-christians need not reply.
