How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

the 27 year old has a BFA in illustration and the 29 year old has an AA in auto body repair. Both are good workers, never miss work, show up for work everyday on time and clean and sober, yet they get passed over for employment by addicts and alcoholics. They are out every day looking for work and up all night on the computer looking. And nothing is happening. The 27 year old has $50,000+ in student loans that he has defaulted on and is in a very deep depression because of it. Why can’t they find work?

My sister is asking for my help in finding a treatment center for her son who happens to be addicted to alcohol. He’s a really good kid and we didn’t foresee this happening. I really want to help her with this.

affirmative action but -and here comes the irony- they do this after pledging their loyalty to GW Bush for 8 years -who we all know got into Yale even though he was known to be an alcoholic, a coke-head and a wild party guy- because he was a “Legacy” student with a father who-at the time- was head of the Republican National Committee.

So, if the alcoholic. coke-head son of an influential party member gets into Yale because daddy has money and connections that’s perfectly fine with the far right, but if anyone so much as used the phrase “Affirmative Action” in relation to Obama’s admission process at Harvard that’s grounds for impeachment?

I am trying to locate my childrens father so I can have him served with court papers waiving him the rights to his children since he has a violent relationship with his pill popping girlfriend which caused him to loose his oldest son (from previuos relationship not my kid) to the state of Florida, he is an alcoholic, and he has warrants out for his arrest. He works but off the books so I cant even track him through employment. My fiance wants to marry me and adopt my children but I cant locate their dad because his p*ssy ass hides from the law. What can I do to track him or even his girlfriend (cause that will lead to him) so I can get him in court? I cant afford a private investigator so does anyone have a clue?

My son doesn’t want to stop his intake of alcohol. It’s getting really out of hand. I would like to get the help of an intervention specialist so that I may be able to do an intervention for my son. It might work wonders.

I am new to the States and I have been forced to dilute Coors, but am afraid my son will develop a horrid palate for lousy beer. Please if you can give references for a decent Kinderbier with roughly only a 2% alcohol content. Ty in advance.
@ skippy. But that isn’t really beer, now is it?

My neighbor is asking me for help. Her son seems to have dual diagnosis and she doesn’t know what to do. He has always been depressed and now he’s taking alcohol too.

I really want to send my son (and possibly daughter too) a message this time in a song. He has trouble listening otherwise (ADHD, etc.). My Mom has had legal guardianship over him since he was 3 years old. I have two mental challenges and their father
was an alcoholic. The two of use fought almost 24/7 and we lost them.
Long story short: I was invited to go to Santa Cruz with my family with my Mom, my sister, her boyfriend, their new baby, my sister’s daughter, my 16 year old son, my 15 year old daughter, and a friend of theirs (male).
Well, I didn’t have enough money to pay for my room and it ended up being a disaster. I told my son I was going to cash a check at home – and would be back in a couple of hours – but didn’t actually get back until late that night. My boyfriend – who I’ve been with for the past 2 years is passive aggressive and drinks and he made things very hard on me and started playing a lot of head games with me and was picking fights. All the while I was fighting to find the check (which never to this day showed up but his Mom had been calling frantically saying his aunt who is 97 yrs old and apparently as sharp as a tack, and she had been calling daily – saying to call
back and let her know if we received this check). So since we were all the way up in Santa Cruz with no way of paying for the room – I decided to jam home quickly and pick up this check – which must have had significant value with all the hysterics his Mother was making – leaving messages on the phone for days, and cash it and come back to the motel to pay them and finish having a nice vacation with my family and kids. Well, no check
ever arrived, my boyfriend kept drinking, I was worried sick because of my promise to my kids – who were with my Mom and sister – who just got a huge insurance settlement and were able to go on vacation because of it and never offered to help me at all. I was embarrased to ask for help. I don’t think I’ve ever received financial help from them ever. I’ve always been the one to bring everyone laptop computers, clothes, buy everyone dinners, etc., through the years. I felt really awkward and didn’t really understand the significance behind this
vacation. I had a previous husband pass away from cancer
who was an extremely kind and caring man who actually raised my self esteem and helped me in life. But living with this passive aggressive person feels as if he’s breaking me down every minute of every day emotionally – and I can’t figure out if it’s me still. It’s very weird and hard to explain. It’s like I’m going crazy. Is this possible? I can hear the cries of people who love me (sort of) in the background and I think my son may
have sent me this song… but I’m not sure if it was intended for me, and I’m too beaten down and emotionally traumatized to ask him, although I wouldn’t get a straight answer. I’m not just traumatized from my boyfriend though.
I have always felt emotionally abused for many many years from others (not mentioning names and not excluding family members) too and then in 2006, the death of my husband who I felt was respectful and kind – caused me to lose major self esteem, and my Mother and sister never (at least not in front of me) encouraged my kids to be nice to me and my kids always gave me the cold shoulder and literally have not talked with or to me for maybe 10 years or more – no matter what I’ve done or given, or no matter how much I’ve been there, etc.
Now, after all these years, I feel like I’m finally breaking – and it feels like now maybe they’re needing me more or something (I’m not sure, it’s weird)… and at a time when I’m my weakest… and I almost feel as if I’m dying. I want most of all for them to be taken care of course and for the ability to take care of them, but I think I also would really like them to at least know how much I was there and for them to know they’ve been brainwashed. I’ll probably get blasted for writing this – someone will find it somehow and I’ll be the outcast for another 6 months or a year.

I want their forgiveness and to enjoy the (ANY) time I am now able to spend with them, and to stop thinking I’m this great big enemy that’s out to destroy them or something. It’s always been like I’m this monster (this is the way I think I was described).
Anyway, I have a quote on my wall that says, “Dear God, when they accuse me falsely, help them see the innocence in me. And when I judge, Lord, help me see the innocence in them. Amen.” This is the song my son published last night… “Kanye West – Heartless.” and I have this Mother’s intuition still inside me that it was intended for me, so just in case it was meant for me, can anyone help me find a song in reply about – a Misunderstanding and Love for my son and/or son and daughter?
#1 – I have emailed them about 7 times. #2 – I’m not only not coming around because of my boyfriend. I’m also not coming around because it’s so miserable getting the cold shoulder from them every time I’m around, being told what to do, when to leave, how to behave, that I’m not “listening”, and being judged the entire time. I get lectured and harrassed the entire time I’m there and its not peaceful to say the least. I hate my boyfriend and I’m trying to find a way out. Its easier said than done. He’s scary and he’s actually put me in jail when I didn’t do anything, he’s so abusive. He was afraid, so he called the police before I did and put me in a position that made me look like I was the perpertrator. He’s scary, covert, full of repressed anger, has no conscience, and I’d be afraid of something happening to me or my kids if I just up and left, and he’d destroy my things (I practically have nothing left from all the things he’s already destroyed from either drinking or anger).

see im a transexaul and its fake pubic hair . it might be from my sons meth lab. hes always spillin the shit on my bed .help please

My friend is asking for my help because her son needs to get himself treated for alcohol addiction. Can anyone please give me suggestions on how I might be able to help her?

please help me find this film, its about a lady who is high on cocaine causes her son to have a motorbike accident, he dies then his heart is given to another man, which the mum then falls in love with. she later on shoots him as he started to mistreat himself. she then bearys the heart with her son, i think it was called heart but i cant find no referance to it, it had a woman called natasha richardson in it, please help me thanks
thank you so much, i must have got the film mixed with another, that is the film, im so happy now thanks soooo much, ill give you top answer, have a great christmas

I have become concerned about some of the people my teenage son is conversing with on the internet. He has an email account through our main ISP (Comcast) that I have access to. But I have found out that he has a Hotmail account that I cannot access.

I suspect some of the people he is talking to are discussing using drugs and alcohol. Our son is basically a good kid but he can be easily influenced and I am concerned about adults or troubled kids taking advantage of that.

I was told by a friend that I could install ‘computer spyware’ and use that to find his passwords? Will this really work? Where should I start to look for this kind of software? What kind of results can I expect? What are the best brands of this software?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I have a coworker that went through some very scary years as a meth addict. He has been clean for over four years. He cleaned up and got a job when his little boy was born. He is such a wonderful father, and a hard worker. His problem. After the son was born, his wife left him for another addict. He is a single father, and does not date, because his teeth have gone so bad from the drug abuse, he fears no one would have him. He does not earn much (approx. $8.00/hr) and does not have dental insurance. Does anyone know how to go about getting him some help? His teeth are causing health issues and he wants to look better so his son will not be embarrassed by him.

I am looking for a Rescue Mission of some sort that my son can get into as soon as possible.

I need to do this for a friend of mine who is asking for my help. She needs to find an alcohol rehab for her son. She was really shocked when she found out about her son being an alcoholic. I guess she just never thought that something like this could happen to her own son– who is a straight A student and a really good kid.

He’s out of control–staying out late at nights, using drugs and alcohol, hanging out with the wrong kids, defying parental authority and skipping school. His mother and I have decided that a boarding school that provides therapy, a regular schedule, plenty of exercise and positive morals is the best option at this time. Where do we start and what questions should we ask? There are a lot of websites and it’s hard to determine what to believe.

Can comeone please help he find this rap song. It’ goes
“every night im in the kitchen smokin herb and cookin up dope a couple of ounces of cocaine with bakin powder soap cuz pushing narcotics seems to be my last and only hope for me to make a future for my son and pay his way through college. ” I’ve been trying to find it forever but i can’t!

I have a cousin who has relapsed on cocaine and i want to find her some NA meetings in her city and state.She has a son that she needs to take care of because he has special needs. I don’t want her to get back in the life she was in before.So can someone tell me how to find out where she can go by using the internet.Thanks

I recently got custody of my son however, the mother is now pregnant again and due in October. She is suppose to have a UA done on her baby at the time of birth for Meth. I have been concerned about Meth use around my son as well. but have never been able to prove it. Recently I heard from a mutual friend that CPS is suppose to do this UA on her baby. I know that it is none of my business regarding her baby but I am wondering if anyone knew if I could follow up with CPS regarding my son in this case also. Has anyone ever worked with CPS, or have any suggestions how I go about doing this?

A concerned Father

I have always held on to my principle not to have any vices. I stayed away from my friends when I learned that they were doing drugs. I did not hang out at bars or any alcoholics. I held on to my principle. That is, until a few months ago. A few months ago when my son died and I could no longer handle the pain. That’s when I started drinking like alcohol was water and I’d be dead without it. I want to get myself treated now, but how? Please help.