My brother in law has just turned 18 and has gotten into smoking, doing drugs, and drinking whenever he gets the chance. Now, this boy loves his 10 month old nephew, with all his heart, and will never pass up a chance to see him, but he also wants to babysit.. My partner thinks this would be okay, but I put my foot down and said that he is not allowed to until he is clean from the drugs, and he has to be sober that day.. My entire in-law family thinks I am nuts as they don’t know that thier son is into drugs and smoking, and all they know is that I refuse to allow their son to babysit my little boy..

My father is also a constant drunk, and he has been told no babysitting unless there is a complete promise of no alcohol..

My brother has a history of drugs and is prohibited from babysitting..

Now, honestly mummies.. Do you think I am crazy? Or should I allow these drunks and druggos to babysit my son, when they could potentially harm him? Keep in mind he is also crawling and climbing, and EVERYTHING goes into his mouth.. I am afraid of them leaving a bottle of beer or dropping some drugs, and him consuming them..

Please, be honest.. =/
He is a weed user, that will do it anywhere and everywhere.. He also drinks everywhere.. He rang me up drunk about 3 hours ago, just to tell me he was awesome.. Now, does that sound like a uncle that should be allowed to babysit?

He has been to our house and made our son cry when drunk before.

” 43-year-old Manuel De Jesus Rosales of Lehigh Acres, Florida is a brutal killer.
He’s accused of slitting the throat of his own daughter while in a drunken rage. Not content of just slitting the throat of his own daughter while she looked on he also slit the throat of his 3-moth-old grandson, the daughter’s son. Unfortunately the baby did not survive the attack. After slitting the baby’s throat he allegedly presented him to his daughter saying “here’s your bastard. ”

“25-year-old Randy Thomsen of Las Vegas, Nevada has been charged with beating and kicking his 4-month-old son and putting him in a freezer and closing the door on him. The infant suffered a fracture skull and broken ribs which Thomesn allegedly tried blaming on a fall. ”

“Police in Grapevine, Texas arrested Julio Cesar Garcia, 20, and Branda Duran, 19, after witnesses at a party allegedly saw them passing a bong to their 13-month-old son. Witnesses say that the boy put his mouth around the top of the bong and was playing with a bowl of weed.”

“20-year-old Anthony Parra of Queens, New York is accused of putting his girlfriend’s daughter into ICU by scalding the 11-month-old girl. These stories are almost becoming old hat. It has all the usual elements. Boyfriend was babysitting while mom was at work, baby starts to cry boyfriend flips out and harms the child. ”

“McALLEN, Texas – A man accused of fatally beating his 2-year-old stepdaughter when she wouldn’t stop crying as he watched a World Cup game has been charged with capital murder.”

“29-year-old Peter James Wilson of is accused of slashing the throat of his 5-year-old step-daughter while on vacation in Hoodsport, Washington.

Allegedly Wilson argued with his wife over how the children should be disciplined and then told his wife “not to worry that he would take care of it.”

“19-year-old Marlon M. Hines of St. Charles County, Missouri, has been charged in the May 31st death of his 12-week-old daughter.

Hines is accused of ‘applying pressure’ to his daughters chest while he was trying to change her. He was allegedly ‘frustrated’ because his daughter soiled herself several times. Hines allegedly applied so much pressure that he fractured his daughter’s ribs and lacerated her liver. The cause of death was internal bleeding from the liver.”

“Police in Salinas, California have arrested 20-year-old Samantha Tomasini and 38-year-old Patrick Fousek after they allegedly tried to sell their baby to a pair of women in the parking lot of a Wal-Mart for $25.

Police say the pair appeared to be tweaking on meth. Tomasini allegedly admitted to even breastfeeding the baby while high on meth. ”

“New York State Police were called to the Vienna, New York home of Adam Theall’s parents. The 21-year-old Theall was threatening to kill his 3-month-old son if police responded. He made good on his promise. When a New York State Trooper arrived at the scene Theall shot his infant son with a shotgun without hesitation.”

“Police in Wells Township, Ohio have arrested an unnamed 49-year-old woman for prostituting her 14-year-old daughter so the woman could get crack. It’s alleged that she started pimping out her daughter at the age of 10.’

“Police in Louisville, Kentucky have arrested 29-year-old Bobbie Nelson, 38-year-old Denise Haynes, and 48-year-old Tommy Harris for allegedly not only running a meth lab with kids in the house but having the lab in the kids’ room.”

“19-year-old Staci Lynn Barbosa and 23-year-old Jonathan Edward Vandergriff of Bullhead City, Arizona have been arrested in the brutal death of their one-month-old

The boy was brought to the hospital with extensive injuries and the baby died from his injuries. The baby had broken ribs, a broken femur, malnourished, dehydrated and showed signs of shaken baby syndrome. Police also say that the baby was raped by his own parents. ”

“23-year-old Kayla Neighbors of Greenwood, Indiana was arrested last week for slamming her infant to the ground while tweaked out on meth.

Her neighbors were concerned because she was screaming about dropping her baby. When her neighbors found her baby and handed it to her she looked at the baby then threw it on the parking lot pavement.”

“34-year-old Stephanie Rochester of Boulder, Colorado has been charged in the smothering murder of her 6-month-old son Rylan. She allegedly killed her own son over fears that he may have Autism. ”

“11 month-old Kayla Marie Taschler from Palmerton, Pennsylvania died back in January after being left unattended in her