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My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.

After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.

This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?

Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…

1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)

2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).

3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.

4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.

5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.

My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.

After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.

This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?

Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…

1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)

2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).

3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.

4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.

5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.

My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.

After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.

This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?

Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…

1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)

2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).

3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.

4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.

5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.

My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.

After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.

This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?

Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…

1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)

2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).

3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.

4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.

5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.

My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.

After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.

This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?

Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…

1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)

2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).

3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.

4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.

5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.

My 16 year old son was driving with 2 of his friends and they were all drinking beer. The police saw them driving erratically and found the beer when they pulled them over. My son had to pee really bad because he drank 3 beers. He asked to go to the bathroom when they were handcuffing him, but the said he had to wait till they put him in the holding cell at the police station. My son wet his pants in the back of the police car and soaked the seat. I’m mad that my son wet himself just because he wasn’t allowed to go to the bathroom. My son isn’t scheduled to be in court for his arrest because it wasn’t as bad as other alcohol-related incidents, but should I start a court case for my son wetting his pants because the police made him?

My 16 year old son was driving with 2 of his friends and they were all drinking beer. The police saw them driving erratically and found the beer when they pulled them over. My son had to pee really bad because he drank 3 beers. He asked to go to the bathroom when they were handcuffing him, but the said he had to wait till they put him in the holding cell at the police station. My son wet his pants in the back of the police car and soaked the seat. I’m mad that my son wet himself just because he wasn’t allowed to go to the bathroom. My son isn’t scheduled to be in court for his arrest because it wasn’t as bad as other alcohol-related incidents, but should I start a court case for my son wetting his pants because the police made him?

My 16 year old son was driving with 2 of his friends and they were all drinking beer. The police saw them driving erratically and found the beer when they pulled them over. My son had to pee really bad because he drank 3 beers. He asked to go to the bathroom when they were handcuffing him, but the said he had to wait till they put him in the holding cell at the police station. My son wet his pants in the back of the police car and soaked the seat. I’m mad that my son wet himself just because he wasn’t allowed to go to the bathroom. My son isn’t scheduled to be in court for his arrest because it wasn’t as bad as other alcohol-related incidents, but should I start a court case for my son wetting his pants because the police made him?

My 16 year old son was driving with 2 of his friends and they were all drinking beer. The police saw them driving erratically and found the beer when they pulled them over. My son had to pee really bad because he drank 3 beers. He asked to go to the bathroom when they were handcuffing him, but the said he had to wait till they put him in the holding cell at the police station. My son wet his pants in the back of the police car and soaked the seat. I’m mad that my son wet himself just because he wasn’t allowed to go to the bathroom. My son isn’t scheduled to be in court for his arrest because it wasn’t as bad as other alcohol-related incidents, but should I start a court case for my son wetting his pants because the police made him?

For 14 months my son was in prison for forgery,during this time the courts said he was making meth.Not true, to my knowledge they don”t let people out to do this.I contacted the justice department and they gave the federal prosecutor all the evidence I sent them.Everyone involved in my sons case is guilty of at least official missconduct.What can a Dad do? I am poor,disabled,and so is his Mom.Will someone take his case? He will win millions in civil court.Mom has all evidence to prove never guilty.Will someone interested please help? We haven”t seen our son in years.

Ok, Anyway i sent my 12 year old to school, with lunch, But i couldnt get the desert in time so i sent him to shool with some sugercubes for desert about 3 anyway and the school accused him with possession of crack cocaine they said it was the so called ”Arctic White” Cocaine when the tests came back it was suger. Anyway he got put in Juvinile hall before the results came in can i sue or what?
And again the reason i gave him 3 suger cubes is because i didnt have the time to get the brownies done!

His mother has been hostile every time I see her, or talk to her, and has had her mother with her every time I see him. I feel extremely uncomfortable around them even when my son is with me. He has tried to keep in touch with her, but she treats him like crap. Since his son was born, he has become a Christian, given up crack and meth, and still smokes pot on occasion and drinks 1-2 drinks occasionally. He has only just come to the point in his life where he CAN be a better dad. I did send my grandson birthday gifts, but dont know if I should try to talk to her when she is so nasty with my son and I. She never contacts me, and never sends photos or anything about my grandson. What should I do?
I did send him birthday gifts , a card, a page for the scrapbook I made him, and also a blank page for her to put pics on for his scrapbook. I also sent the obituary for his great-grandmother, who’s wishes on her 65th wedding anniversary last year was to see all her great-grandchildren before she died in feb

have you ever left someone alone ( you were in a relationship with ) for a long time because even though things were not horrible you knew they may never get better? my recent ex of 4 years i love him to death i feel like we are perfect for each other – but we have so much drama that when he told me to leave because of something that happened i did and i havent been back ive talked to him one time in a week and a half and it wasnt pretty – his mommah is out of control she smokes crack – steals from everyone ( includeing me and her son ) she doesnt pay any bills, doesnt clean up, has a smart mouth – my boyfriend doesnt understand why i dont want her in my house, i would never make him choose between us – thats his mother – he says it wont be like that forever but i know shell never be able to take care of herself – she makes comments to me so he cant hear them and when i say something he only hears me n thinks im starting the drama. he has put her out b4 but she
comes right back
and i wont lie i wouldnt let my mommah run the streets either and not let her be safe when i can provide that – i left and i doubt ill go back – but its so hard because when it was just me and him living together we had so fewer problems and doesnt understand where im coming from – his nana used to take care of his mother ( support her and her habit ) and she passed away – when she did he promised her he would take care of her and his little brother ( who finally grew up and got a job i am happy for him and proud of him ) and i promised i would watch out for him – i dont even know why i put this question up there – maybe i really just want to hear someone else say yeah i left someone i loved with all my heart becasue it wasnt right at the right time -

ok. my fiance may not be my sons father. my fiance knows that, the other guy knows that and i know that. this other guy is 26 right now and i’m 19. the other guy, who we’ll call chris, has 2 other children from his hs sweetheart/ ex wife. i haven’t talked to him since i told him i was pregnant (jan 08). well in june/july of 08, my fiance’s younger sister and chris met by chance and started partying together. well of course she told him i was having a boy, when i was due, where i was delivering, what his name was going to be, where we were going to be living, what i was doing nowadays, ect. basically every thing about me and my pregnancy that was none of his business.

chris and i dated about 3 years ago but i was still a minor so my parents forbid us to be together. then we ran into each other dec of 07 and hooked up b/c we had some unresolved feelings, but now (at least i) have moved way way past that and want nothing to do w/ him. when we found out i was pregnant, my fiance said i want to be the babies father no matter what. i told chris that my fiance said that and he said well im going into the service in may (which never happened) so maybe thats best. well we never spoke again and the nwhen he ran in to sherry, my fiances sister, he was dating one of her friends who also worked with my friends mom. the girl he was dating said to my friends mom 1 day at work- “does your daughter still hang out with veronica?” and she said yes. then the girl said “i’m dating her babies father” and we found out chris has been telling people that he was the dad of my baby and when the baby got here he was going to set my fiance straight and come around and demand a paternity test, get visitation, ect. well my fiance called him cussing and told him off, pretty much. that no matter what happened he(chris) wouldn’t get involved and it wasn’t chris’s baby ect. well chris and sherry decided to cook up a plan to tell my fiance i was still sleeping with chris and had been for all these months since i got pregnant. well my fiance was on the verge of believing it when sherry came clean and said chris has been lying all along and he finally admitted it to her that he lied. i think sherry had more in it but whatever. well after my son was born we heard nothing from chris. i even heard through friends of friends of friends that he was telling people i had tried to pin my son on him but paternity testing proved otherwise,i’m a whore it could be any1′s baby, plus the timing was months off and there was no way he had gotten me pregnant. so he isn’t interested in being the dad, which is a good thing. his two other children live in the same house as him, but his parents have full custody b/c the mom is a crack head and he signed custody to the grandparents willingly a long time ago. he spends his time drinking (and driving) partying, staying out all night ect. he also never went into the service and lost his job for along time. he lives with his parents and has never lived elsewhere except for 4 months a few years ago and three years when he lived with his wife, now ex. he is a piss poor dad and he is a manipulative, lying person. he steals and even does drugs from time to time (at least he did when i used to talk to him, doubt he has quit)
the thing is, my fiance waved the paternity test. our son looks just like my fiance so i really have no doubt that the baby is his, and niether does he. the thing is, chris is just the type to request a test just to stir things up and be an a-hole like he was before with the whole “were still having sex” thing. it bothers me that chris may one day get this idea into his head. if we see each other out in public (we live in the same town) i don’t want him to feel that i was rude (b/c i certainly won’t be friendly) and then go wow that baby looks like me i want to pursue a paternity test. just to be a jerk.

am i worrying for nothing? i get paranoid about this and stay on the look out everytime i leave the house. i never ever want chris to see the baby. am i being too paranoid?

please no rude answers. i am well aware and sorry for the mistakes i have made. i know this entire situation is my fault and i’m not passing the blame to any1 else.

thank you

what do i do? he sayshe doesnt feel good at all and his hands are cold and hes really sweaty.