My son is 19 years old and his fiancee and him attend UF And live around 4-5 hours away. Well anyways his fiancee is pregnant with there first child she claims she missed a pill and that is how she got pregnant. And well anyways my son made it clear before that, that he was not ready to become a father until they were out of school. Well he somewhat flipped out on his fiancee and that is why his fiancee and him came to my house when she broke the news to him. Well anyways his fiancee are close i consider her a daughter i never had. Well anyways we were talking the other night and she told me she has noticed that my son has been drinking a massively amount. He was in the ER the day before her and i talked for alcohol poisoning. And he is still talking she say’s she trys to talk to my son and comfort him and everything but he is just pushing her away. I am thinking about driving down there and sitting down with my son and having a talk with him because if he keeps up at this pace he will hurt himself or even die and i do not want to lose my son. And i also want him to understand that he can not be like this around his baby or his fiancee and that he could lose them both. Advice?
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Ok I hv an ex that is the father of my son. Complete ass and an alcoholic to boot. i kicked him out after numerous time of drunkness and abusiveness. Yet it is still all my fault according to his family. His life is hell because I took everything away from him. I am the reason I got pregnant, the only one, I guess I impregnanted myself. Things were good for awhile until I filed for child support. Now he is pissed cause he has to pay legally for his son and things just keep getting worse. Today his grandma proceeded to tell me that I was irresponsible for getting pregnant and that I chase him. I only tried to contact him after I found out I was pregnant. So like I said he dose no wrong even though he wrecked my car while drunk and hit a couple of older ladies and left the scene of the accident. Then when he got home he assaulted me. But yet again it is all my fault. Please explain to me why it is never ther persons fault that does the actions?
My son Cody is in dire straits at present.His wife left him along with three babies ages 5, 3 and 1.Sunday about midnight she called him and wanted him to come to the place where she was staying so that they could talk.The door was to be opened and he was told not to wake the people up.I begged him not to go and tried to tell him that she was up to something, but he wouldn’t listen.He went into the house but she was not there. As he was walking out the man that lives there awoke.And saw him as he was leaving.He called my house the next day and said that he had called the police on Cody.My son now sets and crys, he wants to die and is drowning himself in alcohol.We haven’t heard a thing from the police about this incident and continue to pray that we do not.I imposed on some of your questions by asking for pray, I hope this was not an offence but I believe in pray and wanted to get the word out.Emailed many of you.I want to thank all of you for your prayers and ask that you continue to.
Thank You Bobby, and God Bless You!
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Thank You really true 101,and God Bless You!
Thank You raven futrell, and God Bless You!
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Thank You Jennifer H,and God Bless You!
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Thank You Dr. G, and God Bless You!
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Thank You Jan P, and God Bless You!
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Thank You God is love,and God Bless You!
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Thank You BibleBeliever, and God Bless You Brother!
I am putting this question up for a vote. I will be able to let you know more the 9th. Thank You All Once again for your prayers and your wise advive. I love each of you, and you are more appreciatted than you realize.
very Bizarre problem here: I have a 15 year old step son who has head problems. He has stolen 60 pairs of m undies in the past 4 years! he wears them, destroys, rips, and defecates in them. then he hides them. yikes! a history on him: divorce, anger issues, 2 alcoholic parents.. He steals alot. iq 88. I have 2 small bos and am afraid he will hurt them. this kid is waked!
i have guardianship over my 2 gr.sons due to crack cocaine and i need proof before i let the girls go back to their mother if you know any place i could call or write i wouild appreciate it ty
I have a shocking true story could WYE ME about a boy that had a alcoholic mother with metal helf problems.
the boy is now 34 and happily married with 4 step kid and 2 of his own
He had cancer last year an has a 40% chance of dieing.
The family moved to a new home when the boy was 7 years old, and then the boys troubles started !
The boy had happy life until his mum became ill and started to drink heavily .
One day the boy came home from primary school to find his mum had taken a over dose she had try-ed to kill her self .
The boy panicked and did not now what to do as she lay motionless ,he tyred to wake her but she would not wake.up.
So he ran out in to the street crying and then knocked on a nab biers door for help .
The nubbier went with the boy to his house then the Lady rang 999 for a ambulance.and covert-ed the boy an till his father arrived.
When his dad got home he said to the boy she will be OK son ,as tears ran down his cheeks.
She in a special hospital ,meaning a mental hospital called Hill end, the boy did not under stand what was going on !
He felt scared and confused, all he wanted was his mum.
The next day the boy an his dad and big brother went to visit his mum at hill end mental hospital.
When the got there the the started to cry saying i don’t like this please daddy it was a old victor en building with scary people.
They went to reception and asked to see his mum ,so they waited until some one came to get them to take them to the ward.
They all went up along corridor it seamed to go on for ever and then up some stairs to to door with bars on the man unlocked the door and the first thing the boy saw was a old lady rocking and burping over and over and people walking up and down the ward talking to them self s.
The will never forget that day ,that day was start of the boys problems !
The mum has never recovered she is still very ill.
This has had a great impact on to boy life the family broke down and the boy started pulling his hair out .
his dad did not know what to do with the boy so he sent him to see a doctor and they did not know what was the mater with him.
At the age of nine the boy talk his first over does he talk his mum peels and ran away cry to the park thinking about his mum and wye is his life has got so bad now.
His father started to confide in the boy saying he dose not know what to do with mum, this was hard for the boy as he did not really understand or know what to say or do !
All the boy wanted was normal child hood and to be loved
.Things went wrong at school he could no think state and play up he was throne out
Things went from bad worst when he stated puberty, he started getting aggressive and fighting with his family ,he was fall off anger and his father could not cope with him and his mum ,so his father told him he has to go to boarding school .
Thing never worked out there and he was expelled age 13.
To cut along story short the boy left home age 14 he slept in a hag opiset his house for some time and a west Indian boy bro-rt him food this went on for some time an till the west Indian boys mum found out and talk him in .
the boy ended up in care not a nice please call Bridges he ran away to a place called farmstead and slept in a bus stop.
were he met Fred .
Fred lived in a foster home on a farm we became good Friends and i slept in the barn .
Fred had a hard life to so we got on well .
One day Fred and the boy started cutting there arms up, this felt good to them it realest all there stress an tent-ion.
(there so much more to tell about that time) they are still Friends to day
the boy ended up in hill end !!!! he was put to sleep for swearing again and again an-till he got Armand to the drug then he jumped throw the window and escaped
(so much more to tell)
some of
key points to cut to short
1 stabbed by father
2 flats he could not keep
4 first son
5 swots
6 drugs and self harming.
7 pub and club fighting
8 army
9 different home in different places
10 boxing with travellers and gasters and living on sites
11 Hill end
12 door man in London
13 lived with Fred’s mum she was hard work .had to look after her
14 went to lansaroty with tenner
15 drink mum
16 dads death
17 roses, Fred’s mums death the same week
18 inheritance from dad
19 marred the sister of Gail friend and had a baby boy could Tommy
20 now living with happily marred and and he has 40% of dieing from cancer
Yes that’s me, my Friends said it would make a good book can i have your expert pinyin please if poss .
be on-est
kind regards lee
lthotstuff2006@btinternet.com
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
Recently, i lost my daughter to cancer, last year my sister. A couple years ago my son to an overdose of cocaine. My mother died about three years past and my Dad passed when i was 10. Luckily when I was around 8 or 9 my Aunt in California enrolled me in the Science Fiction Book Club and I was introduced to some straight thinking and didn’t get bogged down in the Religions that were force fed to us here in the foothills of the Ozarks.
I could use a little inspiration. I read The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins awhile back and really enjoyed it. Any other suggestions?
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
She’s had MANY sex partners, including several of his friends. He claims they didn’t have sex, just got each other off…whatever that entails…so could he have some STD that he could pass to our son via sharing the same drink or what not?
Our son is 5 & autistic so telling him to not drink after is dad is something I try to teach him, but doesn’t necessarily get through to him.
BTW, this has NOTHING to do with me still having any sort of feelings for my ex. I left him.
Her method of choice is injection.
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
Okay, heres my story. My son has been friends with his older male cousin(he’ll remain nameless) for many years. In fact his cousin considers my son his best friend. But lately I’ve been noticing that his cousin has been acting strange. In fact he gets weirder every year. I investigated his family. His dad is a low life alcoholic that beats him and has their German Shepard attack him. Then his Step mom is a psycho who is obsessed with looking younger and she constantly abuses verbally and psychologically her step son. Threatens to make him go sleep outside. Then his siblings leave garbage in his room and that causes his Dad to beat him and his mom to cuss at him. Now she won’t let him have any friends over. She says their idiots. And she no longer calls him by his name, she calls him stupid. Now here’s the bad part, the kid has been speaking less and less, harming himself, playing with knives,getting dangerously close to my son, and now wants to kill the family except for my son.
The boy has been cutting his face, and wearing masks to hide his “ugly” face. He draws pictures of his whole family burning in hell saying he “did God’s work and sent them there” and it shows a picture of him and my son(his cousin) in Heaven saying “we’re good boys and God’s perfect Angels”. BTW, my son is 7, the boy is 8. The Step mom goes out and brings home other men and has them strip in front of the boy and they make out. Also did I forget to mention the boy masturbates to dead things and mutilated things? He sometimes just sits and stares into space, doesn’t move or talk. I have no clue what could happen. I am worried he might try to harm people and come for my son.
My step son was born with fetal alcohol syndrome and is mentally disabled because of it. He is also nonverbal and has the mentality of an 18 month old. He has been able to say mom, dad, hat and stop. He can also sign the word “stop.” His case worker wants to try and teach him 5 more words and has asked us to pick the words. For some reason this is such as hard decision. Any suggestions>
Sorry I forgot to mention the 5 words are going to be in sign language.
Ok I have a four year old step daughter and six year old step son and my husband and I have an 11 month old together, not to mention I am 18 weeks pregnant with our second together. My husband says that I am crazy and that I try to separate the children which in fact is not my intent but I try to make him understand that I do my best to make everything as equal as possible when they are here but that its not a perfect situation and that the family will always be divided in a way because his kids are here one week and at their mothers the next. my husband does not pay child support (its in the papers) at all and thats why we have them 50 percent of the time but its really bad this way because the kids have no stability. i believe they need to be at both places for longer periods of time or one of us needs full custody. anyways my step daughter who i believe is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong gets into things when she knows she is not supposed to. she got into some school supplies of mine in a shoe box on my desk (she was snooping) and took out 3 safety pins at some point while i was going to the bathroom and dropped them in her brothers play pen. I discovered them thankfully before anything happened but i think it was resentment or jealousy towards the baby and/or acting out for attention that she doesnt get from her dad who has pawned them off on me from day 1. i told my husband that she knew better and he says well maybe she is slow (she was born addicted to meth because of her mother) and needs to be tested. i just find it hard to believe that she is slow considering she does not show signs of developmental delays and also i think her older brother might have put her up to it. he lied to my face when i asked him about it. he said he did not know anything. their dad (my husband) talked to them but my husband insists that i am crazy because i think they are out to get me. am i crazy for even thinking that. i believe that at 4 and 6 almost 5 and 7 that they can be manipulative and that they are not stupid. i am not saying they are out to get me or hurt our son but i do think this possibility should be checked into and also having her tested for developmental delays. but my husband just goes into blaming mode. the girl was spanked for what she did last night and they were both grounded to their rooms for a few hours today after we found out they were both lying and were checked on often. i find something very wrong with the fact that when i asked her why she did it after she finally admitted to me that her only answer was cuz. and then her brother to boldly lie to my face. i think they both need serious counseling and i think my husband is trying to turn the problem around on me and say that i am the problem. the whole situation is bad in of itself and i dont know what to do any more. my husband doesnt even think its a big deal to tell their mother what they did and i think its a serious issue that needs to be nipped in the butt now and he some how thinks that i am a bad person and crazy also cuz they wont tell me the truth but they will him well gee i wonder why!!! they are not my biological children and they know that and they resent being shuffled between two places, what else could it possibly be? and to those of you who say you married the kids too, well thats fine and dandy but my own flesh and blood could have been killed and that makes me not want to have those kids in the house if their father can not control them or get them help. i dont think im crazy for wanting that and i do my best to treat them the same but they need to show me respect too and i feel my husband should be on my side and respect my wishes especially since he leaves those kids with me 95 percent of the time because he works more and when he is home he is watching tv among other things as long as i am here. im fed up what should i do? i dont want something worse to happen next time if those kids dont get help and he realizes the seriousness of this situation.
the kids have rules and their own spaces at our house…i resent the situation and my husband for allowing it to be the way that it is…and my husband changed a lot since we got married expecting that everything in our family is to be “normal” and that i am their mother (meaning take her place when they are here) and i think the kids resent that….and the girl was snooping through my things the box was up higher on my desk where she would have had to have gotten a chair to climb up there and grab it. they have been known to be sneaky like that before. i left the room for 2 min to go to the bathroom…the baby was in his play pen. and the kids have also been warned time and time again how dangerous small objects and toys are to babies. HELLO?
Ok I have a four year old step daughter and six year old step son and my husband and I have an 11 month old together, not to mention I am 18 weeks pregnant with our second together. My husband says that I am crazy and that I try to separate the children which in fact is not my intent but I try to make him understand that I do my best to make everything as equal as possible when they are here but that its not a perfect situation and that the family will always be divided in a way because his kids are here one week and at their mothers the next. my husband does not pay child support (its in the papers) at all and thats why we have them 50 percent of the time but its really bad this way because the kids have no stability. i believe they need to be at both places for longer periods of time or one of us needs full custody. anyways my step daughter who i believe is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong gets into things when she knows she is not supposed to. she got into some school supplies of mine in a shoe box on my desk (she was snooping) and took out 3 safety pins at some point while i was going to the bathroom and dropped them in her brothers play pen. I discovered them thankfully before anything happened but i think it was resentment or jealousy towards the baby and/or acting out for attention that she doesnt get from her dad who has pawned them off on me from day 1. i told my husband that she knew better and he says well maybe she is slow (she was born addicted to meth because of her mother) and needs to be tested. i just find it hard to believe that she is slow considering she does not show signs of developmental delays and also i think her older brother might have put her up to it. he lied to my face when i asked him about it. he said he did not know anything. their dad (my husband) talked to them but my husband insists that i am crazy because i think they are out to get me. am i crazy for even thinking that. i believe that at 4 and 6 almost 5 and 7 that they can be manipulative and that they are not stupid. i am not saying they are out to get me or hurt our son but i do think this possibility should be checked into and also having her tested for developmental delays. but my husband just goes into blaming mode. the girl was spanked for what she did last night and they were both grounded to their rooms for a few hours today after we found out they were both lying and were checked on often. i find something very wrong with the fact that when i asked her why she did it after she finally admitted to me that her only answer was cuz. and then her brother to boldly lie to my face. i think they both need serious counseling and i think my husband is trying to turn the problem around on me and say that i am the problem. the whole situation is bad in of itself and i dont know what to do any more. my husband doesnt even think its a big deal to tell their mother what they did and i think its a serious issue that needs to be nipped in the butt now and he some how thinks that i am a bad person and crazy also cuz they wont tell me the truth but they will him well gee i wonder why!!! they are not my biological children and they know that and they resent being shuffled between two places, what else could it possibly be? and to those of you who say you married the kids too, well thats fine and dandy but my own flesh and blood could have been killed and that makes me not want to have those kids in the house if their father can not control them or get them help. i dont think im crazy for wanting that and i do my best to treat them the same but they need to show me respect too and i feel my husband should be on my side and respect my wishes especially since he leaves those kids with me 95 percent of the time because he works more and when he is home he is watching tv among other things as long as i am here. im fed up what should i do? i dont want something worse to happen next time if those kids dont get help and he realizes the seriousness of this situation.
she and her brother have been warned time and time again that small toys and objects are not for babies. they have rules and boundaries in our house. they knew better unless obviously there is some mental issue with the girl because of her mothers meth use. my husband forces me to pretend that we are a “normal” family and that i am the kids’ mother and he doesnt deal with the real mother..guess who has to do it? ME and i dont think its right. i dont resent the kids. i resent him and the situation he has made for our family. a lot of things changed when he married me he expected me to basically take the total place of their mother and i dont think they like that and thats why i feel they are being resentful….you cant you people see that?!
