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She smoked it in newports & sniffed it . From 10/31/2007 to 12/15/2007mainly on weekends not every day maybe about 4 weekends of using . she is scared that her baby will test postive & she will lose her baby. Question how long does it take to come out of a newborn system? What kind of test do they run? Please reply serious & partially right answer she really is a good mother she has one son 4 yrs old never did any drug with him but things got hard and she ran into the wrong people & no longer hangs around them .

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I don’t understand why I cant lose my “after baby body”. My Son will be a year old on Sept.4th and I am still 140 pounds. I am 5’3, and the weight is going straight to my stomach. I look perfect at a weight of 125, but these last few pounds are not leaving. I have tried everything. I am desperate and at my wits end. I feel my last option is drugs (Illegal) but I don’t want to be a drug addicted and neglectful mother. I love my son and I want to be a good mom but I want to be a beautiful wife also. although my husband is loving and doesn’t complain I Know he doesn’t look at me the same, I don’t look at me the same. It may sound vain but it is important to me. How can I lose this weight and why has it been so hard? I want the drugs because I know they will work…how do I keep from reaching that point? Please Help.

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I used to smoke till april’2009 regularly. But for personal problem i quite . Now for visitation of my son they want to test my hair. My problem is I am a musician and i have very long Hair. How long these drugs will stay in my hair or my Body. I exercise regularly I ran but last 7th June was my birthday so i have taken some puffs from the stick with my friends marijuana and hashish please help I don’t want to get caught my son means everything to me .

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ok well..this is the story. My finace ( we have been together for almost 2 years now) he was a very bad coc addict before i met him. actully right after i got with him he had just stopped. Note: i didnt know he was an addit until later in our relationship. The main question is we have been having alot of problems with argguing and me having to deal with him being irritated allll! the time. he’ll be happy go lucky then be completly irritated a few mins later and i never know what about. i try to talk to him about it and thats what starts the fights.. he says he doesnt like to talk about what hes thinking and all that ext. do these mood swings have to do with him recovering?? ive been dealing with this from him for almost our entire relationship. I’m starting to get on my last nerve. i cant take it anymore. he wont except my help or advice. he says i cant tell him how bad drugs are because i’ve never tryed them and all that BS. we have a 6 month old son and i dont want my son to be growing up with a person who thinks drugs are ok. i love my fiance to death but …i just cant take it its making me unhappy. so tell me, find someone else? or try and stick with him to see if he can truly recover and change??

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10 to 20 planes?
One of the last ones CIA aircrafts ” crashed ” in Yucatan with 4.8 tons of cocaine. The Gulfstream II that crash landed 1.3 miles from Tikokob in Yucatan, Mexico after being chased by Mexican military helicopters for flying illegally into Mexican airspace was one of the planes chartered to the CIA for the renditioning of kidnapped prisoners. The crash landing took place on September 24. The tail number of the Gulfstream is N987SA.

Mexican soldiers found no bodies at the crash site but did discover 132 bags containing 5.3 metric tons of cocaine. The origination of the Gulfstream’s flight is unknown but it was destined for Cancun when it crash landed. Police later said they had arrested some passengers who were on board the plane.
The operator of the Gulfstream is Donna Blue Aircraft, Inc. of Coconut Creek, Florida. Its address, according to the Florida Division of Corporations, is 4811 Lyons Technology, Coconut Creek, Florida 33073.
On June 10, 2006, WMR reported that the N987SA Grumman G-1159, Gulfstream II, was operated by S/A Holdings LLC and had been involved in the renditioning of prisoners to Guantanamo Bay, cuba. On April 21, 2006, WMR reported on a similar incident involving a plane connected with the U.S. government: “On April 10, Mexican police, acting on a tip from INTERPOL, seized a couple of DC- aircrafts carrying 8.5 tons of cocaine with an estimated street value of $300 million. The U.S.-registered plane was en route from Caracas, Venezuela, which, according to French intelligence, is a known hub for cocaine shipments from Colombia to Saudi Arabia. The DC-9 (registration number N900SA) made an emergency landing at Ciudad del Carmen in Campeche state. A Falcon aircraft that arrived at Ciudad del Carmen from Toluca airport in Mexico state in advance of the arrival of the DC-9 was also seized. The cocaine was contained in 128 suitcases. The Mexican police later claimed the unidentified DC-9′s pilot managed to escape. However, the police did arrest the co-pilot. The DC-9 was painted in the familiar blue and white colors of the U.S. Transportation Security Administration with am official-looking seal with an American eagle bearing the inscription: ‘Sky Way Aircraft – Protection of America’s Skies.’ The registered owner of the aircraft is: Royal Sons Inc., 15875 Fairchild Drive, Clearwater, Florida.”

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Long story !! – Been with (now ex fiance) for 7 years – hve 5 yr old.
We split up, got back together, split again etc etc. All our arguments were based around his coke addicton – I tried everything to help – love,support,leaving relevant phone numbers, though him out, you name it, I tried it – he became violent, very verbally abusive. When we first split (he left) he found a new woman within days – threw this in my face, said she was wonderful, so much better than me,he was stopping his addiction – it tore me and our son apart. Anyway, he came back – they had obviously split – I was happy as I did miss the good times and father for our son. It was obvious coke was still there, and again we argued – he left, back to her again!
Last week (after buying me a new engagement ring and our son a dog – he left again, back to her.
He now says that this is it – he has got as low as he can – so much debt.
I feel really agrieved that I tried so hard for so long, for us as a family to get through this, and now he appears to be happily loved up with new woman, I went through all the pain fr her to get all the good.

Is this all typical behaviour? Am I going to have him crawling back again, without the drugs, I would probably take him, but with, she is welcome. For our son Iwant him to stop ,but I want him to be the family man with us then, not the single man with her.

Is it likely he will stop for her – it has been going on (the drug use)for over 12 years. He loves his son more than anything, so I would have thought he would stop for him, but he hasn;t. At the mo, I am ignoring his calls/texts etc as it is still too painful.

Advice/thoughts greatly appreciated
x

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Found a white substance in my sons coat pocket…he says its just baking soda…to help clear up his face…friend told him it works…i dont believe him…he even told me to taste it to check. I dont know what Im checking for. Never used. What do i do? Im afraid to taste it.

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My son is a cocaine addict 23, years of age. He has a difficult time understanding why he can’t drink and again why is cocaine a diffiuclt drug to stop using?

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my son and i are having a on going dispute on this subject i believe it is the reason and he doesnt can someone clear this up for me?

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My son is active duty Army with 9 years service. He is divorcing his wife, due to her drug addiction and child neglect. She failed a court-ordered drug test 2 weeks ago by showing positve for cocaine, and there have been 2 complaints of child neglect made to Texas’s Children’s Protective Services. CPS is planning to take the children away from her and put them in foster care. How can he get a discharge so that he can care for his children, instead of them going into the foster care system. One child is special-needs infant with neurological issuse requiring visits to pedicatric neurologist. I am the grandmother but can’t care for them, due to my age and my medical issues (heart and circulatory problems)

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My son is active duty Army with 9 years service. He is divorcing his wife, due to her drug addiction and child neglect. She failed a court-ordered drug test 2 weeks ago by showing positve for cocaine, and there have been 2 complaints of child neglect made to Texas’s Children’s Protective Services. CPS is planning to take the children away from her and put them in foster care. How can he get a discharge so that he can care for his children, instead of them going into the foster care system. One child is special-needs infant with neurological issuse requiring visits to pedicatric neurologist. I am the grandmother but can’t care for them, due to my age and my medical issues (heart and circulatory problems)

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My son is active duty Army with 9 years service. He is divorcing his wife of 8 yrs, due to her drug addiction and child neglect. She failed a court-ordered drug test 2 weeks ago by showing positve for cocaine, and there have been 2 complaints of child neglect made to Texas’s Children’s Protective Services. CPS is planning to take the children away from her and put them in foster care. How can he get a discharge so that he can care for his children, instead of them going into the foster care system. One child is special-needs infant with neurological issues requiring visits to pediatric neurologist. I am the grandmother but can’t care for them, due to my age and my medical issues (heart and circulatory problems)

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I need some support, I feel as though I am the only wife in the world that has experienced this and I know I’m not. I am a Christian and still sometimes I wonder why God is putting me, my husband and our 2 year old son throuh this.

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I have been with my partner for almost 2 years. In this time, his ex wife has had joint custody of the children (3-14y,13y,5y) and has had a total of 12 boyfriends. As each boyfriend leaves the picture a new one enters. The second to last one sent my partner an email that she had written between a friend, where she talks about her cocaine abuse, bloody noses, and passing out, etc, while the children were with her. We called Children’s Aid, but to our dismay they said there was nothing they could do…. they can not make her do a drug test as it violates her rights (What about the CHILDREN”S RIGHTS???!?!) Regardless, her most recent ex boyfriend argued with her that her cocaine addiction was too much for him, in front of our 14 year old son. This past weekend, he cried, and is very worried about her use. At the time, he is wondering if she does it, and says that the newest boyfriend is a dealer according to his friends. CAS has not helped us to this point ….what can we do??

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I am month pregnant and my boyfriend and I live together and are relatively happy, but nearly every weekend I have been pregnant he has gone out and left me alone in our house beside myself, he comes in at rediculous times absolutely out of his mind, i know he take cocaine even though when I ask him about it he denies it, but I have proof because his bank balance is down, I have read messages on his phone asking friends/dealers if they can get him any and I know all his friends do it. I was no angel, I took nearly coke everyweekend before I found out I was pregnant, as soon as I found out I sorted myself out and got help because I want to be the best possible mother to my unborn son.

I just wish my boyfriend who I love so much would sort himself out the way I have, I dont want my babies dad to be like this what can I do? Any advice. He is a lovely guy really and the last 2 week has been by myside 24/7 but I read a message on his phone from the weekend from when his mates came over!

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I have been through many detox and substance abuse programs. My father was the southeasts largest supplier of cocaine in the 80`s and 90`s. I had him arrested thinking that if I could take away the ease of access I could take away my addiction. I only made my addiction more expensive as now I have to pay for the cocaine that I use. I have cut way back (from 1/2 ounce daily in 1990 to several grams a year). The problem is when I get started I can`t stop until I have no more money. THis causes a strain on my marriage (to my fourth wife) as I do not come home until I`m broke and hurting.
Please someone give me some advice, if you have ever seen the movie where johnny depp plays the drug kingpin, this was my life in the 80`s and 90`s, but not as the kingpin, but the son caught up in the game. We had police paid off, planes running dope from Mexico to USA. I saw corruption, racketeering, money laundering, even murder of DEA officials and witnesses for the state. This left me scarred foreve

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my mate just told me that the money that i gave her to give her son for his parole, she never gave it to him. He has to pay it off by july 19,2008, then he’ll be free, what should i do? because i wonder what did she tell him about the money?

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I have a friend that I’ve known since elementary school, we grew up together, went to high school, all that stuff. We were very close at the beginning of high school, the he started getting into marijuana and drinking, stuff I wasn’t into. We hadn’t talked in about 4 years (we’re both juniors in college), then in May he asked me for $80 dollars. He said his mom had cancer and his family was living below the poverty line and he needed gas to commute to school. So I gave him the money, long story short I found out that he has been using cocaine since high school.

Anyways, he never paid me back the $80 like he said he would and being a broke college student, I needed it badly. So I decided to pay his house a visit. I walked into his house and right away I knew his parents knew the reason I was there. I went to his room, we made small talk for awhile then I asked him about the money. Like he always does, he gives me the runaround and he’ll have it next week blah blah. So his mom barges in and says “so he owes you money too?” My friend flips out and slams the door on his mom, and she yells though the door “DID HE TELL YOU HE’S ON DRUGS?!” He opens the door, runs out, PUNCHES his mom, his dad throws him up against a wall and I sit alone in his room for about 5 minutes listening to yelling and his mom crying hysterically. When I finally came out, she asked me told me that her son was sick and wanted my help.

Sorry for the long story, but I want to now, is there any way to help my friend out? I know he hasn’t been much of a friend to me lately, but I’d like to help him.

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An illegal immigrant who fled to Mexico after killing his boss for drug money in 2005 was sentenced to 40 years in prison Monday in Howard County Circuit Court.

It took Howard police and prosecutors more than four years to find and extradite Joel Nunez Valles from a Mexican jail, where he was confined for an unknown crime. Prosecutor Susan Weinstein said Valles’ sentence, life in prison with all but 40 years suspended, was the result of a plea agreement because the main witnesses were his own family members, who were “reluctant” to testify.

According to police, Valles, a cocaine addict, killed Juan Miguel Gonzales, 51, of West Friendship, the owner of a landscaping company where Valles worked. Valles stabbed Gonzales 19 times in the face, neck and chest with a screwdriver after the owner refused to give him cash for drugs. Valles took a bus back to Mexico the next day, though it took two days before anyone discovered Gonzales’ body.

“What’s important to understand is that Mr. Valles didn’t just take one life. Mr. Valles took the lives of my family,” said Gonzales’ son Alexander Garza, 23, in a victim’s impact statement. “You took any chances of my siblings having an argument with my father,” he said, as well as Gonzales’ ability to see his children graduate from Centennial High School, or later from college.

http://www.baltimoresun.com/news/maryland/howard/bs-md-ho-valles-sentence-20100802,0,4111624.story?track=rss

I was told illegals from Mexico never use drugs and it is only an American problem is this a misprint illegal from Mexico Addicted to cocaine ?

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My son is 22 living in another state he has been coming home at least once a month and he keeps a cold I was giving him medicine and to find he has been snorting cocaine for 4 months !He said he will stop he just did it because friend does it and it helps to loose weight so any advise my heart aches .
He has told me he only used at night with friends after work ,he says he has not used in 2 weeks .He don’t think he needs rehab to stop !!As far as telling my son he can’t stay here there is other ways for tough love than putting someone out on the street to run back to the drug from depression .Thanks for all the answers at this point

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