….i know i will not pass the hair follicle but i will pass the urine….i have full custody rights to my son…. if i come up positive for cocaine… even if i don’t do it often does anyone know what will happen to me?????
first of all im not a bad parent i take great care of my son… i love him very much… i never do it around him …..it was one time when i was at a bar when my son was at his dads for the …. everyone make mistake im not perfect but i can tell u i get up with himeveryday feed him play with him care for him everyday and his sorry so called father only has him 4 days out of the month and he does things alot worst them me
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I’m 53 years old. I have raised two boys by myself after I kicked their cocaine addict, white trash, cheating father out of my house. Now, my son Aaron is 35 and my son Kevin is 31. I also have five grandchildren. Three from Aaron and two from Kevin. I love Aaron’s wife Monica but I do NOT like Kevin’s wife Carrie. My sons are my pride and joy, even in their thirties. When Aaron first met Monica, I didn’t like her but Aaron put his foot down and told me that I will not disrespect her in his presence. So, I grew to like Monica. Carrie on the other hand, I’ll always despise her.
Carrie is a weak, whiny little b*tch. She had a job, she cooked, cleaned, did laundry and took care of the kids while my son Kevin laid around and did nothing but eat, watch television, sleep and bang her. For years and years, Carrie cried and complained but she did NOTHING to demand her respect as a woman. That is WHY I don’t respect her. Let me tell you something. I barely had enough money to keep food on the table for my boys when I told their dad to leave, but I STILL managed. My self-respect was worth more. Last year, Carrie cheated on my son Kevin, claiming she was tired of being used and unappreciated. Why couldn’t she just LEAVE HIM? That just made me despise her more. It broke Kevin’s heart and now, he is working, helping her with their kids and simply shoving his head up Carrie’s a s s like a little coward. It’s awful. Now, I just called Aaron and Monica and offered to keep their children for the weekend. Monica wanted to know if Kevin and Carrie’s kids were coming over my house too and I said no. I didn’t bother to ask and I’m not going to. This led to an argument. Monica was simply being biased, because she and Carrie have became best friends on the strength that their husbands are brothers. Monica told me if I won’t take all of my grandchildren, then she and Aaron are keeping their kids home. Fine. If she wants to be immature like that. But after everything I said, do you understand where I’m coming from or am I wrong?
I’m 53 years old. I have raised two boys by myself after I kicked their cocaine addict, white trash, cheating father out of my house. Now, my son Aaron is 35 and my son Kevin is 31. I also have five grandchildren. Three from Aaron and two from Kevin. I love Aaron’s wife Monica but I do NOT like Kevin’s wife Carrie. My sons are my pride and joy, even in their thirties. When Aaron first met Monica, I didn’t like her but Aaron put his foot down and told me that I will not disrespect her in his presence. So, I grew to like Monica. Carrie on the other hand, I’ll always despise her.
Carrie is a weak, whiny little b*tch. She had a job, she cooked, cleaned, did laundry and took care of the kids while my son Kevin laid around and did nothing but eat, watch television, sleep and bang her. For years and years, Carrie cried and complained but she did NOTHING to demand her respect as a woman. That is WHY I don’t respect her. Let me tell you something. I barely had enough money to keep food on the table for my boys when I told their dad to leave, but I STILL managed. My self-respect was worth more. Last year, Carrie cheated on my son Kevin, claiming she was tired of being used and unappreciated. Why couldn’t she just LEAVE HIM? That just made me despise her more. It broke Kevin’s heart and now, he is working, helping her with their kids and simply shoving his head up Carrie’s a s s like a little coward. It’s awful. Now, I just called Aaron and Monica and offered to keep their children for the weekend. Monica wanted to know if Kevin and Carrie’s kids were coming over my house too and I said no. I didn’t bother to ask and I’m not going to. This led to an argument. Monica was simply being biased, because she and Carrie have became best friends on the strength that their husbands are brothers. Monica told me if I won’t take all of my grandchildren, then she and Aaron are keeping their kids home. Fine. If she wants to be immature like that. But after everything I said, do you understand where I’m coming from or am I wrong?
Ok so let me start off by saying I am a mother of 5 boys (only 3 live at home now) and my husband is starting to become a heavy alcoholic. I had a hip replacement on November 1st and now my world is falling apart because of this self centered jerk that I married. My oldest son that lives at home is 19 years old and was just discharged 3/4 of the way through Marine Boot Camp because he tore his rotator cuff. He has been actively seeking employment but there are NO jobs around here. He has given me money for rent (even though I told him it wasn’t necessary) and has been there for me 24/7 taking care of the other kids and me while my husband pisses his life away. My husband had medical problems a few years back and went on unemployment/disability after 32 years of working for our local city. Since then he has taken up drinking (getting much worse), smoking, gambling (which he is lying about but I’ve been finding receipts), and a ‘part time’ job where he’s gone from 6am-6pm (doesn’t help at all with our kids…only my 19 year old does).
Last night my 22 year old and him got in it, and he started throwing dishes and breaking things. My 22 year old (like my husband) has always had anger problems so I just told him to leave for now. My 19 year old called the police but hung up when my 22 year old left and my husband went outside. My husband came inside got in my face and started screaming at me and even shoved me (I almost fell when here I just had a hip replacement). My 19 year old saw this and pinned his dad against the wall and said “You can f*cking yell at me all you want like a Drill Instructor, but you will NOT lay a finger on anyone here. I was in boot camp long enough to learn how to fight and unless you wanna pick yourself up off the floor, you better back the f*ck off!” My husband stormed off, and later came in the house and said we are kicking our son out tomorrow or he’s calling the police and having him removed. Can he do that if my son is the only one taking care of me and my kids? I agreed that next time it got that I want him to have the police come and arrest my husband. I’ve had many talks with him about his path to self destruction but he is only getting worse.
I don’t know what to do. I am an emotional wreck and I can tell that this situation is pushing my 19 year old to the edge because he can’t even focus on getting his shoulder fixed so he can re-enlist. What do I do if my husband tries kicking out my 19 year old?
LAST QUESTION- If I divorced him, would I be able to keep the house if MY dad (who is very wealthy) took over the payments until I can get back to work and help pay???
We live in Iowa if that makes any difference.
Ok so let me start off by saying I am a mother of 5 boys (only 3 live at home now) and my husband is starting to become a heavy alcoholic. I had a hip replacement on November 1st and now my world is falling apart because of this self centered jerk that I married. My oldest son that lives at home is 19 years old and was just discharged 3/4 of the way through Marine Boot Camp because he tore his rotator cuff. He has been actively seeking employment but there are NO jobs around here. He has given me money for rent (even though I told him it wasn’t necessary) and has been there for me 24/7 taking care of the other kids and me while my husband pisses his life away. My husband had medical problems a few years back and went on unemployment/disability after 32 years of working for our local city. Since then he has taken up drinking (getting much worse), smoking, gambling (which he is lying about but I’ve been finding receipts), and a ‘part time’ job where he’s gone from 6am-6pm (doesn’t help at all with our kids…only my 19 year old does).
Last night my 22 year old and him got in it, and he started throwing dishes and breaking things. My 22 year old (like my husband) has always had anger problems so I just told him to leave for now. My 19 year old called the police but hung up when my 22 year old left and my husband went outside. My husband came inside got in my face and started screaming at me and even shoved me (I almost fell when here I just had a hip replacement). My 19 year old saw this and pinned his dad against the wall and said “You can f*cking yell at me all you want like a Drill Instructor, but you will NOT lay a finger on anyone here. I was in boot camp long enough to learn how to fight and unless you wanna pick yourself up off the floor, you better back the f*ck off!” My husband stormed off, and later came in the house and said we are kicking our son out tomorrow or he’s calling the police and having him removed. Can he do that if my son is the only one taking care of me and my kids? I agreed that next time it got that I want him to have the police come and arrest my husband.
I don’t know what to do. I am an emotional wreck and I can tell that this situation is pushing my 19 year old to the edge because he can’t even focus on getting his shoulder fixed so he can re-enlist. What do I do if my husband tries kicking out my 19 year old?
LAST QUESTION- If I divorced him, would I be able to keep the house if MY dad (who is very wealthy) took over the payments until I can get back to work and help pay???
We live in Iowa if that makes any difference.
Ok so let me start off by saying I am a mother of 5 boys (only 3 live at home now) and my husband is starting to become a heavy alcoholic. I had a hip replacement on November 1st and now my world is falling apart because of this self centered jerk that I married. My oldest son that lives at home is 19 years old and was just discharged 3/4 of the way through Marine Boot Camp because he tore his rotator cuff. He has been actively seeking employment but there are NO jobs around here. He has given me money for rent (even though I told him it wasn’t necessary) and has been there for me 24/7 taking care of the other kids and me while my husband pisses his life away. My husband had medical problems a few years back and went on unemployment/disability after 32 years of working for our local city. Since then he has taken up drinking (getting much worse), smoking, gambling (which he is lying about but I’ve been finding receipts), and a ‘part time’ job where he’s gone from 6am-6pm (doesn’t help at all with our kids…only my 19 year old does).
Last night my 22 year old and him got in it, and he started throwing dishes and breaking things. My 22 year old (like my husband) has always had anger problems so I just told him to leave for now. My 19 year old called the police but hung up when my 22 year old left and my husband went outside. My husband came inside got in my face and started screaming at me and even shoved me (I almost fell when here I just had a hip replacement). My 19 year old saw this and pinned his dad against the wall and said “You can f*cking yell at me all you want like a Drill Instructor, but you will NOT lay a finger on anyone here. I was in boot camp long enough to learn how to fight and unless you wanna pick yourself up off the floor, you better back the f*ck off!” My husband stormed off, and later came in the house and said we are kicking our son out tomorrow or he’s calling the police and having him removed. Can he do that if my son is the only one taking care of me and my kids? I agreed that next time it got that I want him to have the police come and arrest my husband.
I don’t know what to do. I am an emotional wreck and I can tell that this situation is pushing my 19 year old to the edge because he can’t even focus on getting his shoulder fixed so he can re-enlist. What do I do if my husband tries kicking out my 19 year old?
LAST QUESTION- If I divorced him, would I be able to keep the house if MY dad (who is very wealthy) took over the payments until I can get back to work and help pay???
We live in Iowa if that makes any difference.
Ok so let me start off by saying I am a mother of 5 boys (only 3 live at home now) and my husband is starting to become a heavy alcoholic. I had a hip replacement on November 1st and now my world is falling apart because of this self centered jerk that I married. My oldest son that lives at home is 19 years old and was just discharged 3/4 of the way through Marine Boot Camp because he tore his rotator cuff. He has been actively seeking employment but there are NO jobs around here. He has given me money for rent (even though I told him it wasn’t necessary) and has been there for me 24/7 taking care of the other kids and me while my husband pisses his life away. My husband had medical problems a few years back and went on unemployment/disability after 32 years of working for our local city. Since then he has taken up drinking (getting much worse), smoking, gambling (which he is lying about but I’ve been finding receipts), and a ‘part time’ job where he’s gone from 6am-6pm (doesn’t help at all with our kids…only my 19 year old does).
Last night my 22 year old and him got in it, and he started throwing dishes and breaking things. My 22 year old (like my husband) has always had anger problems so I just told him to leave for now. My 19 year old called the police but hung up when my 22 year old left and my husband went outside. My husband came inside got in my face and started screaming at me and even shoved me (I almost fell when here I just had a hip replacement). My 19 year old saw this and pinned his dad against the wall and said “You can f*cking yell at me all you want like a Drill Instructor, but you will NOT lay a finger on anyone here. I was in boot camp long enough to learn how to fight and unless you wanna pick yourself up off the floor, you better back the f*ck off!” My husband stormed off, and later came in the house and said we are kicking our son out tomorrow or he’s calling the police and having him removed. Can he do that if my son is the only one taking care of me and my kids? I agreed that next time it got that I want him to have the police come and arrest my husband. I’ve had many talks with him about his path to self destruction but he is only getting worse.
I don’t know what to do. I am an emotional wreck and I can tell that this situation is pushing my 19 year old to the edge because he can’t even focus on getting his shoulder fixed so he can re-enlist. What do I do if my husband tries kicking out my 19 year old?
LAST QUESTION- If I divorced him, would I be able to keep the house if MY dad (who is very wealthy) took over the payments until I can get back to work and help pay???
We live in Iowa if that makes any difference.
Ok so let me start off by saying I am a mother of 5 boys (only 3 live at home now) and my husband is starting to become a heavy alcoholic. I had a hip replacement on November 1st and now my world is falling apart because of this self centered jerk that I married. My oldest son that lives at home is 19 years old and was just discharged 3/4 of the way through Marine Boot Camp because he tore his rotator cuff. He has been actively seeking employment but there are NO jobs around here. He has given me money for rent (even though I told him it wasn’t necessary) and has been there for me 24/7 taking care of the other kids and me while my husband pisses his life away. My husband had medical problems a few years back and went on unemployment/disability after 32 years of working for our local city. Since then he has taken up drinking (getting much worse), smoking, gambling (which he is lying about but I’ve been finding receipts), and a ‘part time’ job where he’s gone from 6am-6pm (doesn’t help at all with our kids…only my 19 year old does).
Last night my 22 year old and him got in it, and he started throwing dishes and breaking things. My 22 year old (like my husband) has always had anger problems so I just told him to leave for now. My 19 year old called the police but hung up when my 22 year old left and my husband went outside. My husband came inside got in my face and started screaming at me and even shoved me (I almost fell when here I just had a hip replacement). My 19 year old saw this and pinned his dad against the wall and said “You can f*cking yell at me all you want like a Drill Instructor, but you will NOT lay a finger on anyone here. I was in boot camp long enough to learn how to fight and unless you wanna pick yourself up off the floor, you better back the f*ck off!” My husband stormed off, and later came in the house and said we are kicking our son out tomorrow or he’s calling the police and having him removed. Can he do that if my son is the only one taking care of me and my kids? I agreed that next time it got that I want him to have the police come and arrest my husband. I’ve had many talks with him about his path to self destruction but he is only getting worse.
I don’t know what to do. I am an emotional wreck and I can tell that this situation is pushing my 19 year old to the edge because he can’t even focus on getting his shoulder fixed so he can re-enlist. What do I do if my husband tries kicking out my 19 year old?
LAST QUESTION- If I divorced him, would I be able to keep the house if MY dad (who is very wealthy) took over the payments until I can get back to work and help pay???
We live in Iowa if that makes any difference.
Ok so let me start off by saying I am a mother of 5 boys (only 3 live at home now) and my husband is starting to become a heavy alcoholic. I had a hip replacement on November 1st and now my world is falling apart because of this self centered jerk that I married. My oldest son that lives at home is 19 years old and was just discharged 3/4 of the way through Marine Boot Camp because he tore his rotator cuff. He has been actively seeking employment but there are NO jobs around here. He has given me money for rent (even though I told him it wasn’t necessary) and has been there for me 24/7 taking care of the other kids and me while my husband pisses his life away. My husband had medical problems a few years back and went on unemployment/disability after 32 years of working for our local city. Since then he has taken up drinking (getting much worse), smoking, gambling (which he is lying about but I’ve been finding receipts), and a ‘part time’ job where he’s gone from 6am-6pm (doesn’t help at all with our kids…only my 19 year old does).
Last night my 22 year old and him got in it, and he started throwing dishes and breaking things. My 22 year old (like my husband) has always had anger problems so I just told him to leave for now. My 19 year old called the police but hung up when my 22 year old left and my husband went outside. My husband came inside got in my face and started screaming at me and even shoved me (I almost fell when here I just had a hip replacement). My 19 year old saw this and pinned his dad against the wall and said “You can f*cking yell at me all you want like a Drill Instructor, but you will NOT lay a finger on anyone here. I was in boot camp long enough to learn how to fight and unless you wanna pick yourself up off the floor, you better back the f*ck off!” My husband stormed off, and later came in the house and said we are kicking our son out tomorrow or he’s calling the police and having him removed. Can he do that if my son is the only one taking care of me and my kids? I agreed that next time it got that I want him to have the police come and arrest my husband.
I don’t know what to do. I am an emotional wreck and I can tell that this situation is pushing my 19 year old to the edge because he can’t even focus on getting his shoulder fixed so he can re-enlist. What do I do if my husband tries kicking out my 19 year old?
LAST QUESTION- If I divorced him, would I be able to keep the house if MY dad (who is very wealthy) took over the payments until I can get back to work and help pay???
We live in Iowa if that makes any difference.
Ok so let me start off by saying I am a mother of 5 boys (only 3 live at home now) and my husband is starting to become a heavy alcoholic. I had a hip replacement on November 1st and now my world is falling apart because of this self centered jerk that I married. My oldest son that lives at home is 19 years old and was just discharged 3/4 of the way through Marine Boot Camp because he tore his rotator cuff. He has been actively seeking employment but there are NO jobs around here. He has given me money for rent (even though I told him it wasn’t necessary) and has been there for me 24/7 taking care of the other kids and me while my husband pisses his life away. My husband had medical problems a few years back and went on unemployment/disability after 32 years of working for our local city. Since then he has taken up drinking (getting much worse), smoking, gambling (which he is lying about but I’ve been finding receipts), and a ‘part time’ job where he’s gone from 6am-6pm (doesn’t help at all with our kids…only my 19 year old does).
Last night my 22 year old and him got in it, and he started throwing dishes and breaking things. My 22 year old (like my husband) has always had anger problems so I just told him to leave for now. My 19 year old called the police but hung up when my 22 year old left and my husband went outside. My husband came inside got in my face and started screaming at me and even shoved me (I almost fell when here I just had a hip replacement). My 19 year old saw this and pinned his dad against the wall and said “You can f*cking yell at me all you want like a Drill Instructor, but you will NOT lay a finger on anyone here. I was in boot camp long enough to learn how to fight and unless you wanna pick yourself up off the floor, you better back the f*ck off!” My husband stormed off, and later came in the house and said we are kicking our son out tomorrow or he’s calling the police and having him removed. Can he do that if my son is the only one taking care of me and my kids? I agreed that next time it got that I want him to have the police come and arrest my husband.
I don’t know what to do. I am an emotional wreck and I can tell that this situation is pushing my 19 year old to the edge because he can’t even focus on getting his shoulder fixed so he can re-enlist. What do I do if my husband tries kicking out my 19 year old?
LAST QUESTION- If I divorced him, would I be able to keep the house if MY dad (who is very wealthy) took over the payments until I can get back to work and help pay???
We live in Iowa if that makes any difference.
This has been obvious for years. My mom started her addiction when I was 15, 6 years ago. She has always been the type to get easily addicted. She once was a cocaine addict, alchoholic, and she was addicted to pain shots from the doctor. It was so bad when I was around 8, she would actually have us walk to the hospital so she could get her fix and she still will go to the doctor if she has no pills. She went to the hospital so much at one time they refused to see her anymore at about 2 to 3 hospitals around our area. Anyway, she started driving a truck and got a back injury and was perscribed pain pills. She then quit her job and stoped working from then on. She hasnt had but 1 or 2 jobs in all this time. She is not the same woman she used to be. Come to think of it I wouldn’t recognize my mother if she was completely sober. She is actually addicted to gambling to, I am talking about so addicted that we went without electric while she was a truck driver addicted. So she has also got my sister hooked. I just dont know what to do anymore I know its just the drugs, but because her and my sister have that in common they’ve pretty much abandoned me. I am a mother of two who is a stay at home mom. My point is that i’ve actually called her crying for help and her say no, but she’ll watch my sister’s son any day of the week. It hurts, I am fed up, and I want to help them. So I can have a real mother and my daughters a real grandmother. Any idea on how I can help them.
what do I do?? I called child services but they said they can’t do anything because I don’t have the apt number of where they live! I know the parents names and address but with no apt number the child services didn’t even want to take the info. What else can I do. I know the father is a felon and the mom is surely on public aid. Help.
His mom is currently working as a prostitute, and Im serious. How do you explain to him that what his parents are doing affects him in a negative way? Also what do you say when you run into either of them. His father currently is incarcerated and I ran into his so called mother~the egg donor~ over the weekend. She pretended to pretend that I was someone else. She had the nerve to say why dont we (meaning my husband and I) allow her to come over to see him. I told her that we feel it is best that right now she stays away because she is all messed up. I told her that he was alright and well taken care of. He has been in counseling for many years, sometimes it seems to be working and at times it doesnt seem to be working. Also we have tried several times to allow her to come and see him, to be fooled yet once again by her claiming she was straight, and find out that she lied. What do we do? I can not afford an attorney to file for permenant custody, we just ahve temp custody.
She doesn’t even want to live there and doesn’t want our baby to.Her parents want complete control of the baby.They have no stable place to live,they threaten her if she even lets our baby come to my house.They don’t even have a house,they stay back n forth between friends and family members.I want my son to be safe.What rights do I have?
