How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

Today I’ve seen two headlines that make me sick.

Preteen Sisters Accused in Kidnapping

In Enid, oklahoma, 2 young girls 10 and 12 took a 1 yr old baby out of a neighbors house while the mother slept. They left a randsom note saying :

“If you want to see your son again then you won’t call police and report him missing and you will leave $200,000 on the sofa tonight and we will return your son back safe,” the note read, according to police.

The note was signed, “the kidnappers.”

The kids were arrested and taken to a community intervention center for children.

Next headline was: Girl, 11, Charged With DUI After Chase

ORANGE BEACH, Ala. – Police who chased a car for miles along a highway at speeds up to 100 mph said the driver was drunk, hardly a rarity in this resort town. But there was more: When they looked inside the flipped vehicle with guns drawn, they found an 11-year-old girl at the wheel.
Cops-her blood alcohol lvl was above 2.0(the legal limit for minors)
Now I am 100% sure the kidnapping case was because of television. They had to have seen this on a movie or tv show. You don’t usually get to see kidnappings anywhere else. The drunk driving one was just really bad parenting. Is the only way to make parents actually do their job to make them 100% responsible for everything done by the kid?? I think parents directly cause these kinds of things by expecting society to raise their kids and society is doing just that. The freedoms of our country are the downfalls of our children, without good parenting.

i quit my bad habits when i learned i was pregnant and the babys father was suppose to too, but hasnt. he is a compulsive liar whose addicted to meth. i want my son to have the best upbringing, and in this world i believe that starts with a loving family, with both parents to guide him with unconditional love and stability.i dont want to raise my son without a father. ive always felt such a void growing up without one myself. watching my mom work constantly with very limited time to even get to know her kids. i regret being so naive. i dont want the babys father in my life and i refuse to let him be in my sons life. a man that will never love our son more than he loves meth. ive waited 7 months thru all his lies for him to get his life together and get off drugs, but now its getting close to my due date and i want to do whats best for my son. would like to find a loving couple that is interested in adopting my son. i need help. i dont know what steps to take

i quit my bad habits when i learned i was pregnant and the babys father was suppose to too, but hasnt. he is a compulsive liar whose addicted to meth. i want my son to have the best upbringing, and in this world i believe that starts with a loving family, with both parents to guide him with unconditional love and stability.i dont want to raise my son without a father. ive always felt such a void growing up without one myself. watching my mom work constantly with very limited time to even get to know her kids. i regret being so naive. i dont want the babys father in my life and i refuse to let him be in my sons life. a man that will never love our son more than he loves meth. ive waited 7 months thru all his lies for him to get his life together and get off drugs, but now its getting close to my due date and i want to do whats best for my son. would like to find a loving couple that is interested in adopting my son. i need help. i dont know what steps to take

My son told me that two days ago a Freshman boy died in the dorm I got my son out of last fall. He died from a combination of alcohol poisoning and codeine. What, if anything, can the colleges do to prevent these tragedies? They are pretty good at taking tuition money. Do you think they have any more responsibilities toward our children than to present them with the opportunity for a higher education? I thank God my own children have good heads on their shoulders, but I hate to think of kids dying from stupidity and immaturity.

I was a addict to crack cocaine and the end result of this was loosing a large sum of money and eventually loosing my son to my best friend while I went into treatment. I have finished my treatment and an still attending AA. I am also still going to court over my son on the 22nd. Will things start to straighten out?

Player’s Anthem:

(How ya livin Biggie Smalls?) I’m surrounded by criminals
Heavy rollers even the sheisty individuals
Smokin skunk and mad Phillies
Beatin down Billy Bada****, cracks in stacks and masses
If robbery’s a class, bet I pass it
S*** get drastic, I’m buryin ya bastards
Big Poppa never softenin
Take you to the church, rob the preacher for the offerin
Leave the f***** coughin up blood, and his pockets like rabbit ears
Covered the wife, kleenex for the kid’s tears
Versace wear, Moschino on my b******
She whippin my ride, countin my one’s, thinkin I’m richest
Just the way players play, all day everyday
I don’t know what else to say
I’ve been robbin n***** since Run and them was singin ‘Here We Go’
Snatchin ropes at the Roxie homeboy you didn’t know
my flow, detrimental to your health
Usually roll for self, I have son ridin shotgun
My mind’s my nine, my pen’s my Mac-10
My target, all you wack n****** who started rappin
Junior M.A.F.I.A. steelo, n****** know the half
Caviar for breakfast, champagne bubble baths
Runnin up in pretty bitches constantly
The Smalls b****, who the f*** it was supposed to be?

Get Money:

You wanna sip Mo’ on my living room flo’
Play Nintendo with Cease-a-Leo
Pick up my phone say, “Poppa not home”
Sex all night, mad head in the morn’
Spin my V, smoke all my weed
Tattoo on tit-tie sayin B-I-G, now check it
You wanna be my main squeeze baby
Don’tcha, you wanna gimme what I need baby
Won’tcha, picture life as my wife just think
Full length mink, fat X and O links
Bracelets to match, conversation was all that
Showed you the safe combinations and all that
Guess you could say youse the one I trusted
Who would ever think that you would spread like mustard?
S*** got hot, you sent Feds to my spot
Took me to court, tried to take all I got
‘Nother intricate plot, the b**** said I raped her
“Damn, why she wanna stick me for my paper?”
My Mo-sci-no h**, my Ver-sa-ce hottie
Come to find out, you was f***** everybody
You knew about me, the fake ID
Cases in Virginia, body in D.C.
Woe, oh is me, that’s what I get for trickin
Pay my own bail, commence to a** kickin
Lick in the door, wavin the four-four
All you heard was, “Poppa don’t hit me no more”
Disrespect my click, my s***’* imperial
F*** around and made her milkbox material
You feel me? Suckin d***, runnin your lips
‘Cause of you, I’m on some real fuck a b**** s***, uhh..

My boyfriend has terrible teeth. Some would call it meth mouth, and yes he did smoke meth for a few months quite a few years ago. When he lived with his mom he drank nothing but soda and when he lived with his dad he drank nothing but juice. He rarely drinks water, and his teeth are overly-sensitive to heat and cold. His teeth are basically rotting off, and on the top he has ONE full tooth- which wouldn’t be if he didn’t have a tooth-colored filling on it. He has 6 full teeth on the bottom and recently got a bottom denture but never uses it because it hurts his gums. On the top his upper teeth break at the snap of a finger – he was eating crushed up peanut butter granola bars and it broke one of his front teeth. It destroys his self-esteem, and I can’t help but feel terrible about it. An employer won’t even hire him because of his teeth – and we have an 8 1/2 week old son together. He nor his parents can afford to fix it for another 18+ months. What can I do to make him feel better?
And he has consistent toothaches that are pretty much resistant to even prescription pain killers. They keep him up at night and have even brought him to his knees in tears.
When he got his bottom teeth extracted they had him on a 10 day cycle of penicillin after every extraction to kill and prevent infection.

Metallica

Best Albums: Kill ‘Em All, Ride The Lightning, Master Of Puppets, Garage Days Re-Revisited, … And Justice For All, Metallica (Black Album), Live Sh*t Binge And Purge, Death Magnetic.

Experimental Albums: Load, Reload, Garage, Inc and S&M

Worst Albums: St. Anger

Iron Maiden

Best Albums: Iron Maiden, Killers, The Number of The Beast, Piece Of Mind, Powerslave, Life After Death, Somewhere In Time, Seventh Son Of A Seventh Son, Fear Of The Dark, Brave New World.

Experimental Albums: Dance Of Death, A Matter Of Life And Death

Worst Albums: No Prayer For The Dying, The X Factor, Virtual XI

¿What band is better for you, Metallica or Iron Maiden?

Iron Maiden and Metallica are writing a new album for this year, Metallica probably the next year, but anyway, I want to show something, this is the song called “El Dorado” from the new Iron Maiden album “The Final Frontier”

My husband gradually became a bad alcholic over the years. We’ve been separated 6 months & he asks to come home. I asked him to leave if he wouldn’t give up drinking & he chose to leave.
Here is my question: We have a 3 1/2 yr old son who adores his daddy. My husband is very good with him, BUT can’t be trusted to not drink while caring for him. I have to supervise when hubby interacts with our son.
Part of me wants to let him come home & be in my son’s life, but I think this could be bad for my son. I don’t want him growing up in an alcoholic home. My husband’s mother was a disgusting drunk & he really resents that his father never kicked her out!
If you have an alcoholic parent, are you glad this parent lived with you (or didn’t live with you) & which would have been best for you in the long run? I want to know how my son might feel about my decision to refuse to let my husband come home.
Hubby is verbally abusive to me, but not physically abusive. He’s NEVER mean to our son.
I guess I should have added this part: I have been in Alanon for 6 months and I have a family therapist I see every week. These are very helpful, but I wanted to know how adult children feel looking back on their lives with alcoholics parents.
My husband left because I told him to get into AA or another program and commit to recovery or get out of the house. He said he isn’t an alcoholic, won’t go into a program and he left.
I don’t really want him back after all I’ve been through, but I will work through this if it will be best for my son.

He is 5 yrs old. I adopted him. He was drug exposed. (meth) although normal weight and term. He seems to not be getting better although he is in speech therapy and a small vlass size. Problems with short term memory, two-step directions, blanking out spells, talks like a two year old.

I currently live in Clarksville, Tennessee. My family and I have lived there for about three years, before that I lived in another town outside of Nashville that was much smaller. Since moving to Clarksville I have noticed over the few years living there that the violence of the town has worsen. When we first got there the crime rate was not as bad as now. Almost every night on the news or in the paper and new crime has happened. This worries me because it puts my family at risk, also since my husband is in the military he is not at home. When he is gone I tend to worry more about crime happening around me.
For instance just a couple of weeks ago I turned on the news and a man had been shot. He was found on a back road and the cop that stopped thought the man had been in a wreck. When the EMS arrived and got him out he had been shot in the head. All of this was less than two miles from my house. And it is not like I live in a bad area, I actually thought our neighborhood was safe and some what crime free. We have since sold that house and are moving, but it frightens me to know how close that was to my family. On another instance in broad daylight there was a random shooting at our local Wal-Mart killing a man. And finally this act of crime happened at a local drug store three men robbed an eighty year old woman at a drug store. They took her hostage and made her smoke crack then raped her.
These are just a few senseless crimes that have happened since I have lived there. It scares me because it doesn’t matter who you are or what time of day, these things can happen. I worry when my husband is away that what if someone breaks in or when I am out alone with my son. Woman always seem to be a easy target for violence and it can happen to anyone. I don’t think there is a quick fix for ending all this high crime in our area. But maybe out community can come together and have more crime watching. The justice system could also be more harsh to these people comminting the crimes. If it’s this bad now what will it be like in another three years. If something is not done you can almost bet it will be worse.