I am a twenty four year old mother of a three year old boy. I was with his father for two years and shortly after I had my son he became violent and verbally abusive. He tried to kidnap my son once and has been trying to get him ever since I left about two years ago. We were never married. I love my son and He and I have been happy together. About a year ago I got fed up with not recieving child support so I went to a lawyer and when his dad saw I wanted child support he sued me for custody and weve been goign at it ever since. He never wanted anyhting to do with me or my son untill child support became an issue. I am so fearful My son will get taken from me. We go to trial in four weeks and I am so stressed I have trouble sleeping and eating. My sons father is an alcoholic and I dont want my son to grow up there with him and be influenced by that. I just want my son and I to have the peaceful and happy life we deserve.
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My husband and I are trying to get full custody of his son. The mother is on drugs, was arrested last year for pos. of meth, and then indicted this year. We have pictures that show where she put bruises all over my step-son’s legs for spilling something on a new rug. Her and her mom have taught Dalland, my step-son, to act like a girl. He hardly plays with boy toys, he is attracted to girl things. He is better some, but he gets picked on at school. We just don’t know what to do. We have a lawyer, but we don’t have the money to go to court. Is there anyway around the money issue?
I am physically disabled, and I have bipolar. I have a very low income. I get housing assistance and disability. I divorced my ex husband 8 years ago for domestic violence. A year later, I forgave him, and we became “okay” friends again.
My ex and I spend a lot of time together. He goes to work sometimes, lives with his parents, and is an alcoholic. His parents also take care of him and pay all of his bills.
We always argue because he wants his son to spend days & nights at his grandparents house which is also his house. But my ex husband rarely spends any time with his son when he is there.
Also, when my son is there, the grandparents are so nice to him, and buy him lots of cool toys & video games, that he doesn’t even want to come back to my house. He cries and says, why can’t I live with my grandparents all the time.
Basically, my question is, “Who will win custody of my son if this goes back to court… Me or my ex husband?”
Thanks so much.
WHO WON???
Voldemort #1:
I’m the darkest dark wizard in all of history,
I’ll slay your ass out like cedric diggory.
With a wave of my finger Ill put you on the floor
You’s a punk ass little kid without Dumbeldor,
I’m the best wizard rapper you ever will see,
you’re a peewee witch midget with a dead mommy.
I’ve got multiple souls and can raise the dead
If you think you can win then you’ve been sorely misled
Harry #1
You’s a big bald fairy, you think I’m scared of you
I smoked basilisk and I’ll smoke you too.
I got witches in class I got witches in the halls
If you look under my cloak, you’ll see my Hagid size balls.
I win at wizard duels, I win at wizard chess,
Got platinum coated DUBS on my hogwarts express
You can’t touch me son, I drive magic cars
I dish out big hurt you just pass out little scars!
Voldemort #2
Poor little Harry, you’re such darling lad.
Do you miss you uncle? Your Mom? Your Dad?
Oh that’s right I killed em, you’re little owl too.
All your friends are next, I’ll cut right through your crew.
You look like Marcy from Peanuts and your wand is tiny
Is that why you couldn’t close the deal with Hermoine?
My boyz are called death eaters, they’re black magic studs
They’ll make you disappear, they don’t care for mudbloods
You can never find me, it’s like trying to catch smoke
You hide from me with your punk ass cloak.
You think your invisible, but I can see through that!
I’ll run up with my wand and go RATA TAT TAT
Harry #2
Say it don’t spray it your breath smells like a grave
Your teeth look like tombstones and your nose is concave
Your head looks like a golf ball your face looks like a lizard
Here’s the toll free number for the hair club for wizards
The toughest gang around is Gryffindor crew,
wizards drive by’s is what we do
When dementors try to ice me I step right up and own em
I crack a butter beer and say “Expecto Patronum”!
WHO WON =D
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A friend of my has a 2 month old son and he is wanting to get full custody. He doesn’t know weather he should settle in or out of court. The mother of his child is an unfit mother. She is an alcoholic, drug addict and bipolar. She leaves the baby wherever when she wants to be out partying. She doesn’t have a job. And to top it off she has a 6 year old daughter that she doesn’t take care of, she pawned her off on her dad. What does he need to do? She uses the baby to control everything and he only gets to see his son when she feels like it.
My husband and I have been married for 5 months now, and he has a 2 year old son with his past “hook up”. There was a brief “relationship” for about a month or two simply because he found out she was pregnant. The father could have been him or 2 other guys (shows you how contained she is)…. Blood tests showed that my husband is in fact the father. We have had him since he was about 6 weeks old every weekend. We have custody papers stating that she has full physical custody, but we share joint custody. Since he was born, she has moved 9 times, a couple of times she never told us her new address (which is contempt of court according to the papers). While she was pregnant, she told my husband that she would never quit smoking weed. She just moved an hour further away with her on again off again boyfriend who is clearly on drugs (nasty teeth, myspace reference to drugs and so on) We even found a nude picture of our son on her public myspace page! We printed it and went to the police station. There was to be more investigation, and we notified DHS, who then went to her house and TOLD her that we were having her myspace investigated, so she should make it public. Her status, which I can still see, changed to “NAME thinks little girls should keep their noses in their big fat boyfriends butt cracks”. We still believe that she and her boyfriend are on drugs, but do not know if we can demand a drug test on her. Our current lawyer has been no help, as his wife is fighting cancer, and he is trying all he can to stay out of court.
His mother never calls when we have him for any amount of time to check on him, and if she does call, it is always about money. She does not have a highschool education, and has even attempted to take the GED exam 2 times and still has not passed. She has no steady employment, even when she worked at her father’s store. She has threatened us and shown her ugly side several times (which we have documented) She has been late for pick ups and drop offs several times also, and has even forgotten what day it was when we called. He usually has a full diaper, and is filthy like he hasnt taken a bath when we pick him up. We also noticed lots of plaque on his teeth when we pick him up. He has gotten sick with her several times, and it has been severe a couple times, and she says shes taken him to the doctor, but has no documentation… How does a doctor miss pneumonia and say that the child is “fine”??? Anways, please give me some advice or some support as of what to do!?!
I forgot to also add that we are to split medical bills 50/50, and she owes us over $1,000 so far. She says she will pay but never does.
She has also lost custody of her older daughter to her parents for being unfit. Shouldnt that be held against her?
Sorry, it was a paternity test, not just a blood test! He is the father!
