How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

My wife doesn’t really like alchohol being in the house so I poured some in a baby bottle to disguise it. A couple hours later, my 3 month old son got hungry so I grabbed the first bottle I saw and it happened to be the alcohol in the bottle. I forgot that I had put the everclear vodka in there and thought it was water. He didn’t want to drink at first but i eventually got him to drink. After he finished drinking I noticed the smell of alcohol out of nowhere and discovered that it was from the bottle and from him. I then remembered putting the vodka in the bottle and panicked. What do I do? What’s going to happen to him? Is he going to get fetal alcohol syndrome? I don’t want my wife to find out but should I secretly take him to the doctor? She’s out at the store right now and won’t be home for an hour. I’m scared. Could I have killed him?

P.S. He had what’s equivalent to 10 shots

my 16 year old son has a 17 year old girlfriend and i do not approve of her coming over. She comes over everyday…doesn’t come into my room or the kitchen or wherever i may be to say hi before she offically enters my home. My “romeo” plans a romantic evening for her by filling up the bathtub with rose petals and candles and champagne (i find this out later…when i wasn’t home…i would never allow alcohol and it’s all because of her). I do not like this. A 16 year old boy is supposed to study, read and earn good grades. This ***** is tyring to seduce my son into having se/x with her i think. when i came into their room to check up on them yesterday (because i heard heavy panting from outisde his door) my son was on top of her dry humping away and kissing her bare breasts until they saw me and stopped (his fly was undone and he was turned on….this is a sign she wanted him to have se/x with her!). How should i get rid of this ***** and save my baby boy from this ***** who’s only talent is spreading her legs without ruining the relationship with my son?

this **** will definitely ruin everything! my son is a good boy from a good jewish family and this russian prostitute comes along in her gucci, yves saint lauren crap that has been around the block and with a good figure will do anything to have her way with him. The day before yesterday she came in wearing skinny jeans and NO bra in a white shirt (which was obviosuly a little see-through) with her b cup breasts! He’s a boy and all boys think with one thing!

i know how boys are this age…all the girl has to do is spread her legs and she succeeds…here’s her pics from one of her networking sites i found on my son’s laptop….typical **** …what honourable girl would pose like this…i bet she sends these pics to him

http://yfrog.com/j3nca2c5smicau77e8kcaqshyj

http://yfrog.com/86ncannzi20cav6k0picaj1x7j

http://yfrog.com/j1fcax4fhsxcac22k0fcanpi0j

http://yfrog.com/6u3caosbg3ocasun9w9cae0muj

http://yfrog.com/4o5cazkkmhqcadg0sgtca3pc8j

http://yfrog.com/j3lcascx7m4ca437ko8ca4q2uj

the worst part is that my husband thinks it’s great and likes the girl as our son’s girlfriend! and gives our son a high-five…makes my job 200 times harder. For the people responding please give me your age and tell me if you have any kids…preferably boys…

my 16 year old son has a 17 year old girlfriend and i do not approve of her coming over. She comes over everyday…doesn’t come into my room or the kitchen or wherever i may be to say hi before she offically enters my home. My “romeo” plans a romantic evening for her by filling up the bathtub with rose petals and candles and champagne (i find this out later…when i wasn’t home…i would never allow alcohol and it’s all because of her). I do not like this. A 16 year old boy is supposed to study, read and earn good grades. This ***** is tyring to seduce my son into having se/x with her i think. when i came into their room to check up on them yesterday (because i heard heavy panting from outisde his door) my son was on top of her dry humping away and kissing her bare breasts until they saw me and stopped (his fly was undone and he was turned on….this is a sign she wanted him to have se/x with her!). How should i get rid of this ***** and save my baby boy from this ***** who’s only talent is spreading her legs without ruining the relationship with my son?

this **** will definitely ruin everything! my son is a good boy from a good jewish family and this russian prostitute comes along in her gucci, yves saint lauren crap that has been around the block and with a good figure will do anything to have her way with him. The day before yesterday she came in wearing skinny jeans and NO bra in a white shirt (which was obviosuly a little see-through) with her b cup breasts! He’s a boy and all boys think with one thing!

i know how boys are this age…all the girl has to do is spread her legs and she succeeds…here’s her pics from one of her networking sites i found on my son’s laptop….typical **** …what honourable girl would pose like this…i bet she sends these pics to him

http://yfrog.com/j3nca2c5smicau77e8kcaqshyj

http://yfrog.com/86ncannzi20cav6k0picaj1x7j

http://yfrog.com/j1fcax4fhsxcac22k0fcanpi0j

http://yfrog.com/6u3caosbg3ocasun9w9cae0muj

http://yfrog.com/4o5cazkkmhqcadg0sgtca3pc8j

http://yfrog.com/j3lcascx7m4ca437ko8ca4q2uj

the worst part is that my husband thinks it’s great and likes the girl as our son’s girlfriend! and gives our son a high-five…makes my job 200 times harder. For the people responding please give me your age and tell me if you have any kids…preferably boys…

my 16 year old son has a 17 year old girlfriend and i do not approve of her coming over. She comes over everyday…doesn’t come into my room or the kitchen or wherever i may be to say hi before she offically enters my home. My “romeo” plans a romantic evening for her by filling up the bathtub with rose petals and candles and champagne (i find this out later…when i wasn’t home…i would never allow alcohol and it’s all because of her). I do not like this. A 16 year old boy is supposed to study, read and earn good grades. This ***** is tyring to seduce my son into having se/x with her i think. when i came into their room to check up on them yesterday (because i heard heavy panting from outisde his door) my son was on top of her dry humping away and kissing her bare breasts until they saw me and stopped (his fly was undone and he was turned on….this is a sign she wanted him to have se/x with her!). How should i get rid of this ***** and save my baby boy from this ***** who’s only talent is spreading her legs without ruining the relationship with my son?

this **** will definitely ruin everything! my son is a good boy from a good jewish family and this russian prostitute comes along in her gucci, yves saint lauren crap that has been around the block and with a good figure will do anything to have her way with him. The day before yesterday she came in wearing skinny jeans and NO bra in a white shirt (which was obviosuly a little see-through) with her b cup breasts! He’s a boy and all boys think with one thing!

i know how boys are this age…all the girl has to do is spread her legs and she succeeds…here’s her pics from one of her networking sites i found on my son’s laptop….typical **** …what honourable girl would pose like this…i bet she sends these pics to him

http://yfrog.com/j3nca2c5smicau77e8kcaqshyj

http://yfrog.com/86ncannzi20cav6k0picaj1x7j

http://yfrog.com/j1fcax4fhsxcac22k0fcanpi0j

http://yfrog.com/6u3caosbg3ocasun9w9cae0muj

http://yfrog.com/4o5cazkkmhqcadg0sgtca3pc8j

http://yfrog.com/j3lcascx7m4ca437ko8ca4q2uj

the worst part is that my husband thinks it’s great and likes the girl as our son’s girlfriend! and gives our son a high-five…makes my job 200 times harder. For the people responding please give me your age and tell me if you have any kids…preferably boys…

okay so heres the thing. the dad is in the marines and he only wants our son for the money. he is saying this isnt his baby. and he doesnt ever ask how the baby is doing or what is going on with the baby. and i dont want my son to be used for money. and i dont want my son to grow up around a bunch of alcoholics. and he only cares about drinking. so how should i go about getting full custady once the baby is born. ill be 30 weeks on the 18th of this month. so im getting close to haveing him. and i want to get everything ready for once he gets here.
i also need to know when i should start looking into getting a lawyer. i dont know if i should start looking around now. or if i should wait until closer to my due date. which is october 27th. i am only 17 and this is my pregnancy. and im high risk due to misscarrage a few months before i got pregnant. and i know that you could go early. so that is the thing thats got me really unsure on what to do.

I got pregnant while I was living with my fiance. He is obviously the father of my baby and when I was three months along we slpit up. Things just ended up not working out and in the best interest of my son I left that alcoholic butt head. I’m not very big even though I’m 6 months along, and many men still find me attractive. I was going to wait until after I had the baby just cause I thought I’d be huge by now and figured nobody would want anything to do with me. I feel it’s time to let go of the baby’s father and move on. Some people feel I should wait cause it’s morally wrong. Just wanted to hear other peoples view on my situation I’m in at this time. I also wanted to add in that I’m not ever going to put a man in front of what my child needs, I’m definatly going to be responsable in who I date, and in no way am I being selfish by wanting to date again. My son comes first!

I got pregnant while I was living with my fiance. He is obviously the father of my baby and when I was three months along we slpit up. Things just ended up not working out and in the best interest of my son I left that alcoholic butt head. I’m not very big even though I’m 6 months along, and many men still find me attractive. I was going to wait until after I had the baby just cause I thought I’d be huge by now and figured nobody would want anything to do with me. I feel it’s time to let go of the baby’s father and move on. Some people feel I should wait cause it’s morally wrong. Just wanted to hear other peoples view on my situation I’m in at this time. I also wanted to add in that I’m not ever going to put a man in front of what my child needs, I’m definatly going to be responsable in who I date, and in no way am I being selfish by wanting to date again. My son comes first!

My husband left me and my 2 week old son last week. He has a previous arrest for domestic violence and a DUI. He is not a credible individual and has a problem with alcohol. What are the laws regarding child custody? Am I garunteed full custody due to these circumstances? I am meeting with a lawyer this week to ensure my son is in my complete care and my husband only gets visitation rights. Can someone explain to me what the laws are regarding who gets full custody and who doesn’t?

My sons father is a criminal, addicted to meth, and assaulted me in my home while I had the baby in my arms. I called the police they took him to jail for warrants out of another county. I didnt pursue the charges but did file a report…I know I was an idiot, but was just happy that he would be in jail for what I thought was a couple of years. Boy was I wrong, he only served 3 months in jail, he is due out next week. My son and I moved after the assault….will I be in trouble for moving? He doesnt know our address and frankly, Im worried if he knows where I am living he will come back and this time things will be worse. We have a case with the TX attorney General, he is 15 grand behind on child support, the papers state I have to give him my address and contact number for the baby…..What do I do? Attorney I spoke to is wanting a 3500.00 retainer fee, legal aid wont help because they claim I am above the income level….Im freaking out here! It’s too late to pick the assalt charge up….I’ve already checked….

The father of my baby is an alcoholic and I don’t trust him to be alone with the baby ever! He knows that I don’t trust him and he agreed to let me be there just in case. This baby means everything to me and if anything ever happened due to his lack of experiance I would kill him. He’s 25 ad the youngest of 8 children. No experiance with babies. I’m the olderst of 7. When he drinks he blacks out and doesn’t remember anything he says or does. He can’t focus and he certainly won’t be able to hold my baby or feed him or even change his diaper. And God forbid he ever tried to give the baby a bath while he’s drunk. He can’t stand when I cry how will he deal with the baby crying? I cannot trust this man to be alone with my baby. I want him to be involved, it’s his son, and probably the only chance he’ll ever have at having a child. I care about him being active, but I care about my son being taken care of first! What do I do? 27 weeks pregnant bein induced at 37 weeks due to HBP

We had a serious relationship, at 10 wks pg, he literally vanished into thin air, he was agianst abortion, i found out he was doing cocaine, he also drives a semi,he is back in his homestate.( i only know where his parents live, he was staying there(going thru a divorce from his wife at the time we were together). He is in his 30′s,and has a son with another woman too. he knew i was pg. Now i have our daughter should i find him, what do i do write a letter, go to his state and try to talk to him, or just raise her alone? I dont know..

We know she is a prescription meds abuser, with a long track record in all hospitals within a three hour radius. She has had to move from towns brfore because of her and her mothers abuse of prescription meds. She has my husbands almost 18 month old son and it is not a good situation. We know she is using drugs again, maybe even cocaine. She begs his parents for money and even for meds. We are tired of knowing his son is unhealthy and neglected and paying child support is a joke because it just goes up her nose. My husband is afraid to call Children’s Services and her end up running. We haven’t seen the baby in over four months because she won’t comply to visitation. We are just tired of seeing the baby dirty and in crappy old clothes and being left with her pill head mother for days at a time while she parties. She even drives with him while drugged up. Has anyone else ever dealt with this and have any idea of what Children’s Services will do? We just don’t want her to run.

My son was diagnosed with shaken baby syndrome. Once this was established children youth and services stepped in and took both my son and my daughter. this was in feb of last yr. I have been doing everything they asked me to like parenting evaluations psychiatrist’s etc. the judge finally ruled my kids father to 22- 44 months in prison. Now im still trying to get my kids back. they are in a foster family because no one in my family could take them. Now they want to put my children up for adoption! Ive had positive feedback from every appointment i go to. i am now 9 weeks pregnant and my case worker threatened to to take my newborn baby too when she is born. For no reason! i have no criminal history im not a drug addict or alcoholic. I do suffer from very high anxiety and depression, since all of this has occur ed! my son was 4 months old when his father did this and now hes 15 months! and my daughter just turned 3! i have an attorney and she told me to just go along with anything C.y.s wants me to do! but im not going to let them put them up for adoption! i have court coming on the 28th for a permanency hearing! im so nervous! and i don’t even know why they want to do this to me! im stable i have everything my children need and more im a loving mother!all i did was let there dad watch them one night and this happens! at first C.y.s tried charging me for perpetrator by omission but the judge ruled that out! ive done there services and they still wont help me get my kids back!!!! im at a loss. im trying to stay positive but its extremely hard. i have visitations only once a week and it drives me crazy to see them cry when they have to leave! my daughter doesn’t understand why she cant stay at home with mommy. i think about them 24/7 and i feel there’s nothing i can do! no one gives me answers tow hat i can do. i will fight though and never sign adoption papers. but C.y.s told me they can do it without my consent!!! i just don’t understand why the feel they have the power to tear my family apart my children are my world i feel as if i have no heart anymore! im constantly sad and i cant sleep at night anymore! if you have any answers that would help me on how to get my kids back home please let me know im at a complete loss!
Well first, Yes i am handling my stress and anxiety i go to a therapist every week. I am trying to stay healthy and yes that makes sense that if im not healthy i wouldn’t be any good to my children BUT the thing is once i get them home i know emotionally and mentally i would feel a ton better!!! i am a single mom and they are EVERYTHING to me. I miss hearing there laughter and i miss all the little things like waking up and making them breakfast! i miss holding them and comforting them! cys knows i am a good parent! my house is under control i’m a very clean person and my children have always had everything they’ve ever needed! and YES i wasn’t home when it happened that is why he got charged and is now sitting in prison! my kids and i are the ones suffering from all this! they deserve to be with me and i will not stop fighting for them. Thank you for the positive responses. I have wrote in a journal everything that has happened my appts. my goals that were met and conversations. i wil

This girl was saying that her mom used to put “a little bit” of whiskey in a cp and rub it on her son’s gums when he was teething, and that one day her dad “accidentally” gave him the whole capful of whiskey! “And the baby slept ALL night” (No s**t!) ¬.¬ And the people listening must’ve thought it was hilarious cause they started to laugh! I’m sorry, I don’t think it’s funny at all…

http://enews.earthlink.net/article/top?guid=20070511/4643ea40_3ca6_1552620070511-912916872

Texas Mother Accused of Mutilating Baby

HOUSTON – A mother who claimed the family dog tore off her baby son’s genitals was arrested Friday and accused of mutilating the boy herself with a sharp instrument.

Katherine Nadal, 25, was led away in handcuffs while awaiting a court hearing on custody of the 3-month-old boy, Holden Gothia. She was charged with injury to a child and held on $100,000 bail.

Nadal had a history of prescription drug abuse and tested positive for cocaine and methadone the day after Holden was mutilated, authorities said.

Some of the story has been left out and there is a pic of her here tell me what you think? Is this the best treatment?
I am asking about prescription drugs here and I am specifically interested in psychiatric drugs, do you think that hooking people on mind altering addictive drugs is the best treatment?
“they shouldn’t be allowed to have children!!!! ”

That is a bad attitude, in fact it sucks, no one has the right to say this, the thing of it is is these are mind altering addictive drugs and people that are hooked on them and using them don’t know what they will or won’t do no more then a psychiatrist does, we need to stop this drug scourge we are calling best treatments, it is wrong and it is hurting and killing our people. This has to stop!
In Kentucky Wynema Worley was on antidepressant elavil and drove her little boy in the lake to die! She didn’t mean to I am sure it was what the elavil she was on did to her. I keep telling people and no one is listening, when is anyone going to listen that there is absolutely no valid and reliable scientific evidence for doing any of this, these psychiatrist and drugs need to stop. You are talking about Andrea Yates I think and there are others too.

She smoked it in newports & sniffed it . From 10/31/2007 to 12/15/2007mainly on weekends not every day maybe about 4 weekends of using . she is scared that her baby will test postive & she will lose her baby. Question how long does it take to come out of a newborn system? What kind of test do they run? Please reply serious & partially right answer she really is a good mother she has one son 4 yrs old never did any drug with him but things got hard and she ran into the wrong people & no longer hangs around them .

My son is stressed out from school and i want him to have som alcohol to get over hit. Biut is it illegal to give it to someone who is 16 or just to sell it to them. I could sit here on the couch and put the bottle of whisky right in his mouth because he is my baby and that’s what I did for him all the time when he was first born. I want to but it might be illegal and I drank half the botttle already. lol

I have allowed my younger brother to live with myself, my fiance, and my newborn son. He does pay rent, but a much smaller portion than we do. I have repeatedly asked him to not smoke his pot in the house, especially when the baby is home. He also smokes cigarettes, but always outside. I understand his reluctance to smoke pot outside, but he has many friend’s houses he could go to. I feel very betrayed that he consistently chooses drugs over his nephew. It culminated the other night, and I took my son and slept at my parents house, just to get him away. I have not spoken to my brother since (he is on vacation for a week), but I cannot allow this to go on around my child. At the same time, I do not want to give up on my brother because I know he does this to avoid dealing with personal tragedies. I can’t ask him to stop smoking, he is an adult and an admitted addict, but he WILL not do it in the vincinity of my child. Is this a lost cause, and am I going to have to kick him out?

OK I have a one year old son. My ex-best pal is also my cousin and she followed in my footsteps and now has a baby. She has been getting drunk often, and her son is 3 months old. I think its just sick and that this poor kid is going to be raised by alcoholics (long history of drinking by mom and dad) Also she was drunk the whole first month and a half of being pregnant but did quit temporarily while pregnant the rest of the time. Am I being too judgemental by thinking she’s a horrible parent. I don’t think so, but not sure as I tend to be too judgemental.
CPS will not remove the child, and I do not want to deal with her drunken a$$, I also am not going to allow her around my own son. Just wondering if I sound too judgemental. Yes both parents drink in front of baby, and there is usually someone sober around while they do it. So this is mainly a moral issue rather than needing advice on what to do. I am a trained social worker with a degree, so I have the other side covered. Just wondering on a personal note if I am being too judgemental. Thanks

hi
i`m going into 8th grade this september,
i`m 13, and i was wondering a few questions
for people who have expierenced taking care of a baby think it over doll

1. do you get stuck w/ the ethnicity& gender your teacher gives you, or do you get to pick the ethnicity and the gender of the realcare doll ?

2. do you get to name your doll?

3. what do you get w/ doll, like clothes, etc, ?

4. how long do you get to care for the baby, or does that depend on the school, ex: 3 days, 1 week, etc ?

5. do you get to choose the drug addicted baby/ alcohol diseased baby, or not?

6. how long are they, and how much do they weigh?

7. are they plastic, and do they move, or what?

haha

ahh sorry for all the questions, i just never did anything like this, i have a choice to do it or not, but im going to choose to do it, cause i love babies & i take care of my baby nephew every day, every night

ps. i`d get a causcasian male or female
what should i name it?

ha, im weird, i know.

thnx.
thank you tamara, that helped, alot
haha, i`ll get lots of sleep

and to you chimesof…
it doesnt, i`m just saying,
i`m white/ native american
so id want a girl, anything would do really =]