How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

My son is 19. He had a party while I was out of town. There were several kids teens there between 18-20 and most (not all) were drinking. A girl (drunk) got her car stuck in my yard, while trying to leave due to the fact that most of the kids had gone to sleep. Neighbors called the police due to the noise the car was making trying to get unstuck. Some of the kids who had been awake went outside to help her. Police car arrives. Teens smell like alcohol and some empty cans were outside from where they had been smoking cigarettes earlier. Policeman went in my home, spotted more empty beer cans and asked for the owner. My son talked with him, admitted they had been having a party earlier and drinking but most were asleep. Officer called for back up. The officers went through my entire home (every floor) and woke up all the kids and told them to go to the kitchen and take a breathalyzer test. The officers opened every bedroom, bathroom and closet door looking for kids hiding. They had used all the straws for the breathalyzers. Threw them in the trash and after realizing there were more teens getting woke up, they took the straws out of the trash, rinsed them in the kitchen sink and reused them. (IS THAT NOT UNSANITARY?) They arrested anyone that did not blow a ZERO. Two girls blew and failed and begged to retake it and passed. One of my son’s best friends blew and passed and had actually been drinking. (How is that possible?) (How does that guarantee that other tests were not wrong?)

My son was wrong for throwing the party. Wrong for drinking. Everyone there that was drinking was wrong. I don’t blame the neighbors for calling if the car woke them up. It’s not about all this. I just want to know how serious is an MIP? Does that require a lawyer in Georgia or can my son just show up in court and hope for the best? He is in college and works part time and I am so worried about what a judge normally does and just curious about the straws and incorrect test results.

My wife is a meth addict I left her and took our sons because she is was using and would not even admit to having a problem. I have found her pipes and other evidence of the drug use. So after I left she said she was clean and doing well so I let her start taking the boys again, Well she comes to drop off our sons and we get into an argument and I tell her to leave. As she is leaving she threatens to burn my house down and I lock myself and our sons in the house and call the police and she starts to hit and kick my doors and windows. The police come and said she didn’t commit a crime. I know I don’t and won’t return the kids into her care but is it enough for a restraining order in California.

I just found out that my son’s ex-girlfriend is pregnant and it may be his. My problem with this pregnancy is that this girl does hardcore drugs, (she snorted cocaine during a previous pregnancy, not by my son.) I am wondering if there are laws that protect the fetus against harm such as she may be exposing the fetus to. Whether it is my son’s or not I don’t think it is right for a child to start life with the problems one would have from drug exposure.

It all started when this doctor asked me my blood type. Well, I wasnt exactly sure so I told her what I thought it was, and then i said, but Im not sure. She was like you are wrong, and I don’t feel like asking you anymore questions about you past pregnancy. You have a bad memory. Then It all went down hill from there. Sh has been rude, and extremely mean ever since that incident. I mean we got into an argument about shoes. Then today, I saw my bill for the “regular (so she said)” blood work she had ordered. I know the typical testing… AIDS, Herps… serious things lik that, but unknowingly I was tested for COCAINE! Without my consent she had a spcific test don just for cocaine, and that was the only drug on there. I have one son already so I know what blood tests are needed to be done. She had me tested for drugs all because I couldn’t remmber my blood type! Can she do this????? I want to file a complaint. How do I go about doing this.
FOR ONE: I WAS LOOKING FOR A COMPLAINT NOT A DAMN LAWSUIT.

FOR TWO: I AM NOT ON COKE. MY ISSUE HERE IS TH FACT THAT I GAVE CONSNT TO THE TYPICAL PREGNANCY TESTS, NOT ONE SPCIFIC TEST THAT IS BASD ON COCAINE.
FOR THREE: I COULD CARE LESS IF I WIN OR LOSE. IT’S JUST A QUESTION. God.
(Sorry about the missing letters! LoL. My keys stick, and it looks really bad, I know!)

officers showed up at my residence saying that they were responding to a call about some one smoking weed on the front porch (i don’t have a porch)-smile. they said that they were unsure of the address that they were to respond to (lmao) i told them that they had come to the wrong house one of two officers asked me y would he believe me and i said its simple i don’t have a porch he then told me to shut the f_ ck up and called me a smart asss (smile) u know i had to say something (lol) so i asked him who was he to come to my home and talk to me as if i were some child or something (just kidding) i told him that he needed to get the fu_k out of my yard before i call the police (smile) but b4 they left the other cop ( which was a female ) gave me a piece of paper with they’re names (at my request of course) the male cop got mad and said u r going to jail and i said no i’m not i have not done anything to have to go there and not only am i not going to jail i am not even getting into ur car i said u came to the wrong house and u can’t admit it he then instructed me to put my hands on top of the police car ( i thought he was going to search me but he fooled me and forcefully cuffed my left hand at this time i stood there and held my hands above my head and he said put ur hands behind ur back i said in a calm and cool manner officer i am disabled i have a back condition that will not allow me to put my hands behind my back i said i am not disobeying ur orders i simply can not do that without consequence of muscle spasms i said but however if just must take me to jail please allow me to sit in ur patrol car and i will let u cuff me from the front he said no u r going to do it the way i said or i will fuc_in_ take u down ( i said that would b a mistake) as i have just told u that i am disabled and cannot comply with ur orders i then said i am not being agressive but at the same time i cannot let u cuff me in that manner and then the male office kneed me in my knee forcing me to the ground i was kneed several times to my lower mid and upper back and was told by the male office thats all ur kind is good for is to make like yall hirt yall need to leave that crack alone and get a job (my last two jobs were chief of security at a prison and a substance abuse tech) ( my landlord is the investigator for the DA’S office and my nephue is the head of narcodicsthey were both called to the scene when they arrived they asked the officer what was he doing! (at this time i was covered with mud as i was thrown in the ditch) listen at what his answer was ( I THOUGHT HE WAS FAKING ) LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLOL WELL I WAS TEMPORARY ON THE DISABLED LIST BUT MY DOCTOR said that i was doing alot better and that i would soon be able to try and go back to work some where but because the office THOUGHT i was faking i was returned to crutches for another 11 weeks he tore my acl in my knee (when he took me down) all together now i have 4 ruptured disc in my back both knees are messed up i’m over weight and diagnosed with severe depression my wife has tried suicide 2 times already ( did i tell u that she is disabled 2 ) it is going on 4 yrs ago that this happened to me i have no income and my wife gets 854.00 a month our 20 yr old son takes care of us ( he works at americas pizza thats right ) (pizza hut) still trying to get disability but my wife gets 854.00 that exceeds the house hold limit of 700.00 so that disqualifies me from getting any help from the state or the federal gov but back to the story remember i told u that there were two officers there and when i was thrown to the ground and beat up i looked up at the female officer and said from the looks of things u must think what he is doing is wrong because u choose not to help him
but me i am a citizen and i am asking u to help me this is all a mistake i said u have to help one of us and she froze unable to respond i called out to the neighbors and anyone out there in the street to please call me an ambulance as i was in need of medical attention and then i called out to both officers to call for an ambulance i am in need of medical help ( at this time i requested that the officer take his hands off of me as he was not a medic nor was he a dr listen at this if things got that bad for him to throw me down and beat me Y when the ambulance came y y Y did he take the cuffs off of me and send me to the hospital with no police officers ( thats right they took the cuffs off of me and let me go to the hospital with no police escort like nothing ever happened
i tried to file charges with the city police ,city marshals office, sherriffs office, and the state police the state police said that city should take the charges there since thats where it happened city said no not them because they r the investigating source so they could not do it ( what will become of me )

My ex husband is trying to turn my son against me, is an alcoholic and emotionally abuses him. My son is aware that the conversations are being taped for his protection. I am just doing this temporaily until I can get into court for supervised visitation.