How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs?

My son used to not drink or drug. when he went to college he started doing a litle here and there. It did catch up with him. Now he is not married no kids and lives his mother and I. He has a job. Works very well. He has been on a Meth. program for 2 years. He has stolen some of my drugs. In the last 7 years i have had to fight 3 types of cancer and problems. Many surgeries etc. He may could walk away after a detox i don’t know. His job may have medical benifits in about another month or two. Idon’t know if the benifit would be drug rehab. My wife and I are stable but have been sinking slowley because of dying mother in law and two grandchildren that we help over 70 percent in there finances. Actually i see no reason for him to quit. Her goes to work and when he gets home he lay’s in bed and watches t.v. He is paying off debts etc. for when he was away from home for a few years. He used to be everybody’s buddy but they all grew up and had families. he does have it made.

Than you all for mailing me about my son. ok, I live in Illinios, my son is in Phoenix. i have looked to see if he has any warrants, doesn’t. so i tried for jail. I have wrote every show on tv that there is, nothing..He has been to rehab SEVERAL TIMES. I do not give him any money or anything like that. At times when he calls me he is crazy, i have tried to have him commited. i do go to alanon, but truthfully not enough. I have tried to get his dealer arrested but he gets it all over the place..see what i mean? and the meth mouth poison helps make him crazier than just the drugs. sometimes he writes me or calls and thinks i am still in az…It’s sad

My son goes over there on weekend (court ordered). I found out in september that my son’s uncle is living there with him and he is recovering from meth. How can I get my son’s dad to realize that his brother in law is a meth addict and will always be one