My son who is 14 years old, has been caught kissing and doing sexual doings (not exactly sex), with a girl in a girls bathroom in his school. I am so saddened by it and really shocked, I cannot believe my youngest baby boy who was just a baby yesterday, turned out to be a pervert and god forbid, a “Sex addict”. He was caught half naked kissing with this other girl, same age as he is. He was caught my teachers, and sent to the principals office. When i got the call, I was so shocked. The teacher suspended my son for 2 weeks, as in his school, this is a big offence. The girl got suspended for a week. My son is really angry with me, and started cursing at me, and saying it’s his life and he even swore he would “have sex with 10000 girls, and felt good about it”. I broke down in tears when my son said those exact words 
I am so shocked, that he has grown up now. I have also found out he has a reputation in school, of being a one time gangster,I never knew,as I never actually really been to his school, to check on him. I also found out that he has been smoking cigarettes,found in his bag recently,and pornographic magazines and also alcohol , that has been missing from my brothers house. I am so lost and saddened by it. My husband is divorced and living far away,and I have full custody of my 4 children. I need advice, deep advice, on what to do to my son, to teach him a lesson. I know it’s pretty normal for teen boys to be like this, but my son has gone to the extreme, I am scared if he makes any girl pregnant, god forbid. I do see a psychiatrist, but it’s not helping at all. Help me please,advice. Thanks.
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I liked Savannah as a girl’s name, my husband didn’t because GM makes a van w/ the same name. So when i asked him suggestions for a boy, he said Chevy as a joke. We’ve been calling the baby Chevy since then. Now it sounds normal. We would like to go w/ a name that has good initials like my son’s name is Jayden he could go by J.T. And a good shortform like he could be Jay or J. Hubby suggested J.D. (alcoholic?lol) but I said no right away because of two J-babies. Now I’m not sure. We’re for sure on the name if it’s a girl, but if it’s a boy I need help. If you could suggest
-good initial combinations that people actually use, e.g. D.J., A.J. etc.
-Names to go w/ initial combinations (including J.D.)
And tell me what you think of Chevy and J.D. (also considering that we already have a Jayden.)
I am going to be honest because I need advise and would appreciate serious responses.
I am a single mom and work hard. I’ve been sick with Cancer the past 3 yrs but am finally getting better. I have an 18 yr old daughter in college that does not speak to me.
My son is 14. He has seen a lot and I feel bad for both of them but I thought families were suppose to stick together, no matter what. I feel a little childish by saying that but I was raised old story and it is what it is.
I’ve spoiled them and I know it. I have realized this for the last couple year’s but was to sick to act on it and make changes that needed to be made. I was over whelmed with guilt and allowed to much to go on although they took advantage of my being sick.
Over the years we have went to counseling, church guidance, school counseling, etc…….
The only thing that works is if they want something. Things will go good until they get what they want and it’s back to the same old routine.
My son has learned most of this from by 18 yr old daughter. I finally gave up and let her go. Now my son thinks he can do the same. At lease that is what seem’s like is happening.
Today I had an epiphany and realized what she said was true but the other way around. I have always been right here for my kids and am the typical mom that love her children unconditionally. My epiphany was,”they gave up on me”.
What I ask is some opinions on what I should do. Should I hold my ground? Should I give in more? What change can be made to make us better as mother and son? I’ve talked until I’m blue in the face.
We all know there is not a handbook on this stuff but I live in fear I will lose my son as well.
He is not running around (yet), no drugs, no smoking, no alcohol. He attends church every week and is a good boy….so far.
I admit I am afraid because of what happened with my daughter. I take a lot of blame because I got sick and could not be a part of their lives like I once was. And of course I’m the adult and am suppose to set examples.
I’m getting very frusterated and he is to…….
For the Christian reader’s, please say a prayer for us.
My soon to be 15 year old son is out of control. He’s into drugs and alcohol. He uses inappropriate language in front of my 3 year old daughter. He’s very violent.. always throwing things, hitting me, and pushing me. I’m not sure what to do anymore. I’ve tried therapy, grounding him, and taking things away, but nothing is affective on him. I’m not sure about spanking him.. He’s a little big.
I’ve always been pretty strict with him, but now I have no idea what to do. Any advise?
No, my husband died about 2 years ago and I’ve never remarried. So, he doesn’t have any father figure in his life.
Fellow atheists, help me out here! Is a ‘God-hater’ a person who believes in God but hates him like say, a teenage son hates his abusive alcoholic dad? …Or something?
We know one thing for sure, we atheists definitely couldn’t be classified as ‘God-haters’ since we don’t believe in God and you can’t hate what you don’t believe in, right? Yup. Certainly they aren’t referring to US when they say ‘God-hater’, right? 
(((((((((OLGA))))))))) – LOL! XD Come back here! Them is fightin’ words!
(((((((((JACKIE)))))))) – I know sweetie pie, but it was just so tempting, and ALL my questions can’t allows be about LGBT. Ya know?
My son is almost 16 – a soph in high school. He’s extremely intelligent, and loves computer programming. Besides his 104 average in programming, he has B’s, C’s and 3 F’s in subjects like English. It’s obvious he can do the work, but he doesn’t hand it in. Recognizing this is passive-agressive behaviour, I took him to a counselor. Several, actually, but he is smarter than all of them and basically plays them to give them the answers they want to hear, which doesn’t help anyone. I considered the local alternative school but it seems that it’s designed for kids with greater problems such as drugs and alcohol and I do NOT want him to be any more negatively influenced. His father lives across country (we split up before he was 3), and is a bum/drug addict (no job, owes years in back child support) – when he sees him once a year/every other year, my son’s personality changes and he tries to act like his Dad. I know his father has told him bad things about me and that I don’t deserve respect because I’m not with his father anymore, even though I worked 2 jobs for years and went to school to get my degree and a good job so my son can have anything he needs. I’m remarried now, and my son and his step-father get alone, but they are polar opposites (my son into D&D and computer games, my husband into sports). I am currently working with the counselor and teachers at the school to try and fix this issue, but it’s tough. It’s taking a lot of time and effort away from job, and putting me under enormous amounts of stress (I have have serious health problems). He’s almost 16 – Should I just back off and let him fail? Last thing I want is to seem him fail, but he’s too old for me to keep hassling him like this. And I’m tired of this situation – it’s been going on for almost 5 years now. What do I do to allow him to do well or do I just back off and let him fall on his face? What do I do if he falls on his face and instead of picking himself back up, decides it’s easier to be like his Dad and do nothing?
Fellow atheists, help me out here! Is a ‘God-hater’ a person who believes in God but hates him like say, a teenage son hates his abusive alcoholic dad? …Or something?
We know one thing for sure, we atheists definitely couldn’t be classified as ‘God-haters’ since we don’t believe in God and you can’t hate what you don’t believe in, right? Yup. Certainly they aren’t referring to US when they say ‘God-hater’, right?
(((((((((OLGA))))))))) – LOL! XD Come back here! Them is fightin’ words!
(((((((((JACKIE)))))))) – I know sweetie pie, but it was just so tempting, and ALL my questions can’t allows be about LGBT. Ya know?
I’m throwing a party for my son’s birthday at my mom and dad’s, and they’re concerned about potential lawsuits. So I have 3 areas where legal insight would be greatly appreciated:
Alcohol: My husband and I would like to have a keg there for the adults. My parents are concerned that if we provide alcohol, they could be sued if someone drives from our property drunk. I thought that property owners could be sued no matter what, even if party guests brought their OWN alcohol. Does it really matter WHO purchases the alcohol if guests leave my mom and dad’s drunk? We don’t plan on letting people drive home intoxicated, but you can only control grown people to an extent. Are there any legal precautions/disclaimers that we can use to prevent a lawsuit involving alcohol?
My parents have a swimming pool. Can guests sue if they are injured in the pool? What precautions can be taken to prevent a lawsuit concerning the pool?
I have a friend whose husband gets into fights at practically every social event. Can the actions of an individual like him get my parents sued since they are the property owners where the event will be hosted?
Any advice would be appreciated. I am a nervous wreck about this. The state is Texas, by the way.
Covering the pool is not an option, because it is a party, and we want our guests to be able to go swimming and have a good time.
There is nothing abnormal about having alcohol present for a party at someone’s house, regardless of the occasion. Even if we don’t BUY any alcohol, what are we going to do, tell grown people that they can’t bring their own alcohol to drink? How ridiculous would that seem?
I agree about my friend’s husband not attending though. I don’t want that asshole coming anyway, I’m just not sure how I’m going to tell my friend who has always bent over backwards for me.
And “Senor Snarky” is right. It’s gonna be a hum-dinger! I guess my expectations are just too high by hoping that everyone will behave like adults.
Insurance for the party sounds like a great idea. How much does that usually cost?
My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.
After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.
This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?
Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…
1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)
2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).
3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.
4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.
5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.
My daughter and son-in-law are alcoholic drug addicts. My daughter left her husband because she wanted to get “clean.” She has two boys, ages 3 and 6, who do not get along. They are toxic when they are together. My daughter came to live with me and my aging arthritic 80-year-old mother. My daughter stayed with us for several months and then went back 1800 miles to “patch” things up with her ex-husband who just got out of jail, and we don’t know when she will be back. These kids are the loves of our lives, but they beat each other up constantly. They fight over toys all the time. They don’t share. There is never a day that goes by without some kind of hysterics or crying. They will not listen to me or my mother. They are defiant. My mother and I both feel like we’re in HELL!!! We don’t know what to do with these boys, and neither does my daughter, obviously. We love them too much to put them up for adoption or send them to foster homes.
Any advice would be appreciated.
It seems the only way my mother and ever have any peace is if I take one away for a long ride (the idea is to separate them), but I can’t be driving around for hours on end every day! I work from home and I don’t have time to run my business anymore. It’s a huge strain on me because then I have to play “catch up.” We cannot separate them inside the home because our townhouse is not big enough. We have tried just about everything to help them get along, from talking to them, treating them with love and kindness, to downright old school spanking – NOTHING WORKS!!!!
HELP!!!!!
This house was a house of love and tranquility before they came, and we are trying so hard to keep it that way, but as much as it hurts me to admit it, these kids are little monsters. They have destroyed the walls, the carpet, furniture because they get physical with each other and throw each other around slamming into something. They run around the house like it was a playground and literally bounce off walls, and if we say anything, we might as well be talking to open space. It falls on deaf ears. We know these kids must feel abandoned, and we sympathize; but they are out of control. Even when my daughter was here, she couldn’t do anything with them, either; and in some ways, my mother and I both understand why my daughter would want to get away from them, because my mom and I are about ready to lose our minds and are at wit’s end.
My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.
After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.
This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?
Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…
1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)
2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).
3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.
4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.
5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.
For starters, my best friend, Jovi, well she’s having a problem with her parents. I am 16, she is 14. We all live in America. It’s really her parents, they fight, a lot. Basically every week actually, and then they are good again. And it really hurts her when they fight. Stuff they usually fight about is so dumb. It’s usually stuff about their son (who is an alcoholic), her accusing him of cheating on her (which he really never would do), and other stuff. I think it might be becuase when they were much younger (before Jovi was alive), her dad mistreated her mom when they lived in Venezuela (it’s unfortuntly common there). A lot of the problems occur when they drink, which they do a lot. Well tonight they got into a fight and Jovi’s mom told her that she was going to move back to Venezuela this December. Jovi is now saying she actually wants her parents to get a divorce (which they sometimes want), and it’s making me upset. It’s hard for me to watch her sit there and not try anything…
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…to help fix it. It almost makes me feel angry at her, like she doesn’t care about them. Now something you should know about Jovi, she’s really a selfish person, a good person, but unkowingly selfish. I think that’s part of why she wants them to split, because it hurts her when they fight and she’d feel better if that ended with divorce. Another thing about her, she doesn’t think about cause and effects, like what will happen in the future. And I am really really close to her whole family (they really are great people when they get along), but I just don’t see how any of her family could possibly benefit from a divorce. Her mom (unemployed), completely relys on her husband for money and she speaks no English. Jovi attends a really, really expensive private/catholic highschool (she has some financial aid for making great grades). Honestly, I think Jovanna has a really great future ahead of her. She will probably be the first of her family to go to college and the…
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…And just have a great life. I don’t know how this could affect it though. I don’t know what to do and I told her to talk to both her parents for real and tell them that what they are doing is hurting her. She told me she is going to do that. Well, basically that’s it. AND for anyone telling me to stay out of it, it’s not gunna happen becuase my best friend is asking me what she should do and I want to give her the best advice I can give her. I really don’t, and I know she really doesn’t want to see them break up. AND most of you say it’s usually for the better. This for sure wouldn’t be, as Jovi then might move to Venezuela where she can’t get anywhere near as good an education as she could here, and I really want her to have a great life. So please, help me out.
Thanks
My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.
After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.
This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?
Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…
1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)
2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).
3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.
4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.
5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.
This is gonna seem weird. But I’ve been dreaming of the Air Force all my life. Middle school I was top student with high grades and athletic ability. However, being the son of a single alcoholic father (with short tempers) I glided off the path I worked to hard to build. It took the whole 8th grade (when it started) and after I moved (freshman year) to recover. Even now I struggle a little bit thought my grades are getting better along with my determination. My question is this: Is it too late to be able to qualify for the Air Force Academy? I’ve gained weight since middle school and I really don’t have anything impressive to give. But I figure once I get on my feet I can handle it and I think I’m ready to take on leadership. But next year being JUNIOR year, am I too late?
Yesterday at 4 am a cop pulled up next to me & my 2 friends while we were walking around their neighborhood. He said we smelled like alcohol & called our parents & had them get us. My friends dad went through his son’s back-pack (Which his son had given to me to wear since he’s allready on probation) & pulled out a half empty bottle of aristocrat. This is my first time being in any kind of trouble with the law, I didn’t blow on the breathalyzer, & my mom came & picked me up & the cop said something would come in the mail for court. I live in Virginia. What do you think will happen? 
* Also, we weren’t driving, we were walking, so is there still a possibility I might loose my license? Is there any way I could keep my license? Idc about the fines or community service, I really just don’t want my car taken away. =/
Okay, i am 27 years old with my first child and I have a bachelors degree. I live with my grandparents. I am in the process of going back to school. I have been unemployed for a year. Anyhow, my grandparents have a 50 year old son who is an alcoholic and he has been living with us for 2 years or more. He goes from his childrens mother house, to his women, and back to my grandparents house to stay when he gets put out. In over 2 years he’s mostly stayed at my grandparents. He fights, cusses everyone out when he gets drunk hence the reason he has bounce from one house to the next. He recently lost his job and when he had a job he would not get an apartment of his own. Now hes broke and still drinking and has moved back in with my grandparents and I. I personally, do not want him here but I have no control over it. Also, I cant stand to be around him is this normal?
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My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.
After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.
This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?
Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…
1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)
2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).
3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.
4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.
5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.
Ok I am having a real problem here and could use some advice from preferably single mothers out there. OK here is my situation, I am dating a wonderful woman who has a 4 year old son. The boys father is sorta involved, he’s really mentally unstable and a serious alcoholic but does see his kid about 2-3 times a month ( mostly when my gf needs him to watch him) The child is absolutely unreal. Screams/whines for every single little thing, defies his mother at every turn, refuses to do anything he doesnt totally feel like doing etc. Makes himself vomit when he dont get his way. The worst part is at bedtime, he pitches the worst fits imaginable and he will not under any circumstances sleep unless she is there next to him, so to put it bluntly its virtually impossible for us to have any time to ourselves, even 1/2 an hour is a huge deal for us. Any suggestions on what I can possibly say to my gf to encourage her or some ideas on how to make things a little better with him would be appreciate
My son failed a breathalyzer test at the prom. Every student is tested at the door before prom. The device they used is called, Alco-Blow, a hand held device that looks like a large yellow flashlight @ $300 each.
After he was denied access to prom that night, we took him to get a blood test at the local hospital (at his urging to prove his innocence). The blood test results came back normal, a 0.00 BAC (normal, no alcohol). He was not allowed into prom that night and also got a suspension from school and all social activities/sports etc as they thought he had been drinking.
This suspension goes on his school record as drinking alcohol at prom, a clear violation of policy, rules and the law. The principal at school will not lift the suspension from his record even with this 0.00 blood test result. My son can’t get prom night back, but what can we do now to clear my son’s record of this suspension, as well as clear his name?
Thank you for your thoughts ideas and advice.
Thank you all for your responses. I’ll be happy to address any questions. Please ask me anything as I want to be as clear as possible so as to allow you to see the full story and share your responses with me. Thanks so much. Here we go…
1. Blood test was done 2 hours after breathalyzer test. (this is the point of contention by the principal)
2. Breathalyzer (Alco-Blow) tester only shows a color (green-orange-red). It’s basically a pass/fail test, no number result. My son registered an orange four times. Other kids were receiving an orange result 2/3 times then finally getting a green light (green=nothing detected).
3. The Alco-Blow company told me me that the test needs a 2-5 minute reset after a false reading so as to be clear and ready for the next person to blow into the machine.
4. There was only 3 minutes between the time my son started being tested to the time the principal called me with the bab news.
5. Two kids in line, before my son, failed the test.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) told me they do not advocate any hand held devices to test for alcohol. Only the police department breathalyzers ($5000) are endorsed. That was very interesting to me.
I’m 24 years old with a 4 year old child. I make $12 an hour as a temp and will soon get hired through the company and my pay will go up to $16, I also work overtime some nights to be able to provide for my child with everything he needs. 6 months ago I moved down here with my son from Idaho when our husband abandoned us. Our plan was to all move down to California to help my mom out with her breast cancer and I had half the house packed..Then he cheated on me…Then he left me, took our only car and his clothes. I had no car and at the time my job cut my hours to 4 hours a week cause of the economy. So my son and I moved, my husband didnt contact us for those 5 days. We moved on the 6th day.
I’ve tried to keep in contact with him over the months and keep it friendly and tell him updates about our son. After I stopped calling him, he rarely called me…Once every 2 months..
Now he is mad that I decided not to move back to Idaho and says I’ve “kidnapped our son” when he knew we were moving down to Cali and he had no problem all those other months! He is a pothead and he is very immature and not responsible enough to care for our son.
I think I need a lawyer and I was wondering if anyone can recommend one in the L.A. area who would be able to do payment plans since I don’t have much money.
I told my husband I don’t have a problem with him visiting our son. I have no family in Idaho. And my son gets alot of love and support down here from my side of the family.
I just don’t want my son staying with my husband since him and his girlfriend are both alcoholics and potheads… I just don’t know how to prove that without the help of a lawyer
I’m so scared about losing my son by him saying I kidnapped him when I did not!
