I just want to know what everyone thinks about this. I recently found out that my 16 year old son has been having sleepovers at his “friend’s” house, who is a gay 24 year old male. I didn’t know that he had such a friend, as he has never introduced us. Whenever he said he was staying at a friend’s house, I naturally assumed that it was someone his age. I’m worried and I feel like an idiot for not knowing about this man. Apparently he lets him drink alcohol and they share the same bed together, but my son has told me that nothing sexual is going on. What do you think?
Yes, my son has always been trustworthy to me. It really makes me suspicious though, because he has never had a girlfriend before or expressed interest in either sex, so I don’t know what’s going on. As far as I know, this man is studying to be a lawyer so he knows the difference between right and wrong.
I will always love and accept my son no matter what. I just want to know what is going on and why he didn’t tell me about this man earlier. Also, I know that he is not allowed to drink alcohol and I never wanted him to at this age. I won’t contact the police YET. I’ll go over to his apartment and make him tell me what’s going on.
Okay, I just talked to my son about it. I told him to tell me everything and he’s being very forthright with the information. He swears nothing is going on and the man only gave him a glass of wine. He said that they have shared the bed once before and nothing happened, but I’m still worried. He also said that this man gave him a key to his apartment so he can come over whenever he likes to get away? That’s REALLY weird. I asked my son about his sexual orientation, and he said that he doesn’t know but he is not sleeping with this man. They’re just friends, and he thinks that he’s an interesting person. I’m not sure if I should believe this or not, and I’m not letting him see the man anymore. Thank you all for your help.

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