my 19 yr old son, doesnt drinks wine during meal time, and drinks water, whenever he goes to communion, he carries and grape juice with him, since he does not want to have a wine, he never drinks champagne at parties or weddings , i mean how can anyone stay away from it ? he never accompanies me and my other sons when we have beer or any other hard drinks …his mother is happy that her son is non-alcoholic, but whats the big deal with drinking it..i feel so embarassed when we go to parties or get togethers and he goes on saying to hosts “sorry, i dont drink !” .