my son is a pothead/cocaine addict he is 14 years i found 10 ounces of cocaine and pot what should i do?

30/07/2010 admin 14 comments

please tell me what to do about him and the drugs without cops

SON'S DRUG ABUSE QUESTIONS addict, cocaine, found, ounces, pothead/cocaine, should, years

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Written by katylynn339 about 1 month ago.

you should have been a good parent from the start
Written by cheffeao about 1 month ago.

Tough Love intervention. Seek help from your Church or a professional
Written by zombiesatemyballs about 1 month ago.

throw a party. or, make him do all the coke to teach him a lesson.
Written by grandm about 1 month ago.

First, call the police and report him; then get him into a drug program. It’s imperative to get a handle on the situation right away!
Written by chris_p26 about 1 month ago.

your first question should be how did a 14 yr old afford that much in the first place, then take him to counselling straight afterwards to gethim back straight again. also look after him more, he may have started due to lack of attention at home. no offense to you btw.
Written by starling_night614 about 1 month ago.

Start by talking to him. Call a counselor or contact the drug and alochol agent in your area.
Written by J C about 1 month ago.

whoa! get him into a rehab unit right now! and flush that crap in the toilet. how in the world can he afford 10 ounces of coke? if my calculation is right that like $1000 of dope if not more. you need to sit him down and have a long talk.

this is not even cool!
Written by Mmmkay about 1 month ago.

whats up with all of these kids in your questions?
Written by danskecat about 1 month ago.

Take him to a drug rehab facility. You cannot help him on your own. Phone them and ask what to do. He is a minor and commiting illegal acts in your home by keeping drugs there. If he gets caught with drug possesion, he could face jail time. All types of criminals are associated with drug users and dealers which means that they all know where your son lives. He is destroying his life and bringing trashy people into it. The cops will get involved and you cannot avoid that.
Written by Free Love about 1 month ago.

this doesn’t mean you are a bad parent. i have really protective parents who sheltered me up untill i was about ten and they couldn’t shelter me anymore. now, they still try to be protective, yet they know nothing about me. that doesn’t make them bad parents, you are not a bad parent. i go to a private school and i am serious about it, yet i’m into rock and roll and i would do a lot of stuff for some drugs. okay, just confront him. don’t start yelling at him. he’ll hate to addmit it (i do) but he’s pretty sensitive. if you yell and scream at him, he’ll only flow further away from you. don’t do that. just ask him. “hey, i found some coke and pot in your room and i wanted to talk about it.” try to make him feel comfortable. if he runs away and slams his bedroom door in your face, have no fear. wait until the next day and try again. don’t act on impulse, that never got anybody anywhere positive. stay calm with whatever you are doing. don’t atomatically assume it’s his friends. i am currently going to a therapist seeing as i have many problems of my own. it may not be the thing for you or your son, but think about it. let him choose who to see. have that therapist tell him that he won’t tell you (his parents) anything unless it involves harming himself or others (suicide). make it be true. drop him off. pick him up. when you pick him up, every once in a while ask the therapist if he’s sane. the end. the therapist can work wonders. the therapist can tell you if he needs to go to rehab, or stuff like that. i love my therapist. we talk easily and he unravels things. that is what i would want for my kid if i had one. be patient, be calm…always. it will pay off. you don’t want him to fall furthur away from you, but he obviously doesn’t really want to talk to you. offer him the choise of talking to someone else(who he can choose) in a safe, comfortable environvent. it may take a while, but remeber. you don’t want to be his enemy, you may also not want to be his friend, but it’s safer on the friend side for you both. seeing a tharapist has helped me enjoy the time with my parents more and feel more comfortable with them.

i wish you and your son the best of luck always. if you want to talk further, get a student’s opinion, or if your son wants someone to talk to my e-mail is moojastar13@yahoo.com by the way, my therapy started by talking to someone wonderful over the internet. if it weren’t for them, i’d be dead. much love-julia (you and your son’s friend!)
Written by toph's sweetie pie about 1 month ago.

Sounds like he is *dealing* (He is a dealer of drugs) to other people if he had that much laying around and none of your possesions are missing or money missing. there isn’t alot you can do if you don’t want to put him in rehab or call the cops. He has gone down a bad road. What is more important to you a good relationship with your child or tough love. You can be his friend about it. Talk to him calmly express your feeling (this is if you want to be his friend) Know what he is doing who he is messing with and where he will be. Keep tabs on him thru communication. This way if he ever turned up missing you can find him easy. if you keep the communication open he will tell you when he is ready to stop. If he is dealing you might have to relocate. If you flush his goods. He will have someone wanting to kick his a s s or kill him if he is messing with a bigtime dealer. It is a risky situation. It all depends on where you live. If your in middle america suberbia then you have an issue. If you live in a downtown housing development it is easier for him to get in deep.
Remember this is a choice he is making. YOu are not a bad mother.
14 is a typical age to get into this type of junk.
Good luck to you. Really think of what you want.
Written by neonisuglyandstupid about 1 month ago.

you should stare at him angrily while poking him in the head with plastic doggy doody and then go to sleep while screaming Leeroy Jenkins
Written by julie about 1 month ago.

I deleted my answer and you get this one:

How do you know it was 10 ounces?
Written by weirdnutcase about 1 month ago.

wait a second…in one of your questions you said that you a virgin with a 3 inch penis…now you are talking aobut your son…something is wrong here

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