If you are not paying the bills in the home you really have no options except to make sure you are somewhere safe when this person is drinking.

I would tell a safe adult about the situation so that if things are really bad, you have another place to stay.

you need to call the cops b/c if he is abusive towards you and your son, then i can get even worse for you and him. I would go to a safe house or something and let him stay there, or call the cops to have him escorted out of the home. You should not have to put up with an abusive partner now or ever okay. Also have a restaining order be issued to him, you need to go to the court house for this. Tell the cops or the judge that he is abusing you and maybe your son, but if he is not abusing your son you dont ever want to take the chance of that even happening okay. And if the cops dont do anything go to a lawyer for help. Make sure that you do something right away before it gets even worse for you. I feel what you feel but i dont have any children. One of my ex’s abused me quit often but i made sure i left him b/c i feared for my life, so i left before it got worse. It only takes one time for a man to ever hit me, then i’m gone, i hope that you do something before it get’s any worse alright.
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