I’ve been going through this crap for 2 years. We broke up, he started using – it took me a couple of months to figure out what was going on. He physically attacked me at one point and the police got involved and I figured out he was using. I got a restraining order which forbid him from seeing his son until he was clean. His Mom called CPS on me for revenge – they found nothing and only came by once – they basically told me to keep my son away from his Dad. I tried to talk to my ex’s Mom during this time so that she could get him some help. She refused to admit he had a problem even as his face was covered with scabs and he was stealing from neighbors and relatives. He was finally arrested and completed the state ordered drug testing – he managed to pass and stay clean for a year. I started allowing him visitation with his son and he started using again and in front of our son. He has been arrested yet again and had 6 warrants in 3 different counties he is in jail for a long time. His Mother has been trying to find dirt on me and is collecting information for him – mostly in regards to if I’m dating anyone and I feel guilty about it so I don’t date anyone. How can I deal with this woman? I just want him to get clean and be a part of my son’s life.