I’m wondering what the daughter thinks. This guy sounds like a loser, if you’re certain about the facts you gave. Tell him to pound salt and it’s none of his business.

I wasnt aware slavery still existed and that this guy owns your boyfriends daughter. I take it she is not free to make phone calls or go out? Sounds like slavery to me. I think this is a worse problem then the drug test thing. She sounds brainwashed. My guess is if he passes the drug test he will find another way to isolate the daughter. But the fact she is allowing him to do this makes it an impossible situation for dad.