He could really use the help for a few months to get back on his feet after a bad relationship. I have offered to do anything I can to help him. I am very stressed as I lived with 20yrs of this with my father. He is a wonderful intelligent person, who says he doesn’t need to & wont drink anymore, but I can tell he is. I really want to help him and am feeling physically & emotionally sick over this. I’ll probably feel worse asking him to leave, because he is not yet financially ready. We have talked about this several times now & I have told him it is the one thing I wont put up with and he agrees to this. Then it happens again. He thinks he is hiding it, but I see the change in personality, eyes, facial look etc. He has had 3 DWIs in is his past, and seeiing this brings back all I went through in the past with him & my father. His gifts & potential are so great & I want to help him so badly. I am just heart sick over this. Thanks for any help.