should i start not talking about him and foucus on other things?
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Written by Dj Crump about 2 years ago.
you should get a belt and whip him that waht you should do…
that why your kid going crazy on drug -.-” need whip him!
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Written by Queen of the Universe about 2 years ago.
I realize you need comforting, but please think about his privacy.
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Written by titi about 2 years ago.
don’t talk about him but you ca still think about him.
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Written by ♥Brittany Babe!♥ about 2 years ago.
most of the time talking about it will make you feel better then rather holding it in
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Written by electric*eyes about 2 years ago.
maybe.
i mean it’s a stressful thing that’s going on in your life so it’s natural to want to talk to other people about it and kind of vent.
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Written by tan0301 about 2 years ago.
Maybe if you were more focused on him before he went into rehab, he wouldn’t have a need for rehab in the first place.
What do you mean “focus on other things?” He’s your son.. he should be your main focus from the time he is born until he is an adult. Then you should still 3/4′s focus on him.
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Written by Ashley B about 2 years ago.
dont listen to him, you shouldnt beat your child -_- anyways, just relax and calm down, and you should know, it is ok to talk about your son with other people as long as you dont over do it. good luck!
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Written by shaerae87 about 2 years ago.
It is normal to miss your child, and i see no problem with expressing your thoughts and feelings. It is alot better than keeping them bottled up inside. Just dont let it consume your entire train of thought. Be strong and let your thoughts/feelings out!!!
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Written by Sage :) about 2 years ago.
It’s natural to want to always think and talk about your son if you are worried about him. If you talk about him all the time, others may find it annoying. But that doesn’t mean that they don’t care. Maybe you can try to turn it down a little, but if you ever feel you need to talk to someone about it, I’m sure your friends and/or family would be happy to discuss issues with you. Just be sure to not ALWAYS discuss things about him. Try to be open to other conversations to, because it may help you cope with your son being away.
Also, I wish him the best of luck.
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Written by Replace about 2 years ago.
Please join a support group.
I can personally recommend Al-Anon.
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Written by keldixon5 about 2 years ago.
You definitely need to talk to someone in order to unload, you can’t keep it all bottled up. However, for his sake, I would choose one, maybe two people to talk to. Growing up I hated that EVERYONE knew what was going on with me because my mother told everyone everything. Because of that, there are still people who 20 years later who think that I am that same person. For some people, I will never be able to outgrow who I was as a teenager. Don’t let that happen to your son, please.
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Written by Sliteofhand about 2 years ago.
If you keep your talking confidential and do it in places where it will hep you such as in an Al-Anon meeting yes.
Just running his laundry through the local gossip mills doesn’t do anyone any good.
By going to Al-anon you will be preparing yourself to deal with him when he returns from rehab.
Just because he has been to rehab he will not be fixed.
He will have to deal with his problems on a daily basis and the more you know how to NOT enable him the better off the both of you will be. -
Written by deb1975@sbcglobal.net about 2 years ago.
Your son has enough challenges ahead without having to live down the embarrassment. You can confide in a friend so you have someone to talk to…but don’t tell all kinds of people. He has a right to privacy
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Written by Ingrid about 2 years ago.
Since he is a minor, I would refrain from talking about him.
Be glad that he is in rehab and hope that this will be his only time in life. Focus on how to deal with him when he gets home so that he
will never again get into drugs.
Heal yourself and relax he is in good hands right now.The best of luck to both of you and the rest of your family.
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Written by the_emrod about 2 years ago.
You do what you want to if it makes you cope with things.
I hope it all works out for you and your son.
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Written by Mom+five about 2 years ago.
Yes, talking about it make you feel better. You are going through a hard time right now. Just don’t give out too much information about your son.
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Written by P3L0N G about 2 years ago.
I think that is not ok that u talk about him, he might feel that people would not see him as the same he used to be, he might think that u talk bout him to make fun of him, he might feel that people are always talk’n bad about him… that same thing happen to my cousin, he was in rehab, and uncle always talk bout him and now hes a drug addict again becouse his family always brings him down… those situations should be just between you and your son, becouse how would u react if your were in his place… support him and dont bring him down tell him that everything is going to be ok that there is no problem that doesen’t have a solution, and keep it confidencial>.
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Written by mare about 2 years ago.
Your just worried about him, and talking about your emotions is a great way to not let it get to much in what must be a really stressful time for you.
If you keep talking to people about him they might get a little tired of hearing it, so be careful you aren’t rambling! Maybe try writing your thoughts down, so you can focus on other things but still let out your thoughts for your son.
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