I’m in need of serious help and direction.?

20/07/2011 admin 7 comments

I’m trying to stay positive but…
please bear with me

I’ve gotten where I am today because of the decisions I’ve made as a person. I’m 21 years old and I falling behind in the race of life. I’m not the son of parents of responsible natures and any noticeable work ethic. No, I’m the bastard son of an alcoholic woman who brought another five children into the welfare life. Ask statisticians and those with common sense where I’m most likely to end up. Of course I’m not without blame. I hashed out against the circumstances for most of my life only to worsen my own. I’ve been through a lot of stuff because of it.

I called the authorities on my abusive lifestyle in the 6th grade, my family was dispersed into foster care. I excelled in foster care. But then I was given the opportunity to go back to my own family and I did. Eventually I was placed on probation in jr. high and violated the rules. I went to a juvenile facility a city. I excelled there as well. A year or so later I was released to my mother who managed to get all of her children back. Then as she started slipping into her old ways so did I and I ended up in jail. I was there four months keeping completely to myself. Then I got out and had no place to go so I moved in with a childhood friend I disowned for street rat associates.

I lived with him and his mom until I graduated high school two years behind my original class. By then things were going sour at the house between the three of us, partially because of the tension between the mom and I. We did some things we weren’t supposed to together. I graduated with flying colors if i may say so myself. I actually received a scholarship, lead a musical, and ended up in a great relationship with a teacher no less! But my life….what, who, why, how was I even here?! I hadn’t even thought of college, I didn’t know the way of the world, I had no idea how to be an adult.

My relationship with the girlfriend was adulterous and caused problems, I had no clear direction when I got to college and ended up flunking out. Spent that summer homeless most of the time and got back into the school only to get booted this time because I still had no idea what I was doing and got back into smoking and drinking! Now I have a little over 100$ in the bank and my rent is going to be due in a couple weeks along with utility bills and I have no job! On top of that 14k in debt for nothing! The relationship is rocky and she has two daughters, I always said to myself I’d become more than this for my own family and life and I intend to.

I am seriously F’d up right now!!! Someone please help me out?

ALCOHOLISM TREATMENT direction., Help, need, serious

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Written by Googley Bear about 10 months ago.

become a comedian

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjMYQyhjiYA
Written by za about 10 months ago.

Yahoo!Answers is not the place to get serious advice for a situation like this. [Assuming that yours is a genuine question].

You need professional help. It is not easy, but do go and see someone. Perhaps social services, the charitable sector or even a church (or church minister) would at least talk to you confidentially.

And we wish you well.
Written by Larry about 10 months ago.

I encourage you to read the bible and pray. God can help you in situations like this. Also, talk to a pastor or priest if you know one.

Bongernet, you are false. If you assume there is no god, then there is also no hope for mankind, and no meaning. It’s clear that there’s a God. For everything we know to have randomely been created – That would take an impossible chance. Human scientists cannot even understand the human eye, much less understand the human body. The presence of God is in all our hearts, and you are denying it.
Written by chieko about 10 months ago.

sounds like you are in the graduate school of hard knocks…you sound erudite and intelligent…ever consider being a writer? you have tons of material to work with…

do a special dedication to ya! r&s when you publish your first novel…
Written by Catie about 10 months ago.

You are now responsible for your own actions. Your past does not need to define you as a person. You can choose to let go of the past, begin a new start today. Everyone is faced with such a choice. Don’t believe for one second that folks out there have had “it all”. Everyone bears scars, carries unseen burdens. Life is what you choose. Rise above your circumstances and move forward. History is full of people who chose to pick themselves up and move forward in a positive direction. This is just one moment in your life, it is not the sum total of your life. Seek a counselor who might work with you, encourage you to be your best. I do believe you have it in you to do so. Best of all things to you.
Written by Jeff about 10 months ago.

Take it to God. Salvation is completely up to God. It is written:

Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Salvation, faith, belief…are all gifts. We need forgiveness and mercy and for God to give the gift of a new heart/spirit. We cannot do anything to save ourselves. We cannot “accept” or “choose” or “truly believe” Jesus. It is written:

Luke 18:9 And he spake this parable unto certain which trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others:
Luke 18:10 Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican.
Luke 18:11 The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican.
Luke 18:12 I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess.
Luke 18:13 And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner.
Luke 18:14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.

Time is short. Judgment Day is May 21st, 2011. Pray now for mercy and forgiveness. Do not go to church, they are, in these end times, being ruled over by Satan. Read, read, read the Bible.

Romans 10:17 So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
Written by MOMMAH about 10 months ago.

K. Please realize that YOU are not ALONE…As far as finances are concerned MANY MANY people are in this same situation because of this MESS WE are ALL in called “The Great Recession”…I can only say what I know works… making your OWN decisions got you in some of the mess you are in, the reason I say this is because WE try to FIX it OURSELVES and MESS things up (NOT asking GOD first)…Stop blaming your MOM and YOURSELF… CONFESS your SINS, ASK GOD for FORGIVENESS for your SINS – ACCEPT HIM as LORD and SAVIOR… ALLOW HIM to HELP you by LEADING and GUIDING you through this LIFE… I’m not gonna say it’s gonna be EASY. But, YOU MUST KEEP YOUR TRUST IN HIM. Look to the hills from whence cometh YOUR HELP…That OUR GOD shall SUPPLY ALL OUR NEEDS according to HIS RICHES and GLORY by CHRIST JESUS..Don’t LOOK at your left or right – KEEP YOUR EYES on JESUS.. Start going to CHURCH..Give something to HIM (tithe) even when you don’t have alot.. Do it anyway and GOD WILL WORK IT OUT FOR YOU (I’m a witness).

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