My now ex sister in law has cut my whole family out of her and her sons life (he is 1). i haven’t seen him since he was 1 month old. My brother is a drug addict, I supported her divorcing him, but she ended up deciding she cannot “fully” cut my brother out of her life and move on unless she cuts us all out. My brother happily signed over his parental rights. I always had hope she would talk to me again and I’d see my nephew again, but I found out today that she is getting married and that her fiance actually adopted my nephew right after my brother gave up his rights. Now it’s pretty much sunk in there is no reason she would ever talk to me again. I was really attached to her and especially to my nephew, because I was her labor coach I was there when the baby was born and was one of the first people to hold him, and we just were extremely close during her whole pregnancy and after. I also had a miscarriage right around when my nephew was born, and I think that made me more emotional too. I just am having a hard time dealing with this. I’ve tried to contact her many times over the past year and she just ignores me. How can I move on?
while i appreciate the sympathy, some advice on how to move on would be nice. i already blame my brother plenty, but that doesn’t help me move on.