My teen is 17 yrs old. I kicked him out recently cause he has made a change in the last 3 months. All he wants to do is talk on his phone during all hours of the night. He is falling alseep in the bathroom in the morning when he goes to school. I have talked to him since it started 3 months ago. He is smart and his grades have dropped. He has became a slob.He is the type of teen that never wore his cloth twice. Now he wears the same clothes over and over. Dirty socks and underwear in his room all over the place. Like i said before he was always a clean teen. He gets offeneded for every little thing. In my home when u have a chore u have to do it. I told him that he could’nt go out until he shapes up. I gave him a talk a few times to see what’s up. He says he is stressed cause I am telling him what to do, so i said there are rules and if u dont like it u know what to do. Get out! He is also eating more junk food than ever. Is my son on some drug? He has always been a good kid and a home kid. I think I gave him too much freedom and look what happened. He knows about drugs and alcohol. He had the talk with me and my husband plenty of times. I am not a drug addict or alcoholic. My husband either. Should I take him back when he knocks on my door? Do you think he is on drugs? This kid is a kid that respects others. He gave me back talk that I have never seen in him. I am concerned more about school. Had a 85% average and now it is 72%. That is a big drop. From getting b’s to getting d’s and maybe a C somewhere. He curfew used to be 10pm and he used to come at 11pm alot. I let him slide on that, but I can’t do this anymore. I was reading about the signs of drug abuse in a teen and he has more than 3 of them, but does that mean that he is using? If he cooperates with me I will give him a blood test, if not then he cant come to my home. I just want an adult who has a teenager to give your opinion on it. Teens dont respond to this cause I dont want to here your ignorant comments plz.

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