end with him. I remarried when he was 3 and had another child with my 2nd husband, and he has never accepted it. His own father is a drug addict and alcoholic still living with his mother. When I am around him, he constantlly tries to push my buttons and make me mad. HE tries to argue everything.My own parents have catered to him because they have always felt sorry for him because I did not stay with his father. Whenever I have reprimanded him they jump in and defend his ugly behavior. When he gets mad at something, he takes it out on me, blaming me, shows me his porno mags and laugh or lite up a cigar inside the house and mess up his little brothers room and then he will leave when he knows my husband is on his way home. HE has pretty much ignored my husband since he was 3. HE never says thanks when we give him money or help him out in some ways. He will call me and start in. I have gotten to where I do not like seeing him and I am on pins and needles when he comes around because I do not know what he is going to next. He stays with friends and my parents now. I hav tried to get hiim help, but he blows me off and appt’s. HE left a horrible message on my cell phone saying that he was done with me and hopes I have good effin life. My sister has a son who is gay and he called him a faggot and flipped her off at a family get together, my sister got in his face and told him off, and my wonderful mother yelled at her and told her to get out. I had to work so I was not there. My sister and her famioly no longer wants to be around him, his gf broke it off because of the rotten way he has treated her. He is and has been spoiled. My husband advised that if he comes around that he will be told that unless he shows some respect and can be civil he is not welcomed. I think that is good. Do you?