Flip out, i have had sips of alcohol but i have not smoked or done drugs since i am young. I couldnt imagine dealing with that and i am sorry you have to. But i would make sure he learns more and that he does not hang out around those kids. But i dont plan to deal with that since i do not want kids. Good Luck! =]

fight back in behalf of Your kid.( in the long run he will appreciate it)
be smart and do not show angry

investigate the money source and the supplier

by the way ,You gonna save some other kids.. investigate who are they and tell their parents(ask them to keep your secret) You gonna have a good allies

act in secret

Sorry but HELLO!!! Are you for real! Wake up, or has the one time you smoked it damaged your brain!
For one thing dispite the fact that weed is harmful, what about the fact that most drug takers Start off with the milder drugs and go on to something more dangerous! Wake up, and stop it now ! Before you really have a problem! He is 15 you should be a parent and not listen to the idiots who are advising you!

First of all, your boyfriend doesn’t care because he did cocaine when he was younger? I have to ask what kind of example that sets for your son. Your boyfriend and sons are dead wrong and yes marijuana IS harmful to your health. Inhaling any kind of smoke is harmful to your health and how does he know that his marijuana is not laced with something? What if it’s contaminate by pesticides or is cut with some kind of toxic leaf? The risks are too great.

It’s not safe, it’s not fine and it’s illegal. That alone would be reason enough to be upset. Did you know if your son is caught with marijuana in his possession in your home that you are affected by it as well? It goes on your record because it’s your home. He’s opening himself up to trying more dangerous drugs. Marijuana impairs your judgement and who knows how poor of judgment he will show one night when’s he’s high. He could drive under the influence of drugs and hurt someone or himself. He could do something that he may not normally do when he’s sober.

Bottom line, I would be piping hot mad! I would take his stash (if he has one) and flush it. He would lose all trust. I would call the parents of his friend and let them know what is going on. I would take him to the police station and have him talk to inmates who have been destroyed by pot. I would also tell him this is his first and final warning on top of losing all privileges. The next time he lights up, he’s going to have the police come and arrest him. Juvenile detention can really open up the eyes of the blind.

And even if it’s “not that bad”, it’s still illegal. That’s enough reason for me to stay away from it.

ok everyone that is saying to cut off your sons friend and lose all trust in him are completely wrong. he’ll soon be at the age where he can drive, and like it or not, you no longer can control who he hangs out with or what he does. if you try to force him into compliance, you are just setting him up to lie to you in the future. wouldn’t you rather know where he will actually be and what he’ll be doing rather than him telling you hes “going out to eat” but instead goes over to his friend’s house to smoke? as a parent you need to be sure he knows the pathways of communication are open. not everyone that smokes weed ends up on the street (bill gates, steve jobs, hilary clinton). make sure he does know that he is not to do it at your house and not to keep it in your house or in his car when he gets one. although relatively harmless, it is still illegal and can carry large fines and jail time. it also stays in your system for up to 28 days, which can impair learning during this time. most teens think they know everything about weed, but weed can have withdrawal symptons similar to cigarettes if you smoke enough of it for long enough and also damages your lungs. no one has ever died from an overdose on weed, but make sure you don’t only rely on your sons information. make your self informed and do your own research on the drug. try to view information from both pro and anti marijuana sites. something like NORML’s website and government anti-drug sites should be accurate and informative while giving both sides of the picture. the biggest draw back to weed in my oppinion is the legal consequences, so as long as he isn’t travelling with it and doing it in a safe place and not driving while under the infuence, i think that is safer than forcing him to find other friends and places to smoke that he would be more likely to get caught. i hope you can make your own informed decision and don’t drive your son away from you. eventually you will have to rely on him to make his own decisions, and hopefully the values you’ve given him and your openness to talk to him will keep him on the right track to keep up good grades in school and stay out of trouble. i wish my own mother had been more like this; i smoked lots senior year in high school and had a 4.3 gpa with honors and advance placement classes. i think eventually it becomes less about you being able to control him smoking marijuana and more about whether you know he does or he has to lie to you about it.

You should encourage him to fake anxiety or depression and get prescription drugs from the pharmacist. That way the medical insurance companies (and the government of course) can get all the money. I bet you half of the country is addicted to these pills and I bet a whole lot less are doing a whole let loss damage to themselves smoking grass.