i was walking in my step son’s room for something…he was smoking a joint….i dont know what to say so i just closed the door.(.weed isnt bad as tobacco and alcohol but can be if you smoke it all the time)IDK if i SHOULD lecture him or encourage him what should i do?? hes a good kid funny,smart,and more.. he’s not a trouble maker and he listens to me and his mom.. what should i do? should i lecture him as tell him to wait?